FabSwingers.com forum: Posting pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do anyone else here feel they don't want to post pics of themselves where they think they look good.. in case of disappointing people when you meet up?

Hope I'm making sense in my d*unkeness tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've felt like that before.

Then I've thought fuck it and posted them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl mine are shite but all much, much better than I look irl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do anyone else here feel they don't want to post pics of themselves where they think they look good.. in case of disappointing people when you meet up?

Hope I'm making sense in my d*unkeness tonight "

I used to but fuck it, who cares? I look like me, some days better than others lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think, I don't want to show too much, leave something to the imagination, and then I get over-excited while I've got my camera out, lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No. I'm not going to post the ones where I look like a hippo in a corset.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See if I took the time and effort to take pics, I could get some good shots and I could even make my D look huge with angles lol.. But I don't think I would be truly representing myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to look my best. So my pictures are a true representation of me.... on a good day

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"See if I took the time and effort to take pics, I could get some good shots and I could even make my D look huge with angles lol.. But I don't think I would be truly representing myself.

Your call. Our pictures represent us. Obviously I don't walk round all day in lingerie or fetish wear but on a meet I would probably be wearing something like that. Just put pictures up that you're happy with, if the image is of you, you must have looked like that at the time.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Take some well focused ones in a good light and post them. .. you'll get an idea if they are popular soon enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I'm not going to post the ones where I look like a hippo in a corset."

This did make me laugh. Such a funny description

... This would be an impossible task for you

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

We have pictures from almost every viewpoint however is it realistic? Not a hundred percent no as just the height of a camera can change the whole perception of a picture... However most our meets have been people we have met in clubs who haven't previously seen our many pictures..

I think your friends only pictures and face pictures far more represent who you are, atleast for us they do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking now I might have put in too much effort - I hadn't thought about this problem at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a disclaimer on my profile to explain I'm not taking pictures of my gut... we all take our best angle.. just go for it

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"No. I'm not going to post the ones where I look like a hippo in a corset."

Nope, can't see any hippo resemblance there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a disclaimer on my profile to explain I'm not taking pictures of my gut... we all take our best angle.. just go for it

You look beautiful from all angles!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No. I'm not going to post the ones where I look like a hippo in a corset.

This did make me laugh. Such a funny description

... This would be an impossible task for you

. Can you imagine it!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think anyone who doesn't understand that people choose flattering photos of themselves... their response isn't worth dignifying.

I do wonder how those who use Photoshop etc account for the sometimes large discrepancies. (my image manipulation extends to "as many as it takes to find one that doesn't suck", sucking my stomach in, avoiding shadows, and flattering angles)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm thinking now I might have put in too much effort - I hadn't thought about this problem at all"

Effort is good and your pictures are very nice

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No. I'm not going to post the ones where I look like a hippo in a corset.

Nope, can't see any hippo resemblance there

we don't post them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No. I'm not going to post the ones where I look like a hippo in a corset.

Nope, can't see any hippo resemblance there

we don't post them

I send my FWB my worst outtakes

He's very tolerant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm thinking now I might have put in too much effort - I hadn't thought about this problem at all

Effort is good and your pictures are very nice

Well that's good to know!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"No. I'm not going to post the ones where I look like a hippo in a corset.

Nope, can't see any hippo resemblance there

we don't post them

I send my FWB my worst outtakes

He's very tolerant. "

Many out takes? You make it sound like "It Will Be Alright On The Night"

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Would only be a problem if I actually managed a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt that in a big way for years! But after over a decade of swinging and meets I no longer give a shit...if the reality of my extra chins and belly are too much for someone we're simply not compatible...

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Do anyone else here feel they don't want to post pics of themselves where they think they look good.. in case of disappointing people when you meet up?

Hope I'm making sense in my d*unkeness tonight "

Yep, I feel like that quite often but then I remember I'm fecking awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just pop on your profile...If we meet and I don't look like my photos, I will get you pissed enough till I do. At least you can gauge how good your pictures are, on how steaming she gets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do anyone else here feel they don't want to post pics of themselves where they think they look good.. in case of disappointing people when you meet up?

Hope I'm making sense in my d*unkeness tonight "

Makes me laugh how you cant say d*unk but cunt fuck twat etc are ok

Who makes these rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been chatting to someone for a little while and we recently sent live face pics, I had to apologise for how I looked with my unfiltered face and make up free face lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people choose to ignore my profile and meet me, they only have themselves to blame. I post pictures I like and don’t give a thought to them potentially setting those who meet me up for disappointment. Good pictures res are the least of my concerns

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do anyone else here feel they don't want to post pics of themselves where they think they look good.. in case of disappointing people when you meet up?

Hope I'm making sense in my d*unkeness tonight

Makes me laugh how you cant say d*unk but cunt fuck twat etc are ok

Who makes these rules? "

The owners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to point out to people that although my pics might seem "sexy" they are posed and I don't have natural sex appeal!

I usually FaceTime with people before meeting just to be sure they know what they're getting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to point out to people that although my pics might seem "sexy" they are posed and I don't have natural sex appeal!

I usually FaceTime with people before meeting just to be sure they know what they're getting! "

They do look sexy to me tho

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

I think that all the time I can't take selfies at all my pics are shit

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I look like my pics... Except the jigsaw face one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look like my pics... Except the jigsaw face one

I was thinking the other day. You remind me a bit of Steve in line of duty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I look even better in person, can never get the angles right in my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im fucking beautiful in real life too but im feeling a little horse today mind you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you! I don't want the world to see my mum tum but I do at least mention it in my profile so as to not disappoint/shock/horrify when meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely look better in my lying down photos than I do in real life!! Would never have a photo of my mum tum in all its glory without the right angle and right lighting!! Lol!!

I just work on the premise that anyone naked with me will be otherwise distracted and not concentrating on the wobbly bits!! Anyway Mr F doesn't seem put off and that's all that matters really!!

PT x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just pop on your profile...If we meet and I don't look like my photos, I will get you pissed enough till I do. At least you can gauge how good your pictures are, on how steaming she gets."

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