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By *rT30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Munster

Final question for the night folks!!

Everyone looks at the Looked at me section on there profile I presume?

I am wondering is there an ettuquite regarding mailing someone who has looked at me?

Is it ok to say for example" I see you looked at me is there anything you liked"

Any advice is appreciated!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Final question for the night folks!!

Everyone looks at the Looked at me section on there profile I presume?

I am wondering is there an ettuquite regarding mailing someone who has looked at me?

Is it ok to say for example" I see you looked at me is there anything you liked"

Any advice is appreciated!"

I think if somebody looked at my profile and liked it they would message me anyway so I would not initiate contact tbh but thats just me

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By *rT30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Munster

Very good point. Never occurred to me!

D'oh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Final question for the night folks!!

Everyone looks at the Looked at me section on there profile I presume?

I am wondering is there an ettuquite regarding mailing someone who has looked at me?

Is it ok to say for example" I see you looked at me is there anything you liked"

Any advice is appreciated!"

You could mail them with a cheeky message after all something brought them to your page. It has to be better than mailing 100s that haven't. On the other hand you could concentrate on mailing people who attract you most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt maybe mention it because i look at people profiles all the time for something to do, not always because i am interested in meeting them.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Is it ok to say for example" I see you looked at me is there anything you liked"

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Personally that really irritates me - if there was anything I liked I would have sent them a message...

The reason why I browse profiles in stealth mode...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, if they looked but didn't either wink or message then safe to assume they are not interested at that point. Same as yourself, you view profiles but only wink or message the ones that are compatible or interest you right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it ok to say for example" I see you looked at me is there anything you liked"

Personally that really irritates me - if there was anything I liked I would have sent them a message...

The reason why I browse profiles in stealth mode..."

haha @stealth mode

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

We tend to use it and any repeat sneaky peekers we like the sound of we'll message if they hadn't already messaged us.

More often than not we'll peek in stealth mode though and relax that to drop a subtle hint, either that or a wink.

Remember it's only site supporters that can use it though.

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By *leasing_to_the_thighsMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

i often wonder about this too, also repeat viwers i have some that pop up on my list continuesly that ive messaged but got no reply ???

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

It would irritate me as well especially if the person didnt fit my criteria

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Final question for the night folks!!

Everyone looks at the Looked at me section on there profile I presume?

I am wondering is there an ettuquite regarding mailing someone who has looked at me?

Is it ok to say for example" I see you looked at me is there anything you liked"

Any advice is appreciated!"

No never look...i tell i lie, did once when someone started a thread about how far looked at me goes back, mine tends to be 4 to 5 hours.

I suppose i could message "Did you enjoy your wank"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the look of them, I look back.. then if they were just shy they might wink or contact... if they don't I assume they didn't like what they saw

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


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I suppose i could message "Did you enjoy your wank" "

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I have never done and and also we are stealth lookers so nobody knows for that reason!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

The only time I check my 'looked at me' list is if I think someone is being a bit stalkerish, so I check to see if they appear on the list a lot.

Personally, I think it should be called the 'looked at me and wasn't interested' list.

I also look in stealth mode... I'd be well peeved if I got a message from a fair few I've looked at. Sometimes I look at a profile because I can't work out what the avatar is and a number of other reasons other than to check them out as a potential.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Final question for the night folks!!

Everyone looks at the Looked at me section on there profile I presume?

I am wondering is there an ettuquite regarding mailing someone who has looked at me?

Is it ok to say for example" I see you looked at me is there anything you liked"

Any advice is appreciated!

I think if somebody looked at my profile and liked it they would message me anyway so I would not initiate contact tbh but thats just me "

I think exactly the same, if they were interested they would have messaged or winked so if they haven't I don't bother. Shame cos sometimes I see some crackers . That said, I never usually message guys in the first instance anyway but do like to know who'd sneeked a peek lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at ours all the time. I never contact people on the list, but it makes me wonder why some people who have turned us down in the past keep looking quite regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Final question for the night folks!!

Everyone looks at the Looked at me section on there profile I presume?

I am wondering is there an ettuquite regarding mailing someone who has looked at me?

Is it ok to say for example" I see you looked at me is there anything you liked"

Any advice is appreciated!"
Theres no etiquette, contact who you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I perv..... I mean look at loads of profiles all the time!!!!

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