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"Been on here, a meet for sex site for over 3 years and I either get nicely written messages: Deleted, no reply or no thanks. Or on the rare occasions I do get a positive response they answer only once? I really can't be that unlucky or ugly surely? In fact I know I'm not I've had more luck in clubs when I used to go out. I only message people who are looking for people like me too. I'm also sure a lot of these four or or five word no picture profiles are fake too. I don't get it I really don't..." You may think it's a "meet up for sex site" but no one gave you any guarantee of sex when you signed up did they? If you want guaranteed sex you're looking in the wrong place | |||
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"It is at base a "meet for sex site". What it isn't is a ""guaranteed" meet for sex site". I think a lot of guys feel the way you do, as if somehow there's something wrong with them. There isn't, the numbers work against single men and if they join expecting to get meets they're often disappointed and disheartened. Don't let it get you down or affect your self esteem." i don’t get many meets myself due to me not to others as am picky in who I meet tbf as I don’t wanna just sleep with anyone for the sake of it ! | |||
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"It is at base a "meet for sex site". What it isn't is a ""guaranteed" meet for sex site". I think a lot of guys feel the way you do, as if somehow there's something wrong with them. There isn't, the numbers work against single men and if they join expecting to get meets they're often disappointed and disheartened. Don't let it get you down or affect your self esteem.i don’t get many meets myself due to me not to others as am picky in who I meet tbf as I don’t wanna just sleep with anyone for the sake of it !" I don't think many people want to do that | |||
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"It is at base a "meet for sex site". What it isn't is a ""guaranteed" meet for sex site". I think a lot of guys feel the way you do, as if somehow there's something wrong with them. There isn't, the numbers work against single men and if they join expecting to get meets they're often disappointed and disheartened. Don't let it get you down or affect your self esteem.i don’t get many meets myself due to me not to others as am picky in who I meet tbf as I don’t wanna just sleep with anyone for the sake of it ! I don't think many people want to do that" yeah true but there’s more than just looks for me am after ! | |||
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"Go gay - or maybe just help out at the weekend There's many a bloke that luvs a fuzzy chubster" Probably not the best feedback | |||
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"It is at base a "meet for sex site". What it isn't is a ""guaranteed" meet for sex site". I think a lot of guys feel the way you do, as if somehow there's something wrong with them. There isn't, the numbers work against single men and if they join expecting to get meets they're often disappointed and disheartened. Don't let it get you down or affect your self esteem.i don’t get many meets myself due to me not to others as am picky in who I meet tbf as I don’t wanna just sleep with anyone for the sake of it ! I don't think many people want to do thatyeah true but there’s more than just looks for me am after !" You'll be ok on here a lot of people look for a connection. I'm pretty shallow because although I need to like someone on a superficial level if I don't find them attractive I'm not taking it further. | |||
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"Listen fella, this place is no good for anything! In a nutshell, you're a small fish in a massive pond and it's by pure chance that someone will pick out your profile. You're better off at an event or simply a night out. Women on here are ultra picky because they can be, that's all that I can say. " Are you saying that women on a night out aren't?  | |||
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 it's a site for like minded horny swingers to meet up if attracted 
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"Fyi this ain't a sex site it's a site for like minded horny swingers to meet up if attracted
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"Listen fella, this place is no good for anything! In a nutshell, you're a small fish in a massive pond and it's by pure chance that someone will pick out your profile. You're better off at an event or simply a night out. Women on here are ultra picky because they can be, that's all that I can say. Are you saying that women on a night out aren't? "?? Have you missed a word or two out? | |||
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"Go gay - or maybe just help out at the weekend There's many a bloke that luvs a fuzzy chubster Probably not the best feedback" Why Not? The feedback was pretty tongue in cheek, but it worked for me when I first joined 10 or so years vack Was already ready curious when I came here I was fatter than I am now and hairy too - something the OP alludes to being a inhibiter in his meets I meet guys, met bi couples, met for MMF threesomes Did wonders for me sexually and self worth wise OP lists TV/TS so must have some 'curiosity' too If it is meets for sex he wants, it's a way to go Fat guys do better with other guys than they do with women If there's curiosity there, use it | |||
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"Listen fella, this place is no good for anything! In a nutshell, you're a small fish in a massive pond and it's by pure chance that someone will pick out your profile. You're better off at an event or simply a night out. Women on here are ultra picky because they can be, that's all that I can say. Are you saying that women on a night out aren't? ?? Have you missed a word or two out? "come on guys this fella some hope there’s always something for everyone ! | |||
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"Listen fella, this place is no good for anything! In a nutshell, you're a small fish in a massive pond and it's by pure chance that someone will pick out your profile. You're better off at an event or simply a night out. Women on here are ultra picky because they can be, that's all that I can say. Are you saying that women on a night out aren't? ?? Have you missed a word or two out? come on guys this fella some hope there’s always something for everyone !"great shout! Of course there is. | |||
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"Go gay - or maybe just help out at the weekend There's many a bloke that luvs a fuzzy chubster Probably not the best feedback Why Not? The feedback was pretty tongue in cheek, but it worked for me when I first joined 10 or so years vack Was already ready curious when I came here I was fatter than I am now and hairy too - something the OP alludes to being a inhibiter in his meets I meet guys, met bi couples, met for MMF threesomes Did wonders for me sexually and self worth wise OP lists TV/TS so must have some 'curiosity' too If it is meets for sex he wants, it's a way to go Fat guys do better with other guys than they do with women If there's curiosity there, use it " Because he states he's straight for a start... So why should he have to "Go Gay" when want he wants is a lady..... He also states that his weight was put on after a horrible personal experience.... I for one wouldn't be calling him what you did... Humour or not.... The tongue in cheek bit just looked like you were trying to get laughs rather than actually help him... | |||
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"Listen fella, this place is no good for anything! In a nutshell, you're a small fish in a massive pond and it's by pure chance that someone will pick out your profile. You're better off at an event or simply a night out. Women on here are ultra picky because they can be, that's all that I can say. " You gotta put yourself out there and not hide behind a keyboard fella... not a bad thing but play the odds and get out and about x | |||
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"Go gay - or maybe just help out at the weekend There's many a bloke that luvs a fuzzy chubster Probably not the best feedback Why Not? The feedback was pretty tongue in cheek, but it worked for me when I first joined 10 or so years vack Was already ready curious when I came here I was fatter than I am now and hairy too - something the OP alludes to being a inhibiter in his meets I meet guys, met bi couples, met for MMF threesomes Did wonders for me sexually and self worth wise OP lists TV/TS so must have some 'curiosity' too If it is meets for sex he wants, it's a way to go Fat guys do better with other guys than they do with women If there's curiosity there, use it Because he states he's straight for a start... So why should he have to "Go Gay" when want he wants is a lady..... He also states that his weight was put on after a horrible personal experience.... I for one wouldn't be calling him what you did... Humour or not.... The tongue in cheek bit just looked like you were trying to get laughs rather than actually help him... " Stating straight and listing TV's doesn't add up to me, but that's a well worn subject on many a thread If he is straight, he can just ignore me. That's fine. Whatever the OP's reasons for gaining weight, it's not going to get him sex here Fat guys don't do well | |||
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"Listen fella, this place is no good for anything! In a nutshell, you're a small fish in a massive pond and it's by pure chance that someone will pick out your profile. You're better off at an event or simply a night out. Women on here are ultra picky because they can be, that's all that I can say. Are you saying that women on a night out aren't? "The ones looking for 420 definitely not! | |||
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"It is at base a "meet for sex site". What it isn't is a ""guaranteed" meet for sex site". I think a lot of guys feel the way you do, as if somehow there's something wrong with them. There isn't, the numbers work against single men and if they join expecting to get meets they're often disappointed and disheartened. Don't let it get you down or affect your self esteem." Wise words. Especially the last paragraph. | |||
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"Oh and when I message people I'm never like 'wanna shag?' I have etiquette and always ask if they'd like to meet or just chat for a bit first, I make comments about their profiles so they know I've read them etc. But I guess your right there is a lot of guys for one woman maybe I'd have more doing the lottery? Lol" After reading the above my advice would be to not ask if they want to meet or chat for a bit first, and just start a conversation. By messaging them you've shown you're interested, so leave the 'want to meet?' bit for further down the line. I've done ok on here and have always got to know the lady first without the expectation of sex hanging over their head. | |||
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"Not another one of these threads. There's at least two a week and they are increasing.... "In which they're easily avoided. | |||
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"Not another one of these threads. There's at least two a week and they are increasing....
In which they're easily avoided. "But nobody ever learns from them. | |||
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"Been on here, a meet for sex site for over 3 years and I either get nicely written messages: Deleted, no reply or no thanks. Or on the rare occasions I do get a positive response they answer only once? I really can't be that unlucky or ugly surely? In fact I know I'm not I've had more luck in clubs when I used to go out. I only message people who are looking for people like me too. I'm also sure a lot of these four or or five word no picture profiles are fake too. I don't get it I really don't..." Why did you stop going out to clubs? | |||
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"Not another one of these threads. There's at least two a week and they are increasing....
In which they're easily avoided.
But nobody ever learns from them. "That's not your problem. Your problem is the amount of threads. Which is easily avoidable. | |||
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"Well I'm not a swinger as I am single but I get sex on fab. What does it make me? "Highly desireable | |||
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"Well I'm not a swinger as I am single but I get sex on fab. What does it make me?
Highly desireable "Haha fair enough | |||
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