FabSwingers.com forum: seriously what does it take on this site

By *robinson OP Man
over a year ago

Alton

Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits. "

Arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits. "

Vaginas work too......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits. "

Just don't be a tit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta be the right avenger first off

Huuuuuulk smaaaaaash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits.

Vaginas work too...... "

Failing that, charm buddy.... That's our only weapon....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good morning

Hope you eventually have a good Easter Day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't a case of being bothered or not.

No reply is a no thanks.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Joined two weeks ago, it can take time I’m afraid

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back"

2weeks mate. youv been here 2weeks... give it time, it'll happen

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

A positive attitude, good profile and pics help. Faq section states no reply means no interest. Did you not read that section on joining OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good morning

Hope you eventually have a good Easter Day."

Good Morning Doc

Happy Easter

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Be their type...this isn't a charity.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Tits.

Vaginas work too......

Failing that, charm buddy.... That's our only weapon.... "

Don't forget cake

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

Hi, don’t let it get you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that is all you can offer then I wouldn’t message back either, it’s surely a given to be polite and respectful?

Are you ensuring your profile is the best it could be? Good variety of photos? Are you reading profiles of those you are messaging and ensuring you are what they are looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good morning

Hope you eventually have a good Easter Day.

Good Morning Doc

Happy Easter

Good morning to you Cheeky - the same to you. Have a lovely day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And chocolate....

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Try throwing your toys out of the pram, fab women love that

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Not another one of these threads....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits.

Vaginas work too......

Failing that, charm buddy.... That's our only weapon....

Don't forget cake "

And biscuits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's crap isn't it.

Many women and couples get hundreds of messages and it's impossible to reply to them all. If they try to reply, more keep coming in.

I think it's really bad if you send a nice message and get no response at all, but would you really want to meet someone like that?

The chances of a man getting a reply on here are very slim.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Tits.

Vaginas work too......

Failing that, charm buddy.... That's our only weapon....

Don't forget cake

And biscuits

And Prosecco

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Also, you have only been here 2 weeks. Engage in the cam rooms and forums with people in a positive, non ranty way that will also help to get you noticed for the right reasons not the wrong ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don’t know what to say I have a profile deliberately designed to put people off messaging me, but they ignore it and message me anyway. I’m brutally honest about being a shit shag and they are still interested in meeting me. I don’t get it, it’s a weird site

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Another entitled bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits. "

What rubi said..... i gave up long ago... I’m now more like if it happens it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience ....two weeks is nothing ...

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Tits.

Vaginas work too......

Failing that, charm buddy.... That's our only weapon....

Don't forget cake "

Cake is a great way to start.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Just be patient join in with forum chat and cam room chat. Good luck!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP..a couple of thoughts..

1. What are your perceptions of swinging? Do they match the actual reality? If you just want a fuck, there are other sites...

2. Is your profile enticing? Are you selling yourself well? What do you have to offer potential meets?

Consider the quality of your pics. Is your profile text bland?

3. Read the site rules, especialy regarding 'no reply means no thanks'. Do you reply to all unsolicited junk mail you get through the post?

4. Consider participating in the forums. Get known, but not for moaning.

Swinging is meant to be fun, so try not to stress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP..a couple of thoughts..

1. What are your perceptions of swinging? Do they match the actual reality? If you just want a fuck, there are other sites...

2. Is your profile enticing? Are you selling yourself well? What do you have to offer potential meets?

Consider the quality of your pics. Is your profile text bland?

3. Read the site rules, especialy regarding 'no reply means no thanks'. Do you reply to all unsolicited junk mail you get through the post?

4. Consider participating in the forums. Get known, but not for moaning.

Swinging is meant to be fun, so try not to stress."

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye mate just be yourself and if you don't get a reply to a message never be a dick about it, women on here get soooo many messages they might not even see it. The odds are stacked against you lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always message back unless the first message is just crude and not thought out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits.

Arse

Pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tits.

Arse

Pulse

Half my messages don't get replies. Don't worry about it. Move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It isn't a case of being bothered or not.

No reply is a no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to loose that negativity man!

Patience is the way forward.

Fab is a platform for people to seek different things. To see it has sure fire way is actually trivial.

It’s all about knowing yourself and then the devils in the detail in what others seek and would you be a good match.

Take your time, be tasteful and don’t moan about not getting a meet. Desperation is not an attractive trait but on the other hand don’t go for someone that you wouldn’t in normal day to day life....just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charm and humour.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It's not instantshag.com just saying

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

"It's not instantshag.com just saying"

As per my header!!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"It's not instantshag.com just saying

As per my header!!

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By *robinson OP Man
over a year ago

Alton

Cheers guys and girls this wasn't meant to be a rant or me being a little bitch rather a genuine question about how to be successful on here

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Cheers guys and girls this wasn't meant to be a rant or me being a little bitch rather a genuine question about how to be successful on here "

I can read. It was a rant.

Good luck.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Tits.

Arse

Pulse

I'm tempted to go without a pulse to improve my chances

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

Wit, char, and a can do attitude

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Tits.

Arse

Pulse

I'm tempted to go without a pulse to improve my chances

*Cough* saying nowt.....

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Tits.

Arse

Pulse

I'm tempted to go without a pulse to improve my chances

*Cough* saying nowt.....

You're so going over my knee young "cough" lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just give it time, ignore the snide comments on here, Just stay polite and respectful when messaging and you’ll find someone soon enough.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Just give it time, ignore the snide comments on here, Just stay polite and respectful when messaging and you’ll find someone soon enough. "

.....and have something for ppl to hang coats on......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just give it time, ignore the snide comments on here, Just stay polite and respectful when messaging and you’ll find someone soon enough. "

Join in on the forum too. It can be a good way to make friends. Maybe look for social events in the Meets forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been on and off here for years and only recently had my first meet it takes time. need alot of patiants here

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