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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? " If that’s being needy then I’m very needy  | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? " The build up can heighten the intensity massively if it's done right. Having said that though, one of the most intense meets I've ever had was a spontaneous one where we both drove an hour down the motorway and met halfway   | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? " It's the best part, and then you meet and it goes one of two ways | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy "That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes? | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? " I guess it depends on yourself, i like the chat and messages leading up to the meet, i find meets where conversation is limited prior to meeting dont go well for me. | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes? "Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement  | |||
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"That's not needy! Well not to me anyway. I like the build up and excitement. I'm naturally a bit of a talker/message-r (not a word, going with it) sort of person and I like the little almost reminders of meeting the other person and knowing they are thinking about me. It gives me proper oooft feelings and it's one of the most exciting parts of meeting someone for me." My thoughts exactly... In the past I love to chat and message haha.. Just making a mental note if I get back in the saddle so to speak so love hearing people's thoughts xx | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement "Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh  | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes? "Love a good build up. The fun of tease and anticipation. Also flirting with ideas and getting a sense of what everyone likes. Definitely makes the meet better. | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh "That’s when a FWB comes in handy | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? " Depends on the person. Someone I've seen before, not so much but someone I haven't, a few messages back and forth help. Some people aren't into that but some are, all good fun | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy "Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x"Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here  | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? " Love the build up its all part of it OP but when the last two occasions despite booking a hotel both go Pete Tong, it makes it worse!! | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here "I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too   | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too "Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!!  ) | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )"No I totally agree and because you know exactly what you want that's why it works... And that's great... Im just a contrary in terms I want my freedom but also want those mad passionate feelings of falling for someone and the kind of amazing sex for me that brings... Your thoughts are great btw xx | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
No I totally agree and because you know exactly what you want that's why it works... And that's great... Im just a contrary in terms I want my freedom but also want those mad passionate feelings of falling for someone and the kind of amazing sex for me that brings... Your thoughts are great btw xx"But I think you can still have that. I did. The amazing sex and fun when you’re in your little bubble but no I don’t want you coming to family gatherings and meeting my kids or staying at my house thanks, kind of thing. To me that’s the perfect situation. Then i suppose if you get to the stage you want it to be a proper relationship then you won’t be having the I want my freedom feelings. I just know I’m happy with my life as it is and don’t want anyone actually “involved” in that side of it x | |||
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) I also check that I know exactly what people are looking for - to avoid misunderstanding - as mind blowing sex can leave you vulnerable for a wee while!
Sorry this is such a long post! I think I’ve drifted a bit!
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"When I first joined fab I used to get involved if shit load of messaging and telephone conversations leading up to a meet! Then I met the one all we softies dread meeting - the one who fucks with your head purely because he can! Made damned sure (hours of phone calls, constant messages, flowers, 72 hour meets, calling me his princess etc etc) that I fell head over heels for him - purely because it made him feel great about himself! Turned out he had no feelings about me at all! He’d do that with every single woman he met! I’d see the glowing verifications - and weeks later the poor ladies would hide their profiles or go unlos when they realised they’d been played! Since then I’m more cautious! I’m incredibly straight with people to protect myself! I don’t message constantly beforehand because I know that, in most cases, messaging stops soon after the meet and they move onto the next one (unless you become real friends of course - I’ve got several of those! ) I also check that I know exactly what people are looking for - to avoid misunderstanding - as mind blowing sex can leave you vulnerable for a wee while!
Sorry this is such a long post! I think I’ve drifted a bit!
I blame the painkillers! "Hi Peachy... No I totally agree with what your saying and that has happened to me to hence why I've been avoiding meets.. I can fuck and have my "fab head on" and its been great but it's hard to control my cynical side too.. The person fell for would tell how mazing I was and we chatted loads inbetween meets but I think really he did that with his other Fwb and his response when I said I had to stop seeing him I found out later when he told me was "fuck you and went back on fab" that said it all really... Hope your ok.. Why the painkillers? Hugs xx | |||
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"I'm needy as fuck. In the past when I haven't had that from a meet I've felt like a pile of shit after. I'm lucky in that I have a regular partner who Indulges my neediness and messages without fail daily. Its meant that we have amazing sex sessions too. I think the connection built up from messaging makes a meet better " I agree with you and its great you have a regular partner for that... I'm envious but as we've talked about before head fuck is so easy on here... Xx | |||
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"Love it when I get a random message from a woman who's into the older guy, and then the dialog starts getting heated with the things that turn us both on. Can go on for weeks and months sometimes. Alas, it fizzles out 99% of the time "Yeah it's a shame when that happens, I've probably been guilty of that too.. Not in a malicious way but sometimes you get caught in the moment but then my cautious side goes up and I back off.. X | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? " I'm currently counting down to Friday night, when I have my first overnight with a lady friend planned! We're ramping up the excitement with messages back and forth right now, and I really can't wait to see her | |||
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"When I first joined fab I used to get involved if shit load of messaging and telephone conversations leading up to a meet! Then I met the one all we softies dread meeting - the one who fucks with your head purely because he can! Made damned sure (hours of phone calls, constant messages, flowers, 72 hour meets, calling me his princess etc etc) that I fell head over heels for him - purely because it made him feel great about himself! Turned out he had no feelings about me at all! He’d do that with every single woman he met! I’d see the glowing verifications - and weeks later the poor ladies would hide their profiles or go unlos when they realised they’d been played! Since then I’m more cautious! I’m incredibly straight with people to protect myself! I don’t message constantly beforehand because I know that, in most cases, messaging stops soon after the meet and they move onto the next one (unless you become real friends of course - I’ve got several of those! ) I also check that I know exactly what people are looking for - to avoid misunderstanding - as mind blowing sex can leave you vulnerable for a wee while!
Sorry this is such a long post! I think I’ve drifted a bit!
I blame the painkillers!
Hi Peachy... No I totally agree with what your saying and that has happened to me to hence why I've been avoiding meets.. I can fuck and have my "fab head on" and its been great but it's hard to control my cynical side too.. The person fell for would tell how mazing I was and we chatted loads inbetween meets but I think really he did that with his other Fwb and his response when I said I had to stop seeing him I found out later when he told me was "fuck you and went back on fab" that said it all really... Hope your ok.. Why the painkillers? Hugs xx"Back problems my lovely! Hopefully temporary! Just yesterday and today it’s been awful but it usually eases off! | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? " if someone messages me to much Inbetween sorting a meet out I will most likely tell them not to bother x as I don't like all the banter etc | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? I'm currently counting down to Friday night, when I have my first overnight with a lady friend planned! We're ramping up the excitement with messages back and forth right now, and I really can't wait to see her "Oooh lucky you... Enjoy | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? if someone messages me to much Inbetween sorting a meet out I will most likely tell them not to bother x as I don't like all the banter etc " That's fair enough too.. I guess it's about what you want and works for you!!  | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? I'm currently counting down to Friday night, when I have my first overnight with a lady friend planned! We're ramping up the excitement with messages back and forth right now, and I really can't wait to see her "Aw that’s lovely! Hope you both have an amazing time! | |||
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"Love it when I get a random message from a woman who's into the older guy, and then the dialog starts getting heated with the things that turn us both on. Can go on for weeks and months sometimes. Alas, it fizzles out 99% of the time
Yeah it's a shame when that happens, I've probably been guilty of that too.. Not in a malicious way but sometimes you get caught in the moment but then my cautious side goes up and I back off.. X"Know where you're coming from Snow. I'll live in hope with the 1%!!! Lol xx | |||
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"Love it when I get a random message from a woman who's into the older guy, and then the dialog starts getting heated with the things that turn us both on. Can go on for weeks and months sometimes. Alas, it fizzles out 99% of the time
Yeah it's a shame when that happens, I've probably been guilty of that too.. Not in a malicious way but sometimes you get caught in the moment but then my cautious side goes up and I back off.. XKnow where you're coming from Snow.
I'll live in hope with the 1%!!! Lol xx"And so you should. Its happened to me a lot on here.. But that's fab x | |||
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"I think most people like to feel wanted and cared for, obviously. Someone else revealing their feelings for you is often very comforting and gives you that warm glow of happiness inside and makes you go a bit light headed. Trouble is, not everyone is sincere and it’s easy to lay yourself open to hurt. But if you find your true love, open the tomes of Byron and Keats, and message sweet nothings til the day grows dark. " Absolutely that is the risk... Its hard when you have a big heart.. And sadly people have taken advantage of that.. I'm better now at judging that now.. Lessons learned x | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? " No, recently I've had two meets planned but got ghosted, so there's really no point in getting excited until the meet actually walks in through the door of the pub. Just saying. | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? No, recently I've had two meets planned but got ghosted, so there's really no point in getting excited until the meet actually walks in through the door of the pub. Just saying." That's happened to us all sadly so get where your coming from. | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement "Snap but 3 years can be exciting... | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Snap but 3 years can be exciting... ". That would be a build up and a half! Could be well worth it though! | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Snap but 3 years can be exciting...
. That would be a build up and a half! Could be well worth it though! "I average like 2/3 socials a year.. I'm crap at this!! I need massive chemistry to get me out of my door or I'm staying in my stretchy pants.. | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Snap but 3 years can be exciting...
. That would be a build up and a half! Could be well worth it though!
I average like 2/3 socials a year.. I'm crap at this!! I need massive chemistry to get me out of my door or I'm staying in my stretchy pants.. "Same. I don’t even think I average that! Perhaps I’m looking for something that isn’t there. Who knows | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Snap but 3 years can be exciting...
. That would be a build up and a half! Could be well worth it though!
I average like 2/3 socials a year.. I'm crap at this!! I need massive chemistry to get me out of my door or I'm staying in my stretchy pants..
Same. I don’t even think I average that! Perhaps I’m looking for something that isn’t there. Who knows "Just takes one to float your boat I'm keeping the faith!! | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Snap but 3 years can be exciting...
. That would be a build up and a half! Could be well worth it though!
I average like 2/3 socials a year.. I'm crap at this!! I need massive chemistry to get me out of my door or I'm staying in my stretchy pants..
Same. I don’t even think I average that! Perhaps I’m looking for something that isn’t there. Who knows
Just takes one to float your boat I'm keeping the faith!!"Oh yes the faith is being kept! Just about. There’s a needle out there somewhere in that giant haystack! Perhaps I need to be a bit more proactive though. Maybe tomorrow I will | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Snap but 3 years can be exciting...
. That would be a build up and a half! Could be well worth it though!
I average like 2/3 socials a year.. I'm crap at this!! I need massive chemistry to get me out of my door or I'm staying in my stretchy pants..
Same. I don’t even think I average that! Perhaps I’m looking for something that isn’t there. Who knows
Just takes one to float your boat I'm keeping the faith!!
Oh yes the faith is being kept! Just about. There’s a needle out there somewhere in that giant haystack! Perhaps I need to be a bit more proactive though. Maybe tomorrow I will "No need to look too far | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Snap but 3 years can be exciting...
. That would be a build up and a half! Could be well worth it though!
I average like 2/3 socials a year.. I'm crap at this!! I need massive chemistry to get me out of my door or I'm staying in my stretchy pants..
Same. I don’t even think I average that! Perhaps I’m looking for something that isn’t there. Who knows
Just takes one to float your boat I'm keeping the faith!!
Oh yes the faith is being kept! Just about. There’s a needle out there somewhere in that giant haystack! Perhaps I need to be a bit more proactive though. Maybe tomorrow I will
No need to look too far"Awwww. If only I was a few inches shorter though. I have a major issue about being taller than a man. My issue not anyone else’s | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Snap but 3 years can be exciting...
. That would be a build up and a half! Could be well worth it though!
I average like 2/3 socials a year.. I'm crap at this!! I need massive chemistry to get me out of my door or I'm staying in my stretchy pants..
Same. I don’t even think I average that! Perhaps I’m looking for something that isn’t there. Who knows
Just takes one to float your boat I'm keeping the faith!!
Oh yes the faith is being kept! Just about. There’s a needle out there somewhere in that giant haystack! Perhaps I need to be a bit more proactive though. Maybe tomorrow I will
No need to look too far
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? I'm currently counting down to Friday night, when I have my first overnight with a lady friend planned! We're ramping up the excitement with messages back and forth right now, and I really can't wait to see her
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? I'm currently counting down to Friday night, when I have my first overnight with a lady friend planned! We're ramping up the excitement with messages back and forth right now, and I really can't wait to see her
Aw that’s lovely! Hope you both have an amazing time! "Thank you! We normally do daytime hotel meets, but this is going to be very different! We won't be a million miles from Preston either lol | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )"What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X | |||
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"Depends who it is, if the connection is there then the teasing is effortless and I love it..but if it is just fucking then the build up cab be tedius. That's why I don't plan unless it's with someone I have a connection with. The messaging makes me feel meh. Probably just me, I get bored easily "As with fab I think it's about personal preference! So there are no right or wrong answers!!! X | |||
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"I used to enjoy the build up a lot more than I do now if I meet a new guy. If it's a first sex meet and he starts messaging asking what I'm going to wear, what I'm into, it puts me off. I find it a bit predictable. I also get more nervous than I used to so pressuring me with messages doesn't help!! If it's with someone I already know though the odd cheeky message like 'I'm going to fuck you through the mattress next time I see you' at unexpected moments can be hot as hell "I can relate to this | |||
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"I used to enjoy the build up a lot more than I do now if I meet a new guy. If it's a first sex meet and he starts messaging asking what I'm going to wear, what I'm into, it puts me off. I find it a bit predictable. I also get more nervous than I used to so pressuring me with messages doesn't help!! If it's with someone I already know though the odd cheeky message like 'I'm going to fuck you through the mattress next time I see you' at unexpected moments can be hot as hell
I can relate to this "nothing better is it hey so many people have failed to impress me lately on here ! | |||
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"I love the build up to a meet. The flirting. The teasing. The sensations that you feel before, the anticipation ecxitment. I do think it can be built up to much sometimes less said can definitely be more." Over planning kills it for me ... that's enough for me to want to call it off lol | |||
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"I love the build up to a meet. The flirting. The teasing. The sensations that you feel before, the anticipation ecxitment. I do think it can be built up to much sometimes less said can definitely be more. Over planning kills it for me ... that's enough for me to want to call it off lol "Yes if it turns into a case of what you wearing. I'm going to do this to you etc. Puts me right off my game too. It's a no go from me. | |||
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"Ive gone off the boil a bit for the whole excitement of meeting new people. I want the glow that familiarity brings. " I can understand that. But in the mean time I want an experience. | |||
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"Ive gone off the boil a bit for the whole excitement of meeting new people. I want the glow that familiarity brings. " totally agree with you am the same ,I am picky who I meet someone has to excite me x | |||
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"I love the build up to a meet. The flirting. The teasing. The sensations that you feel before, the anticipation ecxitment. I do think it can be built up to much sometimes less said can definitely be more. Over planning kills it for me ... that's enough for me to want to call it off lol
Yes if it turns into a case of what you wearing. I'm going to do this to you etc. Puts me right off my game too. It's a no go from me."Oh I absolutely get this and yeah that would turn me off too  | |||
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"I love the build up to a meet. The flirting. The teasing. The sensations that you feel before, the anticipation ecxitment. I do think it can be built up to much sometimes less said can definitely be more. Over planning kills it for me ... that's enough for me to want to call it off lol "Yes totally agree... I wouldn't want it mapped out what was going to happen when... I was just thinking more along the lines of a few odd flirty txts to build the excitment x | |||
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"I love the build up to a meet. The flirting. The teasing. The sensations that you feel before, the anticipation ecxitment. I do think it can be built up to much sometimes less said can definitely be more. Over planning kills it for me ... that's enough for me to want to call it off lol
Yes totally agree... I wouldn't want it mapped out what was going to happen when...
I was just thinking more along the lines of a few odd flirty txts to build the excitment x"Oh yes. You got to build the excitement that's half the fun. | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X"I moved away, so distance. | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X
I moved away, so distance.
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"sounds to me like you need to be constantly reassured very cringe Imo. you said it yourself. " No I don't at all... I said I like to have some build up... That's not needing reasurrance but each to their own and thank you for your comment. | |||
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"sounds to me like you need to be constantly reassured very cringe Imo. you said it yourself. Sound like you don't know how to have fun" mailed you | |||
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"sounds to me like you need to be constantly reassured very cringe Imo. you said it yourself. Sound like you don't know how to have funmailed you " I read nailed lol I'm sure I'd have remembered that! | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X
I moved away, so distance.
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X
I moved away, so distance.
The eternal pain of distance.
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That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X
I moved away, so distance.
The eternal pain of distance.
Distance isn't just measured in miles....
You are so right "Absolutely isn't! The guy I fell for lived miles away and the distance didn't matter to me.. Although really it was irrelevant because he didn't want me.. So now I'm relieved there's distance x Do you wish things had been different? X | |||
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That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X
I moved away, so distance.
The eternal pain of distance.
Distance isn't just measured in miles....
You are so right "Sadly something I learned the hard way.... | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X
I moved away, so distance.
The eternal pain of distance.
Distance isn't just measured in miles...."True, but typing "my fwb lives 418,429,440 millimetres away" is a right pain. | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X
I moved away, so distance.
The eternal pain of distance.
Distance isn't just measured in miles....
You are so right
Absolutely isn't! The guy I fell for lived miles away and the distance didn't matter to me.. Although really it was irrelevant because he didn't want me.. So now I'm relieved there's distance x
Do you wish things had been different? X"Me? No definitely not. Was fantastic while it lasted. Things change, life moves on x | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X
I moved away, so distance.
The eternal pain of distance.
Distance isn't just measured in miles....
True, but typing "my fwb lives 418,429,440 millimetres away" is a right pain." | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X
I moved away, so distance.
The eternal pain of distance.
Distance isn't just measured in miles....
You are so right
Absolutely isn't! The guy I fell for lived miles away and the distance didn't matter to me.. Although really it was irrelevant because he didn't want me.. So now I'm relieved there's distance x
Do you wish things had been different? X
Me? No definitely not. Was fantastic while it lasted. Things change, life moves on x"I totally respect how you know what you want and have found a way of having that... It anoyes me I go from wanting one thing to the other.. But I just think it will all become clear and in the mean time I just have to enjoy the ride xx | |||
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"It's been a while for me but just wondered when you have a meet planned do you enjoy the build up.. Get excited tease each other and worked up or do you just plan the meet and that's kind of it..apart from the odd message full stop? For me I'd want the build up and excitement or is that being needy? If that’s being needy then I’m very needy
That's what I thought.. Would you cancel a meet if you wasn't getting a good build up or the vibes?
Yes definitely. But I’m one of those annoying ones who doesn’t meet anyway until I’ve chatted to someone for about 3 years and know everything including their inside leg measurement
Nothing wrong with that.. You have to do what is right for you.. I'm one of the annoying ones who won't meet because I want to date.. But then do want to meet because I miss sex arrghhh
That’s when a FWB comes in handy
Yes and no... Its tricky when you want to date.. I had one but ended up falling for him...but sadly he didn't want more.. So it ended. My mindset isn't in the right place for Fwb but don't like one offs so that's why I've avoided meeting for a while x
Ah I see. I don’t do one offs ever. But I don’t want a “proper relationship” so FWB is perfect for me. Just not easy to find on here! I suspect it’s even more difficult to find what you want here
I'm in a strange place.. I enjoy my freedom but when I started falling for the other person I realised how much I also missed those feelings of being crazy as fuck about someone and for me that just totally heightens the sex... Fwb would be great but I just know it wouldn't work.. I hate one offs so yep your right trying to find it is hard.. Especially when I'm horny as hell too
Lol. Depends on your mental thinking I guess. I can manage to separate it. I had one for 5 years and loved the bones of him and vice versa but I’m set in what I want and that’s not a proper relationship. I actually think it’s better when a few feelings are involved but it’s if you can deal with that I suppose. (If that doesn’t reduce my messages on here nothing will!! )
What made it end after 5 yrs if you dont mind me asking. X
I moved away, so distance.
The eternal pain of distance.
Distance isn't just measured in miles....
You are so right
Absolutely isn't! The guy I fell for lived miles away and the distance didn't matter to me.. Although really it was irrelevant because he didn't want me.. So now I'm relieved there's distance x
Do you wish things had been different? X
Me? No definitely not. Was fantastic while it lasted. Things change, life moves on x
I totally respect how you know what you want and have found a way of having that... It anoyes me I go from wanting one thing to the other.. But I just think it will all become clear and in the mean time I just have to enjoy the ride xx"Definitely. It will, but yes enjoy the ride for sure! | |||
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"Build up to a meet ? On average what kind of timescales are we talking, if the build up takes too long you can overthink the whole thing. Don't you think ? " I'm not talking days... I haven't had a meet for a long time.. But in the past I would enjoy exchanging some messages the dya before etc... But yes I agree it would be easy to over think.. I wouldn't want to plan anything. | |||
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"Build up to a meet ? On average what kind of timescales are we talking, if the build up takes too long you can overthink the whole thing. Don't you think ? I'm not talking days... I haven't had a meet for a long time.. But in the past I would enjoy exchanging some messages the dya before etc... But yes I agree it would be easy to over think.. I wouldn't want to plan anything. " You meet without planning to meet ? | |||
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Unfortunately I didn't have any lube and ended up taking a layer of skin off my cock from over vigorous masturbation, it was so bad that I had to cancel the meet as I couldn't turn up with an open wound on my cock.
The truth was too embarrassing so I made up a really crap excuse about my Gran being ill and they quite understandably then blocked me.
So to sum up I do still like to exchange messages in the build up to a meet but have learned the hard way where to draw the line | |||
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"This thread just reminded me of when I first joined fab and had a meet arranged with a couple. Met for the social which went well then arranged the meet. I think she was looking forward to it a lot as she insisted on messaging me constantly about it and how turned on she was and what she wanted to do with me ect ect ect. By the day before the meet she had got me pretty worked up too and so I spent about 10 hours wanking
Unfortunately I didn't have any lube and ended up taking a layer of skin off my cock from over vigorous masturbation, it was so bad that I had to cancel the meet as I couldn't turn up with an open wound on my cock.
The truth was too embarrassing so I made up a really crap excuse about my Gran being ill and they quite understandably then blocked me.
So to sum up I do still like to exchange messages in the build up to a meet but have learned the hard way where to draw the line " there's nothing that can be said to that apart from that was a hard lesson learned and I shall not wank for 10 hours straight without lube on a build up to a meet!!!
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"This thread just reminded me of when I first joined fab and had a meet arranged with a couple. Met for the social which went well then arranged the meet. I think she was looking forward to it a lot as she insisted on messaging me constantly about it and how turned on she was and what she wanted to do with me ect ect ect. By the day before the meet she had got me pretty worked up too and so I spent about 10 hours wanking
Unfortunately I didn't have any lube and ended up taking a layer of skin off my cock from over vigorous masturbation, it was so bad that I had to cancel the meet as I couldn't turn up with an open wound on my cock.
The truth was too embarrassing so I made up a really crap excuse about my Gran being ill and they quite understandably then blocked me.
So to sum up I do still like to exchange messages in the build up to a meet but have learned the hard way where to draw the line "Ouch!  | |||
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"This thread just reminded me of when I first joined fab and had a meet arranged with a couple. Met for the social which went well then arranged the meet. I think she was looking forward to it a lot as she insisted on messaging me constantly about it and how turned on she was and what she wanted to do with me ect ect ect. By the day before the meet she had got me pretty worked up too and so I spent about 10 hours wanking
Unfortunately I didn't have any lube and ended up taking a layer of skin off my cock from over vigorous masturbation, it was so bad that I had to cancel the meet as I couldn't turn up with an open wound on my cock.
The truth was too embarrassing so I made up a really crap excuse about my Gran being ill and they quite understandably then blocked me.
So to sum up I do still like to exchange messages in the build up to a meet but have learned the hard way where to draw the line
Ouch! "It wasn't that sore, just not very pretty! | |||
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"This thread just reminded me of when I first joined fab and had a meet arranged with a couple. Met for the social which went well then arranged the meet. I think she was looking forward to it a lot as she insisted on messaging me constantly about it and how turned on she was and what she wanted to do with me ect ect ect. By the day before the meet she had got me pretty worked up too and so I spent about 10 hours wanking
Unfortunately I didn't have any lube and ended up taking a layer of skin off my cock from over vigorous masturbation, it was so bad that I had to cancel the meet as I couldn't turn up with an open wound on my cock.
The truth was too embarrassing so I made up a really crap excuse about my Gran being ill and they quite understandably then blocked me.
So to sum up I do still like to exchange messages in the build up to a meet but have learned the hard way where to draw the line "This is the beauty of Fab, and the people in here though; if you had told the truth, the female would probably have taken that as a compliment, and postponed the meet for your cock to recover! | |||
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"This thread just reminded me of when I first joined fab and had a meet arranged with a couple. Met for the social which went well then arranged the meet. I think she was looking forward to it a lot as she insisted on messaging me constantly about it and how turned on she was and what she wanted to do with me ect ect ect. By the day before the meet she had got me pretty worked up too and so I spent about 10 hours wanking
Unfortunately I didn't have any lube and ended up taking a layer of skin off my cock from over vigorous masturbation, it was so bad that I had to cancel the meet as I couldn't turn up with an open wound on my cock.
The truth was too embarrassing so I made up a really crap excuse about my Gran being ill and they quite understandably then blocked me.
So to sum up I do still like to exchange messages in the build up to a meet but have learned the hard way where to draw the line
This is the beauty of Fab, and the people in here though; if you had told the truth, the female would probably have taken that as a compliment, and postponed the meet for your cock to recover! "Quite possibly, but I was a naive young buck back then and thought I had blown it | |||
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"This thread just reminded me of when I first joined fab and had a meet arranged with a couple. Met for the social which went well then arranged the meet. I think she was looking forward to it a lot as she insisted on messaging me constantly about it and how turned on she was and what she wanted to do with me ect ect ect. By the day before the meet she had got me pretty worked up too and so I spent about 10 hours wanking
Unfortunately I didn't have any lube and ended up taking a layer of skin off my cock from over vigorous masturbation, it was so bad that I had to cancel the meet as I couldn't turn up with an open wound on my cock.
The truth was too embarrassing so I made up a really crap excuse about my Gran being ill and they quite understandably then blocked me.
So to sum up I do still like to exchange messages in the build up to a meet but have learned the hard way where to draw the line "Such a wanker | |||
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"This thread just reminded me of when I first joined fab and had a meet arranged with a couple. Met for the social which went well then arranged the meet. I think she was looking forward to it a lot as she insisted on messaging me constantly about it and how turned on she was and what she wanted to do with me ect ect ect. By the day before the meet she had got me pretty worked up too and so I spent about 10 hours wanking
Unfortunately I didn't have any lube and ended up taking a layer of skin off my cock from over vigorous masturbation, it was so bad that I had to cancel the meet as I couldn't turn up with an open wound on my cock.
The truth was too embarrassing so I made up a really crap excuse about my Gran being ill and they quite understandably then blocked me.
So to sum up I do still like to exchange messages in the build up to a meet but have learned the hard way where to draw the line
This is the beauty of Fab, and the people in here though; if you had told the truth, the female would probably have taken that as a compliment, and postponed the meet for your cock to recover!
Quite possibly, but I was a naive young buck back then and thought I had blown it "Sounds like you didnt "blow" it | |||
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