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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi forumites,

I hope you are enjoying your Friday so far. I just wanted to start a new topic to see what you guys think. We all know that the most attractive (by attractive I don’t mean just looks but overall) of all men would probably get still far less attention than any other female. In fab, in Tinder and in real life

I have always wonder the reason for this. I reckon that men in general are way less picky or selective (call it desperate if you prefer) than women. And I wonder if men became like women in that sense, could the situation improve for them?

What are your thoughts on this? Also, I would hate if this thread turns into people fighting against each other. There is always room for every opinion as far as we are all respecful.

Wishing you a happy weekend

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Women have boobs, end of contest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently on dating sites the tables are turned, in that the women outnumber the men. So the women are all fighting for attention amongst hundreds of other women, for only a few men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women here aren't looking for babies (most)...

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

The cats just sat on my lap and farted!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you implying this place is full of babies or that I am a baby? Hahahaha

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Anyway, I'm not getting the *men are alot less picky* bit.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak for yourself OP, I'm not desperate, thank you very much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My bad, I wasn’t making it about you. I was just generalising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Also, I would hate if this thread turns into people fighting against each other. "

Don't worry, that never happens on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you implying this place is full of babies or that I am a baby? Hahahaha"

No, not at all, sorry, on other sites they ask for a sperm certificate and a credit report before a date.... Here it's just sex, mostly.... Unless of course you find the one

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think it's the sheer ratio of men v women ,men get a tough ride here at times.

I don't think being picky is gender specific tbh.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My bad, I wasn’t making it about you. I was just generalising "

You did say men in general, not all men.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

There’s been quite a few previous threads about this OP.

The general consensus seems to be that majority of men think with their appendage whereas most women think intelligently.

Please note I did say ‘majority’ not all men or women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you implying this place is full of babies or that I am a baby? Hahahaha

No, not at all, sorry, on other sites they ask for a sperm certificate and a credit report before a date.... Here it's just sex, mostly.... Unless of course you find the one "

Vasectomies rule here

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Are you implying this place is full of babies or that I am a baby? Hahahaha

No, not at all, sorry, on other sites they ask for a sperm certificate and a credit report before a date.... Here it's just sex, mostly.... Unless of course you find the one

Vasectomies rule here "

Certainly make life less complicated

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Your point is that men on here are desperate not me I can be just as pickey as a woman on here. it's my right I won't just fuck anyone that invites me too.I'm here for the life style not to get my dick wet by going through everyone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are not all tho seems to me the most desperate folks are the ones who simply dont know how to talk to people let alone what to to if they actually got a girl

I for one am far from desperate

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think the premise that this is a battle between men and women sets a difficult tone in the first place.

Generalisations have a grain of truth to them but you can't impose a generalised 'solution' and expect a 'correction' to imbalance. As Steel mentioned, the numbers work the other way on dating sites.

Not all women are feted on here. I have tested the pickiness of men by sending FAF type messages to men. I get blocked or ignored.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


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Not all women are feted on here. I have tested the pickiness of men by sending FAF type messages to men. I get blocked or ignored.

"

Testing the pickiness?

I like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eh,,,i have become like a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very picky when it comes to ladies. Unfortunately, the ladies I pick are even pickier than me, so I'm screwed, or rather I'm not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think all women aren’t picky, and all men are desperate.

But, I do think men aren’t as picky as women. I think because males tend to be more visual, and women tend to take in everything looks, personality, chemistry etc.

Again, there are exceptions to the “rule”.

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