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"Both please blindfold as well" Oh yes, blindfold is good | |||
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"Never tried it seems alot of ppl are into thought,50 shades has a lot to answer for lol " BDSM was a pretty big scene before that shite. It simply made more people aware of it, and gave the wrong impression too I might add | |||
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"Never tried it seems alot of ppl are into thought,50 shades has a lot to answer for lol BDSM was a pretty big scene before that shite. It simply made more people aware of it, and gave the wrong impression too I might add " ![]() | |||
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"Both please blindfold as well Oh yes, blindfold is good " Ice cubes candle wax | |||
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"Never tried it seems alot of ppl are into thought,50 shades has a lot to answer for lol BDSM was a pretty big scene before that shite. It simply made more people aware of it, and gave the wrong impression too I might add " Yes I do believe so, now we have Dom's running about at 21 lol | |||
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"Never tried it seems alot of ppl are into thought,50 shades has a lot to answer for lol BDSM was a pretty big scene before that shite. It simply made more people aware of it, and gave the wrong impression too I might add " Just my thoughts too. Biggest shite printed. | |||
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"Tying up. Practicing again this weekend and some new photos hopefully. Another rope workshop in a few weeks time too. " Where do you find out about the rope workshops, I've heard them mentioned a few times | |||
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"I love being tied up Nothing to do with 50 shades, that's made up tosh! " ![]() | |||
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"Tying up. Practicing again this weekend and some new photos hopefully. Another rope workshop in a few weeks time too. Where do you find out about the rope workshops, I've heard them mentioned a few times" There's another FET website for alt LIFE styles there's plenty if info about rope workshops in there | |||
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"Tying up. Practicing again this weekend and some new photos hopefully. Another rope workshop in a few weeks time too. Where do you find out about the rope workshops, I've heard them mentioned a few times" Generally these are either peer rope (people teaching what they know) or professionals holding events. I have not heard of any being held in Cornwall (but someone could enlighten us). In the absence of workshops, a couple of good books are Lee Harrington's 'Shibari You Can Use', or Chanta Rose 'Bondage for Sex. If you are looking for more decorative bondage then look up the Knotty Boys books. YouTube also has a lot of rope instruction of varying quality. | |||
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"Tying up. Practicing again this weekend and some new photos hopefully. Another rope workshop in a few weeks time too. Where do you find out about the rope workshops, I've heard them mentioned a few times There's another FET website for alt LIFE styles there's plenty if info about rope workshops in there" Thanks ![]() | |||
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"Tying up. Practicing again this weekend and some new photos hopefully. Another rope workshop in a few weeks time too. Where do you find out about the rope workshops, I've heard them mentioned a few times Generally these are either peer rope (people teaching what they know) or professionals holding events. I have not heard of any being held in Cornwall (but someone could enlighten us). In the absence of workshops, a couple of good books are Lee Harrington's 'Shibari You Can Use', or Chanta Rose 'Bondage for Sex. If you are looking for more decorative bondage then look up the Knotty Boys books. YouTube also has a lot of rope instruction of varying quality. " Thanks ![]() | |||
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"I like it but I'm a wriggler, spend all that time to tie me, just for me to escape like Houdini, I can't help myself it's an urge to be like "ha I got out" even though I asked to be restrained or complied etc. So basically I have given up on rope themed shenanigans after a couple of crestfallen faces ![]() I like it ![]() | |||
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"Never tried it seems alot of ppl are into thought,50 shades has a lot to answer for lol BDSM was a pretty big scene before that shite. It simply made more people aware of it, and gave the wrong impression too I might add " ![]() | |||
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"I like doing the tying. I just get angry if it's done to me ![]() Be quiet and hold still ![]() | |||
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"I like it but I'm a wriggler, spend all that time to tie me, just for me to escape like Houdini, I can't help myself it's an urge to be like "ha I got out" even though I asked to be restrained or complied etc. So basically I have given up on rope themed shenanigans after a couple of crestfallen faces ![]() Hahaha! You need a proper rigger ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like it but I'm a wriggler, spend all that time to tie me, just for me to escape like Houdini, I can't help myself it's an urge to be like "ha I got out" even though I asked to be restrained or complied etc. So basically I have given up on rope themed shenanigans after a couple of crestfallen faces ![]() ![]() ![]() I would suggest it is not a question of a proper rigger but more a question of the contrast between Western style bondage and Japanese style bondage. Western is more tie them up so they can't move. Japanese style Shibari/Kinbaku has two conventions that aid wrigglers. The first is that no knot or tie should cinch. The second is of leaving one to two fingers worth of space between the rope and the skin. These conventions give wrigglers the opportunity to escape. It then becomes a matter of informed consent and either using hojitsu ties (a Japanese rope martial art which is one source from which Shibari is derived), these ties for obvious reasons cinch and are tied tight; or abandoning the conventions; or putting in a predicament. If all else fails handcuffs are your friend. | |||
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"I like doing the tying. I just get angry if it's done to me ![]() Ow you could tie me any time ![]() | |||
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"I like doing the tying. I just get angry if it's done to me ![]() Same ![]() | |||
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"Tie up. Although I was wrapped recently and it was a new experience!" What like a present? | |||
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"Soooo depends on how the mood takes me. Watch out is all I can say ![]() We could just have the restraints just out of arms reach Lex? See who wants them first/most! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Tie up. Although I was wrapped recently and it was a new experience! What like a present?" Sort of... | |||
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"Never done either... Sounds fun, I’d be happy to try both ![]() So young and corruptible ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Never done either... Sounds fun, I’d be happy to try both ![]() ![]() ![]() I certainly am, I’m hear for the taking for you lovely ladies ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Never done either... Sounds fun, I’d be happy to try both ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() How’s my carriage coming on ![]() | |||
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"Never done either... Sounds fun, I’d be happy to try both ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Funnily enough it’s ready.. Just waiting for you princess... ![]() | |||
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"Neither particularly, as it is generally accompanied by dishing out or receiving pain." Umm...nope | |||
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"Neither particularly, as it is generally accompanied by dishing out or receiving pain." could mean awt teasing tormenting forceful sensual much to learn you still have young one | |||
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"I love ut when D ties me up and blindfolds me, he is extremely good at teasing, he tried edging me once though and that didn't turn out as he expected. ![]() ![]() angry jo give me the fucking orgasms or you will starv for a week ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Neither particularly, as it is generally accompanied by dishing out or receiving pain.could mean awt teasing tormenting forceful sensual much to learn you still have young one" There is always new things to learn. See my partner is kinky but she wont teach me. | |||
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"Neither particularly, as it is generally accompanied by dishing out or receiving pain.could mean awt teasing tormenting forceful sensual much to learn you still have young one There is always new things to learn. See my partner is kinky but she wont teach me." use your imagination its a powerful tool ![]() | |||
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"I like it but I'm a wriggler, spend all that time to tie me, just for me to escape like Houdini, I can't help myself it's an urge to be like "ha I got out" even though I asked to be restrained or complied etc. So basically I have given up on rope themed shenanigans after a couple of crestfallen faces ![]() ![]() ![]() Suspended up like a strobe light ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I love ut when D ties me up and blindfolds me, he is extremely good at teasing, he tried edging me once though and that didn't turn out as he expected. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I love ut when D ties me up and blindfolds me, he is extremely good at teasing, he tried edging me once though and that didn't turn out as he expected. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Neither particularly, as it is generally accompanied by dishing out or receiving pain." Not at all! I mean, don't get me wrong, I love a good thrashing but sometimes Fuzz will want to practice a new rope corset for example, which requires me to sit extremely still and listen to his instruction for maybe an hour or so. It's a beautiful feeling zoning out to the calm stillness interspersed with the delicious feeling of rope being pulled across your skin! Peach x | |||
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"Tying up. Practicing again this weekend and some new photos hopefully. Another rope workshop in a few weeks time too. Where do you find out about the rope workshops, I've heard them mentioned a few times" Fetlife mosh group in Belfast. | |||
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"I haven't had a lot of experience with being tied up or tying anyone up. So I have no idea ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Interesting responses, but my interest is in the tying and being connected in the tying. The tying is not a means to an end but the end itself. In this style of tying the taking off of the rope is as important as putting on the rope. In my view tying with rope is more than restraint it is a conversation. It can be sensual, relaxing and reassuringly, playful, dominating or painful for the rope bottom depending on the play negotiated. " But what if she's gagged too? | |||
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"Interesting responses, but my interest is in the tying and being connected in the tying. The tying is not a means to an end but the end itself. In this style of tying the taking off of the rope is as important as putting on the rope. In my view tying with rope is more than restraint it is a conversation. It can be sensual, relaxing and reassuringly, playful, dominating or painful for the rope bottom depending on the play negotiated. But what if she's gagged too?" Sorry, I am not sure what you are asking? I am guessing in my response, so I apologise if I guess wrong. When I said "conversation" I meant body talk. I am responding to the subs body as the rope is placed on their body. Normally they would sit on the floor and I would sit close behind them as I tie. There then is an interesting dynamic of where, I am in control, but I respond to the subs body. I tend to tie freestyle rope using hitches rather than knots. The technical phrase is "ichinawa".or "ipponawa" if more than one rope is used. There is a great video floating around Vimeo with Esinem tying Ika Noir using ichinawa. I normally use ichinawa as a scene in itself or to help us connect before doing a tied impact scene. In the latter scene the sub is tied to something such as St Andrew's Cross or running the ropes as if I was doing a suspension without doing a suspension. I would most likely use a gag in the latter scene than the former. Feel free to come back to me if I have not answered your question. | |||
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"For me I like to be tied up...do love a blindfold too! ![]() ![]() You'd look very impressive in a nice red rope bra as in my pics x. | |||
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"Tied up x ![]() Have only done the ‘tying up’ as a man in chains is a sexy thing indeed. But got an offer to be tied up yesterday that has me thinking... | |||
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"Tied up. Strapped to a chair and hooded. My cock edged, not allowed to cum. More than one playing with me is more fun." Love doing this to someone. | |||
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"I love ut when D ties me up and blindfolds me, he is extremely good at teasing, he tried edging me once though and that didn't turn out as he expected. ![]() ![]() Still this. ![]() | |||
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"Tie up .... only with someone i trust get to tie me up lol" Yep! I’d rather do the tying. Would take a while to let someone do the same to me! ![]() | |||
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"Tie me up ![]() ![]() This would definitely be worth the journey! ![]() | |||
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"If you like a bit of bondage, do you like to tie up or be the one tied up? " The latter if anyone is offering | |||
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"Tied up. Strapped to a chair and hooded. My cock edged, not allowed to cum. More than one playing with me is more fun. Love doing this to someone." Willing volunteer... ![]() | |||
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