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By *hrisAndKatie OP   Couple
over a year ago

stevenage

Have you ever gone to view someones profile only to realise they have blocked you

In this instance no messages, winks or friend requests were sent ...

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I know not everyone is going to like me. I just counter block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regularly.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes. I'm very blockable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. We just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often, I’m an arsehole though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Some use it as a filter if your not what they looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you've said something in the Forum that got their back up or turned them off? It happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah quite a few forum members

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By *xbanana2Man
over a year ago

addlestone

Yes , more than once

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By *hrisAndKatie OP   Couple
over a year ago

stevenage


"Maybe you've said something in the Forum that got their back up or turned them off? It happens."

Well we did say ricky gervais wasnt funny ... that must have been it

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Few times actually... Or sometimes there account is actually blocked by the admin xx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Have you ever gone to view someones profile only to realise they have blocked you

In this instance no messages, winks or friend requests were sent ... "

If you are not for them, they may block you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed.

Could have been someone I know, who knows. Many many reasons and I'm sure the blocker has one.

Or maybe just because I'm a cunt.

P

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes, I also counter block them and forget about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No however I sometimes block people who I know im not interested in or because of the way they post on forums.

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Sure. No biggie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you've said something in the Forum that got their back up or turned them off? It happens.

Well we did say ricky gervais wasnt funny ... that must have been it"

He isn't though.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Maybe you've said something in the Forum that got their back up or turned them off? It happens.

Well we did say ricky gervais wasnt funny ... that must have been it

He isn't though."

No he isn't....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I have a lot of respect for that as they’ve either

1. Looked at my profile and realised I’m not their type

2 Read my posts in the forum and thought not for me/us

3. Seem me in a chat room and didn’t like what they saw

4. Read my profile and took my advice to block and move on

Whatever the reason- it’s cool by me, because I won’t bother them and they won’t bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

But it matters less to me, as I stopped sending first messages long ago....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Some forum users are quite touchy.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think so but I never spend long thinking about people who I'm not compatible with

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Yup, I think they annoy me more as I never even got to insult them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever gone to view someones profile only to realise they have blocked you

In this instance no messages, winks or friend requests were sent ... "
yeah very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum posts are very revealing

As are people’s veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah quite a few forum members "

I wouldn't block you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of times. How do you counter-block?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Some forum users are quite touchy."

And don't we know it

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Yes many times

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Have you ever gone to view someones profile only to realise they have blocked you

In this instance no messages, winks or friend requests were sent ... "

No but I block a lot based on forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Some forum users are quite touchy.

And don't we know it "

Do we care?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Yes. Some forum users are quite touchy.

And don't we know it

Do we care?"

Depends if you like being touched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is also the possibility that their profile has been suspended. You'll get the same message in such cases

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Yes, someone has blocked me because I said that I ate lamb. Not that I do often anyway.. But there you go.

So be it, up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block all day long so expect to be blocked as well

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Yup

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads!!

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By *r loveslickinMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Yeah but their loss - people are more than just filtees6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I played NFL I would definitely be a defensive linebacker lol

I block as another form of message filter, I get blocked plenty too by women I haven't spoken to before. It's no drama

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"No however I sometimes block people who I know im not interested in or because of the way they post on forums. "

This for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it funny when a forum user keeps getting arsey with you in the lounge for no reason other than you've blocked them

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Don't have many on MY block list

3men 1 female and 1couple.

And I know why for all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think theres a certain narcissim in blocking people for forum posts. I mean why do you assume they are interested in you at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh yeah i just remembered i got blocked by loads of cycalists for saying they should have a mirror, and lighting regulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked list is longer than my arm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have a wall of people to look at. It shows us different types of people who might be to just far away . And it's just easier to block to save room and stop seeing someone who is no point for you to see.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Ohhh yeah i just remembered i got blocked by loads of cycalists for saying they should have a mirror, and lighting regulations "

Way to live dangerously Carter lol

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I think theres a certain narcissim in blocking people for forum posts. I mean why do you assume they are interested in you at all?"

I do it seldomly and more as a reminder to self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhh yeah i just remembered i got blocked by loads of cycalists for saying they should have a mirror, and lighting regulations

Way to live dangerously Carter lol"

The lycra crowd are a pissy bunch.

I think its the crotch chafing

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Ohhh yeah i just remembered i got blocked by loads of cycalists for saying they should have a mirror, and lighting regulations

Way to live dangerously Carter lol

The lycra crowd are a pissy bunch.

I think its the crotch chafing "

You better duck....incoming pissy cyclists ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh it’s their loss if they are not interested there’s no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhh yeah i just remembered i got blocked by loads of cycalists for saying they should have a mirror, and lighting regulations

Way to live dangerously Carter lol

The lycra crowd are a pissy bunch.

I think its the crotch chafing

You better duck....incoming pissy cyclists ahead "

Fuckers will never catch me with thier crappy 0.25 horsepower legs :p

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By *erms and conditionsCouple
over a year ago

Alton

Yes. Usually after they fab or wink and we try to see who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think theres a certain narcissim in blocking people for forum posts. I mean why do you assume they are interested in you at all?"

Nobody said they did it because they thought the other person may be interested. I said they may have done it because of a Forum Post.

I block people sometimes. If they've pissed me off. I usually unblock them at a later date once I've simmered down a bit. It's NEVER because I thought they were interested in me, or ever would be.

Usually because they're saying something I consider to be pretty vile.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Ohhh yeah i just remembered i got blocked by loads of cycalists for saying they should have a mirror, and lighting regulations

Way to live dangerously Carter lol

The lycra crowd are a pissy bunch.

I think its the crotch chafing

You better duck....incoming pissy cyclists ahead

Fuckers will never catch me with thier crappy 0.25 horsepower legs :p"

The word will get out and no where will be safe

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Maybe you've said something in the Forum that got their back up or turned them off? It happens.

Well we did say ricky gervais wasnt funny ... that must have been it

He isn't though.

No he isn't...."

Contoversial. No, I dont think he's funny ...let em block us we can have our own gang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you've said something in the Forum that got their back up or turned them off? It happens.

Well we did say ricky gervais wasnt funny ... that must have been it

He isn't though.

No he isn't....

Contoversial. No, I dont think he's funny ...let em block us we can have our own gang "

In upstart crow they have a whole character to show how unfunny ricky is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think theres a certain narcissim in blocking people for forum posts. I mean why do you assume they are interested in you at all?

Nobody said they did it because they thought the other person may be interested. I said they may have done it because of a Forum Post.

I block people sometimes. If they've pissed me off. I usually unblock them at a later date once I've simmered down a bit. It's NEVER because I thought they were interested in me, or ever would be.

Usually because they're saying something I consider to be pretty vile.

"

But blocking does nothing.

They arent looking at your profile they arent messaging you.

As tjats all it stops its jist narccisim in that you think they will even notice or give a shit and not jist laugh at you for being pathetic

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I think theres a certain narcissim in blocking people for forum posts. I mean why do you assume they are interested in you at all?

Nobody said they did it because they thought the other person may be interested. I said they may have done it because of a Forum Post.

I block people sometimes. If they've pissed me off. I usually unblock them at a later date once I've simmered down a bit. It's NEVER because I thought they were interested in me, or ever would be.

Usually because they're saying something I consider to be pretty vile.

But blocking does nothing.

They arent looking at your profile they arent messaging you.

As tjats all it stops its jist narccisim in that you think they will even notice or give a shit and not jist laugh at you for being pathetic"

People come and go off the forum so its a reminder to myself that I didn't click with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the majority of being blocked for me comes via things I’ve said on the forums.

If I discover I’ve been blocked I rarely counter block unless they’re a complete c*nt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think theres a certain narcissim in blocking people for forum posts. I mean why do you assume they are interested in you at all?

Nobody said they did it because they thought the other person may be interested. I said they may have done it because of a Forum Post.

I block people sometimes. If they've pissed me off. I usually unblock them at a later date once I've simmered down a bit. It's NEVER because I thought they were interested in me, or ever would be.

Usually because they're saying something I consider to be pretty vile.

But blocking does nothing.

They arent looking at your profile they arent messaging you.

As tjats all it stops its jist narccisim in that you think they will even notice or give a shit and not jist laugh at you for being pathetic"

Or.. it stops me from clicking on their profile and sending a message, because I've forgotten about the vile stuff. I don't have notes feature. Also helps me from having to see some shocking local updates.

It also stops people I don't like from being able to keep tabs on me. Which you might think as being narcissistic, but I think of privacy. They may not ever look, but I may never want to take that chance that they do.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I think the majority of being blocked for me comes via things I’ve said on the forums.

If I discover I’ve been blocked I rarely counter block unless they’re a complete c*nt."

I'm.the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think theres a certain narcissim in blocking people for forum posts. I mean why do you assume they are interested in you at all?

Nobody said they did it because they thought the other person may be interested. I said they may have done it because of a Forum Post.

I block people sometimes. If they've pissed me off. I usually unblock them at a later date once I've simmered down a bit. It's NEVER because I thought they were interested in me, or ever would be.

Usually because they're saying something I consider to be pretty vile.

"
Same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

They have their reasons

I'm fucked if I'm interested in knowing what they are

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Yup

They have their reasons

I'm fucked if I'm interested in knowing what they are"

That the way to do it

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Have you ever gone to view someones profile only to realise they have blocked you

In this instance no messages, winks or friend requests were sent ... "

Yeah, it's happened a few times (maybe abit more than a few), I can be quite outspoken though so I'm not suprised, it doesn't really bother me, I know I'm quite hard to get on with and that I do piss people off

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Yea, can't be everyone's cup of tea can you

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Have you ever gone to view someones profile only to realise they have blocked you

In this instance no messages, winks or friend requests were sent ...

Yeah, it's happened a few times (maybe abit more than a few), I can be quite outspoken though so I'm not suprised, it doesn't really bother me, I know I'm quite hard to get on with and that I do piss people off "

It's good to give a true reflection of ourselves that way if we should click with someone it's because they get us.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've blocked 100s of people, they've done nothing wrong apart from live in my village!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Yes. I know not everyone is going to like me. I just counter block "

this

I always block back. They obviously blocked me for a reason. I have no desire to interact with people in the future who have decided that they don’t want interaction now. Counter blocking saves any awkwardness in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people who read a message and delete it without responding. It obviously means they're not interested, so it saves them from coming up on a search again and means I don't waste my time and theirs by messaging again at a later date.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

More of a shock when we haven't been blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The confusing one is the ones that have had no contact with you or vice versa but you are blocked by them ..

They assure your not on the forum posts but then admin give you a 48hr ban for asking the question..

(Feels another ban coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did anyone else check to see if they'd been blocked by anyone on this thread? Or am i the only sad one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did anyone else check to see if they'd been blocked by anyone on this thread? Or am i the only sad one? "

Check my profile ...

and tell me what you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did anyone else check to see if they'd been blocked by anyone on this thread? Or am i the only sad one?

Check my profile ...

and tell me what you see "

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Maybe you've said something in the Forum that got their back up or turned them off? It happens.

Well we did say ricky gervais wasnt funny ... that must have been it"

Naw!!!! he isnt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did anyone else check to see if they'd been blocked by anyone on this thread? Or am i the only sad one?

Check my profile ...

and tell me what you see

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The confusing one is the ones that have had no contact with you or vice versa but you are blocked by them ..

They assure your not on the forum posts but then admin give you a 48hr ban for asking the question..

(Feels another ban coming "

Admin ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time lol it's no big deal

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Have you ever gone to view someones profile only to realise they have blocked you

In this instance no messages, winks or friend requests were sent ...

Yeah, it's happened a few times (maybe abit more than a few), I can be quite outspoken though so I'm not suprised, it doesn't really bother me, I know I'm quite hard to get on with and that I do piss people off

It's good to give a true reflection of ourselves that way if we should click with someone it's because they get us. "

Exactly, I don't try and pretend to be anyone else so if they don't like it, they are better off blocking me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes some folk dont fuck on there doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Some forum users are quite touchy.

And don't we know it

Do we care?"

Not really but should we ?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Did anyone else check to see if they'd been blocked by anyone on this thread? Or am i the only sad one? "

well you not blocked me lol

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I had someone send me a message, I read it, went to reply and was blocked! We’d never interacted before that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever gone to view someones profile only to realise they have blocked you

In this instance no messages, winks or friend requests were sent ... "

Yes, just means that you’re not their type and they probably don’t want to waste your time, or their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone send me a message, I read it, went to reply and was blocked! We’d never interacted before that "

Ignorance is bliss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably your cousin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised if I look at a profile and I haven't been blocked!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Did anyone else check to see if they'd been blocked by anyone on this thread? Or am i the only sad one? "

I checked a couple of them..you can't please all the folks all the time eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Some forum users are quite touchy.

And don't we know it

Do we care?

Not really but should we ? "

I don't block people from the forums, so you have nothing to care about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. We just move on"

and hello you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever gone to view someones profile only to realise they have blocked you

In this instance no messages, winks or friend requests were sent ... "

Yes i have noticed that I have been blocked by women who I have never seen or chatted with before.

And I doubt they ever saw me, because I noticed this when I first signed in.. So they couldn't of blocked me.

I think it's a glitch on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's an option to block new members from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got blocked for saying I'm sorry your not for me lol

Boom blocked instantly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 01/05/19 17:07:48]"

Yes it wasn't that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked for saying I'm sorry your not for me lol

Boom blocked instantly lol"

They made sure they wouldn't message you by mistake in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked for saying I'm sorry your not for me lol

Boom blocked instantly lol

They made sure they wouldn't message you by mistake in future."

Has the art of conversation been lost then.What happened to getting to know someone or do some just see this as meaningless instant sex and go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked for saying I'm sorry your not for me lol

Boom blocked instantly lol

They made sure they wouldn't message you by mistake in future."

What about the people who ignore my mail

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I see I’m blocked loads

Result !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see I’m blocked loads

Result ! "

Lies!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

There are a multitude of reasons for it. My block list is short, the people on it are there for various reasons. Mostly because I simply don't want PM's from them or I don't want them to know what I'm doing.

If I've been blocked then I don't get bothered by it, it's just another filter essentially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a mixed bowl of different fruit loops and who cares if someone blocks you lol

It's about finding the one or ones your compatable with.

If they block you then I'm guessing your not compatable with there fruit loop ways lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked for saying I'm sorry your not for me lol

Boom blocked instantly lol

They made sure they wouldn't message you by mistake in future.

Has the art of conversation been lost then.What happened to getting to know someone or do some just see this as meaningless instant sex and go x"

On this site the art of conversation and getting to know someone seems to be gone. I thought ladies would like getting to know a man to see if they click.. But nah it seems to be all about the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked for saying I'm sorry your not for me lol

Boom blocked instantly lol

They made sure they wouldn't message you by mistake in future.

Has the art of conversation been lost then.What happened to getting to know someone or do some just see this as meaningless instant sex and go x

On this site the art of conversation and getting to know someone seems to be gone. I thought ladies would like getting to know a man to see if they click.. But nah it seems to be all about the pictures. "

There are too many men for that to be practical. Harsh as it feels to be one who loses out a lot on this score, some quick judgements have to be made. All you can do is make the best of your profile and accept what comes.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I just got blocked for saying I'm sorry your not for me lol

Boom blocked instantly lol

They made sure they wouldn't message you by mistake in future.

Has the art of conversation been lost then.What happened to getting to know someone or do some just see this as meaningless instant sex and go x

On this site the art of conversation and getting to know someone seems to be gone. I thought ladies would like getting to know a man to see if they click.. But nah it seems to be all about the pictures. "

It’s a false position though. Not everyone is here to get to know people (I am and I’m clear in what I want) but there are a gazillion factors that lead people to make quick decisions about whether they want to do that... not all physical It could be something in the profile, something in the message, location, relationship status, sexuality..... those things are hugely personal.

We make snap decisions face to face to. And more often than not our gut feel is correct.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked for saying I'm sorry your not for me lol

Boom blocked instantly lol

They made sure they wouldn't message you by mistake in future.

Has the art of conversation been lost then.What happened to getting to know someone or do some just see this as meaningless instant sex and go x

On this site the art of conversation and getting to know someone seems to be gone. I thought ladies would like getting to know a man to see if they click.. But nah it seems to be all about the pictures.

There are too many men for that to be practical. Harsh as it feels to be one who loses out a lot on this score, some quick judgements have to be made. All you can do is make the best of your profile and accept what comes."

You forgot to mention to many that are full of there own self importance and look at others as objects to use to get there own way.

But you have the right way of going about is and just take what comes if you like what comes your way lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol... I think I blocked you as out of your age range

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yes. I know not everyone is going to like me. I just counter block "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever gone to view someones profile only to realise they have blocked you

In this instance no messages, winks or friend requests were sent ... "

I've noticed that a few times, but as someone else said I'm very clickable. These people don't know me in real life so it's not a big deal.

I only block people who've been nasty to me or a friend on here, or who have a really vile profile wrote up. Some people seem to block if they don't think they're suited to someone or they take a dislike to that individual.

I'm very dislikeable on here, but this isn't real life so i don't give a toss about people who don't know the real me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever gone to view someones profile only to realise they have blocked you

In this instance no messages, winks or friend requests were sent ...

I've noticed that a few times, but as someone else said I'm very clickable. These people don't know me in real life so it's not a big deal.

I only block people who've been nasty to me or a friend on here, or who have a really vile profile wrote up. Some people seem to block if they don't think they're suited to someone or they take a dislike to that individual.

I'm very dislikeable on here, but this isn't real life so i don't give a toss about people who don't know the real me "

Blockable not clickable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked for saying I'm sorry your not for me lol

Boom blocked instantly lol

They made sure they wouldn't message you by mistake in future.

Has the art of conversation been lost then.What happened to getting to know someone or do some just see this as meaningless instant sex and go x

On this site the art of conversation and getting to know someone seems to be gone. I thought ladies would like getting to know a man to see if they click.. But nah it seems to be all about the pictures.

There are too many men for that to be practical. Harsh as it feels to be one who loses out a lot on this score, some quick judgements have to be made. All you can do is make the best of your profile and accept what comes.

You forgot to mention to many that are full of there own self importance and look at others as objects to use to get there own way.

But you have the right way of going about is and just take what comes if you like what comes your way lol x"

Are you talking about women on here?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I see I’m blocked loads

Result !

Lies! "

Haha nah seriously ... I must intimidate loooool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Some forum users are quite touchy.

And don't we know it

Do we care?

Not really but should we ?

I don't block people from the forums, so you have nothing to care about "

Are you sure ?

I am walking a very thin rope now lol ...

Your trouble .

I knew I should nt have got involved on this thread.

*Waiting for my ban*

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How do you know so many people have blocked you when your talking about other forumites. Do you click profiles constantly. Im genuinely curious as im sure loads have blocked me but i only know of 3 and thats because i "accidently" found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will block people we don’t find attractive without even speaking to them to avoid them coming up in searches or even reaching out to us in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know so many people have blocked you when your talking about other forumites. Do you click profiles constantly. Im genuinely curious as im sure loads have blocked me but i only know of 3 and thats because i "accidently" found out"

I'm guilty of looking at profiles, when i see some comments. I'm a nosey sod who likes to have a nose at who said something, if i find their comment interesting or a little more controversial .

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

My block list has hundreds of people here on it and for several reasons. It’s my choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been blocked but we encourage it . There are so many profiles on here so if we are not for them no point us looking at their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know so many people have blocked you when your talking about other forumites. Do you click profiles constantly. Im genuinely curious as im sure loads have blocked me but i only know of 3 and thats because i "accidently" found out"

I tend to check if I’ve obviously disagreed with someone, it’s a bit of a game I play with myself - have I been blocked? Sad I know...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"How do you know so many people have blocked you when your talking about other forumites. Do you click profiles constantly. Im genuinely curious as im sure loads have blocked me but i only know of 3 and thats because i "accidently" found out

I tend to check if I’ve obviously disagreed with someone, it’s a bit of a game I play with myself - have I been blocked? Sad I know... "
id be all day checking every time i disagreed with someone

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

this is funny. I did just go to look at someones profile and guess what i was blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is funny. I did just go to look at someones profile and guess what i was blocked "

Ta-dah..!! It’s kinda bizarre isn’t it...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"this is funny. I did just go to look at someones profile and guess what i was blocked

Ta-dah..!! It’s kinda bizarre isn’t it... "
yeah and the only reason i went to check was because i hadnt noticed them before so god knows how long they been here

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Yes. I know not everyone is going to like me. I just counter block "

We are exactly the same .

It’s extremely rare we block first , but if we do find someone has blocked us , we always counter block .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I see it as a positive. They either took the time to read my profile and form an opinion, or read a forum comment and disagreed so strongly they felt compelled to block.

Both options are better than being invisible or treated with indifference. Take it as a compliment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm about to block everyone on this train if they keep complaining about the music on my headphones !!!

But set that aside I pretty much blocked everyone from messaging me and I don't hunt others so I really don't care.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

even funnier now every thread i go on i now see them on there feels like im stalking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely look at profiles so no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Some forum users are quite touchy.

And don't we know it

Do we care?

Not really but should we ?

I don't block people from the forums, so you have nothing to care about

Are you sure ?

I am walking a very thin rope now lol ...

Your trouble .

I knew I should nt have got involved on this thread.

*Waiting for my ban* "

I survive ...

Admin must be going soft

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By *otton Eye JoeMan
over a year ago

Grays & London

Yes...

Classic was I paid a compliment, they then started a conversation with me, all going great, then BLOCKED

no reason! I wasn’t rude, I wasn’t demanding?

Just frustrating

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Has anyone else been clicking on profiles to see if they're blocked or is it just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone else been clicking on profiles to see if they're blocked or is it just me? "

Glad Im the only one.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

All the time, and I block the person back if I find they have me blocked.

But recently someone made a comment on the forums "Oh you unblocked me I see", and I never had them blocked, so I wonder do people show up as having you blocked from time to time even if they havent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a mystery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I may have blocked me, but nobody else has annoyed me enough to get a block...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I may have blocked me, but nobody else has annoyed me enough to get a block... "

Oooh sounds like a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely something's wrong here

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks

We have blocked many based attitudes displayed in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have blocked many based attitudes displayed in the forum."

Your blocked based on the fact you can't construct a full sentence.

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have blocked many based attitudes displayed in the forum.

Your blocked based on the fact you can't construct a full sentence.

Sorry "

You're blocked because you used 'your' as opposed to 'you're'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have blocked many based attitudes displayed in the forum.

Your blocked based on the fact you can't construct a full sentence.

Sorry

You're blocked because you used 'your' as opposed to 'you're' "

Exactly my point .

Have a block back, because I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes quite a few actually. It makes me smile as it's usually idiots who have been insulting because well some peeps don't like rejection. My celtic and viking blood loves a good old ding dong so you better believe they block before I do

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