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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hush hush, eye to eye....

Are you too shy or are you a go- getter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be shy then got over it groups mind you is a different story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly shy I don't mind though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hush hush, eye to eye....

Are you too shy or are you a go- getter?"

Is that the only two options, think I’m somewhere in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shy. Really used to be, but became much more comfortable as I got older. It is much easier to be forward here as well.

You can also take your time and breathe properly which helps.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Very shy.

I’d love to be a bubbly gregarious goddess of outgoingness but it just isn’t me.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Nah if I want it, I’ll break down the door to go and get it

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 25/04/19 16:29:18]"
too shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 25/04/19 16:29:18]too shy "

Was hoping somebody would get onto that, should of known it would be you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hush hush, eye to eye....

Are you too shy or are you a go- getter?

Is that the only two options, think I’m somewhere in between. "

I was going to choose a third option but *ahem* someone would have said they fitted either side of the middle...

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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

shy until i’m in the bedroom lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go getter might be a little bit of a stretch but definitely not shy

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

On here I'm pro active. IRL I'm more reserved x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I realised how shy I actually was when we went to our first group social the other week. However if I go to something and don’t have my clothes on I’m a social butterfly

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Just lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peeps round the door of the thread...

Scuttles away to the man cave.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I’m shy and it’s a curse really.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I'm really a shy retiring type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only shy in certain situations

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Depends how bad I want something..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too shy, to the point where I've apparently got a reputation for being unfriendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shy in certain situations, very confident in others (ie work etc)

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"hush hush, eye to eye....

Are you too shy or are you a go- getter?"

I like to give it a Kaja-gogo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I just go for it. In life I'm quite shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very shy. Until I'm not..

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"On here I just go for it. In life I'm quite shy. "

Me too

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Oh, I'm definitely the shy wallflower type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know if its shyness or just an aversion to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, I'm definitely the shy wallflower type "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont know if its shyness or just an aversion to people "

This. I think I’ve become a misanthropist I really do . Find me a desert island for me and my dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too shy turtle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont know if its shyness or just an aversion to people

This. I think I’ve become a misanthropist I really do . Find me a desert island for me and my dog "

A big shotgun if anyone passes by too closely (apart from the occasional sexy pirate)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont know if its shyness or just an aversion to people

This. I think I’ve become a misanthropist I really do . Find me a desert island for me and my dog

A big shotgun if anyone passes by too closely (apart from the occasional sexy pirate) "

Absolutely. And I may order a man in every now and then.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Go getter in all aspects of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go getter in all aspects of life"

Go get me a cuppa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont know if its shyness or just an aversion to people

This. I think I’ve become a misanthropist I really do . Find me a desert island for me and my dog

A big shotgun if anyone passes by too closely (apart from the occasional sexy pirate)

Absolutely. And I may order a man in every now and then. "

We will still want a shelf or two putting up for sure. Need somewhere to put the coconuts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont know if its shyness or just an aversion to people

This. I think I’ve become a misanthropist I really do . Find me a desert island for me and my dog

A big shotgun if anyone passes by too closely (apart from the occasional sexy pirate)

Absolutely. And I may order a man in every now and then.

We will still want a shelf or two putting up for sure. Need somewhere to put the coconuts. "

True! And the rubbish will need putting out too

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Very shy but also it does depend on who I’m with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood. I had selective mutism as a child and adolescent and terrible social anxiety. I'm much better now in that I've stopped caring what other people think and I'm not afraid to ask for what I want or need. I'm reserved with people I don't know, yet quite chatty and boisterous with friends and family.

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By *elshmuzzyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I'm very shy. Find it hard to reach out to people, including all you fine folks here.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"Depends on my mood. I had selective mutism as a child and adolescent and terrible social anxiety. I'm much better now in that I've stopped caring what other people think and I'm not afraid to ask for what I want or need. I'm reserved with people I don't know, yet quite chatty and boisterous with friends and family. "

Hmm I can somehow relate to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, slightly bipolar I reckon....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, slightly bipolar I reckon.... "

Crackers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood. I had selective mutism as a child and adolescent and terrible social anxiety. I'm much better now in that I've stopped caring what other people think and I'm not afraid to ask for what I want or need. I'm reserved with people I don't know, yet quite chatty and boisterous with friends and family. "

Same with me, I'm fine with people I'm already comfortable with. Unfortunately, as a single male on here I'm required to make all the running so I end up feeling acutely uncomfortable because I'm afraid I'll just get blanked and ignored - which is exactly what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood. I had selective mutism as a child and adolescent and terrible social anxiety. I'm much better now in that I've stopped caring what other people think and I'm not afraid to ask for what I want or need. I'm reserved with people I don't know, yet quite chatty and boisterous with friends and family.

Same with me, I'm fine with people I'm already comfortable with. Unfortunately, as a single male on here I'm required to make all the running so I end up feeling acutely uncomfortable because I'm afraid I'll just get blanked and ignored - which is exactly what happens."

Don't give up because you're afraid of being ignored. The more you practice the easier it gets. In January I spoke at an NHS event for 10 minutes in front of about 100 people. I've gone from selective mutism to that! Just keep slowly pushing your boundaries, little by little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, slightly bipolar I reckon....

Crackers"

Faf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay! Awesome song! Haven't heard It in a while and now it's stuck in my head thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very shy ....its a pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, slightly bipolar I reckon....

Crackers

Faf? "

7pm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, slightly bipolar I reckon....

Crackers

Faf?

7pm?"

Yeah ok

What wss this huge beautiful one you had earlier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, slightly bipolar I reckon....

Crackers

Faf?

7pm?

Yeah ok

What wss this huge beautiful one you had earlier? "

Eh?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood. I had selective mutism as a child and adolescent and terrible social anxiety. I'm much better now in that I've stopped caring what other people think and I'm not afraid to ask for what I want or need. I'm reserved with people I don't know, yet quite chatty and boisterous with friends and family.

Same with me, I'm fine with people I'm already comfortable with. Unfortunately, as a single male on here I'm required to make all the running so I end up feeling acutely uncomfortable because I'm afraid I'll just get blanked and ignored - which is exactly what happens.

Don't give up because you're afraid of being ignored. The more you practice the easier it gets. In January I spoke at an NHS event for 10 minutes in front of about 100 people. I've gone from selective mutism to that! Just keep slowly pushing your boundaries, little by little. "

It would be a lot easier if I wasn't right all the time, especially at swinger events. Never mind clubs, I get routinely blanked at socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood. I had selective mutism as a child and adolescent and terrible social anxiety. I'm much better now in that I've stopped caring what other people think and I'm not afraid to ask for what I want or need. I'm reserved with people I don't know, yet quite chatty and boisterous with friends and family.

Same with me, I'm fine with people I'm already comfortable with. Unfortunately, as a single male on here I'm required to make all the running so I end up feeling acutely uncomfortable because I'm afraid I'll just get blanked and ignored - which is exactly what happens.

Don't give up because you're afraid of being ignored. The more you practice the easier it gets. In January I spoke at an NHS event for 10 minutes in front of about 100 people. I've gone from selective mutism to that! Just keep slowly pushing your boundaries, little by little.

It would be a lot easier if I wasn't right all the time, especially at swinger events. Never mind clubs, I get routinely blanked at socials."

Don't wait for people to talk to you, if that's what you want. Talk to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, slightly bipolar I reckon....

Crackers

Faf?

7pm?

Yeah ok

What wss this huge beautiful one you had earlier?

Eh?!?"

I think it was precipitation related.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, slightly bipolar I reckon....

Crackers

Faf?

7pm?

Yeah ok

What wss this huge beautiful one you had earlier?

Eh?!?

I think it was precipitation related..... "

Ffs!! so random.. the thunderstorm?!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yay! Awesome song! Haven't heard It in a while and now it's stuck in my head thank you "

I'm the gift that keeps on giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, slightly bipolar I reckon....

Crackers

Faf?

7pm?

Yeah ok

What wss this huge beautiful one you had earlier?

Eh?!?

I think it was precipitation related.....

Ffs!! so random.. the thunderstorm?!? "

Fucking hope so, or I hope he's blow off by 7pm at least....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, slightly bipolar I reckon....

Crackers

Faf?

7pm?

Yeah ok

What wss this huge beautiful one you had earlier?

Eh?!?

I think it was precipitation related.....

Ffs!! so random.. the thunderstorm?!?

Fucking hope so, or I hope he's blow off by 7pm at least.... "

12 minutes.. optimistic!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood. I had selective mutism as a child and adolescent and terrible social anxiety. I'm much better now in that I've stopped caring what other people think and I'm not afraid to ask for what I want or need. I'm reserved with people I don't know, yet quite chatty and boisterous with friends and family.

Same with me, I'm fine with people I'm already comfortable with. Unfortunately, as a single male on here I'm required to make all the running so I end up feeling acutely uncomfortable because I'm afraid I'll just get blanked and ignored - which is exactly what happens.

Don't give up because you're afraid of being ignored. The more you practice the easier it gets. In January I spoke at an NHS event for 10 minutes in front of about 100 people. I've gone from selective mutism to that! Just keep slowly pushing your boundaries, little by little.

It would be a lot easier if I wasn't right all the time, especially at swinger events. Never mind clubs, I get routinely blanked at socials.

Don't wait for people to talk to you, if that's what you want. Talk to them. "

When I say people blank me, I mean I approach them, say hello and get ignored, often with a filthy look as though I've no business breathing the same air as them. And then the same people give me shit for "not getting involved".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very shy. Find it hard to reach out to people, including all you fine folks here. "

Hello.

Just join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood. I had selective mutism as a child and adolescent and terrible social anxiety. I'm much better now in that I've stopped caring what other people think and I'm not afraid to ask for what I want or need. I'm reserved with people I don't know, yet quite chatty and boisterous with friends and family.

Same with me, I'm fine with people I'm already comfortable with. Unfortunately, as a single male on here I'm required to make all the running so I end up feeling acutely uncomfortable because I'm afraid I'll just get blanked and ignored - which is exactly what happens.

Don't give up because you're afraid of being ignored. The more you practice the easier it gets. In January I spoke at an NHS event for 10 minutes in front of about 100 people. I've gone from selective mutism to that! Just keep slowly pushing your boundaries, little by little.

It would be a lot easier if I wasn't right all the time, especially at swinger events. Never mind clubs, I get routinely blanked at socials.

Don't wait for people to talk to you, if that's what you want. Talk to them.

When I say people blank me, I mean I approach them, say hello and get ignored, often with a filthy look as though I've no business breathing the same air as them. And then the same people give me shit for "not getting involved"."

Those people are obviously not worth bothering with. Perhaps you need to choose who you reach out to more carefully.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Feck ya!!!! I was singing even before opening this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood. I had selective mutism as a child and adolescent and terrible social anxiety. I'm much better now in that I've stopped caring what other people think and I'm not afraid to ask for what I want or need. I'm reserved with people I don't know, yet quite chatty and boisterous with friends and family.

Same with me, I'm fine with people I'm already comfortable with. Unfortunately, as a single male on here I'm required to make all the running so I end up feeling acutely uncomfortable because I'm afraid I'll just get blanked and ignored - which is exactly what happens.

Don't give up because you're afraid of being ignored. The more you practice the easier it gets. In January I spoke at an NHS event for 10 minutes in front of about 100 people. I've gone from selective mutism to that! Just keep slowly pushing your boundaries, little by little.

It would be a lot easier if I wasn't right all the time, especially at swinger events. Never mind clubs, I get routinely blanked at socials.

Don't wait for people to talk to you, if that's what you want. Talk to them.

When I say people blank me, I mean I approach them, say hello and get ignored, often with a filthy look as though I've no business breathing the same air as them. And then the same people give me shit for "not getting involved".

Those people are obviously not worth bothering with. Perhaps you need to choose who you reach out to more carefully. "

And yet those people are often very popular. Makes me think it's me that's the problem.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Limall

I’m not too shy

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I'm a Limahl whore...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised how shy I actually was when we went to our first group social the other week. However if I go to something and don’t have my clothes on I’m a social butterfly "

This ^^

I think my confidence correlates to the lack of clothing I'm wearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised how shy I actually was when we went to our first group social the other week. However if I go to something and don’t have my clothes on I’m a social butterfly

This ^^

I think my confidence correlates to the lack of clothing I'm wearing "

I think women can get away with that more than men

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

From being very small I have been encouraged to be outgoing. As a result I am very extrovert. To honest I’d probably do well with a little shyness.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Definitely shy "

No way!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Go getter - work and play

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