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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone you were interested in was not too far from your location would you meet them or would it put you off ,and how close is too close

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

My preferred meets are the ones closest to me. A guy in my own town is preferred. I find people to be as discreet as I am. So I dont worry about bumping into them in Tesco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next door is too close

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Next door is too close "
unless it's me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Next door is too close "

Is next door ugly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we won't intentionally meet local.

If we go to our local club it's probably inevitable we'll run into someone local at some point, but we try and limit the chances by not arranging meets with anyone who shows as local.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My preferred meets are the ones closest to me. A guy in my own town is preferred. I find people to be as discreet as I am. So I dont worry about bumping into them in Tesco "
I'm in a big village and there's a few swingers here a few I've met and discretion is always the byword

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Next door is too close

Is next door ugly? "

No....lol...

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Not fussed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Next door is too close

Is next door ugly?

No....lol..."
he stole her gnome lol

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Next door is too close "

I do wonder about my neighbours, they do seem very popular

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not fussed "
so bumping into them afterwards in public wouldn't faze you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Next door is too close

Is next door ugly?

No....lol...he stole her gnome lol"

I’m crying about my gnome, he’s still around but he’s hiding...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Next door is too close

Is next door ugly?

No....lol...he stole her gnome lol

I’m crying about my gnome, he’s still around but he’s hiding... "
he's come north to mine come get him

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Not fussed so bumping into them afterwards in public wouldn't faze you"

No not at all. Why would it? It is what is is

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I met a couple who live a few streets away and found she was a mum from school. I often bump into her in the local supermarket. It doesn't bother me at all.

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Next door is too close

Is next door ugly?

No....lol...he stole her gnome lol

I’m crying about my gnome, he’s still around but he’s hiding... he's come north to mine come get him"

That'll be Game of Gnomes, then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not fussed so bumping into them afterwards in public wouldn't faze you

No not at all. Why would it? It is what is is "
a couple I met own the local petrol station and insist we don't speak in public

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts

No wouldn't bother me... What has and does, is someone messaging me to tell Me they just seen me on xxxx road!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local is good, as long all are discreet

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Not fussed so bumping into them afterwards in public wouldn't faze you

No not at all. Why would it? It is what is is a couple I met own the local petrol station and insist we don't speak in public"

That’s a bit rude. You would at least smile and say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Next door is too close

Is next door ugly?

No....lol...he stole her gnome lol

I’m crying about my gnome, he’s still around but he’s hiding... he's come north to mine come get him

That'll be Game of Gnomes, then "

Lol....I like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not fussed so bumping into them afterwards in public wouldn't faze you

No not at all. Why would it? It is what is is a couple I met own the local petrol station and insist we don't speak in public

That’s a bit rude. You would at least smile and say hello "
no we agreed not to approach each other in public and they like the fact I can honour that and it's led to further meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Next door is too close

Is next door ugly?

No....lol...he stole her gnome lol

I’m crying about my gnome, he’s still around but he’s hiding... he's come north to mine come get him

That'll be Game of Gnomes, then

Lol....I like that "
I'm the gnome king and he's on the wall

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Not fussed so bumping into them afterwards in public wouldn't faze you

No not at all. Why would it? It is what is is a couple I met own the local petrol station and insist we don't speak in public

That’s a bit rude. You would at least smile and say hello no we agreed not to approach each other in public and they like the fact I can honour that and it's led to further meets"

Oh ok. Well if that’s something you’ve agreed that’s different.

Whatever tickles your pickle I spose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not fussed so bumping into them afterwards in public wouldn't faze you

No not at all. Why would it? It is what is is a couple I met own the local petrol station and insist we don't speak in public

That’s a bit rude. You would at least smile and say hello no we agreed not to approach each other in public and they like the fact I can honour that and it's led to further meets

Oh ok. Well if that’s something you’ve agreed that’s different.

Whatever tickles your pickle I spose "
oh she's tickled my pickle a few times lol x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I would never meet anyone local to me.

Made that mistake when I first joined.

30mile exclusion zone round my house - suits me

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Having accidentally had a social with my cousin with hubby, I tend to look further afield

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having accidentally had a social with my cousin with hubby, I tend to look further afield "
lol at least family get togethers wont be bpring

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Having accidentally had a social with my cousin with hubby, I tend to look further afield lol at least family get togethers wont be bpring"

Not a close cousin, thankfully... I did think he looked vaguely familiar

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I used to see a man who only lived 500 yards away, his sister was my friend at school he would ring after he got home from work and I would pop round

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having accidentally had a social with my cousin with hubby, I tend to look further afield lol at least family get togethers wont be bpring

Not a close cousin, thankfully... I did think he looked vaguely familiar "
lol I always ask for pics if I meet someone from Gainsborough as I have family there and friends who know them so I don't want my activities getting about lol

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Depend on who it was, If they was well known on fab having regular meets I probably wouldn't meet just because I like to keep a low profile on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to see a man who only lived 500 yards away, his sister was my friend at school he would ring after he got home from work and I would pop round "
that's what u call convenience

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends. I’d need to ensure they didn’t have nightmare potential

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I prefer someone close makes satisfying those spontaneous urges a lot more easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been seeing someone who is a 10 minute bus ride away from mine. I'm very lucky he found me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy who was staying next door to me once. We waved at each other from our windows first

He was only up here for a week though, I was living next door to a block of serviced apartments at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love in an elevator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a girl from Reading, as we spoke and got to know each other we started to give a bit more away as to where we were and yep, you guessed it, literally around the corner! It worked really well, booty call each way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a local meet, cuts down on travelling time. X

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I love local meets, instant fuck and satisfaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend who it was. As long as they appreciate boundaries it wouldn’t be an issue for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to meet a woman that's a few minutes away ... It'd be perfect for if she needs some attention/loving we could get together in minutes I'd drop everything I'm doing and head there straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My town is too small for me to be comfortable with that. Meets need to be from at least 6 miles away, if not more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone you were interested in was not too far from your location would you meet them or would it put you off ,and how close is too close "
yes as im in love with her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My town is too small for me to be comfortable with that. Meets need to be from at least 6 miles away, if not more... "
so when u look to see who's close do u ignore anyone that's within touching distance

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Local would be my preferance because I'm looking for a fwb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If your in a bigger town or city would it bother you more than if your in a small village guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather meet locally.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Next door is too close

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’ve met one of the neighbours previously ... I

Like close

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I met the next door neighbour's ex son in law from off here. It was a bloody surprise to say the least. But oh what good times we had.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"If someone you were interested in was not too far from your location would you meet them or would it put you off ,and how close is too close "

We’re all adults in this lifestyle, and know how to be discreet, it’s part of the fun I think, doing what we do, and keeping this from our vanilla lives

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are but some people are scared you will put them in public if your to close

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