FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications putting you off

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?"

Yes they have done in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly at first, but if they have messaged you then they obviously like what they see. I wouldn't let it stop me from meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavens no , we are all individuals and who knows pictures can and are touched up .

Be confident in the person you are .

If they are messaging you then they must have a connection and interest

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Yes as some are real hotties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they messaged me, I must be hot as well

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Ah no. It just means they have good taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bothered how "hot" people's previous meets are, so no that wouldn't out me off. However, I do like to see veris and if someone has been verified by someone on my go-to list (known bareback gangbangers for example) then I wouldn't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at verifications to assess if we're likely to get on i.e. people met have similar traits etc

I freely admit to being intimidated and not following up some conversations as a result.

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over a year ago

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I might wonder what they liked about me in comparison, but that on its own wouldn't put me off, no

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

No, absolutely not. I don't second guess someone else's attraction.

If they're messaging me and want to meet, why would I turn them down based upon my own negative self image?

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Yeah it does if they are all beautiful slim women, i do kinda think im a fetish or a tick box, but then im still worthy so fuck it...which i do

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Verifications are simply useful to know whether people are genuine.

We try to curtail ours to show a range of meets, so any repeat verifications we tend to keep the last one.

I will admit I do find it interesting to look back through our verifications to see who else they may have met.

Always fun to look back and see oh yes we have met them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. As many have said you've obviously got what they're looking for and this is more than looks. Remember also who would write a bad Veri for a good looking person? Even if 100% true others would think 'sour grapes' something happened.

If someone after being interested in me does want to message me because of said types of verifications then maybe they lack the sexy confidence I'd be looking for so to me it's seen as a natural filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

Even those that regularly eat steak like a bit of tripe every now n then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope

Even those that regularly eat steak like a bit of tripe every now n then

Stupid comments aside ... it wouldn't bother me

If I feel that click, I'd chat and see where it led

Through general conversation you can get things out of people that they have no idea they have given away

Make the final decision based on that and a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have cringed at some of the verifications, with seeing who shagged who and what they got up to. Some people certainly are not fussy who they go with and that puts me off.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Initially I would be very cautious if the people they have previously met we’re at odds with how I look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they’ve met lots of people it would put me off regardless (sexually not socially obviously)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be wondering why me if they’d met all these hot slim people. X

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes.

I get the feeling that if they have the body of a greek god, and have been fucking women who look like Aphrodite, then they must have misplaced their glasses wanting to fuck me.

Although saying that, a bloke who was a beefcake did tell me i should never judge a mans sexual type by his cover.

Words i have not lived by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they’ve met lots of people it would put me off regardless (sexually not socially obviously) "

What’s classed as lots? Over what time frame? I don’t really bother with verifications my last 3 meets I’ve not verified or been verified so many have more than what’s shown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would probably say something along the lines of the girls on your veris are hot why are you interested in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily. However it would depend on what was written. There is language that could be used that I would find off-putting on a public verification.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?"

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they’ve met lots of people it would put me off regardless (sexually not socially obviously)

What’s classed as lots? Over what time frame? I don’t really bother with verifications my last 3 meets I’ve not verified or been verified so many have more than what’s shown. "

Obviously they do, I do. I don’t show one of mine. Really depends what they say, not sure how many really. I’m not looking to meet lots of people though therefore would rather find someone the same. Not knocking anyone though. Like I’ve said before we’re all here for different things. You don’t have to be a swinger to be on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because that's not how I use the site and therefore would be a bad match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they’ve met lots of people it would put me off regardless (sexually not socially obviously)

What’s classed as lots? Over what time frame? I don’t really bother with verifications my last 3 meets I’ve not verified or been verified so many have more than what’s shown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they’ve met lots of people it would put me off regardless (sexually not socially obviously)

What’s classed as lots? Over what time frame? I don’t really bother with verifications my last 3 meets I’ve not verified or been verified so many have more than what’s shown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they’ve met lots of people it would put me off regardless (sexually not socially obviously)

What’s classed as lots? Over what time frame? I don’t really bother with verifications my last 3 meets I’ve not verified or been verified so many have more than what’s shown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they’ve met lots of people it would put me off regardless (sexually not socially obviously)

What’s classed as lots? Over what time frame? I don’t really bother with verifications my last 3 meets I’ve not verified or been verified so many have more than what’s shown.

Copy cat.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it would put me off. Ive very often said no for that reason

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?"

I'm fat and some people don't like that, if someone had veris and they were all from slender athletic people and they're messaging me I'd doblots of double checks to make sure they knew what I look like and that they're into it.

I don't feel bad, wrong or inadequate but waaaay back at the start of my fab venture I met a guy who had been lovely in chat and at social but when we met he was off. I paused things to talk and investigate because the vibe was wrong and I felt awkward which I never usually do.

He chatted a bit and then said my body wasn't a turn on for him. He likes BBW but only the very specific type. Round face, big boobs, wasp waist, thick ass and thighs. (I have a tiny ass

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We talked it over all was good but I'd driven there and had had a drink by they point so we changed plans had beers and movies instead.

I've met folk who'd be fine on the cover of GQ and I've met chunky monkeys and dad bods too.

Tbh it's the glint in their eye that does it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. It would make me think they would be right to pick me!

I seriously gave up comparing myself to everyone else a long time ago. I don't give two hoots how hot previous meets have been as I'm probably hotter

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"No, absolutely not. I don't second guess someone else's attraction.

If they're messaging me and want to meet, why would I turn them down based upon my own negative self image? "

That a good fucking answer. Mind if I steal it for future use?

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By *onnie1961Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Nope it would put me off .some people are just so wried x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d be wondering why me if they’d met all these hot slim people. X "

Maybe they weren't as great as they thought they'd be. Some are looking notches and popularity. It looks good but doesn't necessarily reflect the taste.. this can apply to any group.

So people should take it it at face value. If they've engaged then there's an interest they with to pursue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, absolutely not. I don't second guess someone else's attraction.

If they're messaging me and want to meet, why would I turn them down based upon my own negative self image?

That a good fucking answer. Mind if I steal it for future use? "

Yes it is and reflects a self worth and self confidence that is attractive. This can often transpire under the sheets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. As many have said you've obviously got what they're looking for and this is more than looks. Remember also who would write a bad Veri for a good looking person? Even if 100% true others would think 'sour grapes' something happened.

Good point about the filter.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

If all the other women they have met were slim then yes I would be put off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have cringed at some of the verifications, with seeing who shagged who and what they got up to. Some people certainly are not fussy who they go with and that puts me off."

Some people have said they wouldn't meet someone who had a veri from me.

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By *ust chilled out meMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

No iff you get on and want to meet why let veris put you off meeting them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not necessarily. However it would depend on what was written. There is language that could be used that I would find off-putting on a public verification."

What kind of language?

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’d feel chuffed they considered me in the same league. It’s worth bearing in mind that veris are invariably very positive and possibly a little flattering?

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

No, I wouldn’t let that put me off...but the language and amount of detail they've used to describe their meets might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?"

Maybe a little.... I'm not ripped or or hug like a babies arm holding an apple or been blessed with the looks of Chris Hemsworth.... so i would maybe question why would they be interested in me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not necessarily. However it would depend on what was written. There is language that could be used that I would find off-putting on a public verification.

What kind of language?"

If it was overly explicit or revealed more than I would ever wish to have in a public verification. I prefer my sex life to be less of a public affair so I would be wary.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

No not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not necessarily. However it would depend on what was written. There is language that could be used that I would find off-putting on a public verification.

What kind of language?

If it was overly explicit or revealed more than I would ever wish to have in a public verification. I prefer my sex life to be less of a public affair so I would be wary. "

Definitely. I see veris as proving someone is genuine not how amazingly they can suck a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not necessarily. However it would depend on what was written. There is language that could be used that I would find off-putting on a public verification.

What kind of language?

If it was overly explicit or revealed more than I would ever wish to have in a public verification. I prefer my sex life to be less of a public affair so I would be wary.

Definitely. I see veris as proving someone is genuine not how amazingly they can suck a cock. "

Did I just make that word up?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No, I take people as I find them for my self. I'd hope they do the same for me. The hotness or notness of the people in their verifications is of little importance to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have cringed at some of the verifications, with seeing who shagged who and what they got up to. Some people certainly are not fussy who they go with and that puts me off.

Some people have said they wouldn't meet someone who had a veri from me. "

I've had the same. Just means we're they're a different type to who we'd be wanting to meet. It demonstrates what I've said often enough, people use veris as a filter. Anyone who says they don't aren't being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not necessarily. However it would depend on what was written. There is language that could be used that I would find off-putting on a public verification.

What kind of language?

If it was overly explicit or revealed more than I would ever wish to have in a public verification. I prefer my sex life to be less of a public affair so I would be wary.

Definitely. I see veris as proving someone is genuine not how amazingly they can suck a cock. "

I have used them as a little memento of a special time together as well but I’d be horrified if one of those was made public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d be wondering why me if they’d met all these hot slim people. X

Maybe they weren't as great as they thought they'd be. Some are looking notches and popularity. It looks good but doesn't necessarily reflect the taste.. this can apply to any group.

So people should take it it at face value. If they've engaged then there's an interest they with to pursue."

Yes, I’ve had that said to me x

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?"

My hot verifications never came into question, I still decided to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?"

I can relate to what you have posted above but i actually get seriously put off if they have been verified by what i would consider "less than average or Not my type of individual or couple".

I couldnt bring myself to meeting someone if they have a veri list of pretty much "Fuck anything".

Call me harsh, call me shallow but im just saying it how it is

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Wouldnt put me off at all and i cerrtainly wouldnt question them about it id just think go me although "hot"people dont attract me just for being "hot"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?

My hot verifications never came into question, I still decided to meet you"

It was dark, it wasn't your fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot, no. All slim, yes.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

No. If anything, I'd be flattered that they were messaging me!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"If they’ve met lots of people it would put me off regardless (sexually not socially obviously) "

And it has!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they’ve met lots of people it would put me off regardless (sexually not socially obviously)

And it has! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't speak for all men but I know the women who have received a bit of a crush from me over the years has been a pretty varied bunch of body types and looks etc.

We don't all have a solid "type". I admire a bikini model's body as much as anyone. Doesn't mean I find all bigger ladies unattractive. Far from it!

If they every single one of their past meets was stick thin and blonde and you are a busty brunette with a big arse, I can see how it would raise an eyebrow though. I don't think it would be a terrible thing to send a light hearted message to them saying you do realise I got more in the boobs and bum department than it seems you are used to?! They will either quickly confirm that is not a issue at all or they will reveal they were not paying attention and you can move along lol.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not inadequate. I would wonder why on earth they were messaging me though!

Being serious, I think I'd be flattered. Recently something similar has happened and I find it all a bit of an ego boost. That's not to say I haven't wobbled out loud to a friend or two about it. But on the whole, it hasn't put me off. People like what they like and if that happens to be me, fucking fantastic.

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By *VjennyandpaulCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Blackpool

Don't be worried, guys don't look at the mantelpiece while they're poking the fire.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Verifications serve their purpose.

In a good and in a bad way.

I see it as a good way of getting to know what you are getting into.

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By *ayla321Woman
over a year ago

London

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By *ayla321Woman
over a year ago

London

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?

I can relate to what you have posted above but i actually get seriously put off if they have been verified by what i would consider "less than average or Not my type of individual or couple".

I couldnt bring myself to meeting someone if they have a veri list of pretty much "Fuck anything".

Call me harsh, call me shallow but im just saying it how it is "

Omg finally someone said it. Sometimes I see cute profiles, then when you see the verifications... no thanks I’m not sharing a partner with those people...

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

Yes I get put off by some of the people they have met previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it would make me remind them that I have a fat body and am middle aged with arthritis. So they know what they are getting.

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?"

Nope. I wouldn’t ever feel inadequate but I can understand those with low self confidence could be put off. Sad really.

Being “hot” is entirely subjective so one person’s “hot” could be another’s “meh”

Nancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?

I can relate to what you have posted above but i actually get seriously put off if they have been verified by what i would consider "less than average or Not my type of individual or couple".

I couldnt bring myself to meeting someone if they have a veri list of pretty much "Fuck anything".

Call me harsh, call me shallow but im just saying it how it is "

I don't think you're harsh or shallow, but calling people "anythings" makes you unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?

Nope. I wouldn’t ever feel inadequate but I can understand those with low self confidence could be put off. Sad really.

Being “hot” is entirely subjective so one person’s “hot” could be another’s “meh”

Nancy "

Exactly. I've seen some of the people who "picky/fussy/choosy" people have met and thought "No you're not".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do realise it's possible for a guy to like both slim and big women simultaneously, right?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Theres many things that put me off when looking at verfications but that's not one of them.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"No, absolutely not. I don't second guess someone else's attraction.

If they're messaging me and want to meet, why would I turn them down based upon my own negative self image?

That a good fucking answer. Mind if I steal it for future use? "

Feel free! I've been using it as a belief system for long enough.

I think that if people adopted this approach or recognised its validity then more people would be a good deal happier!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I only fuck page one birds, they is the hottest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only fuck page one birds, they is the hottest."

You think???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im fuckin awesome

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I only fuck page one birds, they is the hottest.

You think???

Ok sometimes a page 2 bird but only if I'm really gagging.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I only fuck page one birds, they is the hottest."

That's just not true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People do realise it's possible for a guy to like both slim and big women simultaneously, right?

If their veris reflect that, then that's not an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only fuck page one birds, they is the hottest.

That's just not true. "

I think I’ve only looked twice but from what I’ve seen I’m inclined to agree with you!

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"People do realise it's possible for a guy to like both slim and big women simultaneously, right?

I honestly don’t think a lot do! In my experience, here and elsewhere I’ve met some guys who have a specific BBW lust but most just like who they like.

Nothing stranger than folk

Nancy

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over a year ago

Sometimes there is some trepidation when we look at some veris and the people are hot, but if we are chatting to people they must have some interest in us, so we soon get over it. For us anyway it’s more to do with the banter, if we click and they seem like fun. Looks, age etc are secondary and less important to us x

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"People do realise it's possible for a guy to like both slim and big women simultaneously, right?

If their veris reflect that, then that's not an issue

That’s a little presumptive though? What if they’ve only met certain types because they’ve not had opportunity to not meet others?

Nancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People do realise it's possible for a guy to like both slim and big women simultaneously, right?

I honestly don’t think a lot do! In my experience, here and elsewhere I’ve met some guys who have a specific BBW lust but most just like who they like.

Nothing stranger than folk

Nancy"

I must just be a strange dude then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People do realise it's possible for a guy to like both slim and big women simultaneously, right?

If their veris reflect that, then that's not an issue

That’s a little presumptive though? What if they’ve only met certain types because they’ve not had opportunity to not meet others?

Nancy"

It's based on a personal experience I had. Presumptive or not, It influenced who I met from thereonin and I'm comfortable with that

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"People do realise it's possible for a guy to like both slim and big women simultaneously, right?

I honestly don’t think a lot do! In my experience, here and elsewhere I’ve met some guys who have a specific BBW lust but most just like who they like.

Nothing stranger than folk

Nancy

I must just be a strange dude then

No you’re normal

Well for liking a variety! Ha!

Nancy

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"People do realise it's possible for a guy to like both slim and big women simultaneously, right?

If their veris reflect that, then that's not an issue

That’s a little presumptive though? What if they’ve only met certain types because they’ve not had opportunity to not meet others?

Nancy

It's based on a personal experience I had. Presumptive or not, It influenced who I met from thereonin and I'm comfortable with that

Fair enough

Nancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well veris can put me off sending a first message, if all a womens veris are from toned muscled men shes not going to he interested in me.

If shes messaged me first then if there are any mentions of bareback or filled her with cum would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?"

As an average Male of a certain age. All I can say is "I should be so lucky to get a load of 'hot' verifications!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sallys minge i like her veris cos there mostly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only fuck page one birds, they is the hottest."

I can wholeheartedly disagree with page one birds being the hottest because I've been up there on occasion

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I only fuck page one birds, they is the hottest.

I can wholeheartedly disagree with page one birds being the hottest because I've been up there on occasion

I'll add you to my to do list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People do realise it's possible for a guy to like both slim and big women simultaneously, right?

Yep.

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We have been put off in the past by others veris or even themselves for being completely stunning. This includes being invited to party’s and looking at previous pictures where everyone involved were unbelievably attractive.

It certainly shouldn’t but the truth is it has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt put me off. To me it justifies that they are good company. Even if some one has very little veris or none. You never know that persons past.. veris are a big yes from me

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Ours are lukewarm at the best, so we have no problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only fuck page one birds, they is the hottest.

I can wholeheartedly disagree with page one birds being the hottest because I've been up there on occasion

I'll add you to my to do list."

OK I promise not to mention the qvc jacket

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

"I love sallys minge i like her veris cos there mostly me

Why keep re verifying? Genuine question to all

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"You get a message from someone who you like the look of. Nice profile and pics.

But then you look at their verifications. They've met lots of really hot people. All super sexy and verifications to die for.

Would it make you feel inadequate? Would hot veris put you off meeting them?

I can relate to what you have posted above but i actually get seriously put off if they have been verified by what i would consider "less than average or Not my type of individual or couple".

I couldnt bring myself to meeting someone if they have a veri list of pretty much "Fuck anything".

Call me harsh, call me shallow but im just saying it how it is

Omg finally someone said it. Sometimes I see cute profiles, then when you see the verifications... no thanks I’m not sharing a partner with those people..."

Exactly! Couldn’t have worded it better

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I only fuck page one birds, they is the hottest.

I can wholeheartedly disagree with page one birds being the hottest because I've been up there on occasion

I'll add you to my to do list.

OK I promise not to mention the qvc jacket

I literally have no idea what you're talking about so can only imagine you're referring to a conversation we had when I was d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love sallys minge i like her veris cos there mostly me

Why keep re verifying? Genuine question to all "

To preserve a memory mainly i like reading them and writing them i dont do it everytime anymore but shes over due another i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love sallys minge i like her veris cos there mostly me

Why keep re verifying? Genuine question to all "

One thing i look for are repeat veris. If i don't see them i assume rightly or wrongly that they are just single meet types. I'm not interested in that type as I prefer regular repeat meets. I find they are more satisfying and its fun exploring more and more with a few than with hundreds.

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