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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mainly aimed at the women -

How long spent on oral and penetrative sex would be considered the perfect length of time for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no time limit

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

No no, no no no no, no no no no, no no


"There is no time limit "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?

My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"There is no time limit "

Precisely this

You can't set a time, a limit.

It's a flow, a progression, a response to a reaction.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

But just pumping away for ages and ages is no fun either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?

My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right. "

I'm not expecting precise times

For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate

Other times it can last over an hour

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I can just hear some adanoidal voice going "right, 5 minutes kissing, 10 minutes oral and 5 minutes penetration... missionary, then we sleep, ok dear?"

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I work on the ratio of her having ten orgasms to my one, so at least her having twenty.

Unless the lady cheats and hits sub-space.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"There is no time limit

Precisely this

You can't set a time, a limit.

It's a flow, a progression, a response to a reaction.

"

Yes to all the above sometimes play goes v well and 6-8 hrs feels like two. however if OP is looking for ballpark figures then for me, usually around 4 hours start to finish then a rest before round 2 is normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly aimed at the women -

How long spent on oral and penetrative sex would be considered the perfect length of time for you?

"

Any

I’ve had a sex session which lasted about five minutes but was still amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half an hour will do me, I'm easily pleased.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However long our sex session will last OP will suit me just fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"However long our sex session will last OP will suit me just fine "

Too bad I'm short and out of your age preference. Great profile though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is no time limit

Precisely this

You can't set a time, a limit.

It's a flow, a progression, a response to a reaction.

Yes to all the above sometimes play goes v well and 6-8 hrs feels like two. however if OP is looking for ballpark figures then for me, usually around 4 hours start to finish then a rest before round 2 is normal.

"

4 hours? Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However long our sex session will last OP will suit me just fine

Too bad I'm short and out of your age preference. Great profile though"

Folk make exceptions, thought you would have taken that hint a few weeks ago

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

As long as it takes for me to climax is fine. So 2 minutes normally works

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

With the current lady I see I tend to be able to last about 1 hour from start to finish and she is still up for it. Amazing lady

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?

My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right.

I'm not expecting precise times

For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate

Other times it can last over an hour"

Sounds perfect to me, even after 2 years without

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales


"I can just hear some adanoidal voice going "right, 5 minutes kissing, 10 minutes oral and 5 minutes penetration... missionary, then we sleep, ok dear?""

Isn’t that how everyone does it??

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I can just hear some adanoidal voice going "right, 5 minutes kissing, 10 minutes oral and 5 minutes penetration... missionary, then we sleep, ok dear?"

Isn’t that how everyone does it?? "

No ... sometimes it's a quick "brace yourself I'm coming in"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I work in four grrs a couple of fucking hells and a you bastard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?

My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right.

I'm not expecting precise times

For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate

Other times it can last over an hour

Sounds perfect to me, even after 2 years without "

Well we're both from Aberdeen so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no one rule sometimes its half hour sometimes its 3 or 4 but either way its not ending there cos as soon as she cums it turns me on so i wanna go again its a vicious circle

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

20:41 precisely...of course there is no time limit. until the lady is tapped and exhausted usually do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until I orgasm for the oral and until you do for the sex. Unless one of us falls asleep or starts yawning or looking around for the paper to read or something.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Until I orgasm for the oral and until you do for the sex. Unless one of us falls asleep or starts yawning or looking around for the paper to read or something. "

Once she is in sub-space you can stick a vibrator in read the paper, just keep flicking the clit with a flogger every thirty seconds.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

It’s finished when we’ve both got nothing left but stupid grins

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't a ideal length of time. It depends on time constraints. How excited you are. Etc. I know the first session me and the fb have this week will be over in 5 mins flat but we will both have cum in that time and will be basking in the glory before we are ready for round 2

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?

My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right.

I'm not expecting precise times

For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate

Other times it can last over an hour

Sounds perfect to me, even after 2 years without

Well we're both from Aberdeen so... "

And I didn't even notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s finished when we’ve both got nothing left but stupid grins

Lex"
thats half time oranges time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?

My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right.

I'm not expecting precise times

For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate

Other times it can last over an hour

Sounds perfect to me, even after 2 years without

Well we're both from Aberdeen so...

And I didn't even notice "

Quick grab him. Dont let him escape!

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"It’s finished when we’ve both got nothing left but stupid grins

Lexthats half time oranges time "

Haha profiteroles time actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s finished when we’ve both got nothing left but stupid grins

Lexthats half time oranges time

Haha profiteroles time actually "

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

There is no set time , but as a rule of thumb about twenty minutes from start to finish . Neither of us like to stifle the orgasm and right from the start we always said we wouldn’t hold back . Nine years later and we are still at it twice a day , and it’s very rare we last longer than twenty minutes .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?

My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right.

I'm not expecting precise times

For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate

Other times it can last over an hour

Sounds perfect to me, even after 2 years without

Well we're both from Aberdeen so...

And I didn't even notice "

Pretty sure I messaged you a month ago

I've been waiting patiently for a reply ever since....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"It’s finished when we’ve both got nothing left but stupid grins

Lexthats half time oranges time "

Or coffee time

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't have average sex.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

There definitely is not set time for anything during a fun session. Just go with the flow and see where the mood takes you. It’s over when it’s over, but it is never definitely the once !

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By *ecks74Woman
over a year ago

wrexham

I’ve been seeing a guy regularly for 18 months, we normally have around 3 hours of non stop fun times every couple of weeks. Sometimes we only have sex once and sometimes 3-4 times depending how we feel. If it’s just the once we just kiss and tease each other and chill out in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I do find this odd, what about if you just want a quickie in the heat of the moment, you might skip oral entirely..... Or you might fuck all night ten times or more....

Sometimes you're so horny it doesn't take much other times she's had a bad day and wants cwtches galore before any sex...

Timing it sounds like the kind of sex you pay for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 minutes should do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until we're both exhausted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average sex has no place on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average sex has no place on fab. "

great answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had a fair few meets on various profiles over 10 years. We’ve met people who’ve said they like to fuck all night esp single guys. Generally we find sessions are unusual if they last more than an hour including foreplay. Even those hung studs with ‘lots of stamina’ only last about 20 mins once penetration starts.

In our view an hour max is a good session once play starts. Much more than that it can get boring and repetitive and sometimes just becomes a ‘look how long I can last’ performance. Our worst meet was a single guy who went for about an hour and a half with incredibly slow penetration. It was the sex equivalent of watching paint dry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually have morning sex at weekend which usually last about two to two and half hours as a rule but there isn’t really a time tbh

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Do we have to count the return driving time to find a quiet carpark, we prefer our fun alfresco.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like chess click the clock after ever orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I allocate approximately 22.5 minutes for sexy time a month. No more, no less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allocate approximately 22.5 minutes for sexy time a month. No more, no less.

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I wonder if you still have any left so far this month?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allocate approximately 22.5 minutes for sexy time a month. No more, no less.

I wonder if you still have any left so far this month? "

Nope, all gone. That's it now until May....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allocate approximately 22.5 minutes for sexy time a month. No more, no less.

I wonder if you still have any left so far this month?

Nope, all gone. That's it now until May....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've probably heard about this or seen me mention it alot....

But 6 hours is too much .. I envy people with normal times I really do....

When your both sweaty and wet as we were the sex was fun but stupidly messy .....and painful she had to take 2 days off work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allocate approximately 22.5 minutes for sexy time a month. No more, no less.

I wonder if you still have any left so far this month?

Nope, all gone. That's it now until May....

"

you should always keep couple of minutes in case of unplanned emergency sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average sex has no place on fab. "

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allocate approximately 22.5 minutes for sexy time a month. No more, no less.

I wonder if you still have any left so far this month?

Nope, all gone. That's it now until May....

you should always keep couple of minutes in case of unplanned emergency sex "

No, it can never be unplanned....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allocate approximately 22.5 minutes for sexy time a month. No more, no less.

I wonder if you still have any left so far this month?

Nope, all gone. That's it now until May....

you should always keep couple of minutes in case of unplanned emergency sex

No, it can never be unplanned...."

in my experience, those unplanned ones are mostly great minutes!

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By *itzMcGeeCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster

As i told M before we got married, you better hurry up love-life's a race and there's no prize for coming second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As i told M before we got married, you better hurry up love-life's a race and there's no prize for coming second"

I do hope he didn't actually listen to you that time lol

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