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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not the touchy feely ones, but the ones you have to handle like hot oil on a frying pan.

Do they ever learn?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

No.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No."
I thought so!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"No.I thought so!"

You're welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.I thought so!

You're welcome!"

Thread over then....lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huuuuuulk smaaaaaash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the touchy feely ones, but the ones you have to handle like hot oil on a frying pan.

Do they ever learn?"

Learn what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To not be touchy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not the touchy feely ones, but the ones you have to handle like hot oil on a frying pan.

Do they ever learn?

Learn what?"
How to take constructive criticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this thread was about those people who feel the need to touch you when there absolutely no need. Strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did they ask for constructive criticism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the touchy feely ones, but the ones you have to handle like hot oil on a frying pan.

Do they ever learn?

Learn what?

How to take constructive criticism."

I’m a pretty touchy person, and I’m quite good at handling constructive criticism, so I’d say yes. People can be touchy for a reason.

Did they ask for constructive criticism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we talking.....

The naturally sensitive ones?

The egotistical ones?, ego soon bruises

Or the kind that think they're smart by looking to be offended?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red rag to a bull! Bring 'em on. Arsey is as arsey does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not in the case I'm thinking of, but what I said was leavened with positivity too, a blind man would have seen it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not in the case I'm thinking of, but what I said was leavened with positivity too, a blind man would have seen it."

Was there any need to give constructive criticism if it wasn’t asked for?

I’d be a bit annoyed with that to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not in the case I'm thinking of, but what I said was leavened with positivity too, a blind man would have seen it."

Why did you feel the need to say anything?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not in the case I'm thinking of, but what I said was leavened with positivity too, a blind man would have seen it.

Was there any need to give constructive criticism if it wasn’t asked for?

I’d be a bit annoyed with that to be honest "
I considered my options in how to relate to them (joking aside) that seemed to be the only way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not in the case I'm thinking of, but what I said was leavened with positivity too, a blind man would have seen it.

Was there any need to give constructive criticism if it wasn’t asked for?

I’d be a bit annoyed with that to be honest I considered my options in how to relate to them (joking aside) that seemed to be the only way."

You felt that criticising them was the only way you could converse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few touchy people on this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not in the case I'm thinking of, but what I said was leavened with positivity too, a blind man would have seen it.

Was there any need to give constructive criticism if it wasn’t asked for?

I’d be a bit annoyed with that to be honest I considered my options in how to relate to them (joking aside) that seemed to be the only way.

You felt that criticising them was the only way you could converse?"
Maybe not criticism, but positive advice.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Not in the case I'm thinking of, but what I said was leavened with positivity too, a blind man would have seen it.

Was there any need to give constructive criticism if it wasn’t asked for?

I’d be a bit annoyed with that to be honest I considered my options in how to relate to them (joking aside) that seemed to be the only way.

You felt that criticising them was the only way you could converse?Maybe not criticism, but positive advice. "

They didn't ask for it so it will likely come across as either condescending or attacking them. People ascribe tone to the written word, we all do it, you're doing it now!

I've not seen the exchange but if it was worthy of you starting a thread then perhaps you need to be addressing them directly. I'm not saying who's right or wrong, it kind of sounds like 6 of one, half a dozen of the other.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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It’s all about judging your audience OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not in the case I'm thinking of, but what I said was leavened with positivity too, a blind man would have seen it.

Was there any need to give constructive criticism if it wasn’t asked for?

I’d be a bit annoyed with that to be honest I considered my options in how to relate to them (joking aside) that seemed to be the only way.

You felt that criticising them was the only way you could converse?Maybe not criticism, but positive advice. "

How did they react?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes but it depends on motivation.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

People could be a little touchy with having a bad day, stressed out, upset, angry, any number of reasons. It doesn't mean they will always be touchy and need to learn not to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People could be a little touchy with having a bad day, stressed out, upset, angry, any number of reasons. It doesn't mean they will always be touchy and need to learn not to be "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did they ask for constructive criticism?"
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Is the constructive criticism well given and thoughtful? What reaction were you expecting or often LOOKING FOR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post was asking for it, begging even.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People could be a little touchy with having a bad day, stressed out, upset, angry, any number of reasons. It doesn't mean they will always be touchy and need to learn not to be "

Spot on

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have problems dealing with boastfulness and a huge ego. I always want to take them down a peg by pointing out inconsistencies (lies) or similar.

I really shouldn't bother but I always rise to it

Maybe I shouldn't be so touchy about their lack of self esteem, or maybe they shouldn't be so touchy about my truthful comments.... Or maybe we would just be incompatible...who knows;)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s all about judging your audience OP "
I never seek agreement for agreements sake, so honest challenges about my actions I accept. Although the

Character who mentioned I was begging for it so thats why he posted is a 'strange one'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s all about judging your audience OP I never seek agreement for agreements sake, so honest challenges about my actions I accept. Although the

Character who mentioned I was begging for it so thats why he posted is a 'strange one'."
There are some people who are entrenched in certain forms of behaviour of which 'being touchy' is one of them. That type often like to give out but don't like recieving ( my opinion).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Post was asking for it, begging even..... "
Playing to the audience in reference to Babs post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, the irony....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh, the irony.... "
Suck it up with a smile.

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