FabSwingers.com forum: Does it put guys off do you think if the woman has met bi guys?

By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

Following on from another thread. I was curious to your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't put me off huni x

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

No... Not at all. X

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Wouldn’t mind either way, providing everyone plays safe I’d have no concerns whatsoever.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It doesn't bother me in the slightest - but I'm probably not your target audience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought about it or even checked

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Following on from another thread. I was curious to your thoughts?"

Does it put you off Op?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Not for me ... none of my business

If we're meeting any lady, whatever goes on would be safe anyway

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

No not at all... just finishing my work break so will check back in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never crossed my mind.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I'm one of the unclean ones (and according to another thread, also liable to sexually assault people) so it doesn't bother me.

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

It doesn't put me off at all. In fact, it's a bit of a turn on. After all, I meet bi guys too!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course)

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"No not at all... just finishing my work break so will check back in."

What if the bi Man was a tv op?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Puts me off if anyone has gone before. Tricky these days given my age. Asked my current lover the usual question “was I the first? She replied “if you were a Butlins redcoat in 1974 the yes”.

Boom boom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course)

You beat me to it. But I’d have to fancy him not just get along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It did play on my mind, she had a bi bf who played bareback as did she with several others.

I had to condiser how many partners were involved and the numeracy of it killed the boner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No not at all... just finishing my work break so will check back in.

What if the bi Man was a tv op?"

Same as my comment above.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course)

You beat me to it. But I’d have to fancy him not just get along.

That was what the "if we were all in agreement" bit was about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course)

You beat me to it. But I’d have to fancy him not just get along.

That was what the "if we were all in agreement" bit was about

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"No not at all... just finishing my work break so will check back in.

What if the bi Man was a tv op?"

For me it just depends on the interaction I have had/having with a person and if I found them attractive then never say never

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course)

You beat me to it. But I’d have to fancy him not just get along.

Oooo interesting that could be my 1st mmf adventure lol

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Not something that's ever crossed my mind

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Puts me off if anyone has gone before. Tricky these days given my age. Asked my current lover the usual question “was I the first? She replied “if you were a Butlins redcoat in 1974 the yes”.

Boom boom"

Dont give up the day job

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"No not at all... just finishing my work break so will check back in.

What if the bi Man was a tv op?"

Off topic I know but you have great pics.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Not for me ... none of my business

If we're meeting any lady, whatever goes on would be safe anyway"

Yes. Important with any meet

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"It doesn't put me off at all. In fact, it's a bit of a turn on. After all, I meet bi guys too!

XX"

I think it would be a bit of a turn on x

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I wouldn't ask about last partners it's not our business to be fair,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the women, if she’s as stunning as you then no, no problemo.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Depends on the women, if she’s as stunning as you then no, no problemo.

You know what they say.... nice ass, shame about the face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares about the face if the arse is nice? As long as they’ve got teeth and decency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm one of the unclean ones (and according to another thread, also liable to sexually assault people) so it doesn't bother me. "

You are just the person to meet down a dark alley then. Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hasn’t bothered us at all!

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

Yes some times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not x

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Can't say as I've ever even noticed before to tell the truth. Can't see that it would.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Yes some times "

Can I ask why sometimes and not others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares (well apart from THAT person on THAT thread, bizarre to say the least), bi boys are soooooo much fun and opens up a whole new area of filthy possibilities

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Who cares (well apart from THAT person on THAT thread, bizarre to say the least), bi boys are soooooo much fun and opens up a whole new area of filthy possibilities

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something that enter my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does put some people off. I've experienced this and so have some of my friends.

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

"Following on from another thread. I was curious to your thoughts?"
don't see why it should to be honest beautiful x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner is bi. Noone has ever asked me if i meet bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had nasty messages in the past because my ex was bi so some are clearly very bothered..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think not. I've met bi guys numerous times and I've not been aware of it causing a problem for potential meets. Then again, how would I know?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

There are loads of people who would be bothered .

When we were swinging we went to the gum clinic every couple of months , and were asked every time if we played with bi men . Every time we said probably we have . So we were tested for hiv every time and had throat and anal swabs . The first time we went and told them we were swingers we were given the hep jab and it was topped up after six months . We were told we couldn’t give blood as we played with bi guys .

So don’t blame the people who say they don’t want to play with bi guys . Blame the gum clinics , the nhs , the online scare stories etc.....

Oh and it never bothered us when we were swinging whether people were bi or not . Nit one bit .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't care less. Not that it's ever come up.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

The thing with threads like this that could cause controversial discussion is you will only get the answer that seems publicly appreciate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not OP, because you are fucking awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course)

You beat me to it. But I’d have to fancy him not just get along.

Animals.. all three of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing with threads like this that could cause controversial discussion is you will only get the answer that seems publicly appreciate."

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I hope not OP, because you are fucking awesome

Aww as are you...and I don't care if it did xx

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Have had nasty messages in the past because my ex was bi so some are clearly very bothered.. "

Nasty messages, that's a bit judgemental and shit of people.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It's about the person we are meeting not their past conquests so it really don't bother us

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"It's not something that enter my head. "

It never entered my head either until a comments I'd heard.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"It's about the person we are meeting not their past conquests so it really don't bother us "

I totally agree

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"There are loads of people who would be bothered .

So don’t blame the people who say they don’t want to play with bi guys . Blame the gum clinics , the nhs , the online scare stories etc.....

Oh and it never bothered us when we were swinging whether people were bi or not . Nit one bit ."

I have found this when I have visited clinics for checks. And wondered if risk of infection was part of it or the scare mongering of it. Or do straight guys during a mmf meet with a bi guy think that they are so hot the bi guy won't be able resist the straight guy. I don't know really I was just curious to hear peoples experiences and thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are loads of people who would be bothered .

So don’t blame the people who say they don’t want to play with bi guys . Blame the gum clinics , the nhs , the online scare stories etc.....

Oh and it never bothered us when we were swinging whether people were bi or not . Nit one bit .

And some people are repulsed by it

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"Depends on the women, if she’s as stunning as you then no, no problemo.

You know what they say.... nice ass, shame about the face!"

Well know thats not true in your case. Nice ass and face

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"There are loads of people who would be bothered .

So don’t blame the people who say they don’t want to play with bi guys . Blame the gum clinics , the nhs , the online scare stories etc.....

Oh and it never bothered us when we were swinging whether people were bi or not . Nit one bit .

And some people are repulsed by it

Each to their own. I have no problem with that but being abusive about it doesn't sit well with me.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Depends on the women, if she’s as stunning as you then no, no problemo.

You know what they say.... nice ass, shame about the face!

Well know thats not true in your case. Nice ass and face

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have never ever thought about it!

Is this a thing?

I don't give a shite.

I'll meet who I want. Don't like it, don't message me.

Only an issue if you give them a platform.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take note of the increased risk to my sexual health (which is a proven fact not just predudice on my part) and it would make me take a more cautious approach to assessing the lady's sexual health.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I would take note of the increased risk to my sexual health (which is a proven fact not just predudice on my part) and it would make me take a more cautious approach to assessing the lady's sexual health. "

Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like?"

I was responding to the OP's question on would you take into account the fact a women you wanted to meet had met bi guys. I was responding yes I would and why I would.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like?

I was responding to the OP's question on would you take into account the fact a women you wanted to meet had met bi guys. I was responding yes I would and why I would."

I know you were, and I was querying why that would make you think twice over meeting any one else who has multiple partners or is a swinger, regardless of their sexuality, being as they are in the same high risk group as bisexual men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like?

I was responding to the OP's question on would you take into account the fact a women you wanted to meet had met bi guys. I was responding yes I would and why I would.

So earnest.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like?

I was responding to the OP's question on would you take into account the fact a women you wanted to meet had met bi guys. I was responding yes I would and why I would.

So earnest."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like?

I was responding to the OP's question on would you take into account the fact a women you wanted to meet had met bi guys. I was responding yes I would and why I would.

So earnest.

Foxtrot Oscar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon half the time people wouldnt even know, it wouldnt bother me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best not to admit any preferences on the forums for fear of being slagged off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best not to admit any preferences on the forums for fear of being slagged off."

Or tell any lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best not to admit any preferences on the forums for fear of being slagged off."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been asked if i met a bi guy, so I'm not sure it's something that many consider, when meeting... not the ones ive met, anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best not to admit any preferences on the forums for fear of being slagged off."

And people wonder why others lie on profiles / posts or say what they think others want to hear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best not to admit any preferences on the forums for fear of being slagged off.

And people wonder why others lie on profiles / posts or say what they think others want to hear..."

Exactly. Or they don’t say anything at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can anyone know for sure OP? Not everyone is asked or will say if they're bi (why should they?). The lady may not know.

If it bothers you then probably best not to have sex with anyone to stay on the safe side!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best not to admit any preferences on the forums for fear of being slagged off.

Or tell any lies. "

What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had guys put off when they've seen my profile info of me wanting to meet bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it would "bother me". It shouldn't and I have no prejudice against anyone because of their sexuality, but I grew up during the period of the AIDS iceberg adverts, that frightend the shit out of me. I have OCD and I make stuff up in my head, but that would give me a narrative to start.

K_S.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"How can anyone know for sure OP? Not everyone is asked or will say if they're bi (why should they?). The lady may not know.

If it bothers you then probably best not to have sex with anyone to stay on the safe side! "

I have never stayed on the safe side of life lol

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Yeah it would "bother me". It shouldn't and I have no prejudice against anyone because of their sexuality, but I grew up during the period of the AIDS iceberg adverts, that frightend the shit out of me. I have OCD and I make stuff up in my head, but that would give me a narrative to start.

K_S. "

I appreciate that x

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

"I have had guys put off when they've seen my profile info of me wanting to meet bi guys "

Are they worried they may catch bi?

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

God no'). The single woman who wants to meet me and my tv freind is a unicorn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who I meet has feck all to do with anyone else and if someone is going to take issue with me being with a bi man in the past I’d rather know so I can stop it there and find someone less flakey

Fecking buttercups

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

No it turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had guys put off when they've seen my profile info of me wanting to meet bi guys

Are they worried they may catch bi?"
I've had lots of different things said about it, some "puzzled" why I would want to meet bi sexual men, some telling me there is a more higher risk of HIV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who I meet has feck all to do with anyone else and if someone is going to take issue with me being with a bi man in the past I’d rather know so I can stop it there and find someone less flakey

Fecking buttercups"

What would be an acceptable reason for not wanting to meet you?

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