FabSwingers.com forum: A little help from my friends

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're OK aren't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did. We stayed friends. Will work for some, won't work for others. There's only one way to find out if it will work for "your friend" I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you can

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We're OK aren't we? "

We're like Shrek and Donkey. You're Donkey.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did. We stayed friends. Will work for some, won't work for others. There's only one way to find out if it will work for "your friend" I suppose "

So jump right in and deal with the consequences after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're OK aren't we?

We're like Shrek and Donkey. You're Donkey. "

I wanna be fiona.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did. We stayed friends. Will work for some, won't work for others. There's only one way to find out if it will work for "your friend" I suppose

So jump right in and deal with the consequences after? "

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We're OK aren't we?

We're like Shrek and Donkey. You're Donkey.

I wanna be fiona.....

I wanna be Dragon. I was gonna fill our home with Dronkeys

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

There's no reason why people can't stay friends after, if it ruins the friendship then there was probably a problem there to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're OK aren't we?

We're like Shrek and Donkey. You're Donkey.

I wanna be fiona.....

I wanna be Dragon. I was gonna fill our home with Dronkeys

Haha, you kinky freak, at least it's not bee's.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no reason why people can't stay friends after, if it ruins the friendship then there was probably a problem there to start with "

See, it's fine if you've already got a great friendship.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think it's easier if they're fab friends? Because they've already seen you naked and have known you to meet others so there won't be jealousy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it's easier if they're fab friends? Because they've already seen you naked and have known you to meet others so there won't be jealousy? "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it depends - real life friends then no things probably won't be the same again m0stnof the time - Fab friends then that's different in some instances, not because they've seen you naked but because they are open to the idea of this lifestyle, and potentially "get" it so the situation is slightly different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on a couple of dates with a girl i have known since nursery, we have had passionate moments but i or we are scared to take that chance. She is such a special person to me i would never want to risk her not being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I conclude that shagging your mates is totally alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I conclude that shagging your mates is totally alright

I concur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turning a real friend into a fab one would definitely break the ice as far as having fun together goes.

But unless their into fab and not just lead here, I doubt being a member would magically stop a green eyed monster getting jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I conclude that shagging your mates is totally alright

I concur

It definitely is, is you can stay friends

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

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I sucked my mates cum out of my wife's pussy, minutes after he put it in there..... and we're still friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

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In my experience if the sex is really good then The Feels will promptly follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it shifts the relationship beyond friendship. My own experience says it can return to how it was depending on what happens. With Fab friends I would hope that the nature of what we engage in on here, the benefits we might enjoy can be treated without strings. However if the feelings run deeper then ‘we’re off the edge of the map and there be dragons there’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I conclude that shagging your mates is totally alright

I concur

It definitely is, is you can stay friends

I concur with that too

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

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In my experience if the sex is really good then The Feels will promptly follow. "

You know this is a "swinging" community, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

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don't you then become friends with benefits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

In my experience if the sex is really good then The Feels will promptly follow.

You know this is a "swinging" community, right?"

What of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

In my experience if the sex is really good then The Feels will promptly follow.

You know this is a "swinging" community, right?

What of it? "

I don't think her "friend" or the "friends friend" are elite swingers.....

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

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They become a very lucky friend.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

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They become a very lucky friend. "

Yes you can. But its not recommended.

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By *ilky barkedMan
over a year ago

london

Nothing wrong with helping out a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I think you can, I did with my best friend, we didn’t speak about it after for a long time and on the odd occasion we might mention it when someone is being inappropriate down the pub lol

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

In my experience if the sex is really good then The Feels will promptly follow.

You know this is a "swinging" community, right?

What of it? "

Id hope most users of fab were mature enough to separate great sex from "the feels..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

In my experience if the sex is really good then The Feels will promptly follow.

You know this is a "swinging" community, right?

What of it?

Id hope most users of fab were mature enough to separate great sex from "the feels..." "

God damn all these rules to remember, someone should write this shiz down.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

In my experience if the sex is really good then The Feels will promptly follow.

You know this is a "swinging" community, right?

What of it?

Id hope most users of fab were mature enough to separate great sex from "the feels..." "

Op said 'friend', not fab user. And I like the implication that fab users who don't conduct themselves in the same way as you are immature. Nicely done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they don't become attached I could do it.

Problem is, I don't have friends

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes, but it does depend on having a shared understanding of what happened and why. I have maintained friendships after sex. The sex was separate to the friendship but was easy because of the friendship.

I have never had sex with a purely friendly Fabster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they don't become attached I could do it.

Problem is, I don't have friends

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've become friends with people I've shagged but I've never shagged a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say yes.

Thats because I'm an eternal optimist and believe 30 seconds of fumbling can be forgiven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People immediately think of their own friends rather than the "friend" the op actually means....

....so the reality is that nobody knows anything about much....

Peace....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"People immediately think of their own friends rather than the "friend" the op actually means....

....so the reality is that nobody knows anything about much....

Peace.... "

As we don't know the friend the OP is talking about, on behalf of a 'friend', and the first part of the OP asks for 'you' views/experiences one can only think of ones own friends.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

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Hi op!

Speaking as an aged, wise old crone - there are a lot of ‘it depends ‘ on here!

Firstly - ‘it depends ‘ if there is simply a mutual physical attraction - or whether one person actually has deeper feelings than the other! If it’s the latter - then it’s unlikely the friendship will survive in the same format!

Secondly - ‘it depends ‘ if both parties are able to enjoy sex on a purely physical (and fond friendship) level! Many people, particularly non fabbers, are unable to separate the physical and emotional aspects of sex!

Essentially - if you’re both singing from exactly the same hymn sheet where attraction and future expectations are concerned - then go for it!

If there’s any doubt at all - and the friendship is more important to you than the anticipated pleasure of the shag - leave well alone!

If it’s Xperia you’re thinking of shagging, though, just go for it - and let me know by pm if the man got skills!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People immediately think of their own friends rather than the "friend" the op actually means....

....so the reality is that nobody knows anything about much....

Peace....

As we don't know the friend the OP is talking about, on behalf of a 'friend', and the first part of the OP asks for 'you' views/experiences one can only think of ones own friends.

I could think a bit bigger, just requires a bit of.... Ummmm.... Thought I guess.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

Hi op!

Speaking as an aged, wise old crone - there are a lot of ‘it depends ‘ on here!

Essentially - if you’re both singing from exactly the same hymn sheet where attraction and future expectations are concerned - then go for it!

If there’s any doubt at all - and the friendship is more important to you than the anticipated pleasure of the shag - leave well alone!

If it’s Xperia you’re thinking of shagging, though, just go for it - and let me know by pm if the man got skills!

I'm a clumsy talking donkey with hooves for hands and I could only dream of the chance.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"People immediately think of their own friends rather than the "friend" the op actually means....

....so the reality is that nobody knows anything about much....

Peace....

As we don't know the friend the OP is talking about, on behalf of a 'friend', and the first part of the OP asks for 'you' views/experiences one can only think of ones own friends.

I could think a bit bigger, just requires a bit of.... Ummmm.... Thought I guess..... "

The main hypotheticals have been covered, including that this is about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they don't become attached I could do it.

Problem is, I don't have friends

Really? "

Really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

If a fab friend then I’d so that you could unless feelings became involved, however don’t listen to me as I don’t not follow my own advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they don't become attached I could do it.

Problem is, I don't have friends

Really?

Really. "

I'd be yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they don't become attached I could do it.

Problem is, I don't have friends

Really?

Really. "

My idea of a friend is one whose house I sit round, drink tea and chat with. We go to pubs and out to lunch frequently or days out/holidays/cinema.

I don't have anyone like that in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they don't become attached I could do it.

Problem is, I don't have friends

Really?

Really.

I'd be yours "

You want to get our nails done together and have lunch after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

In my experience if the sex is really good then The Feels will promptly follow.

You know this is a "swinging" community, right?

What of it?

Id hope most users of fab were mature enough to separate great sex from "the feels..." "

You never come across as mature. Or having any friends.

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By *igBen6996Man
over a year ago

London

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

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In my experience if the sex is really good then The Feels will promptly follow.

You know this is a "swinging" community, right?

What of it?

Id hope most users of fab were mature enough to separate great sex from "the feels..."

You never come across as mature. Or having any friends."

My friend is saying that your friend could shag a Friend and stay Friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

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no never, because someone gets feelings and then it's game over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they don't become attached I could do it.

Problem is, I don't have friends

Really?

Really.

I'd be yours

You want to get our nails done together and have lunch after?"

Ummmm, yeah OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they don't become attached I could do it.

Problem is, I don't have friends

Really?

Really.

My idea of a friend is one whose house I sit round, drink tea and chat with. We go to pubs and out to lunch frequently or days out/holidays/cinema.

I don't have anyone like that in my life."

I have shit loads of friends in that case, I live opposite my girls school and the mum's treat my drive as their car park and my kitchen as their free coffee shop.... Friends - who needs 'em....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

In my experience if the sex is really good then The Feels will promptly follow.

You know this is a "swinging" community, right?

What of it?

Id hope most users of fab were mature enough to separate great sex from "the feels..."

You never come across as mature. Or having any friends."

So you two probably won't be shagging any time soon I'm guessing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my first but of girl action with one of my best friends, d*unk one night, it ruined our friendship, i could never look at here the same again!!! I have with a male friend aswell and we're still really good friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

rarely but depends if it was a one off or more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you were friends, then you shagged, then you were friends again for a long time, is it OK to shag again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What if it wasn't like a d*unken thing or spur of the moment.

Like to make it happen you'd have to actually make effort and say maybe travel quite far?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you can say really. Depends on the individuals surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't say a third friends name during the sex and you should be ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just don't say a third friends name during the sex and you should be ok. "

I actually laughed out loud at this. Our friendship was once a 3 way thing and I would wind him up by flirting with our mutual friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just don't say a third friends name during the sex and you should be ok.

I actually laughed out loud at this. Our friendship was once a 3 way thing and I would wind him up by flirting with our mutual friend.

* I mean my friend did. This isn't about me

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"There's no reason why people can't stay friends after, if it ruins the friendship then there was probably a problem there to start with "

^ this. In fact sometimes if you get a shag out of the way early on, and it turns out to be a one off you can move on to being very close mates without the tension and curiosity of wondering what it'd be like all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say we are closer friends than ever.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

In my experience if the sex is really good then The Feels will promptly follow.

You know this is a "swinging" community, right?

What of it?

Id hope most users of fab were mature enough to separate great sex from "the feels..."

You never come across as mature. Or having any friends."

I guess you're the exception that proves the rule.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

You can stay friends, though, one of you have to suppress their sexual feelings or want around each other, but you can agreeably be friends.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"If you shag a friend can you ever stay friends or will things change?

Asking for a friend

I thought that's what happens on here you make a connection then become friends hence the meaning for FWB

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I've become friends with people I've shagged but I've never shagged a friend"

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if it wasn't like a d*unken thing or spur of the moment.

Like to make it happen you'd have to actually make effort and say maybe travel quite far? "

How far is far?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just don't say a third friends name during the sex and you should be ok.

I actually laughed out loud at this. Our friendship was once a 3 way thing and I would wind him up by flirting with our mutual friend.

* I mean my friend did. This isn't about me

I miss cougar..... Can't you find him somehow....?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if it wasn't like a d*unken thing or spur of the moment.

Like to make it happen you'd have to actually make effort and say maybe travel quite far?

How far is far? "

Fab says 420+ miles driving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just don't say a third friends name during the sex and you should be ok.

I actually laughed out loud at this. Our friendship was once a 3 way thing and I would wind him up by flirting with our mutual friend.

* I mean my friend did. This isn't about me

I miss cougar..... Can't you find him somehow....? "

I mean that's my specific example, outside of Rubi's question, obv....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if it wasn't like a d*unken thing or spur of the moment.

Like to make it happen you'd have to actually make effort and say maybe travel quite far?

How far is far?

Fab says 420+ miles driving. "

Easy fucking jet then.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just don't say a third friends name during the sex and you should be ok.

I actually laughed out loud at this. Our friendship was once a 3 way thing and I would wind him up by flirting with our mutual friend.

* I mean my friend did. This isn't about me

I miss cougar..... Can't you find him somehow....? "

Yeah I'm scared in case he's forgotten us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just don't say a third friends name during the sex and you should be ok.

I actually laughed out loud at this. Our friendship was once a 3 way thing and I would wind him up by flirting with our mutual friend.

* I mean my friend did. This isn't about me

I miss cougar..... Can't you find him somehow....? "

I always have this dream that one day we'll find out he's just been lurking all along and he'll come forward and tell us how his feelings were always there and he can't hold them back any longer, like something out of four weddings... All romantic like....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if your friend and the other friend really enjoy it, but the distance makes the sex ache sooo bad? What if they really like each other and it leads to more? But they're so far away and their love can never be rekindled?

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"What if it wasn't like a d*unken thing or spur of the moment.

Like to make it happen you'd have to actually make effort and say maybe travel quite far?

How far is far?

Fab says 420+ miles driving. "

Well, if you will insist on living practically at the north Pole...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if your friend and the other friend really enjoy it, but the distance makes the sex ache sooo bad? What if they really like each other and it leads to more? But they're so far away and their love can never be rekindled?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if it wasn't like a d*unken thing or spur of the moment.

Like to make it happen you'd have to actually make effort and say maybe travel quite far?

How far is far?

Fab says 420+ miles driving.

Well, if you will insist on living practically at the north Pole...

I lived in Bristol before. It's like a whole different world down there

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"What if it wasn't like a d*unken thing or spur of the moment.

Like to make it happen you'd have to actually make effort and say maybe travel quite far?

How far is far?

Fab says 420+ miles driving.

Well, if you will insist on living practically at the north Pole...

I lived in Bristol before. It's like a whole different world down there

It's even differenter down here in Devon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depemds on the friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d advise talking to him about it, and what you are both expecting, or not expecting to happen after it. It will affect the friendship if you haven’t spoken about it, but it could well help if you’ve spoken about what could possibly happen and what you are both looking for out of the genital collaboration.

Obviously, pass it on to your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ache already tbf....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things change."

Things always change.... .....unless they don't, and then its boring....

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Things change, it’s inevitable once you’ve had sex. It doesn’t necessarily mean it will spoil things though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things change, it’s inevitable once you’ve had sex. It doesn’t necessarily mean it will spoil things though. "

Things change depending on what you just typed or are about to type, the future is what you make it, no...?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I've had female freinds that I have had sex with. If anything the sex was an extention of that freindship for purely the reasons of fun and freindship. We are still freinds and having sex never changed that. Neither does the fact we no longer have sex affect our friendship. They are freinds first and foremost. Are relationships are founded on freindship not sex. The sex was nice and a product its time and our circumstances but the foundation of our friendship runs far deeper that sex. I find it odd to think of a world where we couldn't have sex with our friends and were sex has to change the T&Cs of freindship. Dont get me wrong I understand sometimes there is a mismatch in what people want from each other but all is good when we want the same from each other sex is purely about enjoying something together just for the fun of sharing it.

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over a year ago

"I've had female freinds that I have had sex with. If anything the sex was an extention of that freindship for purely the reasons of fun and freindship. We are still freinds and having sex never changed that. Neither does the fact we no longer have sex affect our friendship. They are freinds first and foremost. Are relationships are founded on freindship not sex. The sex was nice and a product its time and our circumstances but the foundation of our friendship runs far deeper that sex. I find it odd to think of a world where we couldn't have sex with our friends and were sex has to change the T&Cs of freindship. Dont get me wrong I understand sometimes there is a mismatch in what people want from each other but all is good when we want the same from each other sex is purely about enjoying something together just for the fun of sharing it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if the person already fell in love with you a long time ago????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What if you can't stop thinking about their penis and just really want to know what it feels like?

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By *igBen6996Man
over a year ago

London

"What if you can't stop thinking about their penis and just really want to know what it feels like? "

Now that's a cock crush!

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over a year ago

I was seeing a girl a few years ago , we met in the late 80s and were very friendly but not as bf/gf but lost touch after a couple of years with us going in our own direction with partners and having children then thanks to Facebook and 20 plus years we started chatting and became friend again , we met for a drink a couple of time and had a few kisses and cuddles then I was I invited to her house where we went I bit further than kissing , but no sex , then after a couple of weeks I booked a hotel room and I picked her up , we had a great afternoon of adult fun including full sex , we kept seeing each other for a few weeks after having sex a few times , but then it’s died of , not sure why as I’d fallen in love with her and she said the same , so was it a step too far going from really good friend , to having a sexual relationship, then losing a friendship????

Who knows xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I checked, you’re not on my friend list: we can shag safely!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I checked, you’re not on my friend list: we can shag safely!"

I'm on my way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if you can't stop thinking about their penis and just really want to know what it feels like? "

It's a bit like the best penis you ever felt, only a bit better

I'm literally aching now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have one platonic male fab friend, we've seen each other's bits on here, he's watched me roll round naked on cam, I've watched a cum shot video of his. Regardless, if we had the chance to, I think sex would make things weird.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I shagged a guy for about two years, then that faded out. However, we remained absolutely brilliant close friends, who are there for eachother through thick & thin.

It can be done, but only in the right circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what if I can't stop thinking of her face, and how her eyes look at me like we're in a vacuum and nothing else exists? What if I'm wondering how her lady bits would feel wrapped around me....? What if her voice melts me...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh come on......

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

No I personally wouldn't. I'd never jeopardize a friendship just for a shag ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

I thought this was hypothetical - and about the op - or her ‘friend ‘?

Now it seems to be very much all about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the friend I guess... I have no problem with keeping to the friends only thing, with people I have had sex with... Whether it's just the once or a more long term thing.

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over a year ago

"Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

I thought this was hypothetical - and about the op - or her ‘friend ‘?

Now it seems to be very much all about you? "

EVERYTHING is all about me lol, you know this by now surely?

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

"What if you can't stop thinking about their penis and just really want to know what it feels like? "

This

You can stay friends, though, one of you have to suppress their sexual feelings or want around each other, but you can agreeably be friends.

"No I personally wouldn't. I'd never jeopardize a friendship just for a shag ever

You wouldn't but your male friends thought very likely than not have gone there.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

I thought this was hypothetical - and about the op - or her ‘friend ‘?

Now it seems to be very much all about you?

EVERYTHING is all about me lol, you know this by now surely? "

I’m beginning to get that impression - yes!

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over a year ago

"Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

I thought this was hypothetical - and about the op - or her ‘friend ‘?

Now it seems to be very much all about you?

EVERYTHING is all about me lol, you know this by now surely?

I’m beginning to get that impression - yes!"

It's not my fault Rubi wants my cock......

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

I thought this was hypothetical - and about the op - or her ‘friend ‘?

Now it seems to be very much all about you?

EVERYTHING is all about me lol, you know this by now surely?

I’m beginning to get that impression - yes!

It's not my fault Rubi wants my cock......

So just fuck already! (Said in best Jewish mama voice!) - We don’t all need to be involved in every aspect of the why’s and wherefores!

There are obviously several possible outcomes and I’m sure, as adults, you’ve considered them all?

Just make sure no talc is involved this time! Talc makes me sneeze!

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over a year ago

"Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

I thought this was hypothetical - and about the op - or her ‘friend ‘?

Now it seems to be very much all about you?

EVERYTHING is all about me lol, you know this by now surely?

I’m beginning to get that impression - yes!

It's not my fault Rubi wants my cock......

So just fuck already! (Said in best Jewish mama voice!) - We don’t all need to be involved in every aspect of the why’s and wherefores!

There are obviously several possible outcomes and I’m sure, as adults, you’ve considered them all?

Just make sure no talc is involved this time! Talc makes me sneeze!

I cum like talc, it's all powdery and comes out in a little cloud....

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

I thought this was hypothetical - and about the op - or her ‘friend ‘?

Now it seems to be very much all about you?

EVERYTHING is all about me lol, you know this by now surely?

I’m beginning to get that impression - yes!

It's not my fault Rubi wants my cock......

So just fuck already! (Said in best Jewish mama voice!) - We don’t all need to be involved in every aspect of the why’s and wherefores!

There are obviously several possible outcomes and I’m sure, as adults, you’ve considered them all?

Just make sure no talc is involved this time! Talc makes me sneeze!

I cum like talc, it's all powdery and comes out in a little cloud....

You’re sure that’s not c*ke?

That’s a whole other ball game!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"don't you then become friends with benefits? "

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over a year ago

"Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

I thought this was hypothetical - and about the op - or her ‘friend ‘?

Now it seems to be very much all about you?

EVERYTHING is all about me lol, you know this by now surely?

I’m beginning to get that impression - yes!

It's not my fault Rubi wants my cock......

So just fuck already! (Said in best Jewish mama voice!) - We don’t all need to be involved in every aspect of the why’s and wherefores!

There are obviously several possible outcomes and I’m sure, as adults, you’ve considered them all?

Just make sure no talc is involved this time! Talc makes me sneeze!

I cum like talc, it's all powdery and comes out in a little cloud....

You’re sure that’s not c*ke?

That’s a whole other ball game! "

Oh, you rub it on the balls do you.....?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

I thought this was hypothetical - and about the op - or her ‘friend ‘?

Now it seems to be very much all about you?

EVERYTHING is all about me lol, you know this by now surely?

I’m beginning to get that impression - yes!

It's not my fault Rubi wants my cock......

So just fuck already! (Said in best Jewish mama voice!) - We don’t all need to be involved in every aspect of the why’s and wherefores!

There are obviously several possible outcomes and I’m sure, as adults, you’ve considered them all?

Just make sure no talc is involved this time! Talc makes me sneeze!

I cum like talc, it's all powdery and comes out in a little cloud....

You’re sure that’s not c*ke?

That’s a whole other ball game!

Oh, you rub it on the balls do you.....?

Allegedly! And the clitoris!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

I thought this was hypothetical - and about the op - or her ‘friend ‘?

Now it seems to be very much all about you?

EVERYTHING is all about me lol, you know this by now surely?

I’m beginning to get that impression - yes!

It's not my fault Rubi wants my cock......

So just fuck already! (Said in best Jewish mama voice!) - We don’t all need to be involved in every aspect of the why’s and wherefores!

There are obviously several possible outcomes and I’m sure, as adults, you’ve considered them all?

Just make sure no talc is involved this time! Talc makes me sneeze!

I cum like talc, it's all powdery and comes out in a little cloud....

You’re sure that’s not c*ke?

That’s a whole other ball game!

Oh, you rub it on the balls do you.....?

Allegedly! And the clitoris!

What's a clitoris? Sounds botanical....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aren't there friends and FRIENDS, and internet friends are a whole other category....

I thought this was hypothetical - and about the op - or her ‘friend ‘?

Now it seems to be very much all about you?

EVERYTHING is all about me lol, you know this by now surely?

I’m beginning to get that impression - yes!

It's not my fault Rubi wants my cock......

So just fuck already! (Said in best Jewish mama voice!) - We don’t all need to be involved in every aspect of the why’s and wherefores!

There are obviously several possible outcomes and I’m sure, as adults, you’ve considered them all?

Just make sure no talc is involved this time! Talc makes me sneeze!

I cum like talc, it's all powdery and comes out in a little cloud....

You’re sure that’s not c*ke?

That’s a whole other ball game! "

Oh, and if I came c*ke, I wouldn't be selling the type of chemicals I do, I'd be wanking into a jar and loaded.....

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