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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If your out with a lad who doesn't let u pay, would you tell him that your on your period? If you weren't interested xx

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

No idea why paying and period are connected....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What advice do you need? You've asked a question, that doesn't make much sense to me.

When I had periods I also paid my share of a night out. I would tell them I was on period, if I was interested. We usually still had sex. I wouldn't bother to tell them anything like that if I wasn't interested. I'd just thank them for the night out and say goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in he expects sex in return for paying for a night out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a bit tight expecting the man to pay for tampons just because the woman is on her period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever thought she might have actually been on her period ?

She might have gone on the date feeling shit but not wanting to let you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your out with a lad who doesn't let u pay, would you tell him that your on your period? If you weren't interested xx "

Asking for a friend? That old chestnut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don’t want sex I say just that, regardless if I haven’t paid my way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"If I don’t want sex I say just that, regardless if I haven’t paid my way."

Yeah, it was brutal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just tell him I don’t want to have sex.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not sure how the two are connected.

But if someone thought them paying was a virtue and meant I owed them something, and I got a whiff of that, I'd be out of there.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"If your out with a lad who doesn't let u pay, would you tell him that your on your period? If you weren't interested xx "

This is why I dont like being paid for,some people then think they've bought "the right" to have sex with me.

I find it uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your out with a lad who doesn't let u pay, would you tell him that your on your period? If you weren't interested xx

This is why I dont like being paid for,some people then think they've bought "the right" to have sex with me.

I find it uncomfortable. "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If your out with a lad who doesn't let u pay, would you tell him that your on your period? If you weren't interested xx

This is why I dont like being paid for,some people then think they've bought "the right" to have sex with me.

I find it uncomfortable. "

Bingo. That and sometimes it comes with other weird views about women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe. If he was expecting sex because he'd paid and I didn't want sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ever thought she might have actually been on her period ?

She might have gone on the date feeling shit but not wanting to let you down"

No i get that maybe i could of phrased it better, but i went on a date earlier, and I said i dunno whats wrong with me, I'm really irritable, think I'm due my man period lol

An she said mine came earlier, now would you tell if yo werent interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your out with a lad who doesn't let u pay, would you tell him that your on your period? If you weren't interested xx

This is why I dont like being paid for,some people then think they've bought "the right" to have sex with me.

I find it uncomfortable.

Bingo. That and sometimes it comes with other weird views about women. "
nahhh i dont think it gives me the right

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"If your out with a lad who doesn't let u pay, would you tell him that your on your period? If you weren't interested xx

This is why I dont like being paid for,some people then think they've bought "the right" to have sex with me.

I find it uncomfortable.

Bingo. That and sometimes it comes with other weird views about women. "

Yep.

Strangely, the men I have paid for haven't given me sex. What am I doing wrong? Were they on their period?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Be a gentleman..treat your date .. don't expect sex period or not..the two things aren't conditional one on the other

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Ever thought she might have actually been on her period ?

She might have gone on the date feeling shit but not wanting to let you down

No i get that maybe i could of phrased it better, but i went on a date earlier, and I said i dunno whats wrong with me, I'm really irritable, think I'm due my man period lol

An she said mine came earlier, now would you tell if yo werent interested"

It sounds to me like she was just telling you that she is menstruating. Some people are more open about sharing information than others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be a gentleman..treat your date .. don't expect sex period or not..the two things aren't conditional one on the other"

I don't expect it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever thought she might have actually been on her period ?

She might have gone on the date feeling shit but not wanting to let you down

No i get that maybe i could of phrased it better, but i went on a date earlier, and I said i dunno whats wrong with me, I'm really irritable, think I'm due my man period lol

An she said mine came earlier, now would you tell if yo werent interested"

She may have just dropped it in just so you didn't get any funny ideas by refusing to let her pay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I don’t want sex I say just that, regardless if I haven’t paid my way.

Yeah, it was brutal. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ever thought she might have actually been on her period ?

She might have gone on the date feeling shit but not wanting to let you down

No i get that maybe i could of phrased it better, but i went on a date earlier, and I said i dunno whats wrong with me, I'm really irritable, think I'm due my man period lol

An she said mine came earlier, now would you tell if yo werent interested"

I think you're over thinking this. You mentioned periods, she replied. It's no indication of her interest in you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used the "I'm on" excuse once, it didn't go down well

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Still not sure what this thread is asking but speaking personally and hopefully on behalf of most men. If I offer to pay for a meal or for drinks I do so because it's just the gentlemanly thing to do. I dont expect anything in return especially not sex. If the lady wishes to pay for the 2nd round of drinks then that's fine. I'm not a meal ticket to a free night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever thought she might have actually been on her period ?

She might have gone on the date feeling shit but not wanting to let you down"

She probably wanted something to happen, but alas it's that time of the month, so was just letting you know so you didn't get her all excited later for her to have to come out with it at the last minute.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If your out with a lad who doesn't let u pay, would you tell him that your on your period? If you weren't interested xx "

If someone wouldn't accept going half for meal or drinks etc I wouldn't meet them.

If I wasn't into them I'd say so.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What Splits said...I’m open about that stuff, you’re all big boys and it’s a perfectly normal thing. If you said the word ‘period’ and I had just come on, I would probably would have mentioned that too. Probably to explain why I zoned out a bit from time to time (cramps) and ate a metric fuckton of chocolate. It wouldn’t have anything to do with whether I was interested in jumping your bones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some threads just bemused me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your out with a lad who doesn't let u pay, would you tell him that your on your period? If you weren't interested xx "

Only if you met her on adult work.

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