FabSwingers.com forum: How important is a name

By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

A guy just told me he wouldn't see me (anyway) because of my name. Admittedly he was trying to be nasty as I had just turned him down but got me thinking. My name isn't fashionable but it belongs to me and I didn't really think it was all that important but am I wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t fuck anyone with the same name as my dad....or whatever I name my son. So names are important in that sense

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Your username or your given name?

Usernames do put me off sometimes.

Given name, I can't see why it would matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t fuck anyone with the same name as my dad....or whatever I name my son. So names are important in that sense "

I was also speaking to a man called Karl and couldn’t meet him cause us Scottish folk can’t say the bloody name Karl

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Maybe it was his mother’s name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy just told me he wouldn't see me (anyway) because of my name. Admittedly he was trying to be nasty as I had just turned him down but got me thinking. My name isn't fashionable but it belongs to me and I didn't really think it was all that important but am I wrong?

No it dose not mater. Some names are off putting but would not say that about yours at all

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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Your username or your given name?

Usernames do put me off sometimes.

Given name, I can't see why it would matter. "

My given name.

I agree re user names can sometimes be a bit yucky!

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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

He did say he was snobbish and I have to agree but I guess if it’s the only bad thing he could find to say about me I ought to be pleased. Like he didn’t say I can’t date you because your ugly or too fat! I’ve just not got a posh enough name, but I’m sure it could be a lot worse

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

I have never read something so bloody stupid" would not meet because of a name. What has the persons name or user name got to do with what that person is like in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never read something so bloody stupid" would not meet because of a name. What has the persons name or user name got to do with what that person is like in real life."

Well I don’t really fancy moaning ‘david’ considering it’s my dad’s name. And my unborn son - I’ve chosen a name for him and when I maybe start to meet again in a year or two, I won’t meet anyone with his name

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Names are important, sometimes your given one doesn't do much for your confidence and image, for example Marshal Djugashvili changed his name to Stalin and Corporal Schuckelgruber changed his name to Hitler!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He messaged you then after you turned him down he said he wouldn't meet you anyway because of your real name?

How bizarre.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Had a few user names that have put me off. Couldn't care about a person's given name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He did say he was snobbish and I have to agree but I guess if it’s the only bad thing he could find to say about me I ought to be pleased. Like he didn’t say I can’t date you because your ugly or too fat! I’ve just not got a posh enough name, but I’m sure it could be a lot worse

Is your real name Waynetta?

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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"He messaged you then after you turned him down he said he wouldn't meet you anyway because of your real name?

How bizarre."

Correct .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds like an absolute gobshite. Sounds like he doesn't rake rejection too well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic! You turned him down and he said 'well I never liked you anyway!' Some people are ridiculous, but I'm glad that they are as I need to find my amusement somewhere

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'm trying to think of a name that may put me off someone...Gertrude,

Harold maybe. I wouldn't like to think so.

No...I wouldn't judge a person just on their name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Ive said it before but a Nigel would upset me. Sorry all you lovely Nigels. I would have to think up a pet name for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask for names, I don't want to know. So if they do tell me their name I won't meet them.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I am put off by some profile names but I’m not bothered by their real names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bussy sounds snippier than my birth name, Englebert Shufflebottom

I'll stick with it thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely some profile names.. Big turn off.

Real names don't bother us.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How very bizarre!

I can’t see how a name alone would put someone off meeting.

I’ve met men with the same name as my dad and I can assure you he’s not on my mind at the time...

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Couldn’t meet someone who had the same name as my cat

But as that’s Monty or when he’s done wrong, Shitler, it’s quite rare, so it’s not happened yet

Lex

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By *illing2016Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I went out with a girl called Sharon many many years ago. We never had sex, but the foreplay was amazing. I say, have you ever lived in Shropshire?

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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I went out with a girl called Sharon many many years ago. We never had sex, but the foreplay was amazing. I say, have you ever lived in Shropshire? "

No sorry can’t claim that was me!

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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

He sounds like an absolute gobshite. Sounds like he doesn't rake rejection too well"

Agreed !!

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Won't meet people with names like

Fanny smasher

Shagger4u

Pumpinhoes

Rammer

Cock4u....

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I see nothing wrong with your name op. Great pictures too

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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I see nothing wrong with your name op. Great pictures too

Well thanks I take that as a big compliment looking at yours. Yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t fuck a man called Nigel or Derek, I just couldn’t do it

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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I couldn’t fuck a man called Nigel or Derek, I just couldn’t do it

I know a very sexy guy called Nigel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn’t fuck a man called Nigel or Derek, I just couldn’t do it

I know a very sexy guy called Nigel

So do I but...Nigel!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How very bizarre!

I can’t see how a name alone would put someone off meeting.

I’ve met men with the same name as my dad and I can assure you he’s not on my mind at the time...

This. All alart from meeting your dad

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I wouldn’t fuck anyone with the same name as my dad....or whatever I name my son. So names are important in that sense "

Your hubby is safe

I've had messages from men, same name as my ex. No!

One the other day. Oh his photos, swoon. Profile, ticked every box.

2nd message, gave his real name.

My dad's name, also son No2s middle name.

No. Just no.

Anything family related, is an isn't no for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldnt fuck a fanny oh wait urm i didnt mean that

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I wouldn’t fuck anyone with the same name as my dad....or whatever I name my son. So names are important in that sense

Your hubby is safe

I've had messages from men, same name as my ex. No!

One the other day. Oh his photos, swoon. Profile, ticked every box.

2nd message, gave his real name.

My dad's name, also son No2s middle name.

No. Just no.

Anything family related, is an isn't no for me

Fucking auto carrot

*instant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A name is just something two adults agreed before they even knew you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usernames put me off but actual names definitely not. Even if it’s the same name as a family member it doesn’t. It’s not that person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest if anyone had the same name as my crazy ex I'd struggle big time saying it out loud.. so unless they were my perfect match I'd avoid..

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Usernames put me off but actual names definitely not. Even if it’s the same name as a family member it doesn’t. It’s not that person!

This for me too.

Some user names are rather off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usernames put me off but actual names definitely not. Even if it’s the same name as a family member it doesn’t. It’s not that person!

exactly my thought process.

Jeeez if that that was case I would be completely fucked and not in a good way either...

#popularname

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Usernames yes....

Real names.. Hmmm... Maybe if I associated a name with someone I dislike. Same kind of reasons why new parents rule out certain names for their kids... 'oh I went to school with a xyz and he bullied me'. If I didn't know someone, that might be enough... But tbh on here I tend to chat with people for quite a while before real names are exchanged, so I have already formed a rapport and gotten to know them a little by then, so finding out their real name won't make any difference

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