FabSwingers.com forum: meets and settng them up

By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

What can be hard on here is finding its hard to find the right poeple who can fit in with your time scales

You find someone you like you cant get diarys to match

What would be good if folk in thier pfiles could say when they can meet and when they cant would make it easyer for folk to see if its possable that this perosn or cuple can meet when you can

what do folk think would that make it easyer to find what your looking for?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A lot of people do mention day time only or weekends only. I don't know if it would make it easier or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be that difficult, you've had 5 meets already this year

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Easiest way is to put what you can do on your profile as I'm guessing guys message you more than you message them.

Some folks diaries aren't set in stone as you get school holidays, your holidays, shift patterns change etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't speak for others, but I don't know that I am going to be horny and ready for a play meet two eeks on Tuesday between 6pm & 10pm

I don't mind pre-arranging socials, but for playtime I have to be in the zone - that generally only happens on the day

If meeting people socially beforehand gives us both (or all) the ease to play at short notice in the future, that's great

However, I don't have a 'rampant' button that I can flick at random and in advance

It is much easier for me to meet other blokes for this reason as, generally couples and single women have more considerations to make in their availability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decide to meet when I want. Time is irrelevant. If he's worth it, he can wait. Or I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, just use the meets and events function or put something about your availability in your profile. I'm not sure everyone can be as organised as you want.

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

"I can't speak for others, but I don't know that I am going to be horny and ready for a play meet two eeks on Tuesday between 6pm & 10pm

I don't mind pre-arranging socials, but for playtime I have to be in the zone - that generally only happens on the day

If meeting people socially beforehand gives us both (or all) the ease to play at short notice in the future, that's great

However, I don't have a 'rampant' button that I can flick at random and in advance

It is much easier for me to meet other blokes for this reason as, generally couples and single women have more considerations to make in their availability"
Love your chest

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Or how about this, it's a little off the wall, but works for me - I swap messages with people, we decide we'd like to meet, we agree a date and time that works for both of us and then we meet on that date and time.

It's quite simple really - if it panned out that we couldn't find a mutually convenient time to meet, and neither of us could be flexible to meet at a time that suited the other, then it obviously didn't mean that much to either of us, and therefore wasn't meant to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't speak for others, but I don't know that I am going to be horny and ready for a play meet two eeks on Tuesday between 6pm & 10pm

I don't mind pre-arranging socials, but for playtime I have to be in the zone - that generally only happens on the day

If meeting people socially beforehand gives us both (or all) the ease to play at short notice in the future, that's great

However, I don't have a 'rampant' button that I can flick at random and in advance

It is much easier for me to meet other blokes for this reason as, generally couples and single women have more considerations to make in their availability"

A rampant button is an excellent idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets...what are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timing and logistics just need to be right. I don’t think anything can make that easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats what the meet today featyre is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't speak for others, but I don't know that I am going to be horny and ready for a play meet two eeks on Tuesday between 6pm & 10pm

I don't mind pre-arranging socials, but for playtime I have to be in the zone - that generally only happens on the day

If meeting people socially beforehand gives us both (or all) the ease to play at short notice in the future, that's great

However, I don't have a 'rampant' button that I can flick at random and in advance

It is much easier for me to meet other blokes for this reason as, generally couples and single women have more considerations to make in their availabilityLove your chest

Thank You

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