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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

Ok for us single pringles

What’s the very best thing about being single ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having No one to answer to

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

It has allowed me to rediscover myself again and realise that I deserve to be happy.

And I get the bed to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That lovely feeling of space and peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That lovely feeling of space and peace. "

This

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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

"That lovely feeling of space and peace.

This"

Ooh yes I like that

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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

"It has allowed me to rediscover myself again and realise that I deserve to be happy.

And I get the bed to myself

I’m quite liking being my own bestie too

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Doing your own thing not having to answer to anyone and being able to snore in bed without getting an elbow to the rib cage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Freedom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silence and not having to tidy up if I don't feel like it.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Making your own decisions, without running them past anyone else.

Bed to yourself.

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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

Nobody farting in the bed apart from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can sit in bed eating peanut butter straight from the jar and no one can tell me off for it.

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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

"Making your own decisions, without running them past anyone else.

Bed to yourself.

Cool but I have always made my own decisions anyway

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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

"I can sit in bed eating peanut butter straight from the jar and no one can tell me off for it. "

Mmmmm sounds yummy no one should be telling you off anyway

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Having the ability to do what i want, when i want with who i want. Going to bed without someone snoring his head off beside you and less washing and ironing is always an added bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing what you want when you want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can sit in bed eating peanut butter straight from the jar and no one can tell me off for it.

Mmmmm sounds yummy no one should be telling you off anyway"

The irony is that my work crush does that and gets told off by his missus for it.

I like having my own room and space and time and freedom too. In my personal life, like with bills, rent, budgeting, all of that, the only person I have to rely on is myself.

And I have no one telling me off for buying 'too many books' which is also a plus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not having to go to IKEA, and being able to go out on my bike anytime I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything

Best thing I've ever done, deciding I was worthy of being free.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Randomly deciding at 3.30am that I want a salt beef beigel from Brick Lane and being able to go get one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok for us single pringles

What’s the very best thing about being single ?"

Sitting in my underpants watching Netflix with a bottle of Malbec, then falling asleep on the sofa or getting up at 3am for a frantic porn wank. Would still prefer to wake a lover up by penetrating her though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having the ability to do what i want, when i want with who i want. Going to bed without someone snoring his head off beside you and less washing and ironing is always an added bonus."

Make him do his washing, and yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok for us single pringles

What’s the very best thing about being single ?

But you can eat crisps all day!!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

You can go around the house with sudocrem on your face, immac on your top lip, a hair mask on, and dribble in your sleep, and won’t feel judged.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Ok for us single pringles

What’s the very best thing about being single ?"

Not having to run decisions past another person all the time.

All the bed.

All the remote controls.

Can fart whenever I want.

25% council tax discount.

Only need to do my own laundry.

Long baths can be had in peace.

Toilet seat stays down.

No random "other people" hair in drain. *Shudders*

There's more but that's the gist for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like my own space, thought space too, it's not all great though.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok for us single pringles

What’s the very best thing about being single ?

Not having to run decisions past another person all the time.

All the bed.

All the remote controls.

Can fart whenever I want.

25% council tax discount.

Only need to do my own laundry.

Long baths can be had in peace.

Toilet seat stays down.

No random "other people" hair in drain. *Shudders*

There's more but that's the gist for me."

All of the above, and no nagging. I can rule the bathroom at my own fucking pace, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok for us single pringles

What’s the very best thing about being single ?

Not having to run decisions past another person all the time.

All the bed.

All the remote controls.

Can fart whenever I want.

25% council tax discount.

Only need to do my own laundry.

Long baths can be had in peace.

Toilet seat stays down.

No random "other people" hair in drain. *Shudders*

There's more but that's the gist for me."

All of the above, and no nagging. I can tile the bathroom at my own fucking pace, thank you.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Having breakfast...naked

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I can sit in bed eating peanut butter straight from the jar and no one can tell me off for it.

Mmmmm sounds yummy no one should be telling you off anyway

The irony is that my work crush does that and gets told off by his missus for it.

I like having my own room and space and time and freedom too. In my personal life, like with bills, rent, budgeting, all of that, the only person I have to rely on is myself.

And I have no one telling me off for buying 'too many books' which is also a plus. "

Oh sweet summer child....there is no such thing as "too many books".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the final say on how the house is decorated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one to answer too and a chance to meet new people without people being jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sharing the king sized bed, starfishing!

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

The lack of ear ache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one moving my house keys around to random places and then denying it. I really did think I was losing my mind at times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s got to be having the bed to myself. And the sofa to myself. And all my snacks to myself too.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

I can release wind as and when...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can release wind as and when...

I do that too... sometimes just to get a disgusted look from hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the final say on how the house is decorated

So do i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having breakfast...naked"

Yep. That too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can go around the house with sudocrem on your face, immac on your top lip, a hair mask on, and dribble in your sleep, and won’t feel judged."

I could do this... but choose not to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starfishing! And having me time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can sit in bed eating peanut butter straight from the jar and no one can tell me off for it.

Mmmmm sounds yummy no one should be telling you off anyway

The irony is that my work crush does that and gets told off by his missus for it.

I like having my own room and space and time and freedom too. In my personal life, like with bills, rent, budgeting, all of that, the only person I have to rely on is myself.

And I have no one telling me off for buying 'too many books' which is also a plus.

Oh sweet summer child....there is no such thing as "too many books". "

Ohhh I know.

Some people might think there is, but those people are very wrong. Very very wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can sit in bed eating peanut butter straight from the jar and no one can tell me off for it.

Mmmmm sounds yummy no one should be telling you off anyway

The irony is that my work crush does that and gets told off by his missus for it.

I like having my own room and space and time and freedom too. In my personal life, like with bills, rent, budgeting, all of that, the only person I have to rely on is myself.

And I have no one telling me off for buying 'too many books' which is also a plus.

Oh sweet summer child....there is no such thing as "too many books".

Ohhh I know.

Some people might think there is, but those people are very wrong. Very very wrong. "

Truly so

I sacrificed a spare room in the house for a good book haven lol theres tons of them in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Silence and not having to tidy up if I don't feel like it. "

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can sit in bed eating peanut butter straight from the jar and no one can tell me off for it.

Mmmmm sounds yummy no one should be telling you off anyway

The irony is that my work crush does that and gets told off by his missus for it.

I like having my own room and space and time and freedom too. In my personal life, like with bills, rent, budgeting, all of that, the only person I have to rely on is myself.

And I have no one telling me off for buying 'too many books' which is also a plus. "

Never ever too many books! Every wall is a bookshelf in my house!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can go around the house with sudocrem on your face, immac on your top lip, a hair mask on, and dribble in your sleep, and won’t feel judged.

I could do this... but choose not to!

Ok, we know, you married the perfect man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my own space. As much as initially I hated coming home to an empty and quiet place. I love walking around naked without fear of anyone walking in. I love the freedom of it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be your own boss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Star fishing x

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Being able to do what I want when I want and if I want to have my dinner in bed with a drink watching TV then I can

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

Doing what i want, when i want, with who i want.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

No arguments

No ninja like fridge raids or empty cartons

A clean bathroom that never smells like fat man morning sh!ts

My TV has forgotten the channel Dave exists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being able to leave the tv tuned to Dave .

My colour scheme.

Cats can sleep on the bed.

Fridge full of meat.

I can have a cider at 3am after night shift without being given "the look".

Fall asleep on the sofa watching Dave.

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By *ust chilled out meMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Doing what you want not having to awnser to anyone no arguments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything

Best thing I've ever done, deciding I was worthy of being free. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything

Best thing I've ever done, deciding I was worthy of being free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starfishing

Windows open/ closed as i wish

Duvet to myself

Laptop in bed

Light on if i want

Rest of house is run by kids so bedrooms mine

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

The fact I can be spontaneous.. I had a friend ask me if wanted to stay over and I paused to consider but then realised I can do what I want... That was a really a wonderful moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can do what I want and when I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a total slob sometimes and not shaving my legs for weeks.

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By *reeMan
over a year ago

Paisley

"Having No one to answer to "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being in a relationship with someone incompatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That i can play football 3 times a week and watch sport on TV whenever i want without being nagged at

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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

"No arguments

No ninja like fridge raids or empty cartons

A clean bathroom that never smells like fat man morning sh!ts

My TV has forgotten the channel Dave exists "

What’s with the empty cartons lol

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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

"Not being in a relationship with someone incompatible."

Ideally shouldn’t ever be

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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

"Not having to go to IKEA, and being able to go out on my bike anytime I like

But it’s IKEA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing what the hell I like whenever I like and not having to think about or look after anyone else... Bliss!

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Freedom but a think single with friends with benefits best combination

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Looking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get home everything is where I left it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact I can be spontaneous.. I had a friend ask me if wanted to stay over and I paused to consider but then realised I can do what I want... That was a really a wonderful moment

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only good thing is the meatballs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Randomly deciding at 3.30am that I want a salt beef beigel from Brick Lane and being able to go get one. "

Why would this change in a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being able to do what you want when you want without getting ear ache

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By *ink Panther 123Man
over a year ago

Colnbrook

"Having No one to answer to "

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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

"Randomly deciding at 3.30am that I want a salt beef beigel from Brick Lane and being able to go get one.

Why would this change in a relationship?"

Possibly didn’t want to buy 2

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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

"Only good thing is the meatballs lol"

Whose meatballs ?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

For me it’s not having someone there to constantly put me down that I love! Not being made to feel like a fat, ugly, useless waste of space!

It’s (within reason as my kids live with me) being able to see who I want, go out with whom I want, sleep with whom I want etc etc without having to constantly seek the approval/permission of someone else!

I’ve also got used to having the bed/wardrobe space to myself!

After six years alone I’d find it very difficult to have a 24/7 relationship again! Any guy I lived with in future would have to pretty amazing - though ‘half a relationship ‘ definitely has its advantages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it’s not having someone there to constantly put me down that I love! Not being made to feel like a fat, ugly, useless waste of space!

I’ve also got used to having the bed/wardrobe space to myself!

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By *ibblingnewt OP Woman
over a year ago

by the sea

"For me it’s not having someone there to constantly put me down that I love! Not being made to feel like a fat, ugly, useless waste of space!

I’ve also got used to having the bed/wardrobe space to myself!

That sounded like an horrible shit of a partner

Why treat someone like that

Onwards and upwards, you enjoy your freedom and glad you will be able to recognise a good bloke now

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Doing your own thing not having to answer to anyone and being able to snore in bed without getting an elbow to the rib cage

^^ this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ all of the above

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"For me it’s not having someone there to constantly put me down that I love! Not being made to feel like a fat, ugly, useless waste of space!

I’ve also got used to having the bed/wardrobe space to myself!

That sounded like an horrible shit of a partner

Why treat someone like that

Onwards and upwards, you enjoy your freedom and glad you will be able to recognise a good bloke now "

Actually it was both my exes - 20 years at roughly 10 years each!

After being single for a while I decided the common denominator was me! I have a tendency to allow people to treat me badly!

6 years being single and I’m a totally different person! I’ll never be anyone’s doormat again!

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