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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

What was the most scared or scary experience you ever had?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t discuss it

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By *opsy71Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Came home from a nightclub at 3am to discover my front door wide open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Panic attacks.

Nothing to fear but fear itself.

And, because the stupid cunt at the hospital told me that long term panic attacks can damage the heart, I now panic about having a heart attack, when I'm having a panic attack.

Why tell someone that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my daughter was rushed to hospital with suspected meningitis and she started convulsing in the ambulance. I have never been so scared in my life.

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Mine was definitely the day I got my biopsy results. Told I had cancer, given a book to read on head and neck cancer.. didn’t sleep it scared me shitless

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Panic attacks.

Nothing to fear but fear itself.

And, because the stupid cunt at the hospital told me that long term panic attacks can damage the heart, I now panic about having a heart attack, when I'm having a panic attack.

Why tell someone that? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had sleep paralysis once and it felt like something was sitting on my chest, I couldn't breath, move or make any sounds, it was a very unnerving experience

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Panic attacks.

Nothing to fear but fear itself.

And, because the stupid cunt at the hospital told me that long term panic attacks can damage the heart, I now panic about having a heart attack, when I'm having a panic attack.

Why tell someone that? "
Ive had regular panic attacks for 40 years sometimes multiple a day and never has anyone mentioned it damaging my heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought a large shark had nudged me in the back after a heavy waterskiing crash.

Thought I was about to be pounced on by a tiger (whose cage had blended into surrounding jungle.

Both times I froze rigid.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

When the news was broken that my dad had terminal cancer.

Jumping out of an aeroplane (but that was amazing and terrifying in equal measure)

Being told the hardest kid in school was going to batter me when I was about 14.

Being dragged down the back alley of a nightclub by bouncers back in the bad old unlicensed days in a case of mistaken identity

To name a few! There has been more.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think it was one of the times id lost my mind and i had been sectioned. I didnt really know what i was doing but i had this moment of clarity and realized i was sat against the wall rocking just like you see in the old lunatic adylum films. But yes panic attacks would come second absolute fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going for my surgery after my first miscarriage was terrifying. I remember I was on a ward with four other women who were all booked in for abortions, it seemed so easy for them. One had heard me crying and popped her head in to see if I was alright (C was at the loo) and when I got wheeled to surgery she took my hand and wished me luck.

My surgery was four floors down, I balled my eyes out the whole entire time. Had a massive panic attack and C couldn’t come down with me and I remember crying for him (I’m now crying typing this). All I wanted was a cuddle.

When I got to the room for surgery the nurse gave me a huge cuddle and asked me about my wedding day (I had miscarried on my wedding day and in all my tears I told her that) and she made me feel at ease.

After my surgery I remember waking up and just feeling dead inside

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Think it was one of the times id lost my mind and i had been sectioned. I didnt really know what i was doing but i had this moment of clarity and realized i was sat against the wall rocking just like you see in the old lunatic adylum films. But yes panic attacks would come second absolute fear"

I can’t imagine what this must be like, it sounds horrid, can understand how scary that would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting hit by a car while cycling, being airbourne and acutely aware that I was flying towards oncoming traffic on a busy A road and wondering what the fuck was going to happen next.

Being dragged out of a club by 2 blokes in a club in Spain when I was 17 was pretty scary too...

Not sure how I got out of either of those alive and relatively unscathed

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Going for my surgery after my first miscarriage was terrifying. I remember I was on a ward with four other women who were all booked in for abortions, it seemed so easy for them. One had heard me crying and popped her head in to see if I was alright (C was at the loo) and when I got wheeled to surgery she took my hand and wished me luck.

My surgery was four floors down, I balled my eyes out the whole entire time. Had a massive panic attack and C couldn’t come down with me and I remember crying for him (I’m now crying typing this). All I wanted was a cuddle.

When I got to the room for surgery the nurse gave me a huge cuddle and asked me about my wedding day (I had miscarried on my wedding day and in all my tears I told her that) and she made me feel at ease.

After my surgery I remember waking up and just feeling dead inside "

My heart goes out to you xxxx

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

My teenage son came into my bedroom one sunday morning moaning he had chest pains.. i thought he had indigestion so gave him a rennie... I had an x-ray appointment that morning and when he still had pains i told him to come with me expecting the hospital to give him a gaviscon and tell him to man up...

As soon as i told the hospital reception he had chest pains he was rushed through, again i took it with a pinch of salt, just being over cautious.

A few minutes later a Dr came out and told me he was having a heart attack and was about to be rushed to the chest hospital...

At that moment my world suddenly felt like it was about to fall apart..

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Joining this site

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"My teenage son came into my bedroom one sunday morning moaning he had chest pains.. i thought he had indigestion so gave him a rennie... I had an x-ray appointment that morning and when he still had pains i told him to come with me expecting the hospital to give him a gaviscon and tell him to man up...

As soon as i told the hospital reception he had chest pains he was rushed through, again i took it with a pinch of salt, just being over cautious.

A few minutes later a Dr came out and told me he was having a heart attack and was about to be rushed to the chest hospital...

At that moment my world suddenly felt like it was about to fall apart.."

OMG hope he was ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was definitely the day I got my biopsy results. Told I had cancer, given a book to read on head and neck cancer.. didn’t sleep it scared me shitless"
hope your well now ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My teenage son came into my bedroom one sunday morning moaning he had chest pains.. i thought he had indigestion so gave him a rennie... I had an x-ray appointment that morning and when he still had pains i told him to come with me expecting the hospital to give him a gaviscon and tell him to man up...

As soon as i told the hospital reception he had chest pains he was rushed through, again i took it with a pinch of salt, just being over cautious.

A few minutes later a Dr came out and told me he was having a heart attack and was about to be rushed to the chest hospital...

At that moment my world suddenly felt like it was about to fall apart.."

God that must have been awful. I don’t think anything could scare me more than something happening to my children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going for my surgery after my first miscarriage was terrifying. I remember I was on a ward with four other women who were all booked in for abortions, it seemed so easy for them. One had heard me crying and popped her head in to see if I was alright (C was at the loo) and when I got wheeled to surgery she took my hand and wished me luck.

My surgery was four floors down, I balled my eyes out the whole entire time. Had a massive panic attack and C couldn’t come down with me and I remember crying for him (I’m now crying typing this). All I wanted was a cuddle.

When I got to the room for surgery the nurse gave me a huge cuddle and asked me about my wedding day (I had miscarried on my wedding day and in all my tears I told her that) and she made me feel at ease.

After my surgery I remember waking up and just feeling dead inside

My heart goes out to you xxxx"

This pregnancy continues to terrify me everyday, I miscarried a twin at the beginning of this pregnancy and have had to be monitored a lot for other things. I can’t enjoy being pregnant because I’m so on edge that I’ll miscarry like every other time :/

I’ve had scarier things happen, but this is the scariest that I can discuss. It still fucks me up

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Being accosteded by two men near Victoria station at 2am when i was 17

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Panic attacks.

Nothing to fear but fear itself.

And, because the stupid cunt at the hospital told me that long term panic attacks can damage the heart, I now panic about having a heart attack, when I'm having a panic attack.

Why tell someone that? Ive had regular panic attacks for 40 years sometimes multiple a day and never has anyone mentioned it damaging my heart"

She said it was the adrenaline rushing to the heart that can damage it. I stopped going after she told us about hyperventilating and passing out.

I came out and hyper ventilated on my way to the bus stop.

Never went back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Panic attacks.

Nothing to fear but fear itself.

And, because the stupid cunt at the hospital told me that long term panic attacks can damage the heart, I now panic about having a heart attack, when I'm having a panic attack.

Why tell someone that? Ive had regular panic attacks for 40 years sometimes multiple a day and never has anyone mentioned it damaging my heart

She said it was the adrenaline rushing to the heart that can damage it. I stopped going after she told us about hyperventilating and passing out.

I came out and hyper ventilated on my way to the bus stop.

Never went back. "

I have really severe panic attacks to the point I pass out (although they haven’t been that bad for almost a year once). Most of it was due to anxiety, so my therapist wanted me to join a group therapy session...despite groups making me anxious and panicky...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Panic attacks.

Nothing to fear but fear itself.

And, because the stupid cunt at the hospital told me that long term panic attacks can damage the heart, I now panic about having a heart attack, when I'm having a panic attack.

Why tell someone that? Ive had regular panic attacks for 40 years sometimes multiple a day and never has anyone mentioned it damaging my heart

She said it was the adrenaline rushing to the heart that can damage it. I stopped going after she told us about hyperventilating and passing out.

I came out and hyper ventilated on my way to the bus stop.

Never went back. "
she sounds ridiculous she should of just said carry a paper bag round and breath into it when you hyperventilate. Should of been telling you ways of making things better not bloody worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Panic attacks.

Nothing to fear but fear itself.

And, because the stupid cunt at the hospital told me that long term panic attacks can damage the heart, I now panic about having a heart attack, when I'm having a panic attack.

Why tell someone that? Ive had regular panic attacks for 40 years sometimes multiple a day and never has anyone mentioned it damaging my heart

She said it was the adrenaline rushing to the heart that can damage it. I stopped going after she told us about hyperventilating and passing out.

I came out and hyper ventilated on my way to the bus stop.

Never went back. she sounds ridiculous she should of just said carry a paper bag round and breath into it when you hyperventilate. Should of been telling you ways of making things better not bloody worse"

That's what I thought. I wasn't hyperventilating before she mentioned it.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"My teenage son came into my bedroom one sunday morning moaning he had chest pains.. i thought he had indigestion so gave him a rennie... I had an x-ray appointment that morning and when he still had pains i told him to come with me expecting the hospital to give him a gaviscon and tell him to man up...

As soon as i told the hospital reception he had chest pains he was rushed through, again i took it with a pinch of salt, just being over cautious.

A few minutes later a Dr came out and told me he was having a heart attack and was about to be rushed to the chest hospital...

At that moment my world suddenly felt like it was about to fall apart..

OMG hope he was ok?"

He spent two weeks in hospital, he had had myocarditis and apparently when admitted to hospital was only a few minutes away from potentially dying.

If i had not had that radiography appointment that morning i hate to yjink what would have happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Panic attacks.

Nothing to fear but fear itself.

And, because the stupid cunt at the hospital told me that long term panic attacks can damage the heart, I now panic about having a heart attack, when I'm having a panic attack.

Why tell someone that? Ive had regular panic attacks for 40 years sometimes multiple a day and never has anyone mentioned it damaging my heart

She said it was the adrenaline rushing to the heart that can damage it. I stopped going after she told us about hyperventilating and passing out.

I came out and hyper ventilated on my way to the bus stop.

Never went back.

I have really severe panic attacks to the point I pass out (although they haven’t been that bad for almost a year once). Most of it was due to anxiety, so my therapist wanted me to join a group therapy session...despite groups making me anxious and panicky..."

I hated group therapy. I didn't want to hear other people's problems or what made them anxious or panicky. I was severely phobic about everything at the time and anything someone spoke about made me think it would happen to me.

The only thing I did get from it was a breathing exercise that helps stave off a panic attack, and I still use it 19 years later.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Panic attacks.

Nothing to fear but fear itself.

And, because the stupid cunt at the hospital told me that long term panic attacks can damage the heart, I now panic about having a heart attack, when I'm having a panic attack.

Why tell someone that? Ive had regular panic attacks for 40 years sometimes multiple a day and never has anyone mentioned it damaging my heart

She said it was the adrenaline rushing to the heart that can damage it. I stopped going after she told us about hyperventilating and passing out.

I came out and hyper ventilated on my way to the bus stop.

Never went back. she sounds ridiculous she should of just said carry a paper bag round and breath into it when you hyperventilate. Should of been telling you ways of making things better not bloody worse

That's what I thought. I wasn't hyperventilating before she mentioned it."
you should of complained. Ive complained about plenty of idiots over the years. She needs to be aware shes doing more harm than good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My teenage son came into my bedroom one sunday morning moaning he had chest pains.. i thought he had indigestion so gave him a rennie... I had an x-ray appointment that morning and when he still had pains i told him to come with me expecting the hospital to give him a gaviscon and tell him to man up...

As soon as i told the hospital reception he had chest pains he was rushed through, again i took it with a pinch of salt, just being over cautious.

A few minutes later a Dr came out and told me he was having a heart attack and was about to be rushed to the chest hospital...

At that moment my world suddenly felt like it was about to fall apart..

OMG hope he was ok?

He spent two weeks in hospital, he had had myocarditis and apparently when admitted to hospital was only a few minutes away from potentially dying.

If i had not had that radiography appointment that morning i hate to yjink what would have happened."

Thank goodness you were going to the hospital that day.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Looking in the mirror most mornings

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London

Biggest fire London has seen. And your next in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Panic attacks.

Nothing to fear but fear itself.

And, because the stupid cunt at the hospital told me that long term panic attacks can damage the heart, I now panic about having a heart attack, when I'm having a panic attack.

Why tell someone that? Ive had regular panic attacks for 40 years sometimes multiple a day and never has anyone mentioned it damaging my heart

She said it was the adrenaline rushing to the heart that can damage it. I stopped going after she told us about hyperventilating and passing out.

I came out and hyper ventilated on my way to the bus stop.

Never went back. she sounds ridiculous she should of just said carry a paper bag round and breath into it when you hyperventilate. Should of been telling you ways of making things better not bloody worse

That's what I thought. I wasn't hyperventilating before she mentioned it.you should of complained. Ive complained about plenty of idiots over the years. She needs to be aware shes doing more harm than good"

I don't think I even rang to say I wasn't going back. I was so ill I spent months under my quilt in bed or on the sofa. I took medication to get me through.

I am scared I'll get that ill again and not be strong enough this time.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Panic attacks.

Nothing to fear but fear itself.

And, because the stupid cunt at the hospital told me that long term panic attacks can damage the heart, I now panic about having a heart attack, when I'm having a panic attack.

Why tell someone that? Ive had regular panic attacks for 40 years sometimes multiple a day and never has anyone mentioned it damaging my heart

She said it was the adrenaline rushing to the heart that can damage it. I stopped going after she told us about hyperventilating and passing out.

I came out and hyper ventilated on my way to the bus stop.

Never went back. she sounds ridiculous she should of just said carry a paper bag round and breath into it when you hyperventilate. Should of been telling you ways of making things better not bloody worse

That's what I thought. I wasn't hyperventilating before she mentioned it.you should of complained. Ive complained about plenty of idiots over the years. She needs to be aware shes doing more harm than good

I don't think I even rang to say I wasn't going back. I was so ill I spent months under my quilt in bed or on the sofa. I took medication to get me through.

I am scared I'll get that ill again and not be strong enough this time. "
my biggest fear is suicide or being sectioned again i live in fear of going back in that place. 14 years now but it was touch and go about 18 months ago but the home crisis team where excellent. Its the worst part having an illness even when you try and keep yourself well you never know when its going to take over

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I had a panic attack just out of the blue. Been at university the semester had just finished and I was on my way home. Waiting at the bus stop I had an overwhelming feeling of being unable to breathe. Fighting to take a breath. They didn't disappear overnight but I have fortunattely learnt to handle them and. And am lucky enough that they don't make much of an appearance now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was definitely the day I got my biopsy results. Told I had cancer, given a book to read on head and neck cancer.. didn’t sleep it scared me shitless"

I bet it did

I hope you're on the mend x

Mine was when a friend and I were surrounded by a group of men on a beach in India after a party.

I honestly thought I was going to get gang r@ped and killed.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

My first day on here lol. On a more serious note, I had a stalker and two guys trying to get into my house at 2 am. Because of this I will not accommodate anymore. The only people who come to me are the ones I've known for years. I live alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably nothing compared to what some have shared and there is something raw with me that I can’t divulge at the moment.

Aside of that I think I was never so scared as when I went into labour, I was absolutely shitting it...!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Had sleep paralysis once and it felt like something was sitting on my chest, I couldn't breath, move or make any sounds, it was a very unnerving experience"

Yes I've had this, it's terrifying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was bleeding out after an artery in my leg ruptured, the doctors and nurses were running round in a mad panic. Strangely this calmness came over me even though I knew I could die, it was an odd feeling but one I wasn’t scared of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having my first brain scan terrified me and then being told I have a brain tumour really affected me badly.

Also, I got lost walking in Slaidburn forest in the fog. I took a wrong turn and walked for hours. I had no water and thought I was doomed as it was December and absolutely freezing.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Having my first brain scan terrified me and then being told I have a brain tumour really affected me badly.

Also, I got lost walking in Slaidburn forest in the fog. I took a wrong turn and walked for hours. I had no water and thought I was doomed as it was December and absolutely freezing. "

I can imagine that was terrifying. I hope things are better now x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

About 14 years ago I had a massive pulmonary embolism and was in the DRI for about a fortnight, the specialist told me I was lucky not to have come out in a wooden box. I'm still on warfarin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Team facing Lionel Messi

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

when i was a teenager i was a really strong swimmer and was out at sea when i got caught on the tide. The harder i swam the further the beach got. Did beat it but that was quite scary. Also i got set on fire that was actually more scary for the people watching than me so i was told

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

Woke up choking due to acid reflux. My life did flash through my mind. Before I was able to breath again. Shook me up pretty bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My young son was knocked down by a car. Police called me and told me to get to the hospital asap as it wasn't looking good.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

An attempted sexual assault/mugging

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I was walking through Hoxton/Shoreditch area one evening, cutting through the estates in order to get to a friends' place that lived at the bottom of Kingsland Road. I'd just been paid for the weekend's bar work and had a few hundred in cash on me, which wasn't really my style, as a general rule I never carry more than fifty on me unless I specifically need it, as otherwise I tend to fritter it away... But anyway I digress. As I was walking along the road some skinny youth in typical estate garb ie grey tracksuit with the hood pulled tight barges into me, shoves me into a nearby alley. "Wallet. Phone. Give it all to me. Now!" He's got his right hand stuffed into his pocket as if he's clutching a concealed weapon. The fact he is on his own worries me as normally these types move in groups and he's smaller than me so must be feeling pretty brave. "That's it" I thought to myself. "Today's the day when I find out exactly what getting stabbed i

feels like". I'm frozen to the spot. Then; a flash of movement. Kid pulls hand out of pocket and punches me dead in the jaw. Really bloody hard. But in doing so reveals the fact he is unarmed! I swear I have never felt so relieved! My confidence comes flooding back. "Is that seriously all you've got? Get the fuck out of my way!" I barged past him out of the alley and continued on my way at a brisk walk. "Come back here, I haven't finished with you" he yelled after me. I kept walking.

It was only later I realised he'd punched me so hard I couldn't bite or chew properly for nearly two weeks

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Prior to that day I'd never realise that being punched in the face could actually be considered good news....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine was when i was around 26 were i was hijacked and my car was stolen because i could of dead that why i live life to the full and tell it like i see it these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The things that scare me the most I can’t talk about but let’s say I have become increasingly scared of the disregard for life.

But there are some truly heartbreaking stories, cant even imagine what some of those events must have been like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was the most scared or scary experience you ever had?

"

Tom baker, takung on the cyber men! Eeek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I am scared I'll get that ill again and not be strong enough this time. "

There aren't many things I'm proper genuinely scared of, but this is one of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My young son was knocked down by a car. Police called me and told me to get to the hospital asap as it wasn't looking good."

Oh I can relate to a similar type call!

Hope all was okay in the end x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get scared. But I had enough of tragedy in my life. Both parents and all grandparents have died. You just learn to get on with life and try to enjoy it as you might not be here tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't really go into details on here. Let's say that I was in potentially very serious danger in my family home. Those events leading up to my finally walking out of my home with nowhere particularly safe or secure to go and just walking out were very scary. I left the family home eleven years ago yesterday actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going for my surgery after my first miscarriage was terrifying. I remember I was on a ward with four other women who were all booked in for abortions, it seemed so easy for them. One had heard me crying and popped her head in to see if I was alright (C was at the loo) and when I got wheeled to surgery she took my hand and wished me luck.

My surgery was four floors down, I balled my eyes out the whole entire time. Had a massive panic attack and C couldn’t come down with me and I remember crying for him (I’m now crying typing this). All I wanted was a cuddle.

When I got to the room for surgery the nurse gave me a huge cuddle and asked me about my wedding day (I had miscarried on my wedding day and in all my tears I told her that) and she made me feel at ease.

After my surgery I remember waking up and just feeling dead inside "

Awwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also opening up about above mentioned events, scared that I'll be judged, scared that whoever I've just told will think badly or differently of me... every time!

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Waking up in intensive care and suffering with delirium for over two weeks really badly and hearing voices.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've survived some scary shit, but nothing compares to sitting, holding your child's hand, 3yrs old, hooked up to machines, watching a flatline

Being asked permission to switch those machines off

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I've survived some scary shit, but nothing compares to sitting, holding your child's hand, 3yrs old, hooked up to machines, watching a flatline

Being asked permission to switch those machines off "
omg thats the stuff of nightmares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing someone splatter into red paste committing suicide jumping in front of a moving train.... ..

Seeing that was like all the air had been vacuumed out of my body I just couldn't breathe or move ... It just took everyone by surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going into a factory alone when the intruder alarm is sounding and the lights wouldn't come on

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London


"I've survived some scary shit, but nothing compares to sitting, holding your child's hand, 3yrs old, hooked up to machines, watching a flatline

Being asked permission to switch those machines off "

That fear is bigger than anything I’ve ever faced!.. what I’ve faced id like to think I’m trained & in control. But yours!! Wow. Just wow. That just made my heart stop reading that! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've survived some scary shit, but nothing compares to sitting, holding your child's hand, 3yrs old, hooked up to machines, watching a flatline

Being asked permission to switch those machines off omg thats the stuff of nightmares"

This outstrips everything else no parent should ever need to face this year...truly terrible

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

To finish the tale

I said no.

He turned 16 in January.

He's fought his whole life, he's gone through more than any child ever should, but he's a stubborn bugger.

He's my hero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting my lover innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To finish the tale

I said no.

He turned 16 in January.

He's fought his whole life, he's gone through more than any child ever should, but he's a stubborn bugger.

He's my hero. "

A happy ending then at least

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

The day my grandsons life support was turned off. Scared for him but terrified of what my daughter was about to go through

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London


"To finish the tale

I said no.

He turned 16 in January.

He's fought his whole life, he's gone through more than any child ever should, but he's a stubborn bugger.

He's my hero. "

Now this is what I needed to hear

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks

Had some horrifying experiences during my life but I don't do scared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few, but i would have to say the day i found out my mother was dying. I was still at that naive young age where i believed that tragedy only happened to others... until that day. After that, it triggered a fear and a knowing that people i love can be snatched away so quickly. So much so, that i still struggle to let people close. I guess you could say I'm still scared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 17 and a random guy put a gun to my head and pulled the trigger. It wasn't loaded.

When I had a severe asthma attack and my inhaler was having no effect - I was rushed to hospital struggling to breathe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure they can't...I was always told it's no different than a work out in terms of pressure put on the heart/body. hope this helps xx

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Locked in a shed with spiders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this made me feel so sad...i'm sorry about your mother. there is always a reason not to let people close and I've been pushing people away recently and i am currently scared about money because I've been taken off my ESA. I seem to have lost contact with my grandma and sometimes it's easier to push people away isn't it? my uncle died suddenly and the other one was ill before he died. I am sending hugs, hope you can find it easier to let people close x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm sorry! i'm not very good at this I don't post often and i've only just started coming on forums more frequently. I'll try to include quotes in the future for context xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"i'm sorry! i'm not very good at this I don't post often and i've only just started coming on forums more frequently. I'll try to include quotes in the future for context xxx"
underneath in the middle there is a reply quote button click on that when you want to reply to a post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thankyou i know i spotted that after i responded xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this made me feel so sad...i'm sorry about your mother. there is always a reason not to let people close and I've been pushing people away recently and i am currently scared about money because I've been taken off my ESA. I seem to have lost contact with my grandma and sometimes it's easier to push people away isn't it? my uncle died suddenly and the other one was ill before he died. I am sending hugs, hope you can find it easier to let people close x"

That is very sweet of you. Thank you lovely . You are right, it does seem easier to push people away sometimes. I'm currently trying very hard not to repeat that pattern, with someone i care very deeply about, because i know they are extremely special. I really hope you are able to overcome that fear and give people a chance and I'm very sorry to hear about your losses. I also hope you get a resolution in regards to your money worries. I'm sending you hugs back lovely and again, thank you for your kind words x

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

When I was about 17 I was in a swimming pool in a canoe for the first time and someone thought it was a good idea to capsize me. I couldn’t breathe, couldn’t get out and I was terrified.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"To finish the tale.... I said no.

"

You bloody sod! I’m here sobbing (worried about my toddlers pending brain scan)... then you hit me with he’s ok lol.... so relived for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had quite a few scary experiences, but the worst of them was going into labour prematurely with my daughter and thinking that she had no chance of surviving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breast cancer, sexual assault, non-sexual assault, probably the scariest shit I've dealt with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread makes you realise how difficult life can be for everybody and also how flipping brave we have to be.

It puts things into perspective.

Big hugs to you all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A spider once crawled over my shoulder whilst sat watching tv.

This might not sound that bad but when spiders scare you as much as they do me, it was a pretty big deal!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

There’s 2 - when my dad nearly died from a collapsed lung (luckily he was at work in a hospital) & when T was diagnosed with non-Hodgkins Lymphoma. He’s now 2 years in remission xx

J x

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I've been different type of scared.

A fair few time in my life and former career where I've face very credible mortal danger. Times when the difference between life and death seem more a matter of luck than something I had power over.

But the worst was a few years ago when my marriage broke up. The plan and vision of my happy family future destroyed. My security in A happy future turned doubt, fear and uncertainty without the woman I loved (at the time) and family that ment so much to me. A real fear of not living with my kids. Fear for my children's future. That was the time in my life I faced the greatest of fear in my life.

Luckily things came off ok. The kids stayed with me, I rebuilt and due to the magic of FAB I meet My Girl who is a far better woman than I could have ever dreamed to meet. She is perfect for me.

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By *iss behaving2019Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Went to see a doctor about a wound on my foot that did not seem to be healing. First thing he said was " that will have to come off"!!!! Then I realised he was talking about the bandage!!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"To finish the tale.... I said no.

You bloody sod! I’m here sobbing (worried about my toddlers pending brain scan)... then you hit me with he’s ok lol.... so relived for you x"

He's not OK, he never will be, but he's amazing, doesn't let anything stop him.

Self pity isn't in his vocabulary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To finish the tale.... I said no.

You bloody sod! I’m here sobbing (worried about my toddlers pending brain scan)... then you hit me with he’s ok lol.... so relived for you x

He's not OK, he never will be, but he's amazing, doesn't let anything stop him.

Self pity isn't in his vocabulary

"

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Mine pales into comparison to most of the above. I never really feel stuff due my disorder however I learnt a very painful lesson in feelings the day my Girlfriend of ten years walked away before Christmas one year.

The sheer panic and fear of coming home alone and the uncertainty of the future was terrifying and utterly miserable for me. My whole world was wiped out in an instant. I was dealing with new feelings I had never had before.

I got by for years switching off doing a very hard emotive job but that experience scared the shit out of me.

Now because of it. I know I can cope it made me strong in many ways.

As I say pales to some of the above.

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

For me it was a home invasion/robbery. The whole family were asleep upstairs when a group of young men came into the house.

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