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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you dress to impress when meeting for an initial social or do you go low key so you can wow them at a later date with your sexy attire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol dress to match.....

.....turn up in an old t-shirt and she's in a dress isn't a great start.... Ask....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the same combo:

Cargo shorts- check

Crocs- check

Tartan waistcoat - check

Propeller cap- double check

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Quite often, neither, we dress for us tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.. I wear skinny jeans and tshirt most of the time so that's my social outfit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress the same whatever to be honest I like to wear dresses day to day. Follow up meets the only difference is what's underneath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always the same combo:

Cargo shorts- check

Crocs- check

Tartan waistcoat - check

Propeller cap- double check "

Nothing under your waistcoat? It'll be draughty on your nips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blue jeans, navy jumper, white converse.

Literally the same thing I wear everyday ??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wear clothes that come off quick. Jeans and t shirt. People don’t meet me for what I wear and sometimes they meet me at the door in a towel anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always the same combo:

Cargo shorts- check

Crocs- check

Tartan waistcoat - check

Propeller cap- double check

Nothing under your waistcoat? It'll be draughty on your nips. "

We’re a hardy breed in the shire.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I dress to feel comfortable and confident, appropriate to the venue and time of day for that initial meeting. I may go knickerless, or something, to drop into conversation if the mood feels right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear clothes that come off quick. Jeans and t shirt. People don’t meet me for what I wear and sometimes they meet me at the door in a towel anyway. "

That is the experience of an international lover and player.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I wear clothes that come off quick. Jeans and t shirt. People don’t meet me for what I wear and sometimes they meet me at the door in a towel anyway.

That is the experience of an international lover and player. "

I know. I read it in a magazine at Hove train station ‘how to behave like a stud’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dress to feel comfortable and confident, appropriate to the venue and time of day for that initial meeting. I may go knickerless, or something, to drop into conversation if the mood feels right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you dress to impress when meeting for an initial social or do you go low key so you can wow them at a later date with your sexy attire? "

I have no sexy attire so it's comfort all the way for me

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I put some clothes on and let my smile do the work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dress the same whatever to be honest I like to wear dresses day to day. Follow up meets the only difference is what's underneath "

Exactly this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear whatever feels comfortable and appropriate

That's as true a reflection of me that I can give

I don't do dressing up to impress

I wouldn't turn up in slob pants but don't expect me in a shirt & jacket either

If people want to feel that I haven't 'made an effort' that's their game, not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear whatever Rubi tells me to.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I wear whatever Rubi tells me to..... "

Whatever she says? Including yellow wellies with a purple suit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be comfy, no pretenses just this is me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.. I wear skinny jeans and tshirt most of the time so that's my social outfit. "

Not skinny jeans (my thighs are calves can't breathe in them), but pretty much this. Group socials a shirt and shoes sometimes come out.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As others have said, I dress for comfort, the occasion, and location with an element of wanting to look attractive thrown in - whether I always manage that or not is another matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear whatever Rubi tells me to.....

Whatever she says? Including yellow wellies with a purple suit?

"

Yeah, if it got her moist or made he smile, of course...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wear whatever Rubi tells me to.....

Whatever she says? Including yellow wellies with a purple suit?

Yeah, if it got her moist or made he smile, of course... "

I loved it when you wore the tutu

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Nope.. I wear skinny jeans and tshirt most of the time so that's my social outfit.

Not skinny jeans (my thighs are calves can't breathe in them), but pretty much this. Group socials a shirt and shoes sometimes come out."

You've always looked on point at group socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear whatever Rubi tells me to.....

Whatever she says? Including yellow wellies with a purple suit?

Yeah, if it got her moist or made he smile, of course...

I loved it when you wore the tutu "

* pirouette's *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.. I wear skinny jeans and tshirt most of the time so that's my social outfit.

Not skinny jeans (my thighs are calves can't breathe in them), but pretty much this. Group socials a shirt and shoes sometimes come out."

Face of an angel you can't go far wrong!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m usually in work gear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.. I wear skinny jeans and tshirt most of the time so that's my social outfit.

Not skinny jeans (my thighs are calves can't breathe in them), but pretty much this. Group socials a shirt and shoes sometimes come out.

You've always looked on point at group socials.

"

thank you, my OCD for colour coordination helps with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.. I wear skinny jeans and tshirt most of the time so that's my social outfit.

Not skinny jeans (my thighs are calves can't breathe in them), but pretty much this. Group socials a shirt and shoes sometimes come out.

Face of an angel you can't go far wrong!! "

Mankini, wellies and a top hat next time? Maybe not for a group 1 though.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Depends on the social occasion really. Casual coffee, then I’ll dress for casual coffee. Drinks on the town and I’ll dress for drinks on the town.

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By *iolet82Woman
over a year ago

strathaven


"Do you dress to impress when meeting for an initial social or do you go low key so you can wow them at a later date with your sexy attire? "

Dress the way you like, if they don’t. Tough titty;)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"You've always looked on point at group socials.

thank you, my OCD for colour coordination helps with that. "

Even though you don't wear a proper white shirt - disappointing. But yes, you're not a shabby dresser.

For a social, I tend to dress like I always do. Like a slutty grad student. I entertain ideas before it of finding a nice dress and heels but I'm a creature of comfort and habit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you dress to impress when meeting for an initial social or do you go low key so you can wow them at a later date with your sexy attire?

Dress the way you like, if they don’t. Tough titty;)"

Do you fuck like that too....?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"You've always looked on point at group socials.

thank you, my OCD for colour coordination helps with that.

Even though you don't wear a proper white shirt - disappointing. But yes, you're not a shabby dresser.

For a social, I tend to dress like I always do. Like a slutty grad student. I entertain ideas before it of finding a nice dress and heels but I'm a creature of comfort and habit."

You wear it well.

My outfit for the last STP was based on asking what to wear on the thread. KM said to wear all of it, so I did.

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Scrubs and white wellingtons work for me.

I typically get rid of the over-gown, plastic face-guard and vinyl gloves as they tend to stink and have a tendency to attract bodily fluids and off-cuts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shirt or a jumper, jeans and a pair of shoes are my normal attire for a social or a sex meet. Maybe a t-shirt during the summer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This always makes me go into a cold sweat about what to wear for a social meet! I went smart casual to the last one, seemed to work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jacket, shirt, tie and trouser, or a suit.

I won't be seen in public in anything less.

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By *iolet82Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

Yes to a point, but also considerate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pirate costume.

I'm lying.

A) depends what's ready to wear.

B) depends where I've been before or going after

C) am I having a fat day?

D) where are we meeting?

E) what's the weather like

Sooooo many variables

P

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Pirate costume.

I'm lying.

A) depends what's ready to wear.

B) depends where I've been before or going after

C) am I having a fat day?

D) where are we meeting?

E) what's the weather like

Sooooo many variables

P"

Pirate costume on 19th September, regardless, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pirate costume.

I'm lying.

A) depends what's ready to wear.

B) depends where I've been before or going after

C) am I having a fat day?

D) where are we meeting?

E) what's the weather like

Sooooo many variables

P

Pirate costume on 19th September, regardless, right?

"

Is that your birthday bash?

P

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Pirate costume.

I'm lying.

A) depends what's ready to wear.

B) depends where I've been before or going after

C) am I having a fat day?

D) where are we meeting?

E) what's the weather like

Sooooo many variables

P

Pirate costume on 19th September, regardless, right?

Is that your birthday bash?

P"

No, it's Talk Like A Pirate Day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeans, trainers and t-shirt. For play meets, I may wear white boxers if requested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pirate costume.

I'm lying.

A) depends what's ready to wear.

B) depends where I've been before or going after

C) am I having a fat day?

D) where are we meeting?

E) what's the weather like

Sooooo many variables

P

Pirate costume on 19th September, regardless, right?

Is that your birthday bash?

P

No, it's Talk Like A Pirate Day. "

then I feel it would be rude not to!

P

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Do you dress to impress when meeting for an initial social or do you go low key so you can wow them at a later date with your sexy attire? "

I wouldn't know, and God willing, I never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you dress to impress when meeting for an initial social or do you go low key so you can wow them at a later date with your sexy attire? "

Depends on venue and time of day. Or depends on whether im fixing their car.

I try to look presentable and smell good for all ocasions even if it is just to change cam belt.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Jacket, shirt, tie and trouser, or a suit.

I won't be seen in public in anything less."

* gold star*

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

The same as I would in normal life. If it's the evening normally a dress, high heels etc. Day time depends on time of year and weather.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Do you dress to impress when meeting for an initial social or do you go low key so you can wow them at a later date with your sexy attire? "

Socials I usually put on jeans, good shoes and a subtley understated shirt.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally used to wear a suit

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Do you dress to impress when meeting for an initial social or do you go low key so you can wow them at a later date with your sexy attire?

Socials I usually put on jeans, good shoes and a subtley understated shirt......."

You're a proper wallflower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont assume there is going to be a second date....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go as quirky me, whatever I would usually wear for a drink, whether it’s a date or with mates. I don’t wear ‘conventionally’ sexy clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual for me, I keep the sexy underwear for special occasions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always the same combo:

Cargo shorts- check

Crocs- check

Tartan waistcoat - check

Propeller cap- double check "

You’re so hipster. No wonder I like you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you dress to impress when meeting for an initial social or do you go low key so you can wow them at a later date with your sexy attire? "

Depends. If its just a casual brew dress casual. If its more dress to impress

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Smart casual is my default

I have, on a couple of occasions, been asked to wear a business suit to a meet though ...of course I've been happy to oblige

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.. I wear skinny jeans and tshirt most of the time so that's my social outfit. "

Sounds perfect

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

It's how I feel on the day maybe a shirt or i will just wear skinny jeans and t-shirt depends if I'm wanting to tease her alot before hands

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

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By *ragornAndArwenCouple
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

We find it’s nice to get a little dressed up. Of course it depends where you’re going. Donning your glad rags to head down the local boozer is a little overkill, but we try and make a bit of an effort. Arwen has some very sexy underwear which makes the evening even more kinky, whether we play or not.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Do you dress to impress when meeting for an initial social or do you go low key so you can wow them at a later date with your sexy attire?

Socials I usually put on jeans, good shoes and a subtley understated shirt.......

You're a proper wallflower."

True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress for comfort now. If I could travel in heels I would.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I simply never meet unless I'm wearing a cravat.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I wear what I’m comfortable in. I give it thought but just dress for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dress for comfort now. If I could travel in heels I would."

Would you wear a shell suit for me if I specified in advance...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I simply never meet unless I'm wearing a cravat."

HEY EVERYONE! MAKE A NOTE OF THIS AND REMIND HIM NEXT TIME HE HAS A MEET LINED UP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's all about dressing for comfort and weather depending...

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places


"For me it's all about dressing for comfort and weather depending..."

Here's hoping for a scorching 2019 spring / summer in Pontypool! x

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I wear what I’m comfortable in. I give it thought but just dress for me. Sometimes I wear my clothes inside out though. "

True story. She really does....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just go meet in my normal attire,

Trainers

Army shorts

Thrash metal t shirt

Hoodie

That’s me , x

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Depends where the social is, time of day, what's been discussed and mainly what I feel the most comfortable in too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends where the social is, time of day, what's been discussed and mainly what I feel the most comfortable in too."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always dress as I would mate a normal vanilla date, I personally don’t see why it should be any different.

I’ve had meets where smart casual was the way to go right down to white tie dinners and you have to get the tails out!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I wear what I’m comfortable in. I give it thought but just dress for me. Sometimes I wear my clothes inside out though.

True story. She really does.... "

I really really do

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I wear what I’m comfortable in. I give it thought but just dress for me. Sometimes I wear my clothes inside out though.

True story. She really does....

I really really do "

You look so cute, you get away with it.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I wear what I’m comfortable in. I give it thought but just dress for me. Sometimes I wear my clothes inside out though.

True story. She really does....

I really really do

You look so cute, you get away with it. "

Oh you ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear what I’m comfortable in. I give it thought but just dress for me. Sometimes I wear my clothes inside out though.

True story. She really does....

I really really do "

I once went for a weekend away with a gf, arrived at the hotel, fucked, got dressed and went for dinner before more fucking.... ....we're sat eating dinner and she suddenly realised her dress was on back to front.... ....true story...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever is comfortable. Usually jeans, casual long sleeved button t-shirt, brogue shoes.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I wear what I’m comfortable in. I give it thought but just dress for me. Sometimes I wear my clothes inside out though.

True story. She really does....

I really really do

You look so cute, you get away with it.

Oh you ... "

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’m primarily a jeans girl but I have, on occasion, worn a dress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeans and always a shirt for me.... that's what i feel comfortable in.... but always commando just incase.

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