FabSwingers.com forum: Avatars

By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Kind of aimed at couples but everyone may have noticed a difference ..

Do you find the way people react to you, particularly in the forum, depends upon the avatar you're showing?

Personally, when Red is our avatar people assume it is Red posting ... what are your experiences?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Yes.

I get better response when i let my avatar empty with the black silhouette.

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Yes.

I get better response when i let my avatar empty with the black silhouette."

Haha .. surely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I randomly flick between whatever my latest pic is and my most fabbed.

It doesn't seem to make any odds...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples I always assume I am speaking to whoever is showing yes. The ruder the avatar the more lascivious the messages usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely notice a difference in who looks at us when I change it to D’s pic !

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

No.....they know it's me....

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"No.....they know it's me....

But are those your legs??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely. A 'cleavage' pic gets sex comments. Non sexual pics and people are more likely to talk to me like a human being.

On our couples profile we always had a pic of both of us together and people addressed us both equally and were mostly respectful.

If we changed it to just one of us the type of mail changed accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am posting most on our couples profile then I will always put a pic of me up unless it’s a ‘show this thread’ but now, we don’t really use it for the forums anymore lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ive noticed. It's both of us at the moment. I try to put the initial on, so there's less confusion

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"No.....they know it's me....

But are those your legs??"

Oi sod off you....Red was never this cheeky........

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Yes ive noticed. It's both of us at the moment. I try to put the initial on, so there's less confusion

I've started doing this more

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"No.....they know it's me....

But are those your legs??

Oi sod off you....Red was never this cheeky........

Yes she was

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"No.....they know it's me....

But are those your legs??

Oi sod off you....Red was never this cheeky........

Yes she was

Yes tis true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my gnome avatar

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I like my gnome avatar

So did I if the truth be known, although I've not seen a bad one of yours yet

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I like my gnome avatar

He,s very cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I get ignored cock out or not

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Yes.

I get better response when i let my avatar empty with the black silhouette.

Haha .. surely not"

It does - in the forum I mean.

Was confused initially but understsnd it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like my gnome avatar

He,s very cute

I gnome he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like my gnome avatar

So did I if the truth be known, although I've not seen a bad one of yours yet

Have you not, I’ll take some for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ! "

That's my experience... will either change avatar depending on poster... or sign as R or M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kind of aimed at couples but everyone may have noticed a difference ..

Do you find the way people react to you, particularly in the forum, depends upon the avatar you're showing?

Personally, when Red is our avatar people assume it is Red posting ... what are your experiences?"

Yes, a lot of people think I type with my cock, or it’s the cock talking. They’re always surprised when it’s the man behind the aforementioned cock.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Most people know by know it's red the female of the couple who posts so it makes no difference what profile pic we have.

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Kind of aimed at couples but everyone may have noticed a difference ..

Do you find the way people react to you, particularly in the forum, depends upon the avatar you're showing?

Personally, when Red is our avatar people assume it is Red posting ... what are your experiences?

Yes, a lot of people think I type with my cock, or it’s the cock talking. They’re always surprised when it’s the man behind the aforementioned cock."

Who knew??

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Yeh I agree...

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Yeh I agree...

A "

Thanks

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Yeh I agree...

Thanks

Sorry Alan took over

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Yeh I agree...

Thanks

Sorry Alan took over

This Alan gets about

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Yeh I agree...

Thanks

Sorry Alan took over

This Alan gets about

He,s seen some action our Al...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I generally assume that it's the lady of the couple posting, unless they sign off otherwise

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I cant say I've noticed,but we mainly have ones of us together as our profile pic.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My legs don't get much of a response!!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"My legs don't get much of a response!!"

Shave em

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Try another one and see what reaction this once gets

Shameless bounce also

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I do think that avatars will make a difference. I must admit that if I see a couples profile with only the female on there but the poster is the male half, it does jar a little with me.

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I do think that avatars will make a difference. I must admit that if I see a couples profile with only the female on there but the poster is the male half, it does jar a little with me. "

Will have to include more pics of us together ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All because someone said put an avatar up of who is posting if you don't want people assuming a woman is posting

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"All because someone said put an avatar up of who is posting if you don't want people assuming a woman is posting

Well I've been been on here for about 13 years, and it's generally the lady in a couple that does most of the posting, cos women can't keep their trap shut

*runs and hides

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"All because someone said put an avatar up of who is posting if you don't want people assuming a woman is posting

Changed it again

Yeah ... your fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ! "

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"All because someone said put an avatar up of who is posting if you don't want people assuming a woman is posting

Well I've been been on here for about 13 years, and it's generally the lady in a couple that does most of the posting, cos women can't keep their trap shut

*runs and hides

Not with this couple ... and you can run ... hiding would be futile

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep happens all the time but you get to learn styles and some couples only one or the other posts but yeah its tough

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Yep happens all the time but you get to learn styles and some couples only one or the other posts but yeah its tough"

That chinashop full of bull thing

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Great pic monkey nuts

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Great pic monkey nuts

Thanks Suzuki Bandit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Nah, was probably the most adorable couple here..... I can be such a twat....

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Nah, was probably the most adorable couple here..... I can be such a twat.... "

Erm .. none taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres only me here so everyone knows its me

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Theres only me here so everyone knows its me"

Oh yes

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Great pic monkey nuts

Thanks Suzuki Bandit"

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yes! My fabs/messages/views go up depending on my pic at the time

I hate blank silhouette avatars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep happens all the time but you get to learn styles and some couples only one or the other posts but yeah its tough

That chinashop full of bull thing

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"All because someone said put an avatar up of who is posting if you don't want people assuming a woman is posting

Well I've been been on here for about 13 years, and it's generally the lady in a couple that does most of the posting, cos women can't keep their trap shut

*runs and hides

Not with this couple ... and you can run ... hiding would be futile"

Chase Me.......

*said in best Duncan Norvelle voice

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Kind of aimed at couples but everyone may have noticed a difference ..

Do you find the way people react to you, particularly in the forum, depends upon the avatar you're showing?

Personally, when Red is our avatar people assume it is Red posting ... what are your experiences?"

I assumed it was Red posting until it became clear it wasn't or maybe it was ( see I'm easily confused).

Be it the Male or female my responses probably wouldn't change unless we were discussing women's stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Nah, was probably the most adorable couple here..... I can be such a twat....

Erm .. none taken

Just did it again, didn't I.....

I'm sure you guys are amazing, my excuse is I don't really know you that well

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Nah, was probably the most adorable couple here..... I can be such a twat....

Erm .. none taken

Just did it again, didn't I.....

I'm sure you guys are amazing, my excuse is I don't really know you that well

Not having a good week are ya sweet

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Nah, was probably the most adorable couple here..... I can be such a twat....

Erm .. none taken

Just did it again, didn't I.....

I'm sure you guys are amazing, my excuse is I don't really know you that well

Shovel or pick axe??

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Nah, was probably the most adorable couple here..... I can be such a twat....

Erm .. none taken

Just did it again, didn't I.....

I'm sure you guys are amazing, my excuse is I don't really know you that well

Not having a good week are ya sweet

I am crying here

Laughing(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Nah, was probably the most adorable couple here..... I can be such a twat....

Erm .. none taken

Just did it again, didn't I.....

I'm sure you guys are amazing, my excuse is I don't really know you that well

Shovel or pick axe??

I'll have a jackhammer plz....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Nah, was probably the most adorable couple here..... I can be such a twat.... "

A sweet twat though

Holly.... just so you're clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Nah, was probably the most adorable couple here..... I can be such a twat....

A sweet twat though

Holly.... just so you're clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assume it's the one in the pic posting. It can get confusing when a boob pic talks about getting a BJ!

I got in trouble the other day on the forum for flirting with a female face when it was her other half on the profile.....

That wasn't us was it?

Nah, was probably the most adorable couple here..... I can be such a twat.... "

Thanks X that’s nice of you to say and no hard feelings all is forgiven

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Kind of aimed at couples but everyone may have noticed a difference ..

Do you find the way people react to you, particularly in the forum, depends upon the avatar you're showing?

Personally, when Red is our avatar people assume it is Red posting ... what are your experiences?

I assumed it was Red posting until it became clear it wasn't or maybe it was ( see I'm easily confused).

Be it the Male or female my responses probably wouldn't change unless we were discussing women's stuff.

Monkey knows woman's stuff

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Kind of aimed at couples but everyone may have noticed a difference ..

Do you find the way people react to you, particularly in the forum, depends upon the avatar you're showing?

Personally, when Red is our avatar people assume it is Red posting ... what are your experiences?

I assumed it was Red posting until it became clear it wasn't or maybe it was ( see I'm easily confused).

Be it the Male or female my responses probably wouldn't change unless we were discussing women's stuff.

Monkey knows woman's stuff

*Cough* wait ...................yes

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Kind of aimed at couples but everyone may have noticed a difference ..

Do you find the way people react to you, particularly in the forum, depends upon the avatar you're showing?

Personally, when Red is our avatar people assume it is Red posting ... what are your experiences?

I assumed it was Red posting until it became clear it wasn't or maybe it was ( see I'm easily confused).

Be it the Male or female my responses probably wouldn't change unless we were discussing women's stuff.

Monkey knows woman's stuff

*Cough* wait ...................yes

Need proof?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Kind of aimed at couples but everyone may have noticed a difference ..

Do you find the way people react to you, particularly in the forum, depends upon the avatar you're showing?

Personally, when Red is our avatar people assume it is Red posting ... what are your experiences?

I assumed it was Red posting until it became clear it wasn't or maybe it was ( see I'm easily confused).

Be it the Male or female my responses probably wouldn't change unless we were discussing women's stuff.

Monkey knows woman's stuff

*Cough* wait ...................yes

Need proof?

She'll probably wet her nickers if she laughs

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Good question op - but no!

I always aim to make my avatar slightly suggestive/seductive but not downright rude! The rude ones are in my other pics!

Not directly related (but sort of) to the thread- I find that the tone of messages I get from guys when I have an explicit pic in hot photos is markedly different to when I have a dressed/covered lingerie pic up!

Ie explicit pic = requests to fuck my arse tonight!

Lingerie/dressed pic = request to take me to dinner!

This weekend I’m going to dinner!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Kind of aimed at couples but everyone may have noticed a difference ..

Do you find the way people react to you, particularly in the forum, depends upon the avatar you're showing?

Personally, when Red is our avatar people assume it is Red posting ... what are your experiences?

I assumed it was Red posting until it became clear it wasn't or maybe it was ( see I'm easily confused).

Be it the Male or female my responses probably wouldn't change unless we were discussing women's stuff.

Monkey knows woman's stuff

*Cough* wait ...................yes

Need proof?

She'll probably wet her nickers if she laughs

Hehhhhhhhh my weak bladder is no laughing matter clock cock

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Good question op - but no!

I always aim to make my avatar slightly suggestive/seductive but not downright rude! The rude ones are in my other pics!

Ie explicit pic = requests to fuck my arse tonight!

Lingerie/dressed pic = request to take me to dinner!

This weekend I’m going to dinner!

I do find myself wanting to walk up some stairs now ...

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By *ed-monkey OP Couple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Kind of aimed at couples but everyone may have noticed a difference ..

Do you find the way people react to you, particularly in the forum, depends upon the avatar you're showing?

Personally, when Red is our avatar people assume it is Red posting ... what are your experiences?

I assumed it was Red posting until it became clear it wasn't or maybe it was ( see I'm easily confused).

Be it the Male or female my responses probably wouldn't change unless we were discussing women's stuff.

Monkey knows woman's stuff

*Cough* wait ...................yes

Need proof?

She'll probably wet her nickers if she laughs

Hehhhhhhhh my weak bladder is no laughing matter clock cock

Lend us a tenna will ya?? Hehe

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Kind of aimed at couples but everyone may have noticed a difference ..

Do you find the way people react to you, particularly in the forum, depends upon the avatar you're showing?

Personally, when Red is our avatar people assume it is Red posting ... what are your experiences?

I assumed it was Red posting until it became clear it wasn't or maybe it was ( see I'm easily confused).

Be it the Male or female my responses probably wouldn't change unless we were discussing women's stuff.

Monkey knows woman's stuff

*Cough* wait ...................yes

Need proof?

She'll probably wet her nickers if she laughs

Hehhhhhhhh my weak bladder is no laughing matter clock cock

Lend us a tenna will ya?? Hehe"

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa d ha....................wait still laughing......ha

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