FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Afterthoughts

Jump to newest
 

By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Quite often when I’m in a conversation with someone I have an afterthought. It’s easy when talking to add it into the conversation but when messaging of for example chatting to someone on here if I have an afterthought I’m not sure what to do? If it’s someone I know it’s easy to send a second message but what do I do if it’s somebody new? Do I wait until the message back or do I send a second message regardless? Is the second message ok to send or is that seen as harassment and too needy?

What do you do?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd send it - if it's worth saying, it won't look like you're being over eager

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I send. I think you get a message saying they havent replied to your first message

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Just send it. I don't see it as needy if you're having a conversation with the other person.

Trying to remember stuff to tell them the next time around is a ball ache.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I usually send a 'ps'

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually send it yes, but then I never know if they see the first message then as it comes up as read in my sent box even when it hasnt been.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send it...

Communication is the key

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Send it .. it's just chatting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's an afterthought then it's related to the last message so I wouldn't see that as needy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I generally prefer one concurrent message, so hold on to an after t, or let it go. If it was to correan important error, I'd send straight away, of it could offend, without it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

That tends to be what I do

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally prefer one concurrent message, so hold on to an after t, or let it go. If it was to correan important error, I'd send straight away, of it could offend, without it."

I say something stupid so send another message to clarify I wasn't being offensive.

That message usually digs me deeper and sounds worse so I send another to apologise.

That sounds insincere so I send another message to explain.

Then I send another message to apologise for saying sorry too many times.

The next message says I know I sound a bit crazy but I was just trying to dig myself out of the hole.

The final message says "i luv u xxxxxxx"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"I generally prefer one concurrent message, so hold on to an after t, or let it go. If it was to correan important error, I'd send straight away, of it could offend, without it.

I say something stupid so send another message to clarify I wasn't being offensive.

That message usually digs me deeper and sounds worse so I send another to apologise.

That sounds insincere so I send another message to explain.

Then I send another message to apologise for saying sorry too many times.

The next message says I know I sound a bit crazy but I was just trying to dig myself out of the hole.

The final message says "i luv u xxxxxxx""

I would have blocked you before the hole digging message

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally prefer one concurrent message, so hold on to an after t, or let it go. If it was to correan important error, I'd send straight away, of it could offend, without it.

I say something stupid so send another message to clarify I wasn't being offensive.

That message usually digs me deeper and sounds worse so I send another to apologise.

That sounds insincere so I send another message to explain.

Then I send another message to apologise for saying sorry too many times.

The next message says I know I sound a bit crazy but I was just trying to dig myself out of the hole.

The final message says "i luv u xxxxxxx""

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top