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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal innit...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

If I describe someone as fit, it's based on my opinion of their physical capabilites, not just their appearance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fit for me is just used as in "fitness" nothing less! A shot putter is fit the same as a rower but there again I work in sports!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

It depends whether you’re a young un or not. ‘He’s well fit’ has nothing to do with physical fitness from what I can tell

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

"Oh my days bruv"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personal innit... "

How do you mean?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's generally interchangeable with the word attractive. Obviously each person will have their own idea of what they find attractive.

Cal

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you mean fit as in physically fit or attractive.

I like someone to be somewhat fit as in reasonably attractive and capable of taking the stairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it is someone that looks fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well fit innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well fit innit "

Snap.. must be a northern thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does being "Fit" physically make the person more confident in themselves or is confidence down to personality?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

For me I describes someone who looks in shape, not a build or a dress size or a body shape or a look. Can be many different builds but possessing the physical qualities that suggest they physically in good form in terms of speed, endurance and/or phycial strength.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I thought fit just meant "looks good"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does being "Fit" physically make the person more confident in themselves or is confidence down to personality?"

It's down to personality, self esteem and life experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well fit innit

Snap.. must be a northern thing!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Oh my days bruv""

Fit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does being "Fit" physically make the person more confident in themselves or is confidence down to personality?"

Depends on the person. There's fit/ hot people on here with low confidence in themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description? "

Those who don't have the description of 'fit' would be just not their type. My idea of fit will be different to someone else's.

It could mean fit, healthy and a gym type. Or fit as in attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does being "Fit" physically make the person more confident in themselves or is confidence down to personality?

Depends on the person. There's fit/ hot people on here with low confidence in themselves."

Interesting point

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

I'm defiantly not the best looking person on here and body wise either but I jog every day and go to the gym I've lost nearly 5 stone in a year so fit is just a word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fit but you know it- The Streets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought fit just meant "looks good""

Me too. ‘Fit as fuck’ is something you hear a lot.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm defiantly not the best looking person on here and body wise either but I jog every day and go to the gym I've lost nearly 5 stone in a year so fit is just a word "

That's pretty good going

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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago

Evesham, Worcester, Pershore


"Fit but you know it- The Streets. "

Tune... Your fit but my gosh don't you know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fit but you know it- The Streets.

Tune... Your fit but my gosh don't you know it"

Thanks lovely, I so do!! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I'm defiantly not the best looking person on here and body wise either but I jog every day and go to the gym I've lost nearly 5 stone in a year so fit is just a word

That's pretty good going "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm defiantly not the best looking person on here and body wise either but I jog every day and go to the gym I've lost nearly 5 stone in a year so fit is just a word "

I'm not much to look at either. The only exercise I do is a lot of walking.

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I'm defiantly not the best looking person on here and body wise either but I jog every day and go to the gym I've lost nearly 5 stone in a year so fit is just a word

I'm not much to look at either. The only exercise I do is a lot of walking."
I didn't do it for other people I did it to be happy with myself it's taken a lot of hard work but I'm in a better place than I was as long as your happy with yourself it doesn't matter how other people see you

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"If I describe someone as fit, it's based on my opinion of their physical capabilites, not just their appearance.

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completely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do I describe myself through physical attractiveness because I have no clue if I even have any.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm defiantly not the best looking person on here and body wise either but I jog every day and go to the gym I've lost nearly 5 stone in a year so fit is just a word

I'm not much to look at either. The only exercise I do is a lot of walking. I didn't do it for other people I did it to be happy with myself it's taken a lot of hard work but I'm in a better place than I was as long as your happy with yourself it doesn't matter how other people see you "

Good point. It's mainly down to self-respect.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"How do I describe myself through physical attractiveness because I have no clue if I even have any."

Let your pictures do the talking and let your profile show off your personality and circumstance.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

One of my most pathetic chat up lines is “ you look very fit, in both the old and new meaning of the word”. Like all my lines - failure!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do I describe myself through physical attractiveness because I have no clue if I even have any.

Let your pictures do the talking and let your profile show off your personality and circumstance. "

After being here for a couple of years, I don't think my profile and pics stand out of the crowd nor do they attract attention so that must mean I don't have any physical attraction.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Fit for me is physique and attractiveness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fit for me is physique and attractiveness "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on age I feel. I get called fit bit I don't class myself as fit or even close to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on age I feel. I get called fit bit I don't class myself as fit or even close to it "

I don't class myself as fit either and I don't think I've ever been called fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on age I feel. I get called fit bit I don't class myself as fit or even close to it

I don't class myself as fit either and I don't think I've ever been called fit."

Every one looks at you differently it's the fun of fab isn't it

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Just don't take things too serious go with the flow

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description? "

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on age I feel. I get called fit bit I don't class myself as fit or even close to it

I don't class myself as fit either and I don't think I've ever been called fit.

Every one looks at you differently it's the fun of fab isn't it "

I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just don't take things too serious go with the flow "

I do my best but there have been times where I feel down about myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that "

What do you mean they forget what this site is? What is it?

How are they stuck up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't take things too serious go with the flow

I do my best but there have been times where I feel down about myself."

You're a nice guy. Everyone feels down sometimes.

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that "

I'm not being fun but there not stuck up. woman have different preferences just cause your not there type doesn't mean they are stuck up it's probably your attitude towards them that's a put off be a bit more respectful that goes a long way.with a attitude like that you won't get anywhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just don't take things too serious go with the flow

I do my best but there have been times where I feel down about myself.

You're a nice guy. Everyone feels down sometimes. "

Thank you so much. Yeah that is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fit to me means physical fitness. Nothing to do with personality, they are mental connections you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But more specifically to your question. Attraction. But it has nothing to do with being fit? Although it is often used as a easy flirt?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Fit to me is someone who's physically fit athelic type.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that

I'm not being fun but there not stuck up. woman have different preferences just cause your not there type doesn't mean they are stuck up it's probably your attitude towards them that's a put off be a bit more respectful that goes a long way.with a attitude like that you won't get anywhere "

Ah women that I have spoken to has said the same thing as I have to me so I'll stand by my comment

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that

I'm not being fun but there not stuck up. woman have different preferences just cause your not there type doesn't mean they are stuck up it's probably your attitude towards them that's a put off be a bit more respectful that goes a long way.with a attitude like that you won't get anywhere

Ah women that I have spoken to has said the same thing as I have to me so I'll stand by my comment "

There must be a reason for them to say it and I stand by what I said

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that

I'm not being fun but there not stuck up. woman have different preferences just cause your not there type doesn't mean they are stuck up it's probably your attitude towards them that's a put off be a bit more respectful that goes a long way.with a attitude like that you won't get anywhere

Ah women that I have spoken to has said the same thing as I have to me so I'll stand by my comment

There must be a reason for them to say it and I stand by what I said "

Yeah because that's how they feel and that's great you standing by what you said isn't that what forums are to give your opinions hmmmm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fit is physically attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that "

This site is whatever I want it to be. I'm not stuck up at all. Am I supposed to be fucking everyone who asks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that "

Why is having a preference and knowing what you like classed as ‘stuck up’?

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description? "

The way it is used by society sort of implies good looking.

However, what may be good looking to someone may not be to another.

I'm attracted to many things, physical appearance is probably nesr the bottom of my list.

Intelligence is at the top

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that

This site is whatever I want it to be. I'm not stuck up at all. Am I supposed to be fucking everyone who asks?"

I'm pretty sure I didn't accuse you of being stuck up so I don't see how that would affect you I said a lot of people are lol

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that

Why is having a preference and knowing what you like classed as ‘stuck up’?"

Lol but I didn't mention you so again I don't see how it affects you

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that

This site is whatever I want it to be. I'm not stuck up at all. Am I supposed to be fucking everyone who asks?

I'm pretty sure I didn't accuse you of being stuck up so I don't see how that would affect you I said a lot of people are lol"

Your coming across as being arragant towards woman it's not a good look have a little respect for people's preferences there not here to fuck everyone they have aright to be chossy with people like you on here gives the rest of us a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that

Why is having a preference and knowing what you like classed as ‘stuck up’?

Lol but I didn't mention you so again I don't see how it affects you "

I didn’t say ‘i’, I asked in general?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I would describe someone being fit as in being attractive to me

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Fit to me means good looking init

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I just want to ask, how does one describe someone as "Fit"? Are people described as fit because of their looks or because of their personality?

I know that each person here has their own preference in what they're looking for but if the term "Fit" is mainly to describe someone by how they look physically then what does that make those that don't fit that description?

I'm not sure mate a lot forgets what this site is yeah i know its personal preference just too many stuck up with themselves and I won't be alone in saying that

This site is whatever I want it to be. I'm not stuck up at all. Am I supposed to be fucking everyone who asks?

I'm pretty sure I didn't accuse you of being stuck up so I don't see how that would affect you I said a lot of people are lol

Your coming across as being arragant towards woman it's not a good look have a little respect for people's preferences there not here to fuck everyone they have aright to be chossy with people like you on here gives the rest of us a bad name "

But then again I didn't say women did I I said people so please read before you post and like I said I have had women say the same thing as I have so yeah lol

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