FabSwingers.com forum: “Straight” guys who wink and message other guys

By *uyforfun88 OP Man
over a year ago

here

I really don’t understand it, had a guy message me saying he’s straight but would like to play one on one with a guy. So I said buy your profile says straight not bi or bi-curious and he went off on one. Is it just me who thinks people need to be honest with themselves? Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Does my head in the amount of "straight guys" that have veris from TVs and TSs..

Just be honest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles. "

Did I just say ‘hence’ ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Did I just say ‘hence’ ?"

No Tame, you typed it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who would admit to being bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Did I just say ‘hence’ ?"

That’s lame. I said yummy the other day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who would admit to being bi.

Meeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who would admit to being bi.

Meeeee

It's ok for women to be bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Did I just say ‘hence’ ?"
I assumed you meant to type 'fence'.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles. "

And a lot of bi folks won't meet fabstraights so you pays your money and makes your choice but I know which end of the honesty scale our Fab friends and meets come from.

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By *uyforfun88 OP Man
over a year ago

here

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles. "

That’s like lying to someone just to impress them. I think just be honest and if they don’t like it so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We create our own reality

If perceptions changed, if attitudes changed, then maybe some of these guys would feel better about being 'open' ?

It is often passed off as dishonesty or as game playing with a carefree waft of the hand

There is, of course, an element of this

Some guys would also shag a damp loaf when they are horned up

However, for many guys in this position, fear, dread and self-loathing often drive the choice of label

It's rarely black & white

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Who would admit to being bi.

*raises hand*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We create our own reality

If perceptions changed, if attitudes changed, then maybe some of these guys would feel better about being 'open' ?

It is often passed off as dishonesty or as game playing with a carefree waft of the hand

There is, of course, an element of this

Some guys would also shag a damp loaf when they are horned up

However, for many guys in this position, fear, dread and self-loathing often drive the choice of label

It's rarely black & white"

A damp loaf!

. Not much makes me laugh in a morning

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"We create our own reality

If perceptions changed, if attitudes changed, then maybe some of these guys would feel better about being 'open' ?

It is often passed off as dishonesty or as game playing with a carefree waft of the hand

There is, of course, an element of this

Some guys would also shag a damp loaf when they are horned up

However, for many guys in this position, fear, dread and self-loathing often drive the choice of label

It's rarely black & white"

I agree with you.

It's early though and I really can't be arsed with this conversation *again*. Can I just cut and paste from the last bi guy thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked men for this reason.

I feel like im one of the girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is there's no 'straight to bi curious' option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and proud. Have had loads of offers from 'straight' guys. They usually insist they say straight to not get judged!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi and proud. Have had loads of offers from 'straight' guys. They usually insist they say straight to not get judged!"

Judged in what way though? See I don’t get this. Judged as in someone not wanting to meet a bi guy? That isn’t judging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi and proud. Have had loads of offers from 'straight' guys. They usually insist they say straight to not get judged!"

Do you get any offers off women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Does my head in the amount of "straight guys" that have veris from TVs and TSs..

Just be honest?"

What’s wrong with a straight man meeting a trans woman? They are a woman. TV’s obviously completely different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s wrong with a straight man meeting a trans woman? They are a woman "

I think there are many that would disagree, but that's a whole different thread entirely

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles. "

Does it put guys off do you think if the woman has met bi guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi and proud. Have had loads of offers from 'straight' guys. They usually insist they say straight to not get judged!

Do you get any offers off women? "

Some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We create our own reality

If perceptions changed, if attitudes changed, then maybe some of these guys would feel better about being 'open' ?

It is often passed off as dishonesty or as game playing with a carefree waft of the hand

There is, of course, an element of this

Some guys would also shag a damp loaf when they are horned up

However, for many guys in this position, fear, dread and self-loathing often drive the choice of label

It's rarely black & white

A damp loaf!

. Not much makes me laugh in a morning

I was going to try it. I’m not having much luck getting a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Does it put guys off do you think if the woman has met bi guys?"

Interesting question. Haven’t seen that one asked before. I wonder if it would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Does it put guys off do you think if the woman has met bi guys?"

Good question, not really thought about that one. For me it just means they are open minded and liberal, which can only be a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Does it put guys off do you think if the woman has met bi guys?"

That sounds like a thread in its own right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Does it put guys off do you think if the woman has met bi guys?

That sounds like a thread in its own right..."

It does but nobody will be honest. And the ones that do will get grief. It’s not worth it. Sad but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Does it put guys off do you think if the woman has met bi guys?"

Also does it put women and couples off?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Who would admit to being bi.

*raises hand*"

*Proudly raises another*

Bussy (as ever) has hit the nail on the head - although I do think a large number hide their sexuality to get round those who won't meet bi guys without realising there are probably more people that will meet us, and in some cases actively seek us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who would admit to being bi.

*raises hand*

*Proudly raises another*

I think you’re right. I’ve said it before. Look at the threads! It’s literally one in ten women on here who aren’t looking to meet bi guys!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Does it put guys off do you think if the woman has met bi guys?"

Wouldn't put me off in the slightest but then..well you know

As others have said an interesting question from the perspective of a straight guy - my guess is the answer you'd get on here would be an overwhelming no, and that answer would probably be more to do with the scarcity of meets for some than anything else.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Does it put guys off do you think if the woman has met bi guys?

Good question, not really thought about that one. For me it just means they are open minded and liberal, which can only be a good thing. "

I think so too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again

No comment.

Avoid

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Yes.

Does my head in the amount of "straight guys" that have veris from TVs and TSs..

Just be honest?"

and a whole bunch who along with TVs/TSs their veris are only men with a straight status !

Honesty is the only way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here we go again

No comment.

Avoid

Yeah. Said I’m done with serious threads after the other day. Good advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We create our own reality

If perceptions changed, if attitudes changed, then maybe some of these guys would feel better about being 'open' ?

It is often passed off as dishonesty or as game playing with a carefree waft of the hand

There is, of course, an element of this

Some guys would also shag a damp loaf when they are horned up

However, for many guys in this position, fear, dread and self-loathing often drive the choice of label

It's rarely black & white

A damp loaf!

. Not much makes me laugh in a morning

I was going to try it. I’m not having much luck getting a fuck

Choose well

If you go a for Kingsmill toastie, the sourdough bloomers will judge you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who would admit to being bi.

Meeeee

It's ok for women to be bi.

I'm not bi. I'm bi as fuck.

OP you don't want to be messaged by men but have your filters open to men?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

When I joined fab and got lots of guys contacting me I thought I must appear to be gay despite being straight.

Now I realise that while my pictures are a bit gay looking they contact me because most straight guys aren't that straight on here, it's not just because of my gay pictures.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Here we go again

No comment.

Avoid

My feelings too today.

I'm tired of waving the bi guy flag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience on here I get quite a few "straight" guys message me and although it does'nt really bother me I do chuckle to myself about it. I am Bi and and make no attempt to disguise it

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"I really don’t understand it, had a guy message me saying he’s straight but would like to play one on one with a guy. So I said buy your profile says straight not bi or bi-curious and he went off on one. Is it just me who thinks people need to be honest with themselves? Rant over "

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Who would admit to being bi.

I have played

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Who would admit to being bi.

Meeeee

Omg I missed that

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Who would admit to being bi.

Meeeee

It's ok for women to be bi.

Ok for women? Ermmmm

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

This has been discussed so many times and yet you still don't understand it.

I seriously suggest you meet those guys and have a deep discussion with them

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By *uyforfun88 OP Man
over a year ago

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This has been discussed so many times and yet you still don't understand it.

I seriously suggest you meet those guys and have a deep discussion with them

Meet a guy that can’t answer a simple question without loosing it? Not likely

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

This has been discussed so many times and yet you still don't understand it.

I seriously suggest you meet those guys and have a deep discussion with them

Meet a guy that can’t answer a simple question without loosing it? Not likely "

More will come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get this either. There is fab guys which is set up for men to meet other men and if this what one wants to do there is an ideal environment in which to do it.

As a bi man in a swinging relationship, I have a fabswingers couples profile for us to meet other couples, a fab singles profile to meet single women on my own and a fab guys profile to meet men.

As a bi guy on fab single males are usually blocked from messaging me. If I were straight they would definitely be blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is true alot of women won't meet or talk to guys if the profile says bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there inspired my the quality of your profile and giving a little nod to say thats shit hot pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad I'm not attracted to women. Must be a nightmare for bi males (and straight) to try and meet a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sites like this work best if everyone is able to make INFORMED choices and to do this everyone needs to be honest on their profiles! That way we are more likely to meet someone that is suited to us and the more compatible we are the better the sex............

I’ve been down on a lady more than once and several ladies have given me oral, THAT MAKES ME BI not curious or straight as I enjoy it and have been back more than once, guys need to be honest with themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi and proud. Have had loads of offers from 'straight' guys. They usually insist they say straight to not get judged!"

So because some SOME females won’t meet bi males that’s judging ???

No it’s choice and we should all be able to make informed choices!

Btw i do meet bi males, this just irritates me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi and proud. Have had loads of offers from 'straight' guys. They usually insist they say straight to not get judged!

So because some SOME females won’t meet bi males that’s judging ???

No it’s choice and we should all be able to make informed choices!

Btw i do meet bi males, this just irritates me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is true alot of women won't meet or talk to guys if the profile says bi"

There’s also a lot of honest gay and bi males that won’t meet lying bi men that protest to be straight on their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is true alot of women won't meet or talk to guys if the profile says bi"

More will than won’t I think you’ll find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Fab Straight apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is true alot of women won't meet or talk to guys if the profile says bi

More will than won’t I think you’ll find. "

Definitely, I think a lot of men use this as an excuse not to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexuality is fluid and for some guys the risk of being outed in the vanilla world as being bisexual, is too big to take. I have recognised people from the vanilla world, local to me, I would not want to know that I bi.

Unfortunately not all guys can be open about their sexuality. So don't be too harsh to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true it's better to be honest , wether certain women won't talk to bi guys or not but just in my experience when I first joined fab I had a few women stop talking to me for that reason

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By *oody69erMan
over a year ago

midlands

Mine says straight because I am straight. The amount of men who message me daily is daft . When I tell them sorry I’m straight their reply is “ it’s ok it’s only a suck “ lol .

Straight is straight . If your bi that’s fine , but you are bi

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Some guys would also shag a damp loaf when they are horned up

Damp, you say..?

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I've had more blokes message me on here than women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is true alot of women won't meet or talk to guys if the profile says bi

More will than won’t I think you’ll find. "

I have a lady friend who won't go out with a guy unless he's bi.

I an openly bi on fab and meet more women on here than the average woman meets guys.

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

I don't think it matters on this site" straight" bi etc" you can be who ever you want to be" no harm is done if they say on profile I'm straight but I want to play, it's just a word and why worry over it. It has never bothered me what someone has on profile.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I'm glad I'm not attracted to women. Must be a nightmare for bi males (and straight) to try and meet a woman."

Without wanting to sound like I am blowing my own trumpet (because I'm really not) my veris suggest otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not straight if you have verification off TVs or men I'm bi an proud to be x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"It is true alot of women won't meet or talk to guys if the profile says bi"

That's rubbish - there are *some* that won't but in my experience a heck of a lot more are either not in the slightest bit bothered by it, or actively seek bisexual guys.

A recent forum survey (which admittedly had a smallish sample) showed that something like 94% of people who responded were either not bothered or looked for bi guys.

The whole "most women won't meet bi guys" thing is largely a myth perpetuated by guys looking for something to blame for their lack of meets other than themselves.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"We create our own reality

If perceptions changed, if attitudes changed, then maybe some of these guys would feel better about being 'open' ?

It is often passed off as dishonesty or as game playing with a carefree waft of the hand

There is, of course, an element of this

Some guys would also shag a damp loaf when they are horned up

However, for many guys in this position, fear, dread and self-loathing often drive the choice of label

It's rarely black & white

A damp loaf!

. Not much makes me laugh in a morning

I want more profiles to admit to being damp loaf curious or beyond curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is true alot of women won't meet or talk to guys if the profile says bi

That's rubbish - there are *some* that won't but in my experience a heck of a lot more are either not in the slightest bit bothered by it, or actively seek bisexual guys.

A recent forum survey (which admittedly had a smallish sample) showed that something like 94% of people who responded were either not bothered or looked for bi guys.

The whole "most women won't meet bi guys" thing is largely a myth perpetuated by guys looking for something to blame for their lack of meets other than themselves."

I agree with this from personal experience. I do, however come across people who quote NHS statistics that bi guys are riddled with STDs and won't meet them for that reason.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

A straight guy will have sex and relationship with a woman.

A bi guy will have sex and relationship with a man or a woman.

A gay guy will have sex and relationship with another man.

A straight guy fooling around with a guy and never ever having any thought in his head of going on romantic dates with them, living with them, and marrying them, is just a horny straight guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A straight guy will have sex and relationship with a woman.

A bi guy will have sex and relationship with a man or a woman.

A gay guy will have sex and relationship with another man.

A straight guy fooling around with a guy and never ever having any thought in his head of going on romantic dates with them, living with them, and marrying them, is just a horny straight guy."

I think that's an old fashioned definition of bisexuality.

For instance is a person who doesn't want a relationship at all asexual? Even if they have a different sexual partner every night.

I have no interest in having a relationship with another guy. You'll have a hard time convincing anyone I'm not bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading through the thread and thinking it over maybe I was wrong you shouldn't change your profile to suit certain women who don't like bi men if they don't like them they not for you anyway,

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"I have no interest in having a relationship with another guy. You'll have a hard time convincing anyone I'm not bi."

I don't think it would be that hard. I think fully bi people who date other men would not take a lot of convincing to think you are just a horny guy and not bisexual, or just bi-curious.

I think the old fashioned view is the one where it is based 100% only on what happens in a bedroom. Crossing swords doesnt make you bi, holding another mans dick doesnt make you bi.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Did I just say ‘hence’ ?

No Tame, you typed it..."
Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest is good, I have found the block button...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"A straight guy will have sex and relationship with a woman.

A bi guy will have sex and relationship with a man or a woman.

A gay guy will have sex and relationship with another man.

A straight guy fooling around with a guy and never ever having any thought in his head of going on romantic dates with them, living with them, and marrying them, is just a horny straight guy.

I think that's an old fashioned definition of bisexuality.

For instance is a person who doesn't want a relationship at all asexual? Even if they have a different sexual partner every night.

I have no interest in having a relationship with another guy. You'll have a hard time convincing anyone I'm not bi."

And me

And I concur also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are "bi-curious" curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they are "bi-curious" curious? "
what's the difference between bi and no curious?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Maybe they are "bi-curious" curious? what's the difference between bi and no curious?"

It varies by individual definition - but for me it does what it says on the tin i.e. bi-curious - never been sexual with someone of the same sex but are curious about it

Bisexual - have been sexual with someone of the same sex and would do it again

Simple yet effective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A straight guy will have sex and relationship with a woman.

A bi guy will have sex and relationship with a man or a woman.

A gay guy will have sex and relationship with another man.

A straight guy fooling around with a guy and never ever having any thought in his head of going on romantic dates with them, living with them, and marrying them, is just a horny straight guy."

Totally disagree with that last paragraph

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Clearly confussed gentleman,straight male and bi fem here and never sent a message to another male only in a response as manners don't cost a thing, that and we're happy to get a message anyway lol

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"A straight guy will have sex and relationship with a woman.

A bi guy will have sex and relationship with a man or a woman.

A gay guy will have sex and relationship with another man.

A straight guy fooling around with a guy and never ever having any thought in his head of going on romantic dates with them, living with them, and marrying them, is just a horny straight guy.

Totally disagree with that last paragraph "

Me too

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over a year ago

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Love it when a woman says "NO BI GUYS".

When you look at her veri's most are from so called straight guys who have messaged me wanting to fuck."

Not sure why you would love it, I would feel sympathy for her that she's been misled.

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over a year ago

"Love it when a woman says "NO BI GUYS".

When you look at her veri's most are from so called straight guys who have messaged me wanting to fuck.

Not sure why you would love it, I would feel sympathy for her that she's been misled."

Your right maybe i could of been more sympathetic

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over a year ago

"Maybe they are "bi-curious" curious? what's the difference between bi and no curious?

It varies by individual definition - but for me it does what it says on the tin i.e. bi-curious - never been sexual with someone of the same sex but are curious about it

Bisexual - have been sexual with someone of the same sex and would do it again

Simple yet effective

Makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love it when a woman says "NO BI GUYS".

When you look at her veri's most are from so called straight guys who have messaged me wanting to fuck.

Not sure why you would love it, I would feel sympathy for her that she's been misled."

That will be the self satisfaction that he knows something they don't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of women on here state "no bi guys" and when you look at their veri's most are from straight guys who've messaged you wanting to meet.

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over a year ago

"A lot of women won’t meet bi or bi curious men, hence why they say straight on their profiles.

Does it put guys off do you think if the woman has met bi guys?

That sounds like a thread in its own right...

It does but nobody will be honest. And the ones that do will get grief. It’s not worth it. Sad but true "

Has anyone done a thread asking this? Interesting question but I doubt most people would be honest, for exactly the reasons you say.

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over a year ago

"Sexuality is fluid and for some guys the risk of being outed in the vanilla world as being bisexual, is too big to take. I have recognised people from the vanilla world, local to me, I would not want to know that I bi.

Unfortunately not all guys can be open about their sexuality. So don't be too harsh to judge.

Also I bet if a man says he's bi he'll be inundated with messages from horny men. If he puts straight it will cut down the desperate messages.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Unfortunately not all guys can be open about their sexuality. So don't be too harsh to judge.

Also I bet if a man says he's bi he'll be inundated with messages from horny men. If he puts straight it will cut down the desperate messages. "

Actually from personal experience and what I read on the forums the direct opposite is true.

I'll occasionally get a message despite being openly and comfortably bisexual and making it clear on my profile I'll meet guys, but honestly can't remember the last time I got one of those and know I'm not the exception from what other guys like me have said - yet we regularly see forum posts from straight guys moaning about guys contacting them.

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over a year ago

"A straight guy will have sex and relationship with a woman.

A bi guy will have sex and relationship with a man or a woman.

A gay guy will have sex and relationship with another man.

A straight guy fooling around with a guy and never ever having any thought in his head of going on romantic dates with them, living with them, and marrying them, is just a horny straight guy."

That’s complete crap

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over a year ago

BuySexual - if you can't get it you pay for it.

TrySexual - never get it but you're always trying.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"BuySexual - if you can't get it you pay for it.

TrySexual - never get it but you're always trying. "

HighSexual - 420 friendly?

ThighSexual - has a thing for legs?

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over a year ago

"BuySexual - if you can't get it you pay for it.

TrySexual - never get it but you're always trying.

HighSexual - 420 friendly?

ThighSexual - has a thing for legs?

Metrosexual - does it on the train on the way to work.

Bi-playful - can have sex and video games at the same time.

Bi-curiosity - a question you can keep asking no matter how many times you've heard the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gender fluid - starts oozing out after you've been playing with it a while.

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over a year ago

"Gender fluid - starts oozing out after you've been playing with it a while."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mff threesome - an occasion where a guy gets to disappoint two women simultaneously instead of the usual one.

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over a year ago

I don't understand how ppl get so upset about sexuality. If a guy asks another guy to play then he's interested, isn't that what matters? Don't go scaring all the shybi's away by asking for ID at the door.....

Just an opinion on the moist mist.... Yw

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over a year ago

Mmf threesome - an occasion where sometimes two hetrosexual guys discover that it's virtually impossible to share a woman without touching each other at some stage

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Pan-sexual - has a thing for those guys from the Andes and their pipes?

Hetero-flexible - Straight contortionist?

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