FabSwingers.com forum: Why is it a phobia

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok this has always puzzled me why is it a phobia to not like/understand or discriminate against gay or trans i dont understand why someone must be labeled as in fear of it surelly thats just going to put folks on the defensive straight away and make them less likely to engage

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok this has always puzzled me why is it a phobia to not like/understand or discriminate against gay or trans i dont understand why someone must be labeled as in fear of it surelly thats just going to put folks on the defensive straight away and make them less likely to engage

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

good question,,i think its because some very strange people are scared, possibly from their self

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

-phobic means aversion and hatred of a thing, too, not just fear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phobia just means opposed/ repelled....

Phobic vs philic etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phobia just means opposed/ repelled....

Phobic vs philic etc"

It's a physical thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"-phobic means aversion and hatred of a thing, too, not just fear."
so thats whats got me confist why is race/age im sure theres more an ism not a phobia too or why isnt it homoism i just dont get it

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"-phobic means aversion and hatred of a thing, too, not just fear."

Good to see you back fella!

Agreed.

People read it as fear, it's not, unless it's the fear that a gay man is going to treat them the way that they treat women...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"-phobic means aversion and hatred of a thing, too, not just fear.

Good to see you back fella!

Agreed.

People read it as fear, it's not, unless it's the fear that a gay man is going to treat them the way that they treat women... "

Think thats cos google call it irrational fear and as googles now our bible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im quite scary,,,hav,nt you heard of Mikkiphobia

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyway cheers for the answer its a word that always bugged me but now it wont

thanks for the help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im quite scary,,,hav,nt you heard of Mikkiphobia

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i thought it was metalmikkiphobia

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

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It's not really a phobia, they just started saying that to try and kind of make fun of people who didnt like gay people, kind of make them look weak.

In reality it is expressing your straight sexuality in a negative way.

ie - I think man on man sex is disgusting

vs - I love sex between a man and a woman.

If a gay person does the same thing, is it hetrophobic?

ie - sex between a man and woman disgusts me.

vs - I love sex between two men.

this is of course a general sense of "homophobic" the people who beat someone up for being gay, I dont think they fear gay people, I just think they are disgusting twats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly to do with religion and hate... People dont like it so they hate people for it and get told they'll go to hell or be punished for it.

It's a thing that probably will become more acceptable in the future as religion becomes less of a thing.

I have nothing against gays or trans, I have a gay stepbrother a few gay, lesbian friends and know a few trans.

I see nothing wrong with it, whoever you share your love with as long your happy together it doesn't matter what others think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not really a phobia, they just started saying that to try and kind of make fun of people who didnt like gay people, kind of make them look weak.

In reality it is expressing your straight sexuality in a negative way.

ie - I think man on man sex is disgusting

vs - I love sex between a man and a woman.

If a gay person does the same thing, is it hetrophobic?

ie - sex between a man and woman disgusts me.

vs - I love sex between two men.

this is of course a general sense of "homophobic" the people who beat someone up for being gay, I dont think they fear gay people, I just think they are disgusting twats."

I can be straight but not repelled or even remotely disgusted by two ppl having gay sex though...?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

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"I can be straight but not repelled or even remotely disgusted by two ppl having gay sex though...? "

Of course, and gay people can be gay without being repulsed by straight sex, but some of them are repulsed by it.

It's not an on and off thing, its a scale from 1 to 10.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"-phobic means aversion and hatred of a thing, too, not just fear.so thats whats got me confist why is race/age im sure theres more an ism not a phobia too or why isnt it homoism i just dont get it"

English is a complex language. ‘-ist’ can denote being a supporter of something (socialist) or a denegrator of something (sexist). Common mis-usage means that ‘-phile’ (an appreciator of something) and ‘-philliac’ (a fetishist of something) are often used in place of each other or as synonyms. It doesn’t help that English has folded so many different languages into its creation.

There’s rarely a hard and fast rule that can be applied in every case, and frequently we get it wrong... for example, people aren’t sure if the plural is ‘octopuses’ or ‘octopi’, because a lot of our words for the natural world are derived from Latin, and a lot are from Greek, and there are different rules for pluralising in each. Strictly speaking, it should be ‘octopodes’ (pronounced octo-po-dees) but that fell out of use years and years ago, so it’s ‘octopuses’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can be straight but not repelled or even remotely disgusted by two ppl having gay sex though...?

Of course, and gay people can be gay without being repulsed by straight sex, but some of them are repulsed by it.

It's not an on and off thing, its a scale from 1 to 10."

Haha the amount of gay guys i know who literally shriek and run from a vagina as if itt was a man sized spider is unreal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a gay believer, I just like vag....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words"

thats crapadoodlias

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"-phobic means aversion and hatred of a thing, too, not just fear.so thats whats got me confist why is race/age im sure theres more an ism not a phobia too or why isnt it homoism i just dont get it"

Ease of speech.

Biggest reason is we use the word that sounds "right".

Homophobe sounds better than homoist and is easer to say

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I prefer the term "gay-sceptic".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"-phobic means aversion and hatred of a thing, too, not just fear.so thats whats got me confist why is race/age im sure theres more an ism not a phobia too or why isnt it homoism i just dont get it

My god man are you related to data from star trek cheers for the lesson dude

starting to wish i was japanese or summat now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. "

Say what now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. "

yea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. "
cis whats that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?"

I googled it and I’m still not sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?"

In human terms you and me are cis males (our genetic and mental state align).

In isomerism cis means the functional groups are on the same side trans means thier on oposite sides.

Ie mismatched

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Language is a fluid medium, where words move between languages, between specialist sections of language or groups of people. There are quite a few words that have entered into mainstream language from medicine, psychology and psychiatry and whilst these often have an understanding amongst the general public, it will often be different from the areas where they were first used. Most of us won't have specialist training or experience but will pick up on the more popularised understanding of these words. Otherwise, words stem from their older roots, where they may have changed meaning many times over.

With behaviour, beliefs and many aspects of what it means to be human, these typically exist upon wide spectra, where the more extreme ends of these may become severe conditions, that are potentially disabling. Phobias represent an irrational fear, that for some may cause extreme stress that appears outside of their conscious control - such as sudden panic, when seeing a spider.

Homophobia, transphobia etc have been somewhat more recent additions, their root potentially following from an old Greek origin, meaning fear.

The English language is wonderful, how it can evolve and reflect changes in everyday useage, incorporating elements from languages old and current - about all of life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?

I googled it and I’m still not sure!"
dpnt trust google it just told me phobic was irrational fear but apparently not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?

In human terms you and me are cis males (our genetic and mental state align).

In isomerism cis means the functional groups are on the same side trans means thier on oposite sides.

Ie mismatched"

im not mismatched,,,ok maybe some of my outfits are but,,,ya know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?

In human terms you and me are cis males (our genetic and mental state align).

In isomerism cis means the functional groups are on the same side trans means thier on oposite sides.

Ie mismatched"
first time anyone ever tried to be a match to my mental state before

but i think i get ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?

I googled it and I’m still not sure!dpnt trust google it just told me phobic was irrational fear but apparently not

Hydrophobia is the only thing holding your cells together.

The doubble layer membranes are made of phsopholipids with hydrophilic heads and hydrophobic tails.

Which results in them forming lovley little bubbles in water with thiet tails on both sides inwards and head sticking out making a nice cell wall

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?

I googled it and I’m still not sure!dpnt trust google it just told me phobic was irrational fear but apparently not

Hydrophobia is the only thing holding your cells together.

The doubble layer membranes are made of phsopholipids with hydrophilic heads and hydrophobic tails.

Which results in them forming lovley little bubbles in water with thiet tails on both sides inwards and head sticking out making a nice cell wall"
im not disagreeing just saying all this trust of google now seems overated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?

In human terms you and me are cis males (our genetic and mental state align).

In isomerism cis means the functional groups are on the same side trans means thier on oposite sides.

Ie mismatchedfirst time anyone ever tried to be a match to my mental state before

but i think i get ya"

Cis is the oposite to trans basicsly.

In chemistry it refers to the symmetry of molecule around a carbon bond.

In sexuality trans means somone whose sec and gender are differnt cis is where they are the same.

Cis is the "norm"* if you will.

*im not assigning any negatives here just it is how most people are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?

I googled it and I’m still not sure!dpnt trust google it just told me phobic was irrational fear but apparently not

Hydrophobia is the only thing holding your cells together.

The doubble layer membranes are made of phsopholipids with hydrophilic heads and hydrophobic tails.

Which results in them forming lovley little bubbles in water with thiet tails on both sides inwards and head sticking out making a nice cell wallim not disagreeing just saying all this trust of google now seems overated

You learned all this at key stage 3... and then gcse....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?

I googled it and I’m still not sure!dpnt trust google it just told me phobic was irrational fear but apparently not

Hydrophobia is the only thing holding your cells together.

The doubble layer membranes are made of phsopholipids with hydrophilic heads and hydrophobic tails.

You learned all this at key stage 3... and then gcse....

Think I must have been skiving that day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?

I googled it and I’m still not sure!dpnt trust google it just told me phobic was irrational fear but apparently not

Hydrophobia is the only thing holding your cells together.

The doubble layer membranes are made of phsopholipids with hydrophilic heads and hydrophobic tails.

You learned all this at key stage 3... and then gcse....

"
i dont remember what i had for breakfast never mind school stuff i had no intention of remembering ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now before i get linched im not dissing or even trying to upset anyone im just trying to understand the wording of it

It doesnt strictly mean fear.

For instance hydrophobic rejects water (oil is hydrophobic)

Its much like trans and cis people just nick Latin to make new words

thats crapadoodlias

Cis and trans to me is always abour that sweet sweet isomerism. cis whats that?

I googled it and I’m still not sure!dpnt trust google it just told me phobic was irrational fear but apparently not

Hydrophobia is the only thing holding your cells together.

The doubble layer membranes are made of phsopholipids with hydrophilic heads and hydrophobic tails.

You learned all this at key stage 3... and then gcse....

Think I must have been skiving that day!"
i think o forgot my p.e kit that day too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what you're asking.

I've not really noticed "Phobic" Used when discussing sexuality.

Though I'd assume it's a 100% one way or the other.. Who is so genuinely disgusted or really afraid of those who arent the same as them.

I think of phobia in terms of irrational fear. Like my fear of spiders. I know house spiders can't hurt me, but I sweat and freak out a bit. Once tried to hold a tarantula and almost fell over.

I used the word fear in my interpretation of your question. I was think more fear of ones true self. Or a social fear of sorts, lack of experience and/or friendship with those who are different. A lack of knowledge and understanding. Fear of changing times, fear of the unknown. Self doubt. Not phobic.. however the dictionary describes it.. us masses tend to associate the word with snakes, slugs, heights, confinement, open spaces.. wierd stuff that shouldn't scare in a safe environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

eyelashpobic

typo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

eyelashpobic

typo

Thought u were going all northern then ay las

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure what you're asking.

I've not really noticed "Phobic" Used when discussing sexuality.

Calling bullshit on you have never noticed the word homophobic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

I woke up and found a spider on my chest. I think that's what did it for good. Eyelashes? Fake ones only? Or do your own freak you out more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure what you're asking.

I've not really noticed "Phobic" Used when discussing sexuality.

Calling bullshit on you have never noticed the word homophobic"

oh yeah.. homophobic.. lol.. yea.. never heard of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

I woke up and found a spider on my chest. I think that's what did it for good. Eyelashes? Fake ones only? Or do your own freak you out more?"

fake,,id rather be dead than seen without them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

I woke up and found a spider on my chest. I think that's what did it for good. Eyelashes? Fake ones only? Or do your own freak you out more?

fake,,id rather be dead than seen without them

is that a phobia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure what you're asking.

I've not really noticed "Phobic" Used when discussing sexuality.

Calling bullshit on you have never noticed the word homophobic

oh yeah.. homophobic.. lol.. yea.. never heard of that

I guess I have slung that word about.. but only at people who would discriminate against me based on my sexuality alone. Homophobic may be the wrong word though.. Homohatred or Homostupid may be more accurate.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

I woke up and found a spider on my chest. I think that's what did it for good. Eyelashes? Fake ones only? Or do your own freak you out more?"

I once took a gulp of "bedside" water, then realised i had a spider in my mouth! Poor thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure what you're asking.

I've not really noticed "Phobic" Used when discussing sexuality.

Calling bullshit on you have never noticed the word homophobic

oh yeah.. homophobic.. lol.. yea.. never heard of that

Homostupid haha. That needs to be a word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

I woke up and found a spider on my chest. I think that's what did it for good. Eyelashes? Fake ones only? Or do your own freak you out more?

I once took a gulp of "bedside" water, then realised i had a spider in my mouth! Poor thing. "

maybe it was a false eyelash

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

I woke up and found a spider on my chest. I think that's what did it for good. Eyelashes? Fake ones only? Or do your own freak you out more?

I once took a gulp of "bedside" water, then realised i had a spider in my mouth! Poor thing.

maybe it was a false eyelash"

It's true identity was confirmed in the basin...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

I woke up and found a spider on my chest. I think that's what did it for good. Eyelashes? Fake ones only? Or do your own freak you out more?

I once took a gulp of "bedside" water, then realised i had a spider in my mouth! Poor thing. "

I think I'm going to be sick!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

I woke up and found a spider on my chest. I think that's what did it for good. Eyelashes? Fake ones only? Or do your own freak you out more?

I once took a gulp of "bedside" water, then realised i had a spider in my mouth! Poor thing.

I think I'm going to be sick!"

It was wriggly on my tongue...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im false eyelasphobic,,,woke up once n saw one on my pillow,,thought it was a spider

I woke up and found a spider on my chest. I think that's what did it for good. Eyelashes? Fake ones only? Or do your own freak you out more?

I once took a gulp of "bedside" water, then realised i had a spider in my mouth! Poor thing.

I think I'm going to be sick!

It was wriggly on my tongue..."

I hate you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gays,cd's,bi's

all nice people

If they know I'm not sexually interested, ant say anything more.

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over a year ago

"gays,cd's,bi's

all nice people

If they know I'm not sexually interested, ant say anything more."

your presuming everyone finds you attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gays,cd's,bi's

all nice people

If they know I'm not sexually interested, ant say anything more."

Also.. some of us bi's are complete cunts

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over a year ago

"gays,cd's,bi's

all nice people

If they know I'm not sexually interested, ant say anything more.

Also.. some of us bi's are complete cunts

it's a majority issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gays,cd's,bi's

all nice people

If they know I'm not sexually interested, ant say anything more."

All nice people? In the same way all black men have 15 inch cocks and all gay men want to fuck you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gays,cd's,bi's

all nice people

If they know I'm not sexually interested, ant say anything more."

Not true. I’m bi and I’m an orrible bitch

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not sure what you're asking.

I've not really noticed "Phobic" Used when discussing sexuality.

Calling bullshit on you have never noticed the word homophobic

oh yeah.. homophobic.. lol.. yea.. never heard of that

Homostupid haha. That needs to be a word

"
rather go with homohatred you call someone stupid round here 1 of 2 things happen you end up doing snow angels in the pavement or you have extra holes put in you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can be straight but not repelled or even remotely disgusted by two ppl having gay sex though...?

Of course, and gay people can be gay without being repulsed by straight sex, but some of them are repulsed by it.

It's not an on and off thing, its a scale from 1 to 10.

Haha the amount of gay guys i know who literally shriek and run from a vagina as if itt was a man sized spider is unreal"

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Good to see you back fella!"
Not sure I am, but cheers.

"Homophobic may be the wrong word though.."
Only if you don’t know the full definition of ‘-phobic’... which you’ve already told us you don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gays,cd's,bi's

all nice people

If they know I'm not sexually interested, ant say anything more.

All nice people? In the same way all black men have 15 inch cocks and all gay men want to fuck you? "

I'm black and dont have a big cock.

i get messages from gay people and bi people, even if they show interest, I'll politely respond.

Now, when you get a message from someone that says they'll blow ur cock.

why is that so different from receiving the same email as a woman?

It is an unwarranted email, I'm that grown up I will read and delete where appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gays,cd's,bi's

all nice people

If they know I'm not sexually interested, ant say anything more.

Not true. I’m bi and I’m an orrible bitch "

yer ok..even if u were a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is part of a political movement to challenge everything in the status quo as well as to get attention and to create controversy and division.

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