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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Almost all couples profiles are heavily dominated by pics of the female. If there’s a male pic it’ll often be bland, a single cock and/or torso pic. And yet, so many couples say “we only play as a couple”.

We want to play with couples and so we want to see the male and we want to see the two of you together.

Q. What do you have on your profile?

Q. If there’s only a couple or none of the male, why?

Q. What do you like to see?

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

In general I've heard that men 're more "visually" orientated regarding sex, so men I think would prefer to see more pics of the female half of a couple.

However pics of the couple together are Definately in order.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

We find the same but I think we actually have more pictures of me on our profile than Red though

It's frustrating for Red when there's no pictures of the guy and it makes us suspicious why there isn't.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Whilst I agree that a couples profile where both halves are meeting, should have pics of both of them, speaking from the perspective of my own profile, I think one of the problems is there are only so many single male "poses" available - whereas for a lady a simple change of lingerie can make the same pic different, and that may sometimes be the reason.

Obviously where they are looking to meet single men only it makes sense that the female half of the couple is the main one in the pics, but where they're looking to meet other couples, then a fair balance between both halves should be the aim.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

We found that tash's pics get more appreciation than mine to which i can see why lol im open to suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hiya, ours are pretty bland really, but they are a mix of the two of us, no cock shots though sorry

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We have a fair share of us both. Men in general have bad photos regardless of it being a couples profile or a single profile. Shows lack of imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have an even balance of my photos and Holly’s even though we are not looking to meet anyone.

We like to keep our photos pretty tame and tasteful although Holly likes my bum being on show as you can look but not touch what belongs to her

I have noticed Holly’s photos get a lot more attention than mine but I understand why people find her pictures much hotter than mine as I think the same way.

LJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always had pics of us both together. Profile pic was us together.

If couples are meeting couples, they should have pics of both people. Otherwise it's that they don't give a shit about the women, it's all about the men and what they want to see.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I pretty much expected to get comments from likeminded folks. Nobody defending their approach I see. It’s not surprising that the females get the most attention given the number of desperate horny males. And then there’s the women that like women. Not so many men who like men!!

All we ask for is to see the two of you together, having some fun. Not the standard crappy pics but a good smattering of different shots, angles and activities. Use a little imagination and don’t be lazy.

Anyway, if you want our attention, that’s what we look for.

Happy Easter you lovely lot xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have an equal balance of the guy and gal in our profile...

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

In our case it’s cause MrAbz likes photography, so by default takes more pictures! It’s an interesting point though, even though we’re looking for a bi-fem, it is to play with both of us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a good mixture of both of us , and D’s get a fair amount of attention too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a bit of both on ours, of course there are more of Jo, I enjoy taking pics of her sexy body and she enjoys me doing so but we struggle to get both of us in the pics as soon as we get close.....

D.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Almost all couples profiles are heavily dominated by pics of the female. If there’s a male pic it’ll often be bland, a single cock and/or torso pic. And yet, so many couples say “we only play as a couple”.

We want to play with couples and so we want to see the male and we want to see the two of you together.

Q. What do you have on your profile?

Q. If there’s only a couple or none of the male, why?

Q. What do you like to see?"

Our profile photos contain photographs of us both together as well as shots of each of us.

When we look at a couples profile photos we would expect to see at least one decent photo of them both together.

Mr2

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I would say by far the vast majority of our photos of us together. There are a couple of pictures just of the male. So what you see is what you get, both of us having a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it’s the one area of our profile that lets us down. I have one of mr but it’s in friends only. Some of the men that work under him are on here so he’s a bit wary of them recognising him. I do keep trying to get him on pics but he’s very reticent. But we’re happy to send a pic if interested in meeting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any constructive criticism please let us know pm

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We have a mixture of pics of both of us on our profile.

Find it a little annoying when there's only pics of 1 of them couple on profiles and tend to just skip past them profiles

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Almost all couples profiles are heavily dominated by pics of the female. If there’s a male pic it’ll often be bland, a single cock and/or torso pic. And yet, so many couples say “we only play as a couple”.

We want to play with couples and so we want to see the male and we want to see the two of you together.

Q. What do you have on your profile?

Q. If there’s only a couple or none of the male, why?

Q. What do you like to see?"

We have some pics of me and some together, but there are more of Anita because she's nicer to look at than me.

Cal

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By *ragornAndArwenCouple
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

Our profile picture is very often the one of us with our heads chopped off. We want people to see we are definitely a couple and not some sweaty pervert parading as one.

That said we have a good mix of Arwen and me in our friends only pictures. Occasionally we share some of us publicly as a bit of a teaser and in doing so we have seen the difference in fabs significantly weighted in Arwen’s favour. It’s either because the pictures of me are utter shit, or people just appreciate the female form more.

Or both.

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By *andm300Man
over a year ago

guildford

We try to have a bit of both. Restricted by not wanting to show faces.

We like to see the couple together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Almost all couples profiles are heavily dominated by pics of the female. If there’s a male pic it’ll often be bland, a single cock and/or torso pic. And yet, so many couples say “we only play as a couple”.

We want to play with couples and so we want to see the male and we want to see the two of you together.

Q. What do you have on your profile?

Q. If there’s only a couple or none of the male, why?

Q. What do you like to see?"

Guilty as charged. Just assumed people would rather see wife on profile and share my pics after initial contact

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

We look for guys to entertain the wife so it seems pointless having pics of me on there lol

But we do send face pics of us both together before a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a bit of both on ours, of course there are more of Jo, I enjoy taking pics of her sexy body and she enjoys me doing so but we struggle to get both of us in the pics as soon as we get close.....

D."

We know you two have both....we have perused all of them!!

We are similar in that getting photos of us together is tricky as we just get carried away and forget!!

PT x

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

42.5% are of us both together, 42.5% are of Mrs E and 15% are of Mr E. The pictures of Mrs E certainly get the most fabs and compliments followed by the ones of us together with the ones of Mr following way behind. 90% of our fabs have come from single guys, 9% from couples and less than 1% from single females.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Almost all couples profiles are heavily dominated by pics of the female. If there’s a male pic it’ll often be bland, a single cock and/or torso pic. And yet, so many couples say “we only play as a couple”.

We want to play with couples and so we want to see the male and we want to see the two of you together.

Q. What do you have on your profile?

Q. If there’s only a couple or none of the male, why?

Q. What do you like to see?

Guilty as charged. Just assumed people would rather see wife on profile and share my pics after initial contact "

As a couple looking for couples though we would have a quick scan through your photos and because there wasn't any of you we would probably just move on and not initiate any contact! You may find others do the same so you're missing out on potential messages/meets!!

PT x

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"42.5% are of us both together, 42.5% are of Mrs E and 15% are of Mr E. The pictures of Mrs E certainly get the most fabs and compliments followed by the ones of us together with the ones of Mr following way behind. 90% of our fabs have come from single guys, 9% from couples and less than 1% from single females. "

Wow, that’s some stats, where do you get that, or are you a statistician?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hiya, ours are pretty bland really, but they are a mix of the two of us, no cock shots though sorry "

We don't have full on cock or foof shots either!! Less is definitely more! Lol!!

PT x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We find the same but I think we actually have more pictures of me on our profile than Red though

It's frustrating for Red when there's no pictures of the guy and it makes us suspicious why there isn't."

Have seen your couples profile and you have great photos!...singularly and jointly!! Love the new holiday ones!!

I'm the same as Red and want to see the guy as well....just to get an idea of physique etc! It is very frustrating when there aren't any!!

PT x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet single men to play with me so our couple's profile is rightly dominates by photos of me as I'll be the one of sexual interest. We would send a photo of both of us to any prospective meet but in our case, we don't play as your classic swinging couple so don't feel the need to plaster our profile with photos of the male half when I'm the only one who'll be playing with him.

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham


"42.5% are of us both together, 42.5% are of Mrs E and 15% are of Mr E. The pictures of Mrs E certainly get the most fabs and compliments followed by the ones of us together with the ones of Mr following way behind. 90% of our fabs have come from single guys, 9% from couples and less than 1% from single females.

Wow, that’s some stats, where do you get that, or are you a statistician?! "

No just incredibly bored at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile is dominated with,pictures of 'her', mainly because 'he' is straight, therefore when looking for,guys, the attraction is between her and the single guy.

Also because, as he is already experienced in this scene, and she is still learning her way, her boundaries.

He is hesitant in playing with another Woman.

So, basically, mainly her on pur profile because it's mainly about her.

Of course, over time things may adapt

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