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Are you a dreamer ?

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

I have very vivid dreams, like watching a video, sometimes funny, sometimes terrifying .

Last week ..... I woke in the middle of the night to find a scary faced string puppet sitting astride me (sleeping on my back) , he was laughing and waving a bloody huge dagger about. I tried to move but I couldn’t, completely paralysed and unable to do anything about it......

I then woke up and had to turn the lamp on I was so terrified.

I can relate that dream to events in my life, as I can other every dream. Do you dream and remember ? Can you relate the content of a dream to an event or situation ....? I’ve had some corkers .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some really vivid and terrifying dreams. Most recently, I was convinced I could see the biggest and hairiest tarantula ever. It was on a thread climbing down to my face.

I woke up smashing pillows all over the bed trying to kill it.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

You may say I'm a dreamer;

But I'm not the only one...

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Very vivid and mainly the same losing a family member in a flood and not being able to save them .. scares the bejesus out of me

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

My dreams are so vivid it’s real. I have ya ask my Mrs did that happen last night

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

Oh my Gawd ..... .... I’m not scared of spiders at all, but if you are I can completely relate to the terror your mind can inflict in dream world ... x

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

Can any of you trace any of those terrors to waking life ?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes I have very vivid dreams, a lot of the time they are like action movies. Though I had one the other night that I died and went to hell and was damned to eat a huge block of cheese for all eternity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to remember my dreams, or never had any, don't know which. I now get the occasional weird one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had some really vivid and terrifying dreams. Most recently, I was convinced I could see the biggest and hairiest tarantula ever. It was on a thread climbing down to my face.

I woke up smashing pillows all over the bed trying to kill it. "

Awe lol

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"Yes I have very vivid dreams, a lot of the time they are like action movies. Though I had one the other night that I died and went to hell and was damned to eat a huge block of cheese for all eternity "

Do you like cheese ? .... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On your chest acting threatening, the puppet is a sign of not feeling in control. The dagger hangs over you. Disaster may happen. Of course it may not. You obviously must feel that life is not as you planned? It rarely is. Accept that it is the anxiety that goes with seeking perfection. The potentially murderous puppet is anxiety itself. We all suffer with the little bastard at some time or other.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, I've had two dreams in my life that I remember still. I know what both mean and they were and are significant.

Otherwise the dreams I recall when I wake up usually relate to my life in some way and I can sometimes decide before I go to sleep to dream a solution to a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I allways used to have dreams about myself clinging onto the edge of a cliff and slipping down. I would also have dreams about driving on the motorway with no way of stopping the car... Just dodging through traffic, like the movie speed.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Yes I have very vivid dreams, a lot of the time they are like action movies. Though I had one the other night that I died and went to hell and was damned to eat a huge block of cheese for all eternity

Do you like cheese ? .... X"

Yes so hell didn't seem too bad

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"On your chest acting threatening, the puppet is a sign of not feeling in control. The dagger hangs over you. Disaster may happen. Of course it may not. You obviously must feel that life is not as you planned? It rarely is. Accept that it is the anxiety that goes with seeking perfection. The potentially murderous puppet is anxiety itself. We all suffer with the little bastard at some time or other."

Not a bad analogy .... I know exactly who the puppet was and what my paralysis meant .... this stuff fascinates me

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"Yes I have very vivid dreams, a lot of the time they are like action movies. Though I had one the other night that I died and went to hell and was damned to eat a huge block of cheese for all eternity

Do you like cheese ? .... X

Yes so hell didn't seem too bad "
haha

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"You may say I'm a dreamer;

But I'm not the only one..."

I was just thinking the same thing....nice response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dream alot. I wish my mind would switch off and get some proper sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very vivid dreamer here, I can dream about me telling someone the dreams I have had so far in a night

I found out a trick to allow me to take control of my dreams and dictate what would happen....

It doesn’t always work but when it does it’s fantasti! Just really hard to stay asleep when you know you’re asleep

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes but i seem to be sble to take control of most dreams altho had 3 nightmares last night wasnt fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can dream of a better land

Where all my brothers walk hand in hand

Tell me why, oh why, oh why can't my dream come true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dream loads.

Waking this morning at 0530 to a horrid nightmare.

Usually they're pretty random, sometimes linked to a convo or something I've watched. Usually after consuming cheese they will be sexual dreams, they're the best lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dream loads.

Waking this morning at 0530 to a horrid nightmare.

Usually they're pretty random, sometimes linked to a convo or something I've watched. Usually after consuming cheese they will be sexual dreams, they're the best lol."

Il have to invest in cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any of you trace any of those terrors to waking life ? "

I can't think of anything that could trigger my sleep terrors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dream loads.

Waking this morning at 0530 to a horrid nightmare.

Usually they're pretty random, sometimes linked to a convo or something I've watched. Usually after consuming cheese they will be sexual dreams, they're the best lol.

Il have to invest in cheese "

Try it, a big hunk of mature cheddar before bed and think of someone you fancy. Omg the dreams I've had on cheese!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lucid dreams from time to time and relatively vivid at other times depending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My D is usually up in the morning before I am.

I can't remember the sexual dreams though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently had an experience like that. It's called sleep paralysis, it happens during the moment you fall asleep or wake up. I think it's because you're still in REM sleep and your brain is aware that you're sleeping, so it shuts down the part that allows you to move or speak. It's a very weird experience to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dream loads.

Waking this morning at 0530 to a horrid nightmare.

Usually they're pretty random, sometimes linked to a convo or something I've watched. Usually after consuming cheese they will be sexual dreams, they're the best lol.

Il have to invest in cheese

Try it, a big hunk of mature cheddar before bed and think of someone you fancy. Omg the dreams I've had on cheese!! "

Oof orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I can dream of a better land

Where all my brothers walk hand in hand

Tell me why, oh why, oh why can't my dream come true "

Tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest dreams occur when I'm awake....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently had an experience like that. It's called sleep paralysis, it happens during the moment you fall asleep or wake up. I think it's because you're still in REM sleep and your brain is aware that you're sleeping, so it shuts down the part that allows you to move or speak. It's a very weird experience to have."

I get that often since i was a teen its not fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a crazy dreamer.. sometimes nice chilled dreams other times it's full on night terrors. I used to wake up and sit bolt upright in bed screaming many years ago.. used to scare the ex husband to death don't think I've done that in a while.. but not sure I'd know if I did so can't be 100% sure..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleeping with a Fab meet, he full on girl screamed in my ear in the middle of the night! Bless him I just lightly touched his arm and he went quiet again.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

I do believe the subconscious works in wonderful ways ..... whether we remember dreams or not. They can be poignant or bear no relation to our waking life ... that we can figure out.

The most poignant dream I ever had probably could have saved my life.

... I had been dreaming of walking in hot coals, I woke (in real time) thought nothing of it and went back to sleep. Again, I dreamed about the hot goals .... I woke again, opened my eyes in the darkness, thought that the ‘darkness’ didn’t look right, got out of bed and reached to turn the light on and to my horror the light switch and the wall were red hot.

Fortunately it was more smoke than fire and my then 11 year old daughter had a wonderful time in the fire truck with a fireman’s helmet on.

I now have extra smoke alarms and goodness for my vivid dream ability.

All true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to traumatic childhood I have night terrors but am really prone to lucid dreaming as well... The worst ones are where I m convinced my terror is gone only to find I m not awake but still in the terror.. I can get up, go downstairs, do stuff.. All as it should be, then suddenly realise its not real, and I m not awake... Or is it real and we function on many different planes/levels

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