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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For those that are regular to the forums you might have gotten to know me a little bit and seen some of the threads I've made.

So out of curiosity how would you sum me up?

Be as brutally honest as possible I'd like see what you all come up with if anything ... And yes I know there'll be loads of bad stuff said but trust me nothing that I havent heard before will offend me, so fire away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're brave

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Bravely naive

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Who are ya? .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bravely naive"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

indian brave

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"You're brave "

I was thinking that...braver than me thats for sure!

Good luck OP I hope you get the feedback that your looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your Spartacus

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

brave

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

[Removed by poster at 24/04/19 21:46:28]

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Your Spartacus"

No!! I AM Spartacus!!!!

Oh ... and it's "you're"

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Your Spartacus

No!! I AM Spartacus!!!!

Oh ... and it's "you're" "

Eeessshhh.....DOH

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

all i know about you is you eat chillis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've got a big mug !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really noticed you being a nob, if that helps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man on a boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit needy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From your earliest forum contributions, you've come across as negative and a bit needy.

Humour has shown through little more recently.

Other than that, don't know ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your heart seems to be in the right place.... Should probably know you better.....

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

I don't judge people on what they write in forums so not going to start now

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

As this is the first time I have noticed you , I am going to err on the side of caution. I have absolutely no fooking idea who you are and feel that it's probably a teensy weensy bit deluded to imagine that people have been sitting analysing who you are and how they are going to sum you up

Anyway ..... uhmmmmmm that's it.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.

Ask again in 12 months,

As time goes by people change a lot on here

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Man on a boat. "

Oh ..... is it the bloke on the boat in the orange coat thing ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've just looked at your other pics and realised that I have seen you post

Nuff said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure as never seen you in forums

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Not sure as never seen you in forums"

I thought that but you have. Honest you have.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"As this is the first time I have noticed you , I am going to err on the side of caution. I have absolutely no fooking idea who you are and feel that it's probably a teensy weensy bit deluded to imagine that people have been sitting analysing who you are and how they are going to sum you up

Anyway ..... uhmmmmmm that's it.

"

I have never said this before..I laughed so much I did nearly spat my coffee out. Still laughing now...oh dear me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have I lol I've seen u granny x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"As this is the first time I have noticed you , I am going to err on the side of caution. I have absolutely no fooking idea who you are and feel that it's probably a teensy weensy bit deluded to imagine that people have been sitting analysing who you are and how they are going to sum you up

Anyway ..... uhmmmmmm that's it.

"

Oh btw I'm Anabelle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In need of acceptance

A bit 'full on' with some of your responses to women

I've cringed into my cushion a few times

The good news (and bad) is there's a lot more like you

I don't find you obnoxious though, so browny points for being a decent chap

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Have I lol I've seen u granny x"

I've seen your bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truthfully, I take what you say with a pinch of salt as an awful lot of what you say seems extremely far fetched.

P

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Truthfully, I take what you say with a pinch of salt as an awful lot of what you say seems extremely far fetched.

P"
actually thats mext thing i was going to post. Tells a few tall stories

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.

Unless your have been on here for a few years and posting regularly, Have something about you,

eg, Really good looks, banter or even act like a full on gobshite, You're just another single man on fab(at the moment)

All of the above come an go on a regularly on the furums

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Truthfully, I take what you say with a pinch of salt as an awful lot of what you say seems extremely far fetched.

P"

That's almost exactly what I was going to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have I lol I've seen u granny x

I've seen your bum. "
you like my bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Truthfully, I take what you say with a pinch of salt as an awful lot of what you say seems extremely far fetched.

Pactually thats mext thing i was going to post. Tells a few tall stories"

I don't think it's in a nasty way though, almost like trying too hard to get noticed or fit in.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those that are regular to the forums you might have gotten to know me a little bit and seen some of the threads I've made.

So out of curiosity how would you sum me up?

Be as brutally honest as possible I'd like see what you all come up with if anything ... And yes I know there'll be loads of bad stuff said but trust me nothing that I havent heard before will offend me, so fire away.

"

Odd and lost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing obvious comes to mind, can’t recall you being a dick or offensive.

Do some people think you’re a tad weird in your responses at times, or am I thinking of someone else?

Actually I haven’t been that helpful, have I

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

was it you who draw pictures on your dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it you that lasted for 6 hours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was your last meaningful contribution to forums op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Man on a boat.

Oh ..... is it the bloke on the boat in the orange coat thing ?"

Could have sworn it was green but it is indeed orange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - are these the answers you were expecting ?

How do you feel about them ?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"A bit needy "

i was originally thinking the same thing, but that might be just a tiny bit too harsh....

but some people just try "too hard"... and thats where i think the OP falls......

i think if you feel you have to ask people what they think of you.... what you going to do with results? change yourself into being something your not... so trying too hard again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think starting your own thread on something that is a regular participative thread kind of sums you up for me. All a bit OTT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op be your self not what everyone expects,if people don't like the real you or your opinions fuck em better to be your own person than a false expectation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless your have been on here for a few years and posting regularly, Have something about you,

eg, Really good looks, banter or even act like a full on gobshite, You're just another single man on fab(at the moment)

All of the above come an go on a regularly on the furums"

Same can be said for the majority really.

I can easily fade into the background, most of us can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like that twat corden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We fade to grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd question the wisdom and motive for a thread like this. Even of it girs reasinably well it will never get the responses to give the validation you seem keen for. But the negative responses will hurt and possibly/probably fuel the outsider comples

And what does it achieve, an opportunity for change to evolve in to a more popular forumite? I'd personally admire the integrity of just being yourself far more

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"We fade to grey"

Isn't that an May Winehouse song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We fade to grey"

Another bottom in a throng of bottoms.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'd question the wisdom and motive for a thread like this. Even of it girs reasinably well it will never get the responses to give the validation you seem keen for. But the negative responses will hurt and possibly/probably fuel the outsider comples

And what does it achieve, an opportunity for change to evolve in to a more popular forumite? I'd personally admire the integrity of just being yourself far more"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look like that twat corden"

....crossed with Jonny Vegas

Btw... I do like JC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you have said in early previous posts that you have suffered from Mental health issues, is this thread wise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We fade to grey

Isn't that an May Winehouse song "
cheesy 80s song I can't remember who by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visage rings a bell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Visage rings a bell"

That’s the one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As you have said in early previous posts that you have suffered from Mental health issues, is this thread wise? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve said my piece about you before, the last time you did this kind of thing you ended up doing a goodbye post and hid your profile for two days.

I think you are a nice bloke but I don’t think fab is the right place for you, forums yes but everything else no, the reason I say forums only is because you provide lots of ‘wtf’ and ‘did that actually happen’ posts which are entertaining.

Is this the kind of thing you was after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. Brutal, guys. But I guess he did ask.

I personally haven't seen many of your comments.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Annoying

Attention seeker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Annoying

Attention seeker "
aren't most posters to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Visage rings a bell

That’s the one "
I had t check I was right ,Google is your friend lol

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"We fade to grey

Isn't that an May Winehouse song cheesy 80s song I can't remember who by"

I like 80s reminds me of my 1st disco.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Annoying

Attention seeker aren't most posters to be fair"

True enough but if anybody genuinelly annoyed me on here I'd see that as my own failing and I'd waste my time somewhere else.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Annoying

Attention seeker aren't most posters to be fair"

You talking about me lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"As you have said in early previous posts that you have suffered from Mental health issues, is this thread wise? "

awwwwwww...... I never knew that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We fade to grey

Isn't that an May Winehouse song cheesy 80s song I can't remember who by

I like 80s reminds me of my 1st disco."
late 70s here ,my old boy was the DJ at the local community hall on a sat night ,fond memories of alpine pop and tartan trousers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Annoying

Attention seeker aren't most posters to be fair

You talking about me lol"
I'd rather be doing something else with you lol

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"For those that are regular to the forums you might have gotten to know me a little bit and seen some of the threads I've made.

So out of curiosity how would you sum me up?

Be as brutally honest as possible I'd like see what you all come up with if anything ... And yes I know there'll be loads of bad stuff said but trust me nothing that I havent heard before will offend me, so fire away.

"

I don't recall seeing you before tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't seen many of your posts so can't really say, however I think a lot of people are showing thire true colour's on this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dreadful idea OP... don't focus on what others think. Concentrate on what matters to you.

As this thread proves, this isn't the place to get affirmation. It's way too pantomime to be constructive to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't seen many of your posts so can't really say, however I think a lot of people are showing thire true colour's on this thread! "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've seen some of your comments before and thought you were making most of them up tbh.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

The OP has mental health issues . I didn't remember that. But then I dont remember him either.

I hope you haven't taken everything to heart OP this is JUST fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"The OP has mental health issues . I didn't remember that. But then I dont remember him either.

I hope you haven't taken everything to heart OP this is JUST fab x

"
I didnt either but he wouldnt have put this thread up ifvhe didnt want the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you are looking for out of this thread I hope you’re ok

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"The OP has mental health issues . I didn't remember that. But then I dont remember him either.

I hope you haven't taken everything to heart OP this is JUST fab x

I didnt either but he wouldnt have put this thread up ifvhe didnt want the truth"

Ask and you shall receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...

"

That's just plan wrong! So unless you are well known people will be Savage!!

And people wonder why new people don't stay!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do t stay because they can't cope with the bombardment of rude messages not because of character assassination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dreadful idea OP... don't focus on what others think. Concentrate on what matters to you.

As this thread proves, this isn't the place to get affirmation. It's way too pantomime to be constructive to you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People do t stay because they can't cope with the bombardment of rude messages not because of character assassination"

I would say its both and noboby has the right to do either of those things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...

That's just plan wrong! So unless you are well known people will be Savage!!

And people wonder why new people don't stay!!! "

Not quite what I said. As one of those new people once I know why many dont stay. It was my second incarnation here and a number of months before I posted anything in the forums.

Some of the comments to/about OP have been a little less than welcoming, or did I read a different thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...

That's just plan wrong! So unless you are well known people will be Savage!!

And people wonder why new people don't stay!!!

Not quite what I said. As one of those new people once I know why many dont stay. It was my second incarnation here and a number of months before I posted anything in the forums.

Some of the comments to/about OP have been a little less than welcoming, or did I read a different thread?"

It was the insinuation.

Yes some of the posts have been far from welcoming. Yes he asked a question and I'd say that was unwise to say the least however some people have been very unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...

That's just plan wrong! So unless you are well known people will be Savage!!

And people wonder why new people don't stay!!!

Not quite what I said. As one of those new people once I know why many dont stay. It was my second incarnation here and a number of months before I posted anything in the forums.

Some of the comments to/about OP have been a little less than welcoming, or did I read a different thread?

It was the insinuation.

Yes some of the posts have been far from welcoming. Yes he asked a question and I'd say that was unwise to say the least however some people have been very unnecessary. "

To be fair, a lot of his posts (that I've noticed) invite ridicule. I think he gets off on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...

That's just plan wrong! So unless you are well known people will be Savage!!

And people wonder why new people don't stay!!!

Not quite what I said. As one of those new people once I know why many dont stay. It was my second incarnation here and a number of months before I posted anything in the forums.

Some of the comments to/about OP have been a little less than welcoming, or did I read a different thread?

It was the insinuation.

Yes some of the posts have been far from welcoming. Yes he asked a question and I'd say that was unwise to say the least however some people have been very unnecessary. "

I think you are both agreeing here arent you in a roundabout way

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I don't think you've done yourself any favours with alot of what you've posted.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here."

Fair play to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here."

Yes you keep posting and if people don't like it, they can scroll on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here."

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it! "

Oh god there is not a chance in hell I would. I'm not thick skinned in the slightest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it! "

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it! "
If we did talk it must of been a long time ago... I can't even remember what it was about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved."

It is if you’re low on self esteem or maybe looking to gain confidence from it, or whatever other reason people may do this, especially as most of the comments are probably not going to be the best!l

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy to be a keyboard warrior from the safety of your home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it! If we did talk it must of been a long time ago... I can't even remember what it was about? "

Maybe it wasn’t you lol. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved."

Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.

Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts. "

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Anyone who has been on the forum knows how it works. You take it on the chin or learn from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.

Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts. "

The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.

Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone who has been on the forum knows how it works. You take it on the chin or learn from it."
the saying "don't dish what you cannot take yourself" springs into mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who has been on the forum knows how it works. You take it on the chin or learn from it. the saying "don't dish what you cannot take yourself" springs into mind "

Absolutely

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Anyone who has been on the forum knows how it works. You take it on the chin or learn from it. the saying "don't dish what you cannot take yourself" springs into mind

Absolutely "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.

Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.

The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.

Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion."

I think you have missed the point. I didn't say what should or should not be posted! I think you should reread what I said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op keep posting mate sometimes you might make yourself look an arse sometimes a genius at least your brave enough to put your thoughts forward ,some on here haven't got the balls to do that but would rather try and look big with their snide remarks about you and your character

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly dont think ive seen you post sorry op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some on here haven't got the balls to do that but would rather try and look big with their snide remarks"

Lol@ the irony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*checks notes to find out who the OP is*

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester


"some on here haven't got the balls to do that but would rather try and look big with their snide remarks

Lol@ the irony."

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*checks notes to find out who the OP is* "

The one who wanted to try BDSM, then the next day announced his departure only to come back after his dinner.

Other than that, he just seems like a regular guy to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP can I ask why you started this thread?

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

I don’t know you but ur cup is disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP can I ask why you started this thread? "

Im gonns guess boredom.

I want a thread now so i csn read something over my dinner break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.

Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.

The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.

Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion."

Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.

Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.

The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.

Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion.

Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post. "

There's nothing offensive on this thread.

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.

Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.

The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.

Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion.

Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post.

There's nothing offensive on this thread. "

Yes there is but he did ask for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP can I ask why you started this thread? "

I guess curiosity and boredom.

Wanted to see what would happen because I've been on the forums for a few months just randomly posting stuff I wanted to see how others felt about me and if I've made an impression be it good or bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.

Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.

The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.

Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion.

Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post.

There's nothing offensive on this thread.

Yes there is but he did ask for it "

Yes but...you hate everybody today so I'm not sure you're opinion should be taken into account.

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.

Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.

The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.

Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion.

Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post.

There's nothing offensive on this thread.

Yes there is but he did ask for it

Yes but...you hate everybody today so I'm not sure you're opinion should be taken into account. "

I couldn’t give a damn this thread isn’t nice and can do more harm them good to people with mental health issues which people don’t take seriously!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's no offence because i don't find anything offensive it's all good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op be your self not what everyone expects,if people don't like the real you or your opinions fuck em better to be your own person than a false expectation"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no offence because i don't find anything offensive it's all good... "

I've tried tell 'em this but they're just not having it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I couldn’t give a damn this thread isn’t nice and can do more harm them good to people with mental health issues which people don’t take seriously!!"

You seem more upset on behalf of the op than the op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I couldn’t give a damn this thread isn’t nice and can do more harm them good to people with mental health issues which people don’t take seriously!!

You seem more upset on behalf of the op than the op"

There's a lot of it about.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

You’re you OP. An individual and you sparkle in your own way. Some might not appreciate all of your posts but then again maybe someone reading the forum reads something of yours and it strikes a chord. Who knows.

Just do you.

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

I’m fed up with pple trying to belittle people and I’ve had a terrible day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless your have been on here for a few years and posting regularly, Have something about you,

eg, Really good looks, banter or even act like a full on gobshite, You're just another single man on fab(at the moment)

All of the above come an go on a regularly on the furums"

2 out of 3 aint bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies OP, but I must have missed the threads you've been starting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m fed up with pple trying to belittle people and I’ve had a terrible day "

x

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"For those that are regular to the forums you might have gotten to know me a little bit and seen some of the threads I've made.

So out of curiosity how would you sum me up?

Be as brutally honest as possible I'd like see what you all come up with if anything ... And yes I know there'll be loads of bad stuff said but trust me nothing that I havent heard before will offend me, so fire away.

"

You don't have boobs so I haven't noticed you, sorry.

Hope you're enjoying the forums though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m fed up with pple trying to belittle people and I’ve had a terrible day "

There is a lot of it about on here unfortunately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m fed up with pple trying to belittle people and I’ve had a terrible day

There is a lot of it about on here unfortunately! "

Oh yay! Couples profile! Congrats both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m fed up with pple trying to belittle people and I’ve had a terrible day

There is a lot of it about on here unfortunately!

Oh yay! Couples profile! Congrats both "

Thank you, I swapped back to my profile because I keep forgetting to put the L at the bottom and I'm much much more gobby than Ash!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m fed up with pple trying to belittle people and I’ve had a terrible day

There is a lot of it about on here unfortunately!

Oh yay! Couples profile! Congrats both

Thank you, I swapped back to my profile because I keep forgetting to put the L at the bottom and I'm much much more gobby than Ash! "

I do the same! Haha. I'm remembering a little more often now, so it gets easier . I'm so happy for you

H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP. Some comments you have made have given me an eyebrow raise, but all in all you seem like a decent guy and are fitting in well in the forums. It's always good to see new people contributing on here and enjoying the community

H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started very whiney but stepped up your game of late

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I’m fed up with pple trying to belittle people and I’ve had a terrible day

There is a lot of it about on here unfortunately!

Oh yay! Couples profile! Congrats both "

Yay! That's lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.

Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.

Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!

I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.

Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.

The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.

Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion.

Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post.

There's nothing offensive on this thread. "

It was an observation, not specific to this thread.

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