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When does it become harrasment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So from what I can tell when a super hot wexy bloom comes onto a woman it's fine but when a ugly bloke does it its sexual harrasment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hot sexy bloke

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Can you clarify please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever it is unwelcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to discuss. That theory is nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a wexy bloom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can you clarify please. "
I keep getting arrested for harrasment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love a wexy bloom "
dont you just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes, the attractiveness of the man is irrelevant.

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By *ucy LouWoman
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Simply unwanted or unsolicited attention is harassment.

If the attention is enjoyed or appreciated then all is good.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Whenever it is unwelcome."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Simply unwanted or unsolicited attention is harassment.

If the attention is enjoyed or appreciated then all is good."
exactly. So when it's someone you would consider ugly its obviously unwanted. But can we not take this post too serious as it was tongue in cheek

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Simply unwanted or unsolicited attention is harassment.

If the attention is enjoyed or appreciated then all is good. exactly. So when it's someone you would consider ugly its obviously unwanted. But can we not take this post too serious as it was tongue in cheek "

An attractive guy could harass me just as easily as an ugly one. In fact, ugly ones are sometimes more likely to hear/ respect no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hot sexy bloke can be worse as their sense of expectation and entitlement swells their ego... Though a sweaty, ugly, smelly man with a bulbous red nose just saying hi can be just as bad

Peach x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"And yes, the attractiveness of the man is irrelevant. "

Or woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever it is unwelcome."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If their intentions are not welcome and you have told them and they persist it’s harassment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A hot sexy bloke can be worse as their sense of expectation and entitlement swells their ego... Though a sweaty, ugly, smelly man with a bulbous red nose just saying hi can be just as bad

Peach x

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If I had one either side say, in Wetherspoons on a Wednesday lunchtime, I'm probably more likely to allow the good looking one with less brain cells to nick a chip than the other. I think.

Peach x

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"A hot sexy bloke can be worse as their sense of expectation and entitlement swells their ego... Though a sweaty, ugly, smelly man with a bulbous red nose just saying hi can be just as bad

Peach x

"

Jeez, you might as well have put my name to it as you described me so well

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's true that a person will call it harassment far sooner if whoever is responsible is perceived as less attractive.

Same goes for women flashing. Attractive woman = fine.

Unattractive = not fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So from what I can tell when a super hot wexy bloom comes onto a woman it's fine but when a ugly bloke does it its sexual harrasment

Discuss "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's true that a person will call it harassment far sooner if whoever is responsible is perceived as less attractive.

Same goes for women flashing. Attractive woman = fine.

Unattractive = not fine"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's true that a person will call it harassment far sooner if whoever is responsible is perceived as less attractive.

Same goes for women flashing. Attractive woman = fine.

Unattractive = not fine"

Completely agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A hot sexy bloke can be worse as their sense of expectation and entitlement swells their ego... Though a sweaty, ugly, smelly man with a bulbous red nose just saying hi can be just as bad

Peach x

Jeez, you might as well have put my name to it as you described me so well "

Oh! That was you in Lidl this morning? Sorry but the socks and sandals distracted me

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So from what I can tell when a super hot wexy bloom comes onto a woman it's fine but when a ugly bloke does it its sexual harrasment

Discuss "

When they say no but you carry on

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

The keyword is "attractive".

So, it might be different from one to another.

One wexy bloom might be ugly to others and thus fine to some but not fine to others?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"So from what I can tell when a super hot wexy bloom comes onto a woman it's fine but when a ugly bloke does it its sexual harrasment

Discuss "

Then you can't tell shit.

If someone ( male or female ) doesn't want sexual attention there's no more to be said.

It becomes harassment if it's repeated after the person makes it clear they are not interested.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Simply unwanted or unsolicited attention is harassment.

If the attention is enjoyed or appreciated then all is good."

It's not harassment until it's made clear it's not wanted.

If someone I don't fancy makes a pass at me they haven't harassed me.....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Simply unwanted or unsolicited attention is harassment.

If the attention is enjoyed or appreciated then all is good. exactly. So when it's someone you would consider ugly its obviously unwanted. But can we not take this post too serious as it was tongue in cheek "

Putting your tongue in a strangers cheeks is harassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever it is unwelcome."

That’s literally it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So from what I can tell when a super hot wexy bloom comes onto a woman it's fine but when a ugly bloke does it its sexual harrasment

Discuss

Then you can't tell shit.

If someone ( male or female ) doesn't want sexual attention there's no more to be said.

It becomes harassment if it's repeated after the person makes it clear they are not interested. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I report harrassment if they message me then block me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I report harrassment if they message me then block me?"

You can still report them by clicking the profile.

The top bar menu still comes up above the you can’t view this profile message.

Press on the options and then report the same as any other.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"So from what I can tell when a super hot wexy bloom comes onto a woman it's fine but when a ugly bloke does it its sexual harrasment

Discuss

Then you can't tell shit.

If someone ( male or female ) doesn't want sexual attention there's no more to be said.

It becomes harassment if it's repeated after the person makes it clear they are not interested.

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That means I need to report 50% of the men that I say no thanks to

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I honestly think with some men, they forget who they messaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So from what I can tell when a super hot wexy bloom comes onto a woman it's fine but when a ugly bloke does it its sexual harrasment

Discuss "
preferred wexy bloom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly think with some men, they forget who they messaged "
how could i forget you

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

A lot of people on here like the constant barrage of messages, if they didn't they would simply block after the first message they received from someone not to their taste.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

When it's unwanted attention here or in real life and you've already said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s some truth to the Op. If a handsome guy was talking about sexual things to me or being suggestive I’d go along with it and have a flirt. If it was a guy I wasn’t attracted to I’d tell him to shut the fuck up.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"A lot of people on here like the constant barrage of messages, if they didn't they would simply block after the first message they received from someone not to their taste. "

Problem I find is if I block every guy I don't think I want to meet on the first instance, which could be any reason, even for having an too new profile with no photos to share, I be constantly blocking. My block list is too long as it is. So now I just block people who keep messaging after I said no and I haven't changed my minds about them. Occasionally I do change my mind about people, especially if they made the effort to improve their profile etc

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen

Don't think a person's attractiveness makes any difference, harassment is simply communication with someone in any form when it's not welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s some truth to the Op. If a handsome guy was talking about sexual things to me or being suggestive I’d go along with it and have a flirt. If it was a guy I wasn’t attracted to I’d tell him to shut the fuck up. "

Yep this is life. Unfortunately I'm not handsome enough to be a successful pervert lol.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"So from what I can tell when a super hot wexy bloom comes onto a woman it's fine but when a ugly bloke does it its sexual harrasment

Discuss "

Or when a woman choose it to be.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Simply unwanted or unsolicited attention is harassment.

If the attention is enjoyed or appreciated then all is good."

Harassment is unwanted behaviour which you find offensive or which makes you feel intimidated or humiliated. It can happen on its own or alongside other forms of discrimination. Unwanted behaviour could be: spoken or written words or abuse. offensive emails, tweets or comments on social networking sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy once shouted across to a stranger..

"hey woman come here and let me lick your pussy woman"

I don't think I'd of got away with it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

[Removed by poster at 06/06/20 18:42:52]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what happens if it's ur ex and he's stalking you n harassing you on here?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"So what happens if it's ur ex and he's stalking you n harassing you on here? "

You keep all messages etc and report it to the police and fab admin.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Simply unwanted or unsolicited attention is harassment.

If the attention is enjoyed or appreciated then all is good.

Harassment is unwanted behaviour which you find offensive or which makes you feel intimidated or humiliated. It can happen on its own or alongside other forms of discrimination. Unwanted behaviour could be: spoken or written words or abuse. offensive emails, tweets or comments on social networking sites."

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