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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've started blocking people who I interact with and theres clearly no interest. Does anyone else do this? It just saves any confusion in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do this to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've started blocking people who I interact with and theres clearly no interest. Does anyone else do this? It just saves any confusion in future"

Wish more guys done this.. fed up saying no to the same guys who forget they have messaged me.. il maybe need to start blocking them

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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No it’s not something I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, block is for wimps!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes sometimes. We block for other reasons too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I twlk to lots of people on here who im never going to meet as we like talking.

Also as life is busy sometimes its been 6 months + or even a year ive chatted before weve been able to meet.

I block weirdos...well the weirdos who arent my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just looked at my block list

There was one person on it

I don't remember why the block is there, so it's now off

If they come back to remind me why they're blocked, I might block them again

Oooh, such power in one finger

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Only if they persistently won’t take no for an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not got many on my block list

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Blocked one or two, one for the fact I never want to look at the nasty ass pic again and the other sent cut n paste msg twice in a week....DOH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've started blocking people who I interact with and theres clearly no interest. Does anyone else do this? It just saves any confusion in future"

Yep. If I message and no reply/no thankyou, don’t like what I see or don’t like some veri’s, I block. My list is massive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block those who..

a) Express and hold views on fine abhorrent..

b) Are insulting and offensive. Either directly or indirectly.

I find it a bit odd that someone would block me, just because there is no chemistry, or falling out with a friend. Chemistry, friendship, preferences.. they change over time. I may move them in and out of hotlist or friends list, but blocking seems a bit harsh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never blocked anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block those who..

a) Express and hold views on fine abhorrent..

"

Is that anyone right of stalin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've started blocking people who I interact with and theres clearly no interest. Does anyone else do this? It just saves any confusion in future

Wish more guys done this.. fed up saying no to the same guys who forget they have messaged me.. il maybe need to start blocking them"

This is the reason I’ve started doing it

It’s a bit monotonous when the same guy messaged three times in a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I tend to block very few. Lots block me and that’s fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block those who..

a) Express and hold views on fine abhorrent..

Is that anyone right of stalin? "

Not at all.. just the especially cunty types

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve only blocked those that are rude or aggressive or really cannot take no for an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came across this the other day. I was in the thread on the forum which required the next person to send a message etc. to the person above. I discovered I was blocked. To my knowledge I'd never been in contact so it's a mystery why. So, using the block button in this way can limit your use of Fab ...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't "cold message" very often so blocking to prevent a repeat doesn't really serve a purpose for me.

I have three people on my blocklist:

- One lady who was completely bigoted and homophobic on the forums

- One guy who persistently and repeatedly sent me "fancy a BJ?" messages

- One person who was a little too connected to my life outside Fab for comfort

I don't block easily, but understand why others (particularly ladies) do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I advise everyone who reads my profile to block me, it’s amazing how many people ignore my advice.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I came across this the other day. I was in the thread on the forum which required the next person to send a message etc. to the person above. I discovered I was blocked. To my knowledge I'd never been in contact so it's a mystery why. So, using the block button in this way can limit your use of Fab ..."

People sometimes block profiles they've looked at and have no interest in based on the profile alone, without there being any interaction, maybe age is wrong, or what they're looking for compared to the profile is different, or any number of reasons. Blocking just takes that profile out of future searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't "cold message" very often so blocking to prevent a repeat doesn't really serve a purpose for me.

I have three people on my blocklist:

- One lady who was completely bigoted and homophobic on the forums

- One guy who persistently and repeatedly sent me "fancy a BJ?" messages

- One person who was a little too connected to my life outside Fab for comfort

I don't block easily, but understand why others (particularly ladies) do"

Listen.. I've said I was sorry about those messages. You just can't let it go can you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will admit to using the block button temporarily when someone has pissed me off.. but then I sometimes grow up and unblock them. Just a way of expressing my rage

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I don't "cold message" very often so blocking to prevent a repeat doesn't really serve a purpose for me.

I have three people on my blocklist:

- One lady who was completely bigoted and homophobic on the forums

- One guy who persistently and repeatedly sent me "fancy a BJ?" messages

- One person who was a little too connected to my life outside Fab for comfort

I don't block easily, but understand why others (particularly ladies) do

Listen.. I've said I was sorry about those messages. You just can't let it go can you "

Earnest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block anyone who winks or messages - our opening line is we dont reply to winks or messages because we don’t meet anyone off fab. We have a long block list of people who can’t read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't "cold message" very often so blocking to prevent a repeat doesn't really serve a purpose for me.

I have three people on my blocklist:

- One lady who was completely bigoted and homophobic on the forums

- One guy who persistently and repeatedly sent me "fancy a BJ?" messages

- One person who was a little too connected to my life outside Fab for comfort

I don't block easily, but understand why others (particularly ladies) do

Listen.. I've said I was sorry about those messages. You just can't let it go can you

Earnest "

Earnest P. World gives a blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We block anyone who winks or messages - our opening line is we dont reply to winks or messages because we don’t meet anyone off fab. We have a long block list of people who can’t read "

Why dont you change your settings then so they cant. Tick all the boxes. Have age range of 70_ 71. Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We block anyone who winks or messages - our opening line is we dont reply to winks or messages because we don’t meet anyone off fab. We have a long block list of people who can’t read "

You know when you just can't help but roll your eyes at how pathetic people are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We block anyone who winks or messages - our opening line is we dont reply to winks or messages because we don’t meet anyone off fab. We have a long block list of people who can’t read

Why dont you change your settings then so they cant. Tick all the boxes. Have age range of 70_ 71. Problem solved"

Because then we cant leave or recieve verifications after meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We block anyone who winks or messages - our opening line is we dont reply to winks or messages because we don’t meet anyone off fab. We have a long block list of people who can’t read

You know when you just can't help but roll your eyes at how pathetic people are "

yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block for a whole host of reasons for example ladies who just want a penpal, ladies I'm not attracted to or their interests are not mine and those ladies who are so far up their own arsed (granted I could probably say the same for men on here too).

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"We block anyone who winks or messages - our opening line is we dont reply to winks or messages because we don’t meet anyone off fab. We have a long block list of people who can’t read

Why dont you change your settings then so they cant. Tick all the boxes. Have age range of 70_ 71. Problem solved

Because then we cant leave or recieve verifications after meets "

But if you don’t meet anyone off fab why is this important?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We block anyone who winks or messages - our opening line is we dont reply to winks or messages because we don’t meet anyone off fab. We have a long block list of people who can’t read

Why dont you change your settings then so they cant. Tick all the boxes. Have age range of 70_ 71. Problem solved

Because then we cant leave or recieve verifications after meets

But if you don’t meet anyone off fab why is this important? "

Its not really, but alot of people we meet want a fab verification and they want to leave us one in return. It also keeps your profile current when you want to go to a party or club event

Plus its our profile and its pretty self explanatory so if people choose to wink/message that’s their problem not ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if they persistently won’t take no for an answer"

This and if they are abusive.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"We block anyone who winks or messages - our opening line is we dont reply to winks or messages because we don’t meet anyone off fab. We have a long block list of people who can’t read

Why dont you change your settings then so they cant. Tick all the boxes. Have age range of 70_ 71. Problem solved

Because then we cant leave or recieve verifications after meets

But if you don’t meet anyone off fab why is this important?

Its not really, but alot of people we meet want a fab verification and they want to leave us one in return. It also keeps your profile current when you want to go to a party or club event

Plus its our profile and its pretty self explanatory so if people choose to wink/message that’s their problem not ours "

Fair enough but why not just change your message settings so you don’t receive any at all. Winks are just winks. Seems harsh to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block a lot - mostly tends to be the unpleasant females who then counter block which always makes me

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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago

Farnborough.

Easier to block if theres no attraction, also block idiots that mail me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block a lot - mostly tends to be the unpleasant females who then counter block which always makes me "

How fo you know theyve counter blocked unless your unblocking them to check if theyve blocked you too.

Which seems a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block a lot - mostly tends to be the unpleasant females who then counter block which always makes me

How fo you know theyve counter blocked unless your unblocking them to check if theyve blocked you too.

Which seems a bit weird"

I have NEVER unblocked anyone but occasionally hit reply privately by mistake in the forums and it tells me they have blocked me which creases me up

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have never blocked anyone yet I don’t think I will it’s just not in my nature.I know some have blocked me after exchanging messages which is fine as I wasn’t their type so if they think I would bombard them with messages which I wouldn’t I guess it’s ok to block it’s there right.I have been blocked by one young lady as I was quite keen on her but that’s my fault for been a idiot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block a lot - mostly tends to be the unpleasant females who then counter block which always makes me

How fo you know theyve counter blocked unless your unblocking them to check if theyve blocked you too.

Which seems a bit weird

I have NEVER unblocked anyone but occasionally hit reply privately by mistake in the forums and it tells me they have blocked me which creases me up"

When you block somone you csnt see thier profile or message them either. It will say that about everyone youve blocked

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I have a longggggg block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've blocked local lads mainly so I don't get those 'looks' when they invariably pop into my work! Plus under 30's locally are most likely friends with my boys!

Peach x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I message, wait a few days then block if read/deleted and no reply or receive a no thanks.

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

Those i have seen close by saves the looks and awkward moment.

Those that try and persuade you to meet even after a no.

And those that get on ok at 1st and for some reason they change the subject line to sexual chat online.

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