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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this has been done to death but ever since hubby changed his preference to bi we have been getting lots of messages from straight guys who “aren’t looking for single guys” wanting to meet him, when we question their profile, you get the obvious reply back, but occasionally we’ve looked at some of the veris these guys have and some of the couples and women, clearly state on their profiles that they don’t want to meet bi guys?

But you have and not known about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been done to death but ever since hubby changed his preference to bi we have been getting lots of messages from straight guys who “aren’t looking for single guys” wanting to meet him, when we question their profile, you get the obvious reply back, but occasionally we’ve looked at some of the veris these guys have and some of the couples and women, clearly state on their profiles that they don’t want to meet bi guys?

But you have and not known about it "

I filter out men from messaging me. It's much easier.

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"I know this has been done to death but ever since hubby changed his preference to bi we have been getting lots of messages from straight guys who “aren’t looking for single guys” wanting to meet him, when we question their profile, you get the obvious reply back, but occasionally we’ve looked at some of the veris these guys have and some of the couples and women, clearly state on their profiles that they don’t want to meet bi guys?

But you have and not known about it "

There's straight, bi, gay... And fab straight which includes any of the aforementioned orientations. At the end of the day what does it matter? It's just society putting a label on it.. All bullshit as far as I'm concerned. If you like the shoes buy 'em...

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"I know this has been done to death but ever since hubby changed his preference to bi we have been getting lots of messages from straight guys who “aren’t looking for single guys” wanting to meet him, when we question their profile, you get the obvious reply back, but occasionally we’ve looked at some of the veris these guys have and some of the couples and women, clearly state on their profiles that they don’t want to meet bi guys?

But you have and not known about it

There's straight, bi, gay... And fab straight which includes any of the aforementioned orientations. At the end of the day what does it matter? It's just society putting a label on it.. All bullshit as far as I'm concerned. If you like the shoes buy 'em..."

Or at least try them on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been done to death but ever since hubby changed his preference to bi we have been getting lots of messages from straight guys who “aren’t looking for single guys” wanting to meet him, when we question their profile, you get the obvious reply back, but occasionally we’ve looked at some of the veris these guys have and some of the couples and women, clearly state on their profiles that they don’t want to meet bi guys?

But you have and not known about it

There's straight, bi, gay... And fab straight which includes any of the aforementioned orientations. At the end of the day what does it matter? It's just society putting a label on it.. All bullshit as far as I'm concerned. If you like the shoes buy 'em...

Or at least try them on.."

You can always take them back if they don't fit. As long as you keep the receipt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about guys who want to meet a bi couple but don't want messages from single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the ones that are straight on here and curious on Fabguys yet have had more prick than a pin cushion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about guys who want to meet a bi couple but don't want messages from single guys?"

those guys generally don’t want to have 1-2-1s with guys, they prefer the dynamic of meeting a couple where the guy is open to bi play too, it takes the 3some to a whole new level, certainly for us when we’ve had bi guys join us anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bi mmf is our favourite kind of play. I adore watching hubby with another guy . It is difficult sometimes to filter out guys that are bi and guys that SAY they are bi just so they can fuck me

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"What about guys who want to meet a bi couple but don't want messages from single guys?

those guys generally don’t want to have 1-2-1s with guys, they prefer the dynamic of meeting a couple where the guy is open to bi play too, it takes the 3some to a whole new level, certainly for us when we’ve had bi guys join us anyway. "

This is how it is for me. I am not bi but am happy to play within the dynamic of a 3some

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Simple answer is they don't/can't know OP, or perhaps those guys have decided to try bi since they met the people that would otherwise rule them out.

It's one of the main reasons for the "Fab straight" phenomena though - to get round the filters of those that won't meet bi men. As I often say though, those guys that do are actually closing the door on many people that will or actively seek bi men.

Either way their profiles, their risk (of either being found out or meeting someone they wouldn't want to - depending which side of the equation they sit) - doesn't impact me in the slightest though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s true you wouldn’t know. The veri system can be good and bad, as people just won’t display veris if they think it shows them in a different light.

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

Some men may not have come to terms with their sexuality and are still experimenting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No comment. Fabstraight

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