FabSwingers.com forum: Don't leave me!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One of my friends deleted their account and another is contemplating it.

It got me thinking what will be the reason you finally hang up your fab boots?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perm ban or unlikly as it is heartbreak

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

When the soles are worn right through and we can't wear them any longer.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I've been here so long I forgot that I don't actually have to stay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum and dad join!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mum and dad join!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal circumstances, when real life becomes more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When the soles are worn right through and we can't wear them any longer."

Love that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mum and dad join!

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or my boy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My mum and dad join!

But I thought your mum had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it all the time. I usually come back though. I guess it will be when I can’t be arsed coming back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my friends deleted their account and another is contemplating it.

It got me thinking what will be the reason you finally hang up your fab boots?"
I've thought about it when I found my sister on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When im buried wearing mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Tis an intriguing question

For me I think, it will be a case of there’s no-one really who I click with in the local area, (one still holds out hope at this stage) take a break and completely forget to come back

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"One of my friends deleted their account and another is contemplating it.

It got me thinking what will be the reason you finally hang up your fab boots?I've thought about it when I found my sister on here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide my account usually while I work things out. I know if I deleted my account I’d probably not get verified again so starting from scratch isn’t an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The inevitable heart attack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So when I go I will have decided there is nothing to keep me here any longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I fucked my way through fab. I feel I will die before that happens though!

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Prob be when I’m banned or my new partner says enough is enough ha ha.

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By *dinSon99Man
over a year ago

East Northants

When it becomes an obsession and not fun

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"When it becomes an obsession and not fun"

When the fun stops, stop

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

When I don't enjoy my time on here x

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

When rubidoux asks me to marry her

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"When I don't enjoy my time on here x"

Same

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

"When I don't enjoy my time on here x

Same

Hello you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I accidentally update my Facebook status instead of my Fab one

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

When I finally get Clem and Lib in an MMF with me. Or, I return to celibacy next year. Whichever comes first.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

When it isn’t fun anymore or I just get tired of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it isn’t fun anymore or I just get tired of it

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my fanny seals itself up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it's not fun or find someone I don't want to share..

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've deleted my account a few times over the years, a few times 'for good', for various reasons.

I'm not sure what would make me delete permanently as several of the reasons already given were my motivation in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If and when I ever grow out of it I suppose.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"When my fanny seals itself up."

Or drops off

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

When I feel like I'm not getting anything from it any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Times change and it doesn’t have the same desire as it once did and if you feel that way leave, you can always come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boredom, or love, it's happened before....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boots are already hung up. Can't meet, even for a coffee.

Not deleting because the forums are sometimes interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it stops being fun

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Impotence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

:- (I'm sure I've seen that slogan somewhere else too??)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my friends deleted their account and another is contemplating it.

It got me thinking what will be the reason you finally hang up your fab boots?"

Why did they leave/ thinking of leaving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we’ve decided we’ve had enough x

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I think two things would have to align to make me leave:

Firstly - that I meet mr Rightish and, god forbid, he takes me down the path of monogamy. (Though tbh I’d introduce him to the social side of swinging in that case!)

Secondly - If the many friends I’ve made on here all leave fab - in which case there’d be no point hanging around!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age, so September most likely. I can't find anyone local that isn't a cockwomble. I'll revert to fucking a farmer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One of my friends deleted their account and another is contemplating it.

It got me thinking what will be the reason you finally hang up your fab boots?

Why did they leave/ thinking of leaving?"

One decided to concentrate on dating and the other is contemplating where they fit in.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If I decide the dating game is worth going back to, or I'm getting too old for this site. Happily single currently and indulging in my passion for crossdressing but if I met someone special, I can see me hanging up my knee high leather boots

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"If I decide the dating game is worth going back to, or I'm getting too old for this site. Happily single currently and indulging in my passion for crossdressing but if I met someone special, I can see me hanging up my knee high leather boots

Wouldn’t you look for someone who can embrace that side of you too? Rather than feeling compelled to hang your heels up? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it isn’t fun anymore or I just get tired of it

This!"

Hopes the two of you never get tired of anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the forums, so who knows, one of life’s great mysteries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossible to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it starts to interfere with RL or stops being fun. I've become a bit of a compulsive forum checker so I'm considering deleting too. I won't look back from my deathbed and think 'if only I'd spent more time on Internet forums'.....

Time to get back on track me thinks.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Wouldn’t you look for someone who can embrace that side of you too? Rather than feeling compelled to hang your heels up? X"

It's difficult to find that elusive woman, although my Wife and two previous girlfriends didn't have an issue with it. I mean more in the way of my bisexual side and having sex in a non emotional way.

With a new partner I'd want to be more monogamous unless she'd embrace the lifestyle.

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"Personal circumstances, when real life becomes more important "

Funnily that’s why we started

Our life circumstances are unusually stressful and this gave us release .

I do sometimes think I’m heading towards 50 and ‘should ‘ give up and then I think fuck it to what society tells me I should and should nt do

If it feels good to dress up and play out with other likeminded individuals and it makes you feel good inside and gives you that naughty happy buzz ,

then what is an ‘appropriate age ‘ to stop ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really does sound like the Hotel California.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It really does sound like the Hotel California....."

It truly is, its like quitting smoking, you need a distraction or life changing event. This place is like crack.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It really does sound like the Hotel California.....

It truly is, its like quitting smoking, you need a distraction or life changing event. This place is like crack..... "

I know what I'd do to your crack.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Personal circumstances, when real life becomes more important

Funnily that’s why we started

Our life circumstances are unusually stressful and this gave us release .

I do sometimes think I’m heading towards 50 and ‘should ‘ give up and then I think fuck it to what society tells me I should and should nt do

If it feels good to dress up and play out with other likeminded individuals and it makes you feel good inside and gives you that naughty happy buzz ,

then what is an ‘appropriate age ‘ to stop ? "

For you? About 80! You’re bloody gorgeous and I’m sure you’ve got many decades of sexiness in you yet!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"It really does sound like the Hotel California.....

It truly is, its like quitting smoking, you need a distraction or life changing event. This place is like crack..... "

You like crack?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the site becomes crap. Usually caused by a better/different site somewhere. Just our personal experience over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only really here for the forums so I suppose if they removed the forums or I got a forum ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It really does sound like the Hotel California.....

It truly is, its like quitting smoking, you need a distraction or life changing event. This place is like crack.....

You like crack?

Vagina, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It really does sound like the Hotel California.....

It truly is, its like quitting smoking, you need a distraction or life changing event. This place is like crack.....

I know what I'd do to your crack. "

I don't, do tell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personal circumstances, when real life becomes more important

Funnily that’s why we started

Our life circumstances are unusually stressful and this gave us release .

I do sometimes think I’m heading towards 50 and ‘should ‘ give up and then I think fuck it to what society tells me I should and should nt do

If it feels good to dress up and play out with other likeminded individuals and it makes you feel good inside and gives you that naughty happy buzz ,

then what is an ‘appropriate age ‘ to stop ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide my account usually while I work things out. I know if I deleted my account I’d probably not get verified again so starting from scratch isn’t an option."

I regret deleting my original account as lost all my veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide my account usually while I work things out. I know if I deleted my account I’d probably not get verified again so starting from scratch isn’t an option.

I regret deleting my original account as lost all my veris

I feel that, I had some beautiful ones from OP.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hide my account usually while I work things out. I know if I deleted my account I’d probably not get verified again so starting from scratch isn’t an option.

I regret deleting my original account as lost all my veris

I feel that, I had some beautiful ones from OP.....

They were works of art!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personal circumstances, when real life becomes more important "
All the above and when it becomes meaningless which I feel it's now becoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide my account usually while I work things out. I know if I deleted my account I’d probably not get verified again so starting from scratch isn’t an option.

I regret deleting my original account as lost all my veris

I feel that, I had some beautiful ones from OP.....

They were works of art! "

Truly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I go travelling for a few months. Won’t be for a good while yet though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it starts to interfere with RL or stops being fun. I've become a bit of a compulsive forum checker so I'm considering deleting too. I won't look back from my deathbed and think 'if only I'd spent more time on Internet forums'.....

Time to get back on track me thinks. "

Or I could just ask the mods to give me a permanent forum ban

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"Personal circumstances, when real life becomes more important

Funnily that’s why we started

Our life circumstances are unusually stressful and this gave us release .

I do sometimes think I’m heading towards 50 and ‘should ‘ give up and then I think fuck it to what society tells me I should and should nt do

If it feels good to dress up and play out with other likeminded individuals and it makes you feel good inside and gives you that naughty happy buzz ,

then what is an ‘appropriate age ‘ to stop ?

For you? About 80! You’re bloody gorgeous and I’m sure you’ve got many decades of sexiness in you yet!

Lol thanks

I’ve def aged a fair bit since last time I saw you but we’re still horny as

xx how are ya ? Xx

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

The day after my threesome with Sheridan Smith and Holly Willoughbooby

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Personal circumstances, when real life becomes more important

Funnily that’s why we started

Our life circumstances are unusually stressful and this gave us release .

I do sometimes think I’m heading towards 50 and ‘should ‘ give up and then I think fuck it to what society tells me I should and should nt do

If it feels good to dress up and play out with other likeminded individuals and it makes you feel good inside and gives you that naughty happy buzz ,

then what is an ‘appropriate age ‘ to stop ?

For you? About 80! You’re bloody gorgeous and I’m sure you’ve got many decades of sexiness in you yet!

Lol thanks

I’ve def aged a fair bit since last time I saw you but we’re still horny as

xx how are ya ? Xx

I very much doubt that my lovely! I’m great thanks! Still being a total strumpet - and loving every minute of it as always!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a lighter note....

....membership, should I give these buggers my credit card or is it safer by text? I've got one day left and I'm scared of giving strangers my digits......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On a lighter note....

....membership, should I give these buggers my credit card or is it safer by text? I've got one day left and I'm scared of giving strangers my digits...... "

Can you PayPal?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On a lighter note....

....membership, should I give these buggers my credit card or is it safer by text? I've got one day left and I'm scared of giving strangers my digits......

Can you PayPal? "

Yes you can. I'm sure I did last time because I was too lazy to get my card.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a lighter note....

....membership, should I give these buggers my credit card or is it safer by text? I've got one day left and I'm scared of giving strangers my digits......

Can you PayPal?

Yes you can. I'm sure I did last time because I was too lazy to get my card. "

Trust is an issue here..... Pmsl

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

The last time I left it was because the enjoyment had gone.

Now I just Fab how I want to. I don’t care how other people think I should do it. If the enjoyment was to wane again then I wouldn’t hesitate to go.

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"Personal circumstances, when real life becomes more important

Funnily that’s why we started

Our life circumstances are unusually stressful and this gave us release .

I do sometimes think I’m heading towards 50 and ‘should ‘ give up and then I think fuck it to what society tells me I should and should nt do

If it feels good to dress up and play out with other likeminded individuals and it makes you feel good inside and gives you that naughty happy buzz ,

then what is an ‘appropriate age ‘ to stop ?

For you? About 80! You’re bloody gorgeous and I’m sure you’ve got many decades of sexiness in you yet!

Lol thanks

I’ve def aged a fair bit since last time I saw you but we’re still horny as

xx how are ya ? Xx

I very much doubt that my lovely! I’m great thanks! Still being a total strumpet - and loving every minute of it as always!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Well when I was ill I considered it, yet fab forums and writing my cancer blog helped me through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I ever will...been here for over 11 years. My OH and I enjoy our occasional extras

so I think we'll stick around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it isn’t fun anymore or I just get tired of it

this for me too.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I very nearly did recently as it had stopped being fun for me. Sometimes a time out and stepping back helps put things into proper perspective.

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