FabSwingers.com forum: How to chat with ladies on fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was chatting with someone about random things and the conversation was flowing. Then out of the blue she said that I haven't talked about sex and she went on to say..

"I'm not sure if I should be offended by that or not"

So now I'm thinking are you Fabsters all engaging in sexual conversations in private chats Or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never engage in sexual chat

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I never engage in sexual chat

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this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.. never.. it's friendly chat only until I meet someone.. which is very rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of sex chat to get to know someone. It puts me off to be honest.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes, but more often not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, but I like to be the one that turns it in that direction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a jizz pick saying imagine how much u would love lapping this up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on whom I’m chatting with.

Nothing heavy, more flirty chit chat these days.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't.

Truthfully, if there's no reference to sex at all, I do wonder if they fancy me or they are politely entertaining my witterings. That's down to my own questionings and not a reflection of them really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Send a jizz pick saying imagine how much u would love lapping this up"

Oof lol

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Send a jizz pick saying imagine how much u would love lapping this up"

Good advice, I must try this

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I try to avoid conversations regarding anything that doesn't interest me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't.

See I've been told on other apps that the women are fed up of men trying it on with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a jizz pick saying imagine how much u would love lapping this up

Oof lol "
evertime young padawan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate any sexual chat in messages it puts me off straight away! Yes I’m on a swinging site but I not a piece of meat either being the gentleman always wins with me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't.

See I've been told on other apps that the women are fed up of men trying it on with them. "

Yeah, I imagine a lot of women are - if you want to meet men and all they want is to fap to words on a screen you send them, that must get a bit frustrating. In the past when I've been messaging and it's been a case of talking to a typing erection, it's been a turn off. It's difficult to navigate.

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Talk about sex never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always talk about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask to see there rat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will never understand women

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

don't chat with them is the easiest solution

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

"Ask to see there rat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never understand women "
there not hard to get say grrrrr suck my pecker im angry and they line up for penis

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I will never understand women "

Treat each one as an individual, you'll probably be alright.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s a mixture depending on whom talking to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done my bit now its down to u op

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I will never understand women "

In this case, it's very simple: we are not all the same. Some will want this (a few on the thread have said so) and others won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a bit of flirting and subtle sex chat but not until we have established a bit of a connection. Sex chat with a stranger is just weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo ask her is she wants it up the bum hole, chicks love that shiz.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a huge fan of sex talk. Flirty double entendres I don't mind as part of a convo, but straight into sex talk gets on my tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never understand women "

Then stop trying to decipher "women" and start treating them as individual PEOPLE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a huge fan of sex talk. Flirty double entendres I don't mind as part of a convo, but straight into sex talk gets on my tits.

P"
oy practice what u preach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a huge fan of sex talk. Flirty double entendres I don't mind as part of a convo, but straight into sex talk gets on my tits.

Poy practice what u preach

Get off my tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never understand women

Then stop trying to decipher "women" and start treating them as individual PEOPLE

*applauds. Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a huge fan of sex talk. Flirty double entendres I don't mind as part of a convo, but straight into sex talk gets on my tits.

Poy practice what u preach

Get off my tits

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sorry my hand slipped all that oil

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's very rare any of the conversations I have in here are sexual as such, and certainly not before I've met someome - we may discuss sex and sexuality in broad terms much in the same way as the type of things you see being discussed in the forums, but even that is usually after a fair few messages have been exchanged.

I'd never lead with a sexual message, in fact it's been commented on that some people who I've chatted to for ages we've not even broached the subject of sex.

I always talk about boundaries etc if I'm meeting someone but again in a very broad brush way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I'm horny.

I'll be into it if I'm in the mood, if not then I'll probs find it offputting. Ha. The horn has a lot to answer for.

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

"I like a bit of flirting and subtle sex chat but not until we have established a bit of a connection. Sex chat with a stranger is just weird. "

I'm not a stranger so when are we doing this

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Occasionally, but there are very few guys that can hold a sexually oriented conversation without being crude or vulgar ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a bit of flirting and subtle sex chat but not until we have established a bit of a connection. Sex chat with a stranger is just weird.

I'm not a stranger so when are we doing this

Ooohhh baby slide your peepee in my vag

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

"I like a bit of flirting and subtle sex chat but not until we have established a bit of a connection. Sex chat with a stranger is just weird.

I'm not a stranger so when are we doing this

Ooohhh baby slide your peepee in my vag

Ffs slow down I haven't tasted it yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Occasionally, but there are very few guys that can hold a sexually oriented conversation without being crude or vulgar ... "

I think the same applies to women too.

I have allways had the feeling that the women who are quick to sext are the least likely to meet up for sex.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Occasionally, but there are very few guys that can hold a sexually oriented conversation without being crude or vulgar ...

I think the same applies to women too.

I have allways had the feeling that the women who are quick to sext are the least likely to meet up for sex. "

Or not actually women at all

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Send a jizz pick saying imagine how much u would love lapping this up"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Occasionally, but there are very few guys that can hold a sexually oriented conversation without being crude or vulgar ...

I think the same applies to women too.

I have allways had the feeling that the women who are quick to sext are the least likely to meet up for sex.

Or not actually women at all

Yeah true

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think there's also a distinction to be made between discussing sex and sexuality on an intellectual level and sex chat/cybersex - they're two *very* different things.

The latter has it's time and place but certainly not within the first few messages with someone

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To answer the thread header "How to chat to ladies on Fab" though OP - the answer is simple - exactly how you'd chat to them off Fab, and take your lead from how the conversation flows, just the same as you would in the real world.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I don’t start with the sexy talk until the woman steers the conversation that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never engage in sexual chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when guys message me and we have random chats about nothing in particular!! Actually shows there is more too then then just getting their dicks wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it when guys message me and we have random chats about nothing in particular!! Actually shows there is more too then then just getting their dicks wet."

This ^^ I got some dance class recommendations the other day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can converse freely about a variety of subjects, each as dull as it each other but eloquently and intelligently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely chat about sex. Even with my other half. We flirt and tease more than anything

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

What's this thing 'sex' of which you speak?... or do not speak?

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I can converse freely about a variety of subjects, each as dull as it each other but eloquently and intelligently.

Bonus pronouns included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't talk about sex. I do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't talk about sex. I do it."

Exactly this

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Give me someone that knows how to have a normal friendly conversation any day. The whole sex chat thing is an absolute turn off.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"I never engage in sexual chat

Nor me much

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Bump

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Don't do sex chat with strangers. I find it weird as fuck. There are plenty of sex lines to cater for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bump

Oh no! We'd only been chatting 5 minutes and I mentioned sex. Were you badly shocked?

But why as my mentor did you not gently point out my error?

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I make a conscious effort to always avoid any Star Wars chat, or anything remotely sciene-fiction or comic book / superhero related ...all a bunch of wank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's sex?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"What's sex? "

I think it comes between five and seven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just talk about what you want to, if it's sex chat or just run of the mill random shite.

You will never make everyone happy and just because you tip toe around the subject just in case you offend then no point in chatting

Predtending that you're not on here to fuck or play is not going to increase your chances of a fuck so just be who you are.

Some will like and some will not.

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

"What's sex?

I think it comes between five and seven

I don't really do sex talk but I'd make an exception for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope.. never.. it's friendly chat only until I meet someone.. which is very rare. "

That’s how we play it, use fab as a platform to meet then let the games begin in real life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like most here I love a chat about things and not only boring sex chat.

Why would she feel offended because I didn't chat about sex though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's sex?

I think it comes between five and seven

Ffs. I always fail on the easiest questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was chatting with someone about random things and the conversation was flowing. Then out of the blue she said that I haven't talked about sex and she went on to say..

"I'm not sure if I should be offended by that or not"

So now I'm thinking are you Fabsters all engaging in sexual conversations in private chats Or what?

Maybe it’s a man.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Like most here I love a chat about things and not only boring sex chat.

Why would she feel offended because I didn't chat about sex though. "

She didn't - she made a tongue in cheek comment about not knowing whether to feel offended or not because you hadn't - you're reading a lot more into it than there probably is, it was probably just her way of offering you an opening to take it in thag direction, or at least to see how you'd react.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I can be very uncouth and sleazy in messages.

Don’t message me if you’re looking for a classy lady!

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I find it annoying when guys just try and sext straight away. I don't like to sext just so the other person can have a wank... It makes me feel cheap.. I also don't like to sext too much if its not going to be a reality as I just get too fustrated haha and end up getting the raging horn which is really bad if I can't have sex so it's a fine balance..

Yes I talk about sex especially if someone asks what you enjoy etc..I don't mind that at all. But I hate it when guys just expect you to sext straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never understand women "

Stop trying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never understand women

Stop trying to."

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