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"Blow job skillage was a pretty popular one. You hit my humour spot. Attack the funny bone P" Yep I loved that thread too  | |||
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"Blow job skillage was a pretty popular one. You hit my humour spot. Attack the funny bone P" Would that be a good opening topic though? I'm sitting in the pub with a man and my first sentence is "I really love feeling a cock slip down my throat"? He'll be sputtering into his pint glass | |||
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"Kaitlyn you tit. People who can banter are BY FARRRRRRR better company than a 'specialist' who goes on and on and on about something only they can comment on. I'd rather spend a night in the company of Kevin Hart than five minutes with Brian Cox. " I am fucking amazing at the bantz, I must admit. I'm trying to re-image myself to seem more sophisticated though. I wanna grow up. | |||
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"Blow job skillage was a pretty popular one. You hit my humour spot. Attack the funny bone P Would that be a good opening topic though? I'm sitting in the pub with a man and my first sentence is "I really love feeling a cock slip down my throat"? He'll be sputtering into his pint glass " I think he'd find it hard.  | |||
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"Blow job skillage was a pretty popular one. You hit my humour spot. Attack the funny bone P Would that be a good opening topic though? I'm sitting in the pub with a man and my first sentence is "I really love feeling a cock slip down my throat"? He'll be sputtering into his pint glass " Then you can give him mouth to mouth. Winning!  | |||
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"Bolloquaciousness, serves me well. I seem to do alright talking bollocks most of the time." All I can talk about is bollocks sometimes. I'm trying to avoid sec talk and awkward silences. | |||
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"Kaitlyn you tit. People who can banter are BY FARRRRRRR better company than a 'specialist' who goes on and on and on about something only they can comment on. I'd rather spend a night in the company of Kevin Hart than five minutes with Brian Cox. I am fucking amazing at the bantz, I must admit. I'm trying to re-image myself to seem more sophisticated though. I wanna grow up." Hmmmmmm sophistication....... Put your pinky up when you say ...Phuck Hewwwwww. | |||
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"Blow job skillage was a pretty popular one. You hit my humour spot. Attack the funny bone P Would that be a good opening topic though? I'm sitting in the pub with a man and my first sentence is "I really love feeling a cock slip down my throat"? He'll be sputtering into his pint glass Then you can give him mouth to mouth. Winning! "In a pub? In public? Where people can see us? | |||
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"Kaitlyn you tit. People who can banter are BY FARRRRRRR better company than a 'specialist' who goes on and on and on about something only they can comment on. I'd rather spend a night in the company of Kevin Hart than five minutes with Brian Cox. I am fucking amazing at the bantz, I must admit. I'm trying to re-image myself to seem more sophisticated though. I wanna grow up. Hmmmmmm sophistication....... Put your pinky up when you say ...Phuck Hewwwwww. " Will I drop my pint glass though? | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though..." Existentialism. Basically all life is absurd.  it's easy but to be fair Zombie Apocalypse chat? Can go on for ages x | |||
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"Kaitlyn you tit. People who can banter are BY FARRRRRRR better company than a 'specialist' who goes on and on and on about something only they can comment on. I'd rather spend a night in the company of Kevin Hart than five minutes with Brian Cox. I am fucking amazing at the bantz, I must admit. I'm trying to re-image myself to seem more sophisticated though. I wanna grow up. Hmmmmmm sophistication....... Put your pinky up when you say ...Phuck Hewwwwww. " Whilst asking "where the fox hat?" | |||
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"Blow job skillage was a pretty popular one. You hit my humour spot. Attack the funny bone P Would that be a good opening topic though? I'm sitting in the pub with a man and my first sentence is "I really love feeling a cock slip down my throat"? He'll be sputtering into his pint glass Then you can give him mouth to mouth. Winning!
In a pub? In public? Where people can see us?"Medically trained in the art of resuscitation... by tongue. It's a new fandagled logic, still in experimental stage. | |||
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"Kaitlyn you tit. People who can banter are BY FARRRRRRR better company than a 'specialist' who goes on and on and on about something only they can comment on. I'd rather spend a night in the company of Kevin Hart than five minutes with Brian Cox. I am fucking amazing at the bantz, I must admit. I'm trying to re-image myself to seem more sophisticated though. I wanna grow up. Hmmmmmm sophistication....... Put your pinky up when you say ...Phuck Hewwwwww. Whilst asking "where the fox hat?" " Followed by ...... Mai husssband is a shipwright and works 'fuh cun ard' ........ | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are." lick | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are." I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. lick" True. | |||
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"Blow job skillage was a pretty popular one. You hit my humour spot. Attack the funny bone P Would that be a good opening topic though? I'm sitting in the pub with a man and my first sentence is "I really love feeling a cock slip down my throat"? He'll be sputtering into his pint glass Then you can give him mouth to mouth. Winning!
In a pub? In public? Where people can see us?
Medically trained in the art of resuscitation... by tongue. It's a new fandagled logic, still in experimental stage."Can I do it straddling his lap? | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though..." I would say that in itself is a sign of intelligence. A nice smile followed by a greeting is a great conversation starter | |||
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"Kaitlyn you tit. People who can banter are BY FARRRRRRR better company than a 'specialist' who goes on and on and on about something only they can comment on. I'd rather spend a night in the company of Kevin Hart than five minutes with Brian Cox. I am fucking amazing at the bantz, I must admit. I'm trying to re-image myself to seem more sophisticated though. I wanna grow up. Hmmmmmm sophistication....... Put your pinky up when you say ...Phuck Hewwwwww. Whilst asking "where the fox hat?" Followed by ...... Mai husssband is a shipwright and works 'fuh cun ard' ........ "  | |||
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"Blow job skillage was a pretty popular one. You hit my humour spot. Attack the funny bone P Would that be a good opening topic though? I'm sitting in the pub with a man and my first sentence is "I really love feeling a cock slip down my throat"? He'll be sputtering into his pint glass Then you can give him mouth to mouth. Winning!
In a pub? In public? Where people can see us?
Medically trained in the art of resuscitation... by tongue. It's a new fandagled logic, still in experimental stage.
Can I do it straddling his lap?"It's in it's experimental stage remember.... gotta try it out all ways  | |||
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"Kaitlyn you tit. People who can banter are BY FARRRRRRR better company than a 'specialist' who goes on and on and on about something only they can comment on. I'd rather spend a night in the company of Kevin Hart than five minutes with Brian Cox. I am fucking amazing at the bantz, I must admit. I'm trying to re-image myself to seem more sophisticated though. I wanna grow up. Hmmmmmm sophistication....... Put your pinky up when you say ...Phuck Hewwwwww. Whilst asking "where the fox hat?" Followed by ...... Mai husssband is a shipwright and works 'fuh cun ard' ........ "I'm saying that in a slightly d*unk voice in my head. | |||
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"Blow job skillage was a pretty popular one. You hit my humour spot. Attack the funny bone P Would that be a good opening topic though? I'm sitting in the pub with a man and my first sentence is "I really love feeling a cock slip down my throat"? He'll be sputtering into his pint glass Then you can give him mouth to mouth. Winning!
In a pub? In public? Where people can see us?
Medically trained in the art of resuscitation... by tongue. It's a new fandagled logic, still in experimental stage.
Can I do it straddling his lap?
It's in it's experimental stage remember.... gotta try it out all ways "If we get thrown out I'm blaming you. | |||
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"Bolloquaciousness, serves me well. I seem to do alright talking bollocks most of the time. All I can talk about is bollocks sometimes. I'm trying to avoid sec talk and awkward silences." Silence is only awkward if you don’t like silence. I don’t really pick subjects to talk about. I tend to tell stories when I’m talking. they normally just get triggered by something the other person says. Similarly I enjoy it when others tell stories. There are so many layers to them that there is always something to explore a bit further. | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. lick True. " I won't bother next time | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though." You're raising the bar for the rest of us though. You'll spoil it for all other women if you're too interesting. I just stare at them and lick around the rim of my glass while giggling at their hilarious chat. | |||
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"Blow job skillage was a pretty popular one. You hit my humour spot. Attack the funny bone P Would that be a good opening topic though? I'm sitting in the pub with a man and my first sentence is "I really love feeling a cock slip down my throat"? He'll be sputtering into his pint glass Then you can give him mouth to mouth. Winning!
In a pub? In public? Where people can see us?
Medically trained in the art of resuscitation... by tongue. It's a new fandagled logic, still in experimental stage.
Can I do it straddling his lap?
It's in it's experimental stage remember.... gotta try it out all ways
If we get thrown out I'm blaming you."I get the blame for most things so chuck it on my list. You want me to draw you up a crayon certificate to say you passed the first class in tongue resuscitation experimentation? | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. You're raising the bar for the rest of us though. You'll spoil it for all other women if you're too interesting. I just stare at them and lick around the rim of my glass while giggling at their hilarious chat." What if I just pick the men who only have cock pics on their profiles? | |||
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"Blow job skillage was a pretty popular one. You hit my humour spot. Attack the funny bone P Would that be a good opening topic though? I'm sitting in the pub with a man and my first sentence is "I really love feeling a cock slip down my throat"? He'll be sputtering into his pint glass Then you can give him mouth to mouth. Winning!
In a pub? In public? Where people can see us?
Medically trained in the art of resuscitation... by tongue. It's a new fandagled logic, still in experimental stage.
Can I do it straddling his lap?
It's in it's experimental stage remember.... gotta try it out all ways
If we get thrown out I'm blaming you.
I get the blame for most things so chuck it on my list.
You want me to draw you up a crayon certificate to say you passed the first class in tongue resuscitation experimentation?
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. You're raising the bar for the rest of us though. You'll spoil it for all other women if you're too interesting. I just stare at them and lick around the rim of my glass while giggling at their hilarious chat." How lascivious! | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. lick True. I won't bother next time "You haven't licked me. | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. You're raising the bar for the rest of us though. You'll spoil it for all other women if you're too interesting. I just stare at them and lick around the rim of my glass while giggling at their hilarious chat. How lascivious! "See! That's the words I need. | |||
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"Kaitlyn you tit. People who can banter are BY FARRRRRRR better company than a 'specialist' who goes on and on and on about something only they can comment on. I'd rather spend a night in the company of Kevin Hart than five minutes with Brian Cox. " Ooh, Can I have both? | |||
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"Having a prepared spiel seems too premeditated. I normally rely on whatever pops into my head at the time. Not always a good thing ..." I have nothing in my head  | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. You're raising the bar for the rest of us though. You'll spoil it for all other women if you're too interesting. I just stare at them and lick around the rim of my glass while giggling at their hilarious chat. How lascivious! "I love that word. | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though..." You have humour, dear!! | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. You're raising the bar for the rest of us though. You'll spoil it for all other women if you're too interesting. I just stare at them and lick around the rim of my glass while giggling at their hilarious chat. How lascivious!
I love that word. "It needs to be used more often like luscious. Luscious Lascivious Lola | |||
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"Kaitlyn you tit. People who can banter are BY FARRRRRRR better company than a 'specialist' who goes on and on and on about something only they can comment on. I'd rather spend a night in the company of Kevin Hart than five minutes with Brian Cox. Ooh, Can I have both?" No. I'd never let you have Kevin Hart. You can have Brian Cox for free! | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people. "You make up for it in hair flickage | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though." Instead of sparkling wine and deep throating ? | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people. "That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence. I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other...... | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
You make up for it in hair flickage "I do. I also give good hugs. | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. Instead of sparkling wine and deep throating ?" Lightbulb moment .... can you talk with your mouth full? No fucker will be able to resist intelligent convo with their member passing your tonsils. P | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......"That actually sounds awesome. My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people. "We had a nice little chat, considering we're both unsociable | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
You make up for it in hair flickage
I do. I also give good hugs. "Good is underselling yourself P | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. Instead of sparkling wine and deep throating ?" Schloer and gagging. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk. "It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......"I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing? | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. Instead of sparkling wine and deep throating ? Schloer and gagging." Schlong to mouth resuscitation, funnily enough it's in its experimental stage....
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"could I have one of those Topics everyone's on about... I've got the right change and everything." Get behind me in the queue.. | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though." It's rude to talk with your mouth full.. | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. Instead of sparkling wine and deep throating ? Schloer and gagging. Schlong to mouth resuscitation, funnily enough it's in its experimental stage....
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"could I have one of those Topics everyone's on about... I've got the right change and everything." Fucking love a topic, one of my fave choccies 
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. It's rude to talk with your mouth full.." Thinking...thinking. | |||
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"could I have one of those Topics everyone's on about... I've got the right change and everything. Fucking love a topic, one of my fave choccies
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. Instead of sparkling wine and deep throating ? Schloer and gagging. Schlong to mouth resuscitation, funnily enough it's in its experimental stage....
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How much experimenting is needed you think?"These NHS trials take years... P | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. Instead of sparkling wine and deep throating ? Schloer and gagging. Schlong to mouth resuscitation, funnily enough it's in its experimental stage....
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How much experimenting is needed you think?
These NHS trials take years...
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal "You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing?"No, Laughing would have been fine, as it releases embarrassment, but both of us had done significant personal development work and meditation so we just smiled and gazed at each other. We sat on very soft cushions and loosened our clothes. We had to shift position a couple of times slightly but just went back to focusing on each other. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing?
No, Laughing would have been fine, as it releases embarrassment, but both of us had done significant personal development work and meditation so we just smiled and gazed at each other. We sat on very soft cushions and loosened our bowels. We had to shift position a couple of times slightly but just went back to focusing on each other."Gross!
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now. "I think I'd be reduced to laughter inside two minutes. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing?
No, Laughing would have been fine, as it releases embarrassment, but both of us had done significant personal development work and meditation so we just smiled and gazed at each other. We sat on very soft cushions and loosened our clothes. We had to shift position a couple of times slightly but just went back to focusing on each other."It sounds interesting. I think it would be difficult to find someone to do it with, on here. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now. "I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing?
No, Laughing would have been fine, as it releases embarrassment, but both of us had done significant personal development work and meditation so we just smiled and gazed at each other. We sat on very soft cushions and loosened our clothes. We had to shift position a couple of times slightly but just went back to focusing on each other.
It sounds interesting. I think it would be difficult to find someone to do it with, on here."Finding a comfortable seating arrangement would be important for you, but the more spiritually oriented men on here would probably go for the experiment. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing?
No, Laughing would have been fine, as it releases embarrassment, but both of us had done significant personal development work and meditation so we just smiled and gazed at each other. We sat on very soft cushions and loosened our bowels. We had to shift position a couple of times slightly but just went back to focusing on each other.
Gross!
P"Yep that would be a bit shit | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing?
No, Laughing would have been fine, as it releases embarrassment, but both of us had done significant personal development work and meditation so we just smiled and gazed at each other. We sat on very soft cushions and loosened our clothes. We had to shift position a couple of times slightly but just went back to focusing on each other.
It sounds interesting. I think it would be difficult to find someone to do it with, on here.
Finding a comfortable seating arrangement would be important for you, but the more spiritually oriented men on here would probably go for the experiment."I think it might be a difficult sell to some people. 'Hey lets just be quiet and look at each other'
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing?
No, Laughing would have been fine, as it releases embarrassment, but both of us had done significant personal development work and meditation so we just smiled and gazed at each other. We sat on very soft cushions and loosened our bowels. We had to shift position a couple of times slightly but just went back to focusing on each other.
Gross!
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I think I'd be reduced to laughter inside two minutes. "That would be a usual response if you haven’t done anything like that before. Just go with the laughing. I have laughed myself into catharsis letting go of guilt, shame and embarrassment. It’s perfectly natural to feel those emotions doing that exercise. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing?
No, Laughing would have been fine, as it releases embarrassment, but both of us had done significant personal development work and meditation so we just smiled and gazed at each other. We sat on very soft cushions and loosened our bowels. We had to shift position a couple of times slightly but just went back to focusing on each other.
Gross!
P Yep that would be a bit shit
I laughed way too hard doing that one I tell ya "it made me chortle too once I’d found what you had done to my post | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing?
No, Laughing would have been fine, as it releases embarrassment, but both of us had done significant personal development work and meditation so we just smiled and gazed at each other. We sat on very soft cushions and loosened our clothes. We had to shift position a couple of times slightly but just went back to focusing on each other.
It sounds interesting. I think it would be difficult to find someone to do it with, on here.
Finding a comfortable seating arrangement would be important for you, but the more spiritually oriented men on here would probably go for the experiment."I would have to be either laying down or sitting on a comfy chair. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing?
No, Laughing would have been fine, as it releases embarrassment, but both of us had done significant personal development work and meditation so we just smiled and gazed at each other. We sat on very soft cushions and loosened our bowels. We had to shift position a couple of times slightly but just went back to focusing on each other.
Gross!
P Yep that would be a bit shit
I laughed way too hard doing that one I tell ya it made me chortle too once I’d found what you had done to my post "I've just spotted it myself | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
I can't sit still for that long. Did you not feel like laughing?
No, Laughing would have been fine, as it releases embarrassment, but both of us had done significant personal development work and meditation so we just smiled and gazed at each other. We sat on very soft cushions and loosened our bowels. We had to shift position a couple of times slightly but just went back to focusing on each other.
Gross!
P Yep that would be a bit shit
I laughed way too hard doing that one I tell ya it made me chortle too once I’d found what you had done to my post "It just worked far too well | |||
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"Just keep asking questions, people love to talk about themselves. " I want to talk about me for a change. I'm fed up with nodding and uh huhing. I wanna be the interesting one. | |||
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"Tbh a good box set is always a middle ground- from the wire to GOT to desperate housewives, most like a series... if you don’t have a television then pretend to know something about brexit which is easy to do as no one does even poor old Teresa... if not that then the merits of becoming a dolphin trainer.." I don't do politics. I'm too dim. | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. You're raising the bar for the rest of us though. You'll spoil it for all other women if you're too interesting. I just stare at them and lick around the rim of my glass while giggling at their hilarious chat. How lascivious!
I love that word.
It needs to be used more often like luscious. Luscious Lascivious Lola "I also like illecebrous | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. Instead of sparkling wine and deep throating ? Lightbulb moment .... can you talk with your mouth full? No fucker will be able to resist intelligent convo with their member passing your tonsils. P" Past her tonsils? I'd barely get it past her teeth. I'm out...... | |||
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Welcome to the club.
Hello .. Nice to meet you ... "Erm erm ... I am listening | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. Instead of sparkling wine and deep throating ? Lightbulb moment .... can you talk with your mouth full? No fucker will be able to resist intelligent convo with their member passing your tonsils. P Past her tonsils? I'd barely get it past her teeth. I'm out...... "She can take them out. | |||
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That's handy for me
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Hello .. Nice to meet you ...
Erm erm ... I am listening "Is there a secret handshake? | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. You're raising the bar for the rest of us though. You'll spoil it for all other women if you're too interesting. I just stare at them and lick around the rim of my glass while giggling at their hilarious chat. How lascivious!
I love that word.
It needs to be used more often like luscious. Luscious Lascivious Lola
I also like illecebrous "Oh yeah! How illicitly illecebrous! | |||
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That's handy for me
Welcome to the club.
Hello .. Nice to meet you ...
Erm erm ... I am listening
Is there a secret handshake?"No secret signals, all inclusive. Just be real . | |||
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That's handy for me
Welcome to the club.
Hello .. Nice to meet you ...
Erm erm ... I am listening
Is there a secret handshake?
No secret signals, all inclusive. Just be real ."Ah, I'm not real. I'm a figment of my own imagination. | |||
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"It's good to talk, especially when it's with people that get you .. Intelligence rating needed. Zero
That's handy for me
Welcome to the club.
Hello .. Nice to meet you ...
Erm erm ... I am listening
Is there a secret handshake?
No secret signals, all inclusive. Just be real .
Ah, I'm not real. I'm a figment of my own imagination. "Be real with imagination, it works | |||
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That's handy for me
Welcome to the club.
Hello .. Nice to meet you ...
Erm erm ... I am listening
Is there a secret handshake?
No secret signals, all inclusive. Just be real .
Ah, I'm not real. I'm a figment of my own imagination.
Be real with imagination,
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"I'd do better with your conversational skills than my own. Shall we do a mutual Cyrano, sis?" That would be interesting. Would we be growing bigger noses? | |||
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"I'd do better with your conversational skills than my own. Shall we do a mutual Cyrano, sis? That would be interesting. Would we be growing bigger noses?" Does it improve our fellating abilities? My nose is already quite big. | |||
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"I'd do better with your conversational skills than my own. Shall we do a mutual Cyrano, sis? That would be interesting. Would we be growing bigger noses? Does it improve our fellating abilities? My nose is already quite big." Not big enough for me to notice. It would heighten our sense of smell though. | |||
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That's handy for me
Welcome to the club.
Hello .. Nice to meet you ...
Erm erm ... I am listening
Is there a secret handshake?
No secret signals, all inclusive. Just be real .
Ah, I'm not real. I'm a figment of my own imagination.
Be real with imagination,
it works
I have no imagination. That's my problem. "We all have imagination even if it's Just a figment. We have something to work with. A start | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people What to choose though..." Bullshit Baffles Brains. Nuff said! | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience"It's quite an intense experience just sitting and looking into anothers eyes like that. Most people either laugh, cry, or are unable to maintain the silence and eye contact. Sometimes they do all three..... It's possible to learn a lot about another that way, but the other may learn a lot about you too.... | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people What to choose though... Bullshit Baffles Brains. Nuff said!" I need something to bullshit about. | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people What to choose though... Bullshit Baffles Brains. Nuff said! I need something to bullshit about." Bullshit about bullshit. | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people What to choose though... Bullshit Baffles Brains. Nuff said! I need something to bullshit about. Bullshit about bullshit. "We're not all blessed with your skills. | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. You're raising the bar for the rest of us though. You'll spoil it for all other women if you're too interesting. I just stare at them and lick around the rim of my glass while giggling at their hilarious chat. What if I just pick the men who only have cock pics on their profiles?" Good plan. I hope cocks are good listeners. | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people What to choose though... Bullshit Baffles Brains. Nuff said! I need something to bullshit about. Bullshit about bullshit.
We're not all blessed with your skills." | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people What to choose though... Bullshit Baffles Brains. Nuff said! I need something to bullshit about. Bullshit about bullshit.
We're not all blessed with your skills."Honed over time. It wasn't easy.... | |||
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"Just be you x You seem.pretty well liked on here as you are. I want to be admired for my deep thinking and sparkling conversation though. You're raising the bar for the rest of us though. You'll spoil it for all other women if you're too interesting. I just stare at them and lick around the rim of my glass while giggling at their hilarious chat. What if I just pick the men who only have cock pics on their profiles? Good plan. I hope cocks are good listeners. "I'll let you know | |||
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"I barely talk to people. Certainly not the poster above. " Don't blame you. | |||
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"I barely talk to people. Certainly not the poster above. Don't blame you." I saw him at a social although to his credit he didn’t know it was me. | |||
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"I barely talk to people. Certainly not the poster above. Don't blame you. I saw him at a social although to his credit he didn’t know it was me. " Did you say hello? Was it his crap shirt that stopped you approaching him? | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though..." Zombie apocalypse would do me just fine...
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience
It's quite an intense experience just sitting and looking into anothers eyes like that. Most people either laugh, cry, or are unable to maintain the silence and eye contact. Sometimes they do all three.....
It's possible to learn a lot about another that way, but the other may learn a lot about you too....
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience
It's quite an intense experience just sitting and looking into anothers eyes like that. Most people either laugh, cry, or are unable to maintain the silence and eye contact. Sometimes they do all three.....
It's possible to learn a lot about another that way, but the other may learn a lot about you too....
The mutual vulnerability is what makes it very intimate and can have transformative effects"Like a robot in disguise? To be fair it sounds lush P | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience
It's quite an intense experience just sitting and looking into anothers eyes like that. Most people either laugh, cry, or are unable to maintain the silence and eye contact. Sometimes they do all three.....
It's possible to learn a lot about another that way, but the other may learn a lot about you too....
The mutual vulnerability is what makes it very intimate and can have transformative effects
Like a robot in disguise?
To be fair it sounds lush
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though... Zombie apocalypse would do me just fine...
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience
It's quite an intense experience just sitting and looking into anothers eyes like that. Most people either laugh, cry, or are unable to maintain the silence and eye contact. Sometimes they do all three.....
It's possible to learn a lot about another that way, but the other may learn a lot about you too....
The mutual vulnerability is what makes it very intimate and can have transformative effects
Like a robot in disguise?
To be fair it sounds lush
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You’d love it but would probably want lots of cuddles afterwards "Can never have enough cuddles
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience
It's quite an intense experience just sitting and looking into anothers eyes like that. Most people either laugh, cry, or are unable to maintain the silence and eye contact. Sometimes they do all three.....
It's possible to learn a lot about another that way, but the other may learn a lot about you too....
The mutual vulnerability is what makes it very intimate and can have transformative effects
Like a robot in disguise?
To be fair it sounds lush
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You’d love it but would probably want lots of cuddles afterwards
Can never have enough cuddles
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience"I did it with another woman as part of a course. Intensely terrifying and I pretty much spent the whole 7 minutes crying but it creates massive intimacy for the time it is done.  | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though..." You had me at zombie apocalypse. Could chat all night on that with me. Well not all night  | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience
I did it with another woman as part of a course. Intensely terrifying and I pretty much spent the whole 7 minutes crying but it creates massive intimacy for the time it is done. "Yep it does. I was fortunate enough to have a lot of practice In shorter bursts. I was also use to long periods of silence in a group setting which was even more unnerving the first time I experienced it. However the one on one intimacy of mutual gazing is one of the most awesome experiences I’ve had. | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though... You had me at zombie apocalypse. Could chat all night on that with me. Well not all night "Are you a runner, a hider or a slayer? | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience
I did it with another woman as part of a course. Intensely terrifying and I pretty much spent the whole 7 minutes crying but it creates massive intimacy for the time it is done. "The ultimate intimacy comes after that 10 minutes of silent communication when/if you can actually tell another what you have seen and felt and how it may have resonated with you.... | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though... You had me at zombie apocalypse. Could chat all night on that with me. Well not all night
Are you a runner, a hider or a slayer?"You would have to be a mix of all 3. There would be times to run (too many to fight), time to hide (no escape route) and time to slay - to protect others or yourself. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience
I did it with another woman as part of a course. Intensely terrifying and I pretty much spent the whole 7 minutes crying but it creates massive intimacy for the time it is done.
The ultimate intimacy comes after that 10 minutes of silent communication when/if you can actually tell another what you have seen and felt and how it may have resonated with you...."That’s true the gazing is only the beginning of the inquiry | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though... You had me at zombie apocalypse. Could chat all night on that with me. Well not all night
Are you a runner, a hider or a slayer?
You would have to be a mix of all 3. There would be times to run (too many to fight), time to hide (no escape route) and time to slay - to protect others or yourself."Good answer. I've told my family I would sacrifice myself so they can get away, if needed. | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though... You had me at zombie apocalypse. Could chat all night on that with me. Well not all night
Are you a runner, a hider or a slayer?
You would have to be a mix of all 3. There would be times to run (too many to fight), time to hide (no escape route) and time to slay - to protect others or yourself.
Good answer. I've told my family I would sacrifice myself so they can get away, if needed. "Shouldn't be true. Yes you want to protect loved ones, but that may harm them in the long run. If you are the best fighter, then sacrifice would just guarantee trouble at a later time. Better to stick together and fight as one. Survive as one. Or fall as one. Mentally easier as well. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience
I did it with another woman as part of a course. Intensely terrifying and I pretty much spent the whole 7 minutes crying but it creates massive intimacy for the time it is done.
The ultimate intimacy comes after that 10 minutes of silent communication when/if you can actually tell another what you have seen and felt and how it may have resonated with you....
That’s true the gazing is only the beginning of the inquiry "First time I tried it I found it a strange scary experience, shed a few tears which I didn't expect, so did the other. Yet it was after when we were talking, a lot of stumbling over words and lots of laughter as we talked we both were more aware of the other and their thoughts hope's fears emotions and far more open about our own emotions than I am ever usually prepared to be. It does change how we see others.... | |||
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"Just keep asking questions, people love to talk about themselves. " Question bad idea sounds like you want something and people will put up a defence rather a statement. You sound like a North London gal and off you will go. Statement. If you are going to start with a question. Ask light questions the other person will want to answer, football, wine, travel, kids, cars, shoes. | |||
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"I barely talk to people. Certainly not the poster above. Don't blame you. I didn't recognise him without his bicep on show.....
Didn’t the pineapple give you a hint?"Nope. | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though..." You just did....  | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though... You had me at zombie apocalypse. Could chat all night on that with me. Well not all night
Are you a runner, a hider or a slayer?
You would have to be a mix of all 3. There would be times to run (too many to fight), time to hide (no escape route) and time to slay - to protect others or yourself.
Good answer. I've told my family I would sacrifice myself so they can get away, if needed.
Shouldn't be true. Yes you want to protect loved ones, but that may harm them in the long run. If you are the best fighter, then sacrifice would just guarantee trouble at a later time. Better to stick together and fight as one. Survive as one. Or fall as one. Mentally easier as well."I can't run or fight; which is why I'm the sacrificial lamb. I'd fight as much as I could but my family would stand more of a chance if I bled a bit. | |||
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"Mine are shite too I can't keep a conversation going on here must be dead boring either that it's cause I won't put out right away so they get bored "You're supposed to talk about sex and how you like it. | |||
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"are pretty dire really. I'm a great listener, and question asker, but I have nothing in my bank as a conversation starter. I have my back up Zombie Apocalypse spiel and I can talk about what food I like to cook, where I like to spend my free time and such. Other than that I have nothing. I have no specialist subject. I need something I can talk in depth about to impress I sapiophiles and intelligent people. What to choose though... You had me at zombie apocalypse. Could chat all night on that with me. Well not all night
Are you a runner, a hider or a slayer?
You would have to be a mix of all 3. There would be times to run (too many to fight), time to hide (no escape route) and time to slay - to protect others or yourself.
Good answer. I've told my family I would sacrifice myself so they can get away, if needed.
Shouldn't be true. Yes you want to protect loved ones, but that may harm them in the long run. If you are the best fighter, then sacrifice would just guarantee trouble at a later time. Better to stick together and fight as one. Survive as one. Or fall as one. Mentally easier as well.
I can't run or fight; which is why I'm the sacrificial lamb.
I'd fight as much as I could but my family would stand more of a chance if I bled a bit."Don't just need fighters. And people don't know they are a fighter until first contact. Fear changes people. Initial fight but after that when you have found a safe space. Doers needed. Practical people needed. All sorts of skills. Fighters are most important at first but become more disposable later. | |||
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"I feel my conversational skills aren't great, but mostly because I don't like talking to people.
That’s ok. A huge amount can be communicate in silence.
I once had a meeting with a woman where we sat cross legged facing each other and gazed at each other for half an hour with out saying a word. Just to see what happened. Just gazing and breathing in time with each other......
That actually sounds awesome.
My problem is that I'm not very good with small talk.
It was awesome. It was one of the most intimate half an hours I’ve ever spent. We had a huge amount to talk about afterwards and the erotic charge was phenomenal
You have me thinking I'd be interested to try that now.
I first did it for 10 minutes in a workshop and that was enough to spark my curiosity. So in this case it was part of a research project I was doing during my Masters Degree. I’ve not done it with another man, only with a woman, but it was an awesome experience
I did it with another woman as part of a course. Intensely terrifying and I pretty much spent the whole 7 minutes crying but it creates massive intimacy for the time it is done.
The ultimate intimacy comes after that 10 minutes of silent communication when/if you can actually tell another what you have seen and felt and how it may have resonated with you....
That’s true the gazing is only the beginning of the inquiry
First time I tried it I found it a strange scary experience, shed a few tears which I didn't expect, so did the other. Yet it was after when we were talking, a lot of stumbling over words and lots of laughter as we talked we both were more aware of the other and their thoughts hope's fears emotions and far more open about our own emotions than I am ever usually prepared to be.
It does change how we see others....
"Indeed- it can be a very healing and cleansing process- and gentle- the intimacy it creates enables a very open, safe environment for mutual exploration | |||
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