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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

So we have the I think it’s fab button, surely we should have a button that says “ actually sorry but I don’t like that pic”?

What you think?

Yes or no?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

No ... enough negativity on here

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Nah that just sounds a bit like being mean for the sake of it.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Why? So you can make people feel like crap? If you don't like it, just ignore it.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Nah that just sounds a bit like being mean for the sake of it. "

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Jesus h no.......be awful I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you expect users to delete their pictures just because you don't like them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Why? So you can make people feel like crap? If you don't like it, just ignore it. "

I would never do that

You obviously don’t know me...

I’m thinking about done pics which I’d rather not see.. but guess it’s just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooooooooooo!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. It'd be a further tool for nastiness. Whether you'd use it like that or not, OP.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Why? So you can make people feel like crap? If you don't like it, just ignore it.

I would never do that

You obviously don’t know me...

I’m thinking about done pics which I’d rather not see.. but guess it’s just me"

Then don't look, others might like ... it would be too open to abuse and just an excuse due people to be catty... let's encourage the positives on here ... hence the Fab button

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Why would you want to send negative messages to someone?

My granny's best bit of advice: "If you can't say anything nice about someone, best to say nothing at all."

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Nein

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

Why would you want to make someone feel like shit. You would not like it to happen to you" so dont be so mean to others.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

* shakes head* no!

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So we have the I think it’s fab button, surely we should have a button that says “ actually sorry but I don’t like that pic”?

What you think?

Yes or no?"

Seems quite cruel

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Why? So you can make people feel like crap? If you don't like it, just ignore it.

I would never do that

You obviously don’t know me...

I’m thinking about done pics which I’d rather not see.. but guess it’s just me"

Don't look then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...don't like it? Don't look...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why? So you can make people feel like crap? If you don't like it, just ignore it.

I would never do that

You obviously don’t know me...

I’m thinking about done pics which I’d rather not see.. but guess it’s just me"

I get what you were saying. I sometimes think Facebook could do with one of those. I still think no though and I don’t think you meant it in a nasty way either. Don’t let it get to you x

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Well that didn't go very well op why on earth would you want to put ppl down like that? All those pics are of real ppl with real feelings, personally if there was one all yours would be hit with it how does that make you feel? I can't imagine it feels to good hay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No will give the trolls something to do

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Sorry but no.

If I like a pic (if it tickles my fancy and other bits) I fab it.

I don't think telling someone you don't like what they look like is ever a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A better rating system would be nice for those that want to know if they are taking crappy pictures, but I feel a dislike button would just get used by angry people who got rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we have the I think it’s fab button, surely we should have a button that says “ actually sorry but I don’t like that pic”?

What you think?

Yes or no?"

Would you be the beta test?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't people doing that when they don't press the fab button?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

Peoples egos are fragile enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It probably wouldn't be workable, although there are some pictures i find ghastly, other members will be enjoying those pictures though. It's all down to personal taste and opinion. Far better to just move on from a profile showing pictures one dislikes, than bad fab them really xx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Aren't people doing that when they don't press the fab button?"

Yes they are..I never thought of that

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Well that didn't go very well op why on earth would you want to put ppl down like that? All those pics are of real ppl with real feelings, personally if there was one all yours would be hit with it how does that make you feel? I can't imagine it feels to good hay? "

Ouch that’s not very nice

I was asking a question, some pics are a little OTT

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"A better rating system would be nice for those that want to know if they are taking crappy pictures, but I feel a dislike button would just get used by angry people who got rejected "

Agreed

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"It probably wouldn't be workable, although there are some pictures i find ghastly, other members will be enjoying those pictures though. It's all down to personal taste and opinion. Far better to just move on from a profile showing pictures one dislikes, than bad fab them really xx"

Thanks for the reasonable response

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

you can use the fab button for amusement, pictures what are funny, and the what were you thinking ones

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By *iolet82Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

No, it’s unnecessary. If you don’t have anything nice to say...

Slightly off topic, but it would be good to have a way to verify time wasters.

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"No, it’s unnecessary. If you don’t have anything nice to say...

Slightly off topic, but it would be good to have a way to verify time wasters. "

Agree

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

No! That’d be horrible. Attraction is subjective and could you imagine getting lots of dislikes on your own pics? How would you feel?

Fab likes are nice and all for those that like validation but making it more of a contest just makes it negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, it’s unnecessary. If you don’t have anything nice to say...

Slightly off topic, but it would be good to have a way to verify time wasters. "

How would it?

You'd have people pressing the button to verify someone as a timewaster out of spite, or because they'd been rejected. It's too open to abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we have the I think it’s fab button, surely we should have a button that says “ actually sorry but I don’t like that pic”?

What you think?

Yes or no?"

or you could just be polite and say . Sorry but you are not what I'm looking for .

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

No I don’t like that idea. If you don’t like it then just don’t look at it.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Pathetic idea

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"No, it’s unnecessary. If you don’t have anything nice to say...

Slightly off topic, but it would be good to have a way to verify time wasters.

Agree"

Problem is, how do you stop people from abusing that?

You’d be encouraging potential mob behaviour and it’s bad enough seeing it on the forums sometimes without it also being on people’s profiles.

Sadly I haven’t heard or seen any way other than reporting to stop time wasters, so although it’s an issue that definitely needs sorting it’s just one of those things that you have to mitigate with deeper validation.

Nancy

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By *iolet82Woman
over a year ago

strathaven


"No, it’s unnecessary. If you don’t have anything nice to say...

Slightly off topic, but it would be good to have a way to verify time wasters.

How would it?

You'd have people pressing the button to verify someone as a timewaster out of spite, or because they'd been rejected. It's too open to abuse. "

I don’t know how it would be possible, but it would be helpful if it was. Perhaps an explanation of what happened or a review system...who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don’t like that idea. If you don’t like it then just don’t look at it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ... enough negativity on here"

Indeed x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

what a spiteful thing to suggest

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"No! That’d be horrible. Attraction is subjective and could you imagine getting lots of dislikes on your own pics? How would you feel?

Fab likes are nice and all for those that like validation but making it more of a contest just makes it negative."

Yeh I do get that, it was an open question really.

Hadn’t realised the backlash and personal abuse I would get from asking an honest question.

To be honest I look at some pictures and genuinely thing “oh erm that’s not a great pic”

My point is surely there should be a fab scale, so you can judge a pic say out of 10.. rather than just fab the pic?? I do understand that some people don’t like bad comments, hell I don’t!!

Trust me I get a few!!!

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Pathetic idea "

Now you are getting personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You like it or you don't.

What do you need a sliding scale of dislike for?

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"You like it or you don't.

What do you need a sliding scale of dislike for?

"

Wish I never started this now...

It was an honest question..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 28/04/19 22:17:42]

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

at least it's not about what are you having for lunch

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"[Removed by poster at 28/04/19 22:17:42]"

Yeh I guess Tosh, I just wondered what everyone thought

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

op can we keep it the forums please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You like it or you don't.

What do you need a sliding scale of dislike for?

Wish I never started this now...

It was an honest question.."

it's ok to ask . But In my opinion it's not a good idea. When I look at a profile and pics .if a lady has 20 pics I fab the ones that do it for me .so the ones I don't fab are the ones that don't . But I'm sure they will do it for lots of others . I have been known to fab all lol

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"op can we keep it the forums please"

Sorry diamond

Just trying to get an even balance to my question

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"No! That’d be horrible. Attraction is subjective and could you imagine getting lots of dislikes on your own pics? How would you feel?

Fab likes are nice and all for those that like validation but making it more of a contest just makes it negative.

Yeh I do get that, it was an open question really.

Hadn’t realised the backlash and personal abuse I would get from asking an honest question.

To be honest I look at some pictures and genuinely thing “oh erm that’s not a great pic”

My point is surely there should be a fab scale, so you can judge a pic say out of 10.. rather than just fab the pic?? I do understand that some people don’t like bad comments, hell I don’t!!

Trust me I get a few!!!

"

Even a scoring system creates a negative impact.

Scoring someone is just as bad as giving a thumbs down.

At least with a like you can be positive or not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a no, but it would probably make for an interesting experiment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get enough shit for my photos and folk telling me they’re shite, don’t need a scoring system for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You like it or you don't.

What do you need a sliding scale of dislike for?

Wish I never started this now...

It was an honest question.."

don't be sorry for posted a thread .people's different views are what forums are all about . It would be pretty boring if we all thought the same

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"I get enough shit for my photos and folk telling me they’re shite, don’t need a scoring system for it "

Trust me your pics are not shit, the latest one I really loved !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"You like it or you don't.

What do you need a sliding scale of dislike for?

Wish I never started this now...

It was an honest question.. don't be sorry for posted a thread .people's different views are what forums are all about . It would be pretty boring if we all thought the same "

Thanks

But some of the comments are too personal for my liking, have asked for thread to be removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get enough shit for my photos and folk telling me they’re shite, don’t need a scoring system for it "
yeah ive never fabbed any of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You like it or you don't.

What do you need a sliding scale of dislike for?

Wish I never started this now...

It was an honest question.. don't be sorry for posted a thread .people's different views are what forums are all about . It would be pretty boring if we all thought the same

Thanks

But some of the comments are too personal for my liking, have asked for thread to be removed"

well you shouldn't. You can not expect everyone to agree with you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this thread hit the not like button

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"You like it or you don't.

What do you need a sliding scale of dislike for?

Wish I never started this now...

It was an honest question.. don't be sorry for posted a thread .people's different views are what forums are all about . It would be pretty boring if we all thought the same

Thanks

But some of the comments are too personal for my liking, have asked for thread to be removed"

which comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think this thread hit the not like button"

How about on a scale of -1 to -10?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Hadn’t realised the backlash and personal abuse I would get from asking an honest question.

"

There has been no abuse on this thread

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

You should know by now what happens when you post and ask for opinions - a can of worms will undoubtedly open because we all have different opinions

Although it looks like a resounding NO! In this test case

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"You should know by now what happens when you post and ask for opinions - a can of worms will undoubtedly open because we all have different opinions

Although it looks like a resounding NO! In this test case "

it's not a test case if previously happened

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