FabSwingers.com forum: Are men more needy than women now ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is this a new phenomenon, have the roles reversed with the dawn of the interweb, with sites such as this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I neeeeeeeed my sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are, some are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are, some are not

Was just going to say this!

I am a bit. I’ll admit to that.

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

No I think the laws of supply and demand on these sites skew male and female behaviours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems that way with the amount of divas with balls around here although the fact there are so many more men than women probably skews the results somewhat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are, some are not

Was just going to say this!

I am a bit. I’ll admit to that. "

Evening Gnora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems that way with the amount of divas with balls around here although the fact there are so many more men than women probably skews the results somewhat. "

I may be a bit needy but I’m still a diva with balls!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish. I need to be needed by the needy

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Is this a new phenomenon, have the roles reversed with the dawn of the interweb, with sites such as this ? "

I think it’s only this site that has such a different mix of men and women . Traditional dating sites have a pretty even mix , not ten men to one woman .

It’s certainly true to say that on here it is very much needy men rather than needy women though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very needy, my wife's catchphrase is "I love you but will you please just fuck off for a minute" because I'm constantly trying to hug her or kiss her or generally be a pain in the arse

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I need to get out of the bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath"

Nice profile pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It seems that way with the amount of divas with balls around here although the fact there are so many more men than women probably skews the results somewhat. "

I heard, some blokes need to chill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that. "

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed "

I don’t like when it’s just a cock. I like a bit of body attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who I need and why I need them in my life.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed

I don’t like when it’s just a cock. I like a bit of body attached. "
but hes only little does that not count as a bit of body

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I find a site like this, brings out all the whiney males!

It's the first time in their life they have felt the unbalance of the sexes that affect them!

Cause and effect of the unbalance and they like to sprout shite like 'women have all the power' and they fucking hate it

Welcome to what a lot of women have suffered for fucking decades!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed

I don’t like when it’s just a cock. I like a bit of body attached. but hes only little does that not count as a bit of body

Who is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know when my daughter was at school the boys were loads needier than the girls ... have a teacher friend that says the same too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say so but perhaps I just don't attract the needy ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know when my daughter was at school the boys were loads needier than the girls ... have a teacher friend that says the same too "

My teacher friend says the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a new phenomenon, have the roles reversed with the dawn of the interweb, with sites such as this ? "

In life or on fabs I've always thought men or males tend to be more needy my sons want more attention than my daughters I've found my partners have always needed the reasurence and constant ego buffing than I've ever felt I've needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find a site like this, brings out all the whiney males!

It's the first time in their life they have felt the unbalance of the sexes that affect them!

Cause and effect of the unbalance and they like to sprout shite like 'women have all the power' and they fucking hate it

Welcome to what a lot of women have suffered for fucking decades!

I think it’s perfectly balanced on here, women just have to separate the wheat from the chaff more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these needy men needing anyway? Just a bit of attention, or adoration and admiration too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to define needy though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are these needy men needing anyway? Just a bit of attention, or adoration and admiration too? "

Exactly. I don’t see an issue with enjoying attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to define needy though? "

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed "

Thanks, I like my cock too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you need to define needy though? "

Oh man I wasn’t expecting homework.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to define needy though?

Oh man I wasn’t expecting homework. "

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I think some are. But there is the adorably unsure of oneself and just wanting a smidge of reassurance type, and the other type where they expect 24 adoration and a shrine dedicated to their cock in the spare room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you need to define needy though? "

Excellent question, which I will attempt to answer post haste. But first I need to get the mash on my cottage pie first, I like doing the swirls with the fork, that’s the best bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to define needy though?

Excellent question, which I will attempt to answer post haste. But first I need to get the mash on my cottage pie first, I like doing the swirls with the fork, that’s the best bit. "

So, you NEED to do that first..ok, go ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to define needy though?

Excellent question, which I will attempt to answer post haste. But first I need to get the mash on my cottage pie first, I like doing the swirls with the fork, that’s the best bit. "

Do you go one way or both though? I go both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt."

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you need to define needy though?

Excellent question, which I will attempt to answer post haste. But first I need to get the mash on my cottage pie first, I like doing the swirls with the fork, that’s the best bit.

Do you go one way or both though? I go both "

Yeah both, I make little peaks and troughs. That way you get a better crust.

You’re very welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot."

Here here. It’s hard being adorable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general maybe men are more needy. The single men I know can't cope on their own, they need a woman to be their surrogate mother figure.

On here I think it's equal. If the womenfolk stopped getting mail there would be hell to pay. The menfolk are just more openly needy because they're not getting attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot."

And what about when it's the man that does that falling in love shit? Needy as fuck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to define needy though?

Excellent question, which I will attempt to answer post haste. But first I need to get the mash on my cottage pie first, I like doing the swirls with the fork, that’s the best bit.

Do you go one way or both though? I go both

Yeah both, I make little peaks and troughs. That way you get a better crust.

You’re very welcome "

Bit Of cheese too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are these needy men needing anyway? Just a bit of attention, or adoration and admiration too? "

I need people to tell me I'm pretty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot."

I’d probably fall in love with your willy tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are these needy men needing anyway? Just a bit of attention, or adoration and admiration too?

I need people to tell me I'm pretty. "

You're beautiful darling x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot.

And what about when it's the man that does that falling in love shit? Needy as fuck...

I put some James Blunt on and look out the window when it’s raining and reflect on the glorious Summers we shared.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot.

I’d probably fall in love with your willy tbf "

There’s a man attached to that willy, a man with hopes and fears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot.

And what about when it's the man that does that falling in love shit? Needy as fuck...

I put some James Blunt on and look out the window when it’s raining and reflect on the glorious Summers we shared. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you need to define needy though?

Excellent question, which I will attempt to answer post haste. But first I need to get the mash on my cottage pie first, I like doing the swirls with the fork, that’s the best bit.

Do you go one way or both though? I go both

Yeah both, I make little peaks and troughs. That way you get a better crust.

You’re very welcome

Bit Of cheese too?"

Only when I don’t wash under my bell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot.

I’d probably fall in love with your willy tbf

There’s a man attached to that willy, a man with hopes and fears. "

. I’d teach you to like bjs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot.

And what about when it's the man that does that falling in love shit? Needy as fuck...

I put some James Blunt on and look out the window when it’s raining and reflect on the glorious Summers we shared. "

I bet that annoys the cat. He hates James Blunt doesn’t he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to define needy though?

Excellent question, which I will attempt to answer post haste. But first I need to get the mash on my cottage pie first, I like doing the swirls with the fork, that’s the best bit.

Do you go one way or both though? I go both

Yeah both, I make little peaks and troughs. That way you get a better crust.

You’re very welcome

Bit Of cheese too?

Only when I don’t wash under my bell."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are these needy men needing anyway? Just a bit of attention, or adoration and admiration too?

I need people to tell me I'm pretty.

You're beautiful darling x"

Aww thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot.

And what about when it's the man that does that falling in love shit? Needy as fuck...

I put some James Blunt on and look out the window when it’s raining and reflect on the glorious Summers we shared.

I bet that annoys the cat. He hates James Blunt doesn’t he? "

Chris is more of a jazz cat, he likes a bit of Miles Davis.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Of course men are more needy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot.

And what about when it's the man that does that falling in love shit? Needy as fuck...

I put some James Blunt on and look out the window when it’s raining and reflect on the glorious Summers we shared.

I bet that annoys the cat. He hates James Blunt doesn’t he?

Chris is more of a jazz cat, he likes a bit of Miles Davis."

I'm ridiculously delighted that I remembered the cat's name is Chris.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I think some are. But there is the adorably unsure of oneself and just wanting a smidge of reassurance type, and the other type where they expect 24 adoration and a shrine dedicated to their cock in the spare room.

Some cocks deserve a shrine.

No need to thank me Op for that contribution.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Some cocks deserve a shrine.

No need to thank me Op for that contribution.

And some, voodoo pins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot.

And what about when it's the man that does that falling in love shit? Needy as fuck...

I put some James Blunt on and look out the window when it’s raining and reflect on the glorious Summers we shared.

I bet that annoys the cat. He hates James Blunt doesn’t he?

Chris is more of a jazz cat, he likes a bit of Miles Davis."

Are you like a Male version of a mad cat lady?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot.

And what about when it's the man that does that falling in love shit? Needy as fuck...

I put some James Blunt on and look out the window when it’s raining and reflect on the glorious Summers we shared.

I bet that annoys the cat. He hates James Blunt doesn’t he?

Chris is more of a jazz cat, he likes a bit of Miles Davis."

I like Chris’ taste.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm very gotty at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they are becoming more needy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends... men are definitely more needy at the start, whilst women play it cool.

But women are waaaaaay more needy in the long run. Without a doubt.

Yeah, when they fall in love with you stuff, happens a lot.

And what about when it's the man that does that falling in love shit? Needy as fuck...

I put some James Blunt on and look out the window when it’s raining and reflect on the glorious Summers we shared.

I bet that annoys the cat. He hates James Blunt doesn’t he?

Chris is more of a jazz cat, he likes a bit of Miles Davis.

Are you like a Male version of a mad cat lady?"

He’s not my cat, it’s next doors, but he always pops round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed

I don’t like when it’s just a cock. I like a bit of body attached. but hes only little does that not count as a bit of body

Who is?"
my moriarty cos hes a shorty like me under 6ft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More demanding, in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed

I don’t like when it’s just a cock. I like a bit of body attached. but hes only little does that not count as a bit of body

Who is?my moriarty cos hes a shorty like me under 6ft

I dont imagine you being short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed

I don’t like when it’s just a cock. I like a bit of body attached. but hes only little does that not count as a bit of body

Who is?my moriarty cos hes a shorty like me under 6ft

I dont imagine you being short. "

Not much taller than a teabag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed

I don’t like when it’s just a cock. I like a bit of body attached. but hes only little does that not count as a bit of body

Who is?my moriarty cos hes a shorty like me under 6ft

I dont imagine you being short. "
im like pappa smurf minus blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed

I don’t like when it’s just a cock. I like a bit of body attached. but hes only little does that not count as a bit of body

Who is?my moriarty cos hes a shorty like me under 6ft

I dont imagine you being short.

Not much taller than a teabag

Like a teacup pup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed

I don’t like when it’s just a cock. I like a bit of body attached. but hes only little does that not count as a bit of body

Who is?my moriarty cos hes a shorty like me under 6ft

I dont imagine you being short. im like pappa smurf minus blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed

I don’t like when it’s just a cock. I like a bit of body attached. but hes only little does that not count as a bit of body

Who is?my moriarty cos hes a shorty like me under 6ft

I dont imagine you being short.

Not much taller than a teabag

Like a teacup pup

dunno what that is but it sounds funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get out of the bath

Nice profile pic

But it’s got a cock in and you don’t like that.

I know. But I like his and you know I like yours. I don’t like many tbf. They are both very pretty indeed

I don’t like when it’s just a cock. I like a bit of body attached. but hes only little does that not count as a bit of body

Who is?my moriarty cos hes a shorty like me under 6ft

I dont imagine you being short.

Not much taller than a teabag

Like a teacup pup

Lol...yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not needy

I am kind of the opposite

Cold fish material emotionally

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

I think people have become more shallow than needy.

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I think you need to define needy though?

Excellent question, which I will attempt to answer post haste. But first I need to get the mash on my cottage pie first, I like doing the swirls with the fork, that’s the best bit.

Do you go one way or both though? I go both

Yeah both, I make little peaks and troughs. That way you get a better crust.

You’re very welcome "

Cottage pie and a pretty cock my favourite

I hope there’s plenty of gravy

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