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By *irthandgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Having a nosey through local female profiles, I generally start with the pics (who doesnt?) Then read the profile (If they have bothered). Then I look at the distance to make sure they are not too local. All good, think about sending a message then I notice that they joined half an hour ago.

I stop.. for some reason a scene and line from the Shawshank Redemption pops in my head..

"Has anyone got to you yet"

I immediately feel like some kind of sexual predator about to pounce on an unsuspecting innocent..

Don't know why, I just can't be in myself to be that guy, the first one to message..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chances are theres been 50 or more guys before that have messaged anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're a single female that's been joined for half an hour, they've probably already had a couple of hundred messages already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won’t be! I’ll never forget the day I changed my filters to include men. I got 1752 messages in one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of them are fake profiles anyway

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

A new female profile gets inundated so the smart guys will wait and send one once they have been on a day or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I had no pics and wasn't verified for a few days but still the messages kept coming! As soon as a woman joins they start pouncing and it's not just one or two it's hundreds!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"A new female profile gets inundated so the smart guys will wait and send one once they have been on a day or so. "

I think I’d go one step further tbh!

If a newbie gets my attention I’ll hotlist and leave well alone for a few weeks! I’ll see what pics and statuses they post in the interim, see if they get verified - and see if they go unlos!

If all looks good after a few weeks - then I’ll message!

Softly, softly Peachy catchy monkey!

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By *irthandgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"A new female profile gets inundated so the smart guys will wait and send one once they have been on a day or so.

I think I’d go one step further tbh!

If a newbie gets my attention I’ll hotlist and leave well alone for a few weeks! I’ll see what pics and statuses they post in the interim, see if they get verified - and see if they go unlos!

If all looks good after a few weeks - then I’ll message!

Softly, softly Peachy catchy monkey! "

Oi!

I'm not monkey.

Monkey is monkey.

He has bigger thighs than me

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"A new female profile gets inundated so the smart guys will wait and send one once they have been on a day or so.

I think I’d go one step further tbh!

If a newbie gets my attention I’ll hotlist and leave well alone for a few weeks! I’ll see what pics and statuses they post in the interim, see if they get verified - and see if they go unlos!

If all looks good after a few weeks - then I’ll message!

Softly, softly Peachy catchy monkey! "

I used to do something similar, that way then it cuts out the fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A new female profile gets inundated so the smart guys will wait and send one once they have been on a day or so.

I think I’d go one step further tbh!

If a newbie gets my attention I’ll hotlist and leave well alone for a few weeks! I’ll see what pics and statuses they post in the interim, see if they get verified - and see if they go unlos!

If all looks good after a few weeks - then I’ll message!

Softly, softly Peachy catchy monkey!

Oi!

I'm not monkey.

Monkey is monkey.

He has bigger thighs than me "

He has bigger thighs than most of us. I think he must do power lifting or something, although I'm not sure as he never mentions it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block newbies anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chances are theres been 50 or more guys before that have messaged anyway... "

I bet most genuine women are put off within the first few days because of all the desperate mail they get.

The men fake profiles will stick around because it's great wank fodder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with the others, I think it was mere seconds afyer joining when we received our first message. Then the floodgates were open and they all just merged into steady stream of twattery.

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By *irthandgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"As with the others, I think it was mere seconds afyer joining when we received our first message. Then the floodgates were open and they all just merged into steady stream of twattery."

I try to maintain a respectful distance from any firm of twaterry

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