FabSwingers.com forum: Unwanted Facebook friend request

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After exchange Kik usernames and exchanging pics, I get a friend request from the same person!

At this point I dont know how they found me on Facebook, as my real name is not on Kik or on here. The person wouldn't have my email address or phone number either!

Can Facebook suggest friends based on kik connections? I fucking hope not!!!!

Does anyone have any ideas?

My picture I shared was not on any other social media.

Even if A conquest appeared on Facebook as a suggestion, I would never add anyone, it's just part of being discreet or at least that's my take on it..

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Iv had Facebook suggested friends from here etc come up. No iv not got name, number, same photos etc. At first it made me paranoid but after a few years I just put it down to being watched by Google or some shit

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

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Yeah, I dont have facebook on my phone, but it still gets info like this through whatsapp etc.

If you have kik properly setup it happens a lot less, but what i find is you only need to add one person from a kik group to whatsapp and then it shows you the real info of all the people in the kik group as they all added one or two of each other.

Anyway it will get a lot worse if the goverment has its way and links every person online to a real name, and they keep track of every site visited and if you paid to access porn or not, well I mean its gonna be messy. Friend suggestions of people who watched the same pornhub vids as you.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Ive seen facebook accounts of people on here never would i add as we keep it separate and to us its all about being discreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete your phone number from your facebook profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After exchange Kik usernames and exchanging pics, I get a friend request from the same person!

At this point I dont know how they found me on Facebook, as my real name is not on Kik or on here. The person wouldn't have my email address or phone number either!

Can Facebook suggest friends based on kik connections? I fucking hope not!!!!

Does anyone have any ideas?

My picture I shared was not on any other social media.

Even if A conquest appeared on Facebook as a suggestion, I would never add anyone, it's just part of being discreet or at least that's my take on it..

Do they live near you? They might know you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Delete your phone number from your facebook profile. "

I have it set so nobody can look me up by phone number or email.

"Just me" setting

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

"Delete your phone number from your facebook profile.

I have it set so nobody can look me up by phone number or email.

"Just me" setting

do you log in using the Facebook app?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Delete your phone number from your facebook profile.

I have it set so nobody can look me up by phone number or email.

"Just me" setting

do you log in using the Facebook app?"

Yes.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I dont use Facebook but I'd hate an unsolicited friend request from someone I'd been talking to!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"After exchange Kik usernames and exchanging pics, I get a friend request from the same person!

At this point I dont know how they found me on Facebook, as my real name is not on Kik or on here. The person wouldn't have my email address or phone number either!

Can Facebook suggest friends based on kik connections? I fucking hope not!!!!

Does anyone have any ideas?

My picture I shared was not on any other social media.

Even if A conquest appeared on Facebook as a suggestion, I would never add anyone, it's just part of being discreet or at least that's my take on it..

Do they live near you? They might know you."

They do. I think I'll avoid people nearby next time.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

"Delete your phone number from your facebook profile.

I have it set so nobody can look me up by phone number or email.

"Just me" setting

do you log in using the Facebook app?

Yes."

that could be why . .log in from Google instead. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont use Facebook but I'd hate an unsolicited friend request from someone I'd been talking to!"

I don't mind so much in a social setting (outside of swinging), but if you want to be discreet and that's all agreed up front it was pretty mortifying to get a Facebook friend request which reveals your true identity.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Did you send same pic as the one on Facebook?

Possibly reverse Google image search?

Which is why we don't send face pics if we do we make sure it's not one's on Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was tracked down on FB. Turns out it was incredibly easy for them to do using key bits of info from our profile. We’ve now shut our profile right down and are very cautious with what we share in initial messages.

Miss V

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We made a rookie error a few years ago.

Gave our number to a few people and then our contact lists synced with Facebook and all these people you may know who just happened to be swinger's popped up on Facebook.

Also why we don't use WhatsApp.

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