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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

About 60 % of the people/women here say that a funny guy , someone who make em laugh is what they want !!

Is that true? They wouldn't compromise on the physical or the FACE lol

Ps : my experience whenever I joked about something , got an instant block. Nobody can take it apparently

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I love someone that can make me laugh, I laugh a lot. It isn’t at the exclusion of everything else though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your/their humour!

I love someone with a similar sense of humour to mine, I’ve had some hilarious first messages which make me reply because I’ve had a giggle.

Humour is great, but I have to fancy them too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My humour usually goes right over everyone s heads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love someone that can make me laugh, I laugh a lot. It isn’t at the exclusion of everything else though. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody has Jasper Carrott as their pin up.....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Risky as a first message. Better to gauge the other person first.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I won't fuck someone just because of their humour but I will find someone a lot more attractive if they have one that's compatible with mine.

If they message off the back of a thread in an opening message and show a similar sense of humour, it's fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At first I used jk to mention that I am joking

But now it's

"JUST KIDDING" ..

And still I get a reply : what do You mean by that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love naturally funny men... I still need to fancy their face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody has Jasper Carrott as their pin up....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't fuck someone just because of their humour but I will find someone a lot more attractive if they have one that's compatible with mine.

If they message off the back of a thread in an opening message and show a similar sense of humour, it's fantastic."

This

I love those sorts of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on your/their humour!

I love someone with a similar sense of humour to mine, I’ve had some hilarious first messages which make me reply because I’ve had a giggle.

Humour is great, but I have to fancy them too! "

This for me too.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Depends on your/their humour!

I love someone with a similar sense of humour to mine, I’ve had some hilarious first messages which make me reply because I’ve had a giggle.

Humour is great, but I have to fancy them too! "

Exactly this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 60 % of the people/women here say that a funny guy , someone who make em laugh is what they want !!

Is that true? They wouldn't compromise on the physical or the FACE lol

Ps : my experience whenever I joked about something , got an instant block. Nobody can take it apparently "

Obviously you need to work on your jokes then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly, I find the place full of 2/10 women with attitude like Naomi Campbell!!!! Its a sausage fest in here to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are different types of humour though and that's the dangerous bit

What you find funny isn't necessarily funny to someone else

Sometimes when you're being serious, people think you're joking too

Loads of people at work say 'oh you're funny you' whereas I know I'm not. I'm just a bitter, opinionated, twisted cynic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 60 % of the people/women here say that a funny guy , someone who make em laugh is what they want !!

Is that true? They wouldn't compromise on the physical or the FACE lol

Ps : my experience whenever I joked about something , got an instant block. Nobody can take it apparently "
I was having a lovely convo with someone and I made a joke about kid napping them and they blocked me some people have no sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour is subjective.

Chat to the person has caught your fancy go in with a neutral message first.

Or try to mirror their style of humour if they show any signs on their profile.

Or be yourself and roll with the knockbacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 60 % of the people/women here say that a funny guy , someone who make em laugh is what they want !!

Is that true? They wouldn't compromise on the physical or the FACE lol

Ps : my experience whenever I joked about something , got an instant block. Nobody can take it apparently I was having a lovely convo with someone and I made a joke about kid napping them and they blocked me some people have no sense of humour"

That'll teach you to message the McCanns

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"About 60 % of the people/women here say that a funny guy , someone who make em laugh is what they want !!

Is that true? They wouldn't compromise on the physical or the FACE lol

Ps : my experience whenever I joked about something , got an instant block. Nobody can take it apparently

Obviously you need to work on your jokes then."

Maybe you need to work on your profile .. mr hitchhiker

Just kidding .. everybody loves a cock in their Face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to be with a miserable person who never laughs, but some humour does more to put me off than turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it’s a bugger. I had a sense of humour triple bypass a few years ago which left me as the only one who laughs at my wit and repartee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love funny and spend an awful lot of time on here crying with laughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be well on the way to arranging a meeting with a wonderful woman say something I think is funny and bam all communication stops.

I have a feeling that my sense of humour is an acquired taste that ultimately few acquire and those that do initially don’t put up with for very long once we’re chatting.

But at least I make myself laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 60 % of the people/women here say that a funny guy , someone who make em laugh is what they want !!

Is that true? They wouldn't compromise on the physical or the FACE lol

Ps : my experience whenever I joked about something , got an instant block. Nobody can take it apparently

Obviously you need to work on your jokes then.

Maybe you need to work on your profile .. mr hitchhiker

Just kidding .. everybody loves a cock in their Face "

See, that’s why you need to work on your jokes.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like someone with the same sense of humour as me. Always makes me laugh when people say someone doesnt have a sense of humour cause they do its just different to yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can be well on the way to arranging a meeting with a wonderful woman say something I think is funny and bam all communication stops.

I have a feeling that my sense of humour is an acquired taste that ultimately few acquire and those that do initially don’t put up with for very long once we’re chatting.

But at least I make myself laugh "

I do that...make myself laugh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can be well on the way to arranging a meeting with a wonderful woman say something I think is funny and bam all communication stops.

I have a feeling that my sense of humour is an acquired taste that ultimately few acquire and those that do initially don’t put up with for very long once we’re chatting.

But at least I make myself laugh

I do that...make myself laugh... "

I can be peeing myself laughing but then I realise I’ve just blown it on here with someone. From crying laughing to just crying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Few recent examples though

Bin chatting to a girl here for a while joking , very easy goin. She addressing me as D*ck , C*nt in all of her msgs and me taking it lightly. Gave me her number for wattsapp, wrote to her where are ya lazy cow ? Block everywhere

Save to say I reported all her msgs on fab

Another One says I am busy this afternoon with my bf , as I meet alone. I said why not kick him out for a couple of hours with JK.

Well you know what happens next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly, I find the place full of 2/10 women with attitude like Naomi Campbell!!!! Its a sausage fest in here to be fair."

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have my own "sense of humour" take it or leave it is my motto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is priority 1 flipping it the other way but im more a full package kind of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my own "sense of humour" take it or leave it is my motto "

Yep that leave it option is a well worn path on mine

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I have my own "sense of humour" take it or leave it is my motto

Yep that leave it option is a well worn path on mine "

You undermine yourself too much at some times, I'm sure you're a pretty funny guy really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a rather dark, quirky sense of humour. It's not always appreciated.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my own "sense of humour" take it or leave it is my motto

Yep that leave it option is a well worn path on mine

You undermine yourself too much at some times, I'm sure you're a pretty funny guy really "

Yep I’m funny, but my humour ultimately seems to put people off. I never know what I might think is witty that another person won’t. In life outside Fab it is less of an issue as it is just a joke that went flat. On here it can stop all communication.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I have my own "sense of humour" take it or leave it is my motto

Yep that leave it option is a well worn path on mine

You undermine yourself too much at some times, I'm sure you're a pretty funny guy really

Yep I’m funny, but my humour ultimately seems to put people off. I never know what I might think is witty that another person won’t. In life outside Fab it is less of an issue as it is just a joke that went flat. On here it can stop all communication."

Ah, so you're the Thread Killer !!!

Nice one Bro

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People just wanting one thing, without consideration of anything else, especially if there's no local shortage of said trait, aren't that abundant here. People typically have preferences that aren't exceptional of physical attraction.

Someone who demonstrates their impromptu sense of humor in the chat rooms may find themselves attractive on multiple fronts.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Exactly, I find the place full of 2/10 women with attitude like Naomi Campbell!!!! Its a sausage fest in here to be fair."

There is a higher proportion of women than 8/10 compared to Naomi

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"About 60 % of the people/women here say that a funny guy , someone who make em laugh is what they want !!

Is that true? They wouldn't compromise on the physical or the FACE lol

Ps : my experience whenever I joked about something , got an instant block. Nobody can take it apparently "

Finding someone humorous depends on many more factors than their 'sense of humour' / jokes.

It's more often the case that women laugh at or with men they find attractive........ not the other way around. The jokes can be shite. She'll still laugh.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"People just wanting one thing, without consideration of anything else, especially if there's no local shortage of said trait, aren't that abundant here. People typically have preferences that aren't exceptional of physical attraction.

Someone who demonstrates their impromptu sense of humor in the chat rooms may find themselves attractive on multiple fronts. "

I find myself attractive.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"My humour usually goes right over everyone s heads "

Your humour can laugh me into bed

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"People just wanting one thing, without consideration of anything else, especially if there's no local shortage of said trait, aren't that abundant here. People typically have preferences that aren't exceptional of physical attraction.

Someone who demonstrates their impromptu sense of humor in the chat rooms may find themselves attractive on multiple fronts.

I find myself attractive. "

Ive performed stand up and got laughs but not phone numbers after the gig. Women like a guy they are attracted to who makes them laugh. If they dont like you physically then unless they grow to love you through being friends then the sense of humour and banter thing is not gonna do it alone.

75% is looks/appearance/sense of humour

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"People just wanting one thing, without consideration of anything else, especially if there's no local shortage of said trait, aren't that abundant here. People typically have preferences that aren't exceptional of physical attraction.

Someone who demonstrates their impromptu sense of humor in the chat rooms may find themselves attractive on multiple fronts.

I find myself attractive.

Ive performed stand up and got laughs but not phone numbers after the gig. Women like a guy they are attracted to who makes them laugh. If they dont like you physically then unless they grow to love you through being friends then the sense of humour and banter thing is not gonna do it alone.

75% is looks/appearance/sense of humour"

25% sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men think that a sense of humour is demonstrated by a relentless barrage of recycled one-liners,to some people this is no doubt hilarious, to me I'm afraid it suggests a vacuity and lack of imagination.

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