FabSwingers.com forum: People that refuse to kiss

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Happy Hump Day humans!!!

Have any of you been on a meet where your partner does not kiss, or maybe you do not kiss? Why do you think this happens. Kissing for me is essential for the build up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kiss no passion no passion no sex that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone twice who didn't kiss.

We still had great sex, which was of the hard and fast fucking type. I knew what I was getting and it was needed, so I wasn't bothered by the no kissing.

In general though I don't meet if they don't kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was meeting with my ex neither of us kissed the people me were meeting we felt it was just somthing for us, nowadays meeting as a single woman i need to kiss its one of the things that turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had lots of meets with no kissing. It's never been an issue.

Some people don't want to kiss.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

The last meet I had with a woman who only kisses her hubby, I cut the meet short and left because of a lack of passion (she didn’t suck cock either). I now have a note on my profile to prevent this situation in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No kiss no passion no passion no sex that simple"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual sex partners. We never explain or justify our preferences. We would never meet someone who insisted on kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy Hump Day humans!!!

Have any of you been on a meet where your partner does not kiss, or maybe you do not kiss? Why do you think this happens. Kissing for me is essential for the build up

I met with someone for a year and we only kissed once; the day we agreed not to meet again. Was still some of the best sex I’ve had.

Kissing is very intimate and I still get giggles if I kiss someone other than my husband. More than happy to fuck someone, suck their cock etc, it’s the kissing that gives me the giggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn't get a kiss, most of my meets would be just a coffee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would still meet, but much prefer a kisser. Makes sex so much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather like kissing...

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

"Happy Hump Day humans!!!

Have any of you been on a meet where your partner does not kiss, or maybe you do not kiss? Why do you think this happens. Kissing for me is essential for the build up

For some they want to keep something intimate that's between them as a couple...for me (tasha) I enjoy the kissing as it builds up the tension and anticipation of what's to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't kiss our casual sex partners. We never explain or justify our preferences. We would never meet someone who insisted on kissing."

Same. I wouldn't meet anyone who insisted on anything. Even if it was something I'd do anyway.

Or if they were slagging off X. = turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No kiss no passion no passion no sex that simple

Definitely agree with that x

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I am not bothered if they do not kiss. I am much more bothered if I do not feel like kissing them as it means there is no attraction and nothing else will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try blowing kisses?

(wouldn't be happening without kissing personally)

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

There has to be kissing. I like to be kissed well. And often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing = nothing else happening

I love love love kissing

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Happy Hump Day humans!!!

Have any of you been on a meet where your partner does not kiss, or maybe you do not kiss? Why do you think this happens. Kissing for me is essential for the build up

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until my now ex partner I didn't kiss anyone. Not my partners.. casual or serious.

This was due to something that happened to me in my mid teens. I do now on occassion kiss but it's still not a given and no one ever really seems to care

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By *olacolaMan
over a year ago

lincoln

I would never insist but I do love a good sensual kiss

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I would never insist but I do love a good sensual kiss"

I am the same I prefer it but I wouldn't miss out because of it or make them do something they were not comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve met couples that don’t kiss and that was fine. I don’t bother too much about it as I like just kissing mr x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had this once but it was with a friend and I think kissing was just too intimate. It did ruin it for me though and about halfway through I started to regret the whole thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done the no kissing thing in a gangbang, but kissing for me is one of my favourite things to do so these days it’s pretty much a prerequisite unless other factors outweighed my love for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only had this once but it was with a friend and I think kissing was just too intimate. It did ruin it for me though and about halfway through I started to regret the whole thing. "

Friendsex...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No kissing = nothing else happening

I love love love kissing"

Provided they had washed and polished their teeth to a relatively high standard

Love it

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

It’s discussed beforehand.

Couldn’t possibly go into anything where there was no kissing. It’s just too important for me

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy Hump Day humans!!!

Have any of you been on a meet where your partner does not kiss, or maybe you do not kiss? Why do you think this happens. Kissing for me is essential for the build up

I've had this hapoen a few times where guys just haven't kissed much, or not seemed keen to kiss me. I'm not very good at initiating things so maybe they've thought i don't want to kiss, but i imagine if they were turned on and wanted to they would just go ahead

I've come to the conclusion I must be very unappealing in person and the idea of kissing me turns their stomach.

It's a shame as i really enjoy kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy Hump Day humans!!!

Have any of you been on a meet where your partner does not kiss, or maybe you do not kiss? Why do you think this happens. Kissing for me is essential for the build up

I've come to the conclusion I must be very unappealing in person and the idea of kissing me turns their stomach.

It's a shame as i really enjoy kissing. "

That is so not true xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s discussed beforehand.

Couldn’t possibly go into anything where there was no kissing. It’s just too important for me

Lex"

I agree its a big part of sex for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy Hump Day humans!!!

Have any of you been on a meet where your partner does not kiss, or maybe you do not kiss? Why do you think this happens. Kissing for me is essential for the build up

I've come to the conclusion I must be very unappealing in person and the idea of kissing me turns their stomach.

It's a shame as i really enjoy kissing.

That is so not true xx"

Well i can't ignore the fact that a few people just haven't seemed into the kissing or have even kissed at all.

It hasn't alwsys been the case but it's happened more times than I care to remember.

I need to be clear about the fact kissing is important to me before a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy Hump Day humans!!!

Have any of you been on a meet where your partner does not kiss, or maybe you do not kiss? Why do you think this happens. Kissing for me is essential for the build up

I've come to the conclusion I must be very unappealing in person and the idea of kissing me turns their stomach.

It's a shame as i really enjoy kissing.

That is so not true xx

Well i can't ignore the fact that a few people just haven't seemed into the kissing or have even kissed at all.

It hasn't alwsys been the case but it's happened more times than I care to remember.

I need to be clear about the fact kissing is important to me before a meet."

Yes tell them it's important to you. Were they 'off' in other ways too? Or was it fun apart from the kissing?

Some people don't kiss because it brings emotions that they don't want with a NSA meet. They don't want to get feelings for you. It could be a compliment.

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By *hatterbox 2Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

we dont do kissing but thats our choice it states on profile so if people dont like it then we dont meet x simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t do a meet if kissing was off the cards, I had one once and felt very weird.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i know couples that keep something for themselves, whether that being kissing with one couple, or oral with another, or anal with another..... i think it is a case of not going beyond someones perceived boundries, and that is one of the things i find out before i meet people....

you then know what you get into, and then you can make the decision of if you want to be part of that situation or not....

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I’ve only had sex once where the guy wouldn’t kiss - in a swinging baths in France! The guy was hot as fuck so I put up with it initially - but it was just too weird and impersonal!

When he sought me out later to go for round two I turned him down!

It was a learning curve - I hadn’t realised how vital it was to great sex for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy Hump Day humans!!!

Have any of you been on a meet where your partner does not kiss, or maybe you do not kiss? Why do you think this happens. Kissing for me is essential for the build up

I've come to the conclusion I must be very unappealing in person and the idea of kissing me turns their stomach.

It's a shame as i really enjoy kissing.

That is so not true xx

Well i can't ignore the fact that a few people just haven't seemed into the kissing or have even kissed at all.

It hasn't alwsys been the case but it's happened more times than I care to remember.

I need to be clear about the fact kissing is important to me before a meet.

Yes tell them it's important to you. Were they 'off' in other ways too? Or was it fun apart from the kissing?

Some people don't kiss because it brings emotions that they don't want with a NSA meet. They don't want to get feelings for you. It could be a compliment.

There was one meet with someone where they seemed very off so things didn't work out, but besudes that I've mostly had fun at the time. I had a good fwb and we rarely kissed, but we got on very well and always had fun. I guess some people aren't that into kissing, and i understand couples may want to keep something for themselves.

You never know, one kiss with me and a guy could be smitten.

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"Happy Hump Day humans!!!

Have any of you been on a meet where your partner does not kiss, or maybe you do not kiss? Why do you think this happens. Kissing for me is essential for the build up

I've come to the conclusion I must be very unappealing in person and the idea of kissing me turns their stomach.

It's a shame as i really enjoy kissing. "

We'd kiss you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy Hump Day humans!!!

Have any of you been on a meet where your partner does not kiss, or maybe you do not kiss? Why do you think this happens. Kissing for me is essential for the build up

I've come to the conclusion I must be very unappealing in person and the idea of kissing me turns their stomach.

It's a shame as i really enjoy kissing.

We'd kiss you

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Some don't I get it but then it would put me off but its everyone's choice to do what they wish at the end of the day.

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