FabSwingers.com forum: Is love a drug?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's chemistry

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

According to Brian Ferry.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

no...lust can be though

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Never been in love myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love is just a chemical reaction in the brain

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Yes, most definitely

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

After 36 years I would have to say yes, and with the right person very addictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust is the stronger drug..

Love is the comedown..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So are we all addicts then

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By *littylikka69Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

if it is a drug?,it banned from discussion on forums surely?.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't think I have really ever truely been loved in relationships so it would be nice to experience it before I die.. I have loved and it was great while it lasted...

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"So are we all addicts then

Wasn't it Clifford T Ward who somewhere in his lyrics sang ,"i'm an addict for your love?"

Or Huey, "I Wanna New Drug"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So are we all addicts then

Does that make my hubby some of substance that I have got addicted to?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Reciprocated love is immense.

Unrequited love is difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If lust, love and swinging is a drug can I OD please!!!

PS the note on the bed reads “mouth to mouth Only”

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"So are we all addicts then

Does that make my hubby some of substance that I have got addicted to?

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well it aint semi skimmed milk is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally, wonderfully, gloriously, magnificently and all encompassingly...

There is no drug like it in the whole wide wonderful world...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need it to survive, just something nice to have when one can get it, IMHO.

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

It can be as addictive as any drug

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Totally, wonderfully, gloriously, magnificently and all encompassingly...

There is no drug like it in the whole wide wonderful world..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say it us one but it causes pheromones to be released and endorphins. What ever it is its not a bad feeling it gives you.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

no drug,can take you so high.

no drug,can take you so low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As granny said,I'm in full agreement with Brian Ferry n Roxy Music...class tune

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon

I don't care if it's just a chemical reaction in the brain - I'm loving every minute of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the only drug i will ever have ,and yes its addictive.......

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

"love is just a chemical reaction in the brain "

And the yin & yang of two compatible souls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love is temporary insanity.

tbh, i get a tight feeling in my chest if i havent spoken to Em for a while.

so yes, i am more in love than at any point in my entire life.

would rather go without food or air.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its the only drug i will ever have ,and yes its addictive.......

What about caffiene?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"According to Brian Ferry."
I was just going to say very same thing xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"According to Brian Ferry. I was just going to say very same thing xx"

haha, you're only 10 hours too late!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no...lust can be though

And can be mistaken for love

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So if the object of your love is absent, do you suffer withdrawal symptoms?

Like the guy above who gets a knot in his chest if he doesn't speak to her regularly enough?

Do you pine for them, go off your food?

Struggle to sleep, or concentrate on other things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"According to Brian Ferry. I was just going to say very same thing xx

haha, you're only 10 hours too late!

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I know but i read your post and his song popped up in my head , lol You feel high off love and you feel low off love so LOVES iS like a drug. xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

Love is a drug to some people, its not to me.

Some spend their whole lives going from relationship to relationship and fall in love so quickly.

God forbid anything happened between me and jay but if it did i wouldnt be in a rush to look again.

Also will hindsight, ive only ever been in love twice, i thought id loved other people but it was just strong affection.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

"So if the object of your love is absent, do you suffer withdrawal symptoms?

Like the guy above who gets a knot in his chest if he doesn't speak to her regularly enough?

Do you pine for them, go off your food?

Struggle to sleep, or concentrate on other things?

When im not with jay i miss him, but its comfortable, im in touch with him at least 3 times aday so dont really have chance to miss him. He was poorly from thursday until yesterday so only gave me one call aday which didnt last long and i felt abit lost. But i think we all suffer the headiness of a new relationship and then it calms down abit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If love is a drug isn't everything else? Afterall it's just a chemical reaction or electrical impulses on the brain.

Good food, being relaxed, fresh air - it becomes difficult to think of things that are not a drug.

The realist in me is forced to accept that the day will come when people will be able to take a pill in the evening and instantly be in love, have a wonderful night, then take one in the morning to switch the 'love' off without the drawn out pain.

The fantasist in me loves the fact that I don't live in that world yet and that I can let myself believe love, lust and life is so much more.

When it comes to love, I opt for being a fantasist.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Them days began in 1989 at the Hacienda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love!

Love can be red, like the intense heat of a passionate kiss

.....the color of sweetness

.....the color of strawberries

Love can be blue, like the comfort we take in a pair of denim jeans

.....the color of strength

.....the color of perfect skies

Love can be yellow, bright and warm like the morning sun

.....like the sounds of laughters of children on the merry-go-round

.....like the sounds of fun from the boys flying kites in the open

fields

Love can be green, peaceful and serene I can hear your heart beats

.....it is the feeling of a loving hand that touch a grieving heart

.....it is the whispering of trusting words to a distressing soul

Love can be orange, the loudness of it can drive you up a wall

.....it can drive you to sing like nobody is listening

.....it can drive you to dance like nobody is watching

Love can be purple, the courage we need to love bravely and unselfishly

.....the moment I first kiss you i know that i am not afraid to risk involvement .....the day the declaration of your love for me was made known to the world .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If love is a drug isn't everything else? Afterall it's just a chemical reaction or electrical impulses on the brain.

Good food, being relaxed, fresh air - it becomes difficult to think of things that are not a drug.

The fantasist in me loves the fact that I don't live in that world yet and that I can let myself believe love, lust and life is so much more.

When it comes to love, I opt for being a fantasist. "

Its an interesting way of looking at it and I must say I'd agree with you no that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

This is my favourite quote on love

"The aim of love is to love,nothing more, nothing less"

oscar wilde

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No love is not a narcotic (which is the definition of what a drug is, shurely?)

Cafine is a narcotic as is cocaine.

That's not to say Love can't be adictive (gambling is not a drug) because it has a profound efect on the mind, but it is not an external chemical influence.....

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

sadley iv forgotton the blissful highs and the despairing lows,but given the chance i would do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Class A I reckon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Class A I reckon xx

deffo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all"!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the one hand, it could be said that love is an over-used word, but on the other hand, I would say that there are different types and levels of love.

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