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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How not to give bad head. So lads let us ladies know exactly what it is you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't reach that shiz, it just happens...... I reckon one person can be your best and someone else's worst....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't drag your teeth up and down it. That shit just hurts!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess to be able to read your partner is an advantage....

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

loads of tongue works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eye contact "

Ugh! Really? I hate eye contact, it's far too eye contacty! Won't a quick glance ever 3.5 minutes do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t pull the foreskin back as hard as you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"loads of tongue works for me "

I like use my tongue lick it up and down swirl it right round the tip then blow ever so slightly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visibly enjoying it works wonders.....

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

The lady gagging and spitting on my cock

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By *antasticMrFoxXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Eye contact

Ugh! Really? I hate eye contact, it's far too eye contacty! Won't a quick glance ever 3.5 minutes do?"

WhatsApping is perfectly acceptable as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends person to person, i dont really have a set of likes for a blow job because it depends how horney and sensitive my dick gets. The main thing that does it for me is the other person enjoying aswell.

On the other hand i also feel like a spare when im just getting sucked off for ages, i prefer more mutual play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t pull the foreskin back as hard as you can "

Oh why not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The lady gagging and spitting on my cock"

I'm glad that men don't mind gagging. I get very easily!

I'm not at all experienced but always enthusiastic so i like to think that's a good start!

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Be gentle! Your not trying to suck and squeeze the last drops of juice out of that calypso! Haha. Enthusiasm and actually enjoying it make a massive difference, getting a blowjob off someone you know is just going through the motions is a turn off and if at all possible... Deep throat is always a winner!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I dont even understand how people give bad head, it's really not hard at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be gentle! Your not trying to suck and squeeze the last drops of juice out of that calypso! Haha. Enthusiasm and actually enjoying it make a massive difference, getting a blowjob off someone you know is just going through the motions is a turn off and if at all possible... Deep throat is always a winner! "

Very informative

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Eye contact

Ugh! Really? I hate eye contact, it's far too eye contacty! Won't a quick glance ever 3.5 minutes do?"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enthusiasm tends to work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Enthusiasm tends to work "

This seems to be a big thing for guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Etiquette dictates to not stick a finger up his bumhole without prior permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Enthusiasm tends to work

This seems to be a big thing for guys "

If he/she is not having fun doing it, it spoils my own fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Etiquette dictates to not stick a finger up his bumhole without prior permission.

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Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Etiquette dictates to not stick a finger up his bumhole without prior permission.

Good advice "

What about fist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Individual taste, but for me, I like lots of spit on my cock, tongue tracing on my shaft, tongue working whilst sucking, suprise gagging or deepthroat. Ball fondling and sucking goes down well.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Individual taste, but for me, I like lots of spit on my cock, tongue tracing on my shaft, tongue working whilst sucking, suprise gagging or deepthroat. Ball fondling and sucking goes down well."

Very wet, very smooth, tongue around the helmet and massaging the balls with the saliva which run down the shaft ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best head a guy can get IMO is during a 69. Nothing quite beats both parties simultaneously having busy mouths yet getting attention back. Feels great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The best head a guy can get IMO is during a 69. Nothing quite beats both parties simultaneously having busy mouths yet getting attention back. Feels great. "

If the guys doing it right I find it hard to concentrate on what I'm doing.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"The best head a guy can get IMO is during a 69. Nothing quite beats both parties simultaneously having busy mouths yet getting attention back. Feels great.

If the guys doing it right I find it hard to concentrate on what I'm doing. "

Yup! That’s how we know we’re doing it right

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

No dragging of the teeth, don't pull the foreskin back to hard, these tips and a can do attitude, and you can't go wrong.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Oh and lots of edging and eye contact since you ask - Ok not so practical when 69-ing

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Pretend you are enjoying it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Slap some BJ lippy on, then the world is your oyster Ladies

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

For me I like plenty of teasing licking with occasional deep throat. I always tell the lady not to use their hand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No dragging of the teeth, don't pull the foreskin back to hard, these tips and a can do attitude, and you can't go wrong."

So no teeth at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above is spot on.

I guess one thing that hasn't been mentioned that most cock owners I've discussed with like - once it's nice and hard, pull the sack out diagonally with your finger tips so it looks like the Eiffel tower. Then, with your lips to the bellend, hum the French national anthem.

Makes most cock owners erupt before the second bar.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

As has been previously mentioned enthusiasm and looking like you actually enjoy it are the biggest deal breakers for me, other than that I'm generally happy for you to freestyle it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As has been previously mentioned enthusiasm and looking like you actually enjoy it are the biggest deal breakers for me, other than that I'm generally happy for you to freestyle it."

Would it be ok to blow down the hole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of soft wet tounge action round the frenulum for me plz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All of the above is spot on.

I guess one thing that hasn't been mentioned that most cock owners I've discussed with like - once it's nice and hard, pull the sack out diagonally with your finger tips so it looks like the Eiffel tower. Then, with your lips to the bellend, hum the French national anthem.

Makes most cock owners erupt before the second bar."

Trying to envision this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massage the jewels, they are after all extremely sensitive

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"As has been previously mentioned enthusiasm and looking like you actually enjoy it are the biggest deal breakers for me, other than that I'm generally happy for you to freestyle it.

Would it be ok to blow down the hole?"

Sure, play me like the Bagpipes if that's what gets you off. Just be prepared for a bum note.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As has been previously mentioned enthusiasm and looking like you actually enjoy it are the biggest deal breakers for me, other than that I'm generally happy for you to freestyle it.

Would it be ok to blow down the hole?

Sure, play me like the Bagpipes if that's what gets you off. Just be prepared for a bum note."

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"No dragging of the teeth, don't pull the foreskin back to hard, these tips and a can do attitude, and you can't go wrong.

So no teeth at all"

Depends on mood and situation sometimes a lil dragging of the teeth can be hot or maybe that's just me lol other times I like it more gentle and teasing but all times I like to know she's enjoying as much as I am so enthusiasm is a big plus and deep throating and gagging now and then I guess what I'm saying is I enjoy all kinds of bj as long as feeling is mutual as for comment about during a sixty nine it is how we know we're returning favour right when she loses concentration providing she's not gone Asleep or stoped to send text cause then we know we're useless lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't drag your teeth up and down it. That shit just hurts! "
haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different guys enjoy different things.

My fella loves me biting his cock, hard and dragging my teeth up his shaft, many other's wouldn't.

Best way to give great head in my experience...ask him what he likes. Communication is key for incredible sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sloppy is best lol

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"Different guys enjoy different things.

My fella loves me biting his cock, hard and dragging my teeth up his shaft, many other's wouldn't.

Best way to give great head in my experience...ask him what he likes. Communication is key for incredible sex! "
now there's a wise lady with a very lucky fella xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being enthusiastic seems to be the key

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different guys enjoy different things.

My fella loves me biting his cock, hard and dragging my teeth up his shaft, many other's wouldn't.

Best way to give great head in my experience...ask him what he likes. Communication is key for incredible sex! now there's a wise lady with a very lucky fella xx"

luckily for me, he has the same mindset. Why settle for good sex when it can be epic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Etiquette dictates to not stick a finger up his bumhole without prior permission.

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If the woman who did that to me the first time had asked permission I would never have realised I liked it. Funny thing - consent. I agree asking in general is definitely the right thing to do.

She can let her tongue slip and rim me too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Different guys enjoy different things.

My fella loves me biting his cock, hard and dragging my teeth up his shaft, many other's wouldn't.

Best way to give great head in my experience...ask him what he likes. Communication is key for incredible sex! now there's a wise lady with a very lucky fella xx

luckily for me, he has the same mindset. Why settle for good sex when it can be epic? "

This is so true.

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By *ivsouthladMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Had lots of bad head over the years....usually off women that big up their skills in the bedroom

Worst was a woman who had no rhythm whatsoever and kept on stopping every 30 seconds are so....she’s was desperate for my cum tho so had to wank into her mouth in the end....needless to say I never met her again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for bad head, teeth used on the head - it’s too sensitive and only very lightly on the shaft if at all. Nibbling my bollocks is a big no. As is biting my pubic area.

Too dry and it doesn’t feel good either.

The big difference for me that gets me climbing the walls with pleasure is the use of a wet tongue round the rim of my helmet and on the frenulum. As well as sensual attention to my balls, gooch and if it’s their thing bum hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea thats girls department

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice and wet other than that as long as the wife is enjoying herself i am

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville


"The lady gagging and spitting on my cock

I'm glad that men don't mind gagging. I get very easily!

I'm not at all experienced but always enthusiastic so i like to think that's a good start! "

Nobody is perfect, I love enthusiasm though ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice and wet other than that as long as the wife is enjoying herself i am "

Wet is always good.

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"Nice and wet other than that as long as the wife is enjoying herself i am

Wet is always good."
wet and sloppy is always very good x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice and wet other than that as long as the wife is enjoying herself i am

Wet is always good.wet and sloppy is always very good x"

Just how sloppy though?

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"Nice and wet other than that as long as the wife is enjoying herself i am

Wet is always good.wet and sloppy is always very good x

Just how sloppy though?"
lots of sloppyness and drool is very hot messy and sexy bj like that wud have me hard as a metal rod for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont even understand how people give bad head, it's really not hard at all"

I guess some take to things easier than others you could say same about anything in life kissing is a very simple thing but so many people get it wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont even understand how people give bad head, it's really not hard at all

I guess some take to things easier than others you could say same about anything in life kissing is a very simple thing but so many people get it wrong "

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