FabSwingers.com forum: Sex without connection

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s the point of sex without connection. That would be some half hearted encounter. Am I alone thinking that?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

That's exactly how I feel. To me and my experience of them it leads to pointless boring sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not alone in that thinking. Connection is a must for me

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By *ueen of sleezeWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

God no there has to be a connection. There has to be something how do you manage to shag if there isnt one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define connection?

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

it’s a fundamental thing

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Definitely, connection is a must. It adds passion which in turn leads to pleasure........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Define connection?"
when you both want each other but act like you don’t. It’s all in the eyes if you catch my drift

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Define connection?"

You'll know when you know. It's like a match has been lit and starts a little fire inside you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God no there has to be a connection. There has to be something how do you manage to shag if there isnt one "

Love that.. a woman who agrees with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely not alone in that thinking. Connection is a must for me

Love that.. a woman who agrees with me

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

One on one - essential.

Club/multiples - not a necessity but a general attraction will suffice. Not that I've been to a club in the last couple of years. It might be different now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not alone in that thinking. Connection is a must for me

Love that.. a woman who agrees with me

Well look at that a connection!!

Who'd have guessed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a fuck to get off

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

As a couple we go for more attraction than connection . We find you got to have a little connection but we are looking for something a bit different to what we have already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the point of sex without connection. That would be some half hearted encounter. Am I alone thinking that?"

You're not alone at all. I'm glad there's one guy on here that genuinely values a connection!

People have said to me they do when in reality they just wanted to use my holes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we go for more attraction than connection . We find you got to have a little connection but we are looking for something a bit different to what we have already "

I still need the physical attraction, but i find the people I'm physically attracted to are players who wouldn't touch.me in the real world.

I need both physical and mental attraction but I think i aim too high.

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

"As a couple we go for more attraction than connection . We find you got to have a little connection but we are looking for something a bit different to what we have already

I still need the physical attraction, but i find the people I'm physically attracted to are players who wouldn't touch.me in the real world.

I need both physical and mental attraction but I think i aim too high. "

Agree with you we still need both on a meet but as a married couple the connection with another couple or single does not have to be the defining factor for us it’s about just having a good time we still need to connect with the people but it does not have to be the major factor if that makes sense .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not alone in that thinking. Connection is a must for me

Love that.. a woman who agrees with me

Well look at that a connection!!

Who'd have guessed it."

There was me thinking the OP meant clicking conversationally as well as the sexual attraction, but they this is Fab agter all....

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Must admit we do like having something in common before a meet good little social before playtime

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s the point of sex without connection. That would be some half hearted encounter. Am I alone thinking that?

You're not alone at all. I'm glad there's one guy on here that genuinely values a connection!

People have said to me they do when in reality they just wanted to use my holes."

Mind before physical is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the forum doesnt support pics so i couldnt put the mad max "thats bait" image in this thread but god damn the op hooked a few good.

Well played

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well the forum doesnt support pics so i couldnt put the mad max "thats bait" image in this thread but god damn the op hooked a few good.

Well played"

You lost me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no!! I am not into cold, soulless, porn-style sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God no!! I am not into cold, soulless, porn-style sex"

What’s the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chatted to a few guys over the years who seem to be happy with fucking regardless of connection, not something either of us can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got be a connection or at least some attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How’s the social engineering going op?

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

There has to be something, either attraction or connection otherwise its just going through the motions so to speak lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there has to be something tjere in my opinion. ive done it with np connection and its just boring

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

"Define connection? when you both want each other but act like you don’t. It’s all in the eyes if you catch my drift

That just sounds like lust, a connection is a real emotional feeling and you have feelings for a person it isn’t even about sex tbh its basically about deep caring feelings, people seem to bandy this word around quite easily on fab

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Depends on the situation.

I've had sheet melting sex where the only connection needed is the physical.

You can big that up into something mystical if you want, but I'd just call it lust.

Horses for courses as always of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define connection? when you both want each other but act like you don’t. It’s all in the eyes if you catch my drift

Couldn't agree more. People are talking about attraction rather than a connection.

I've only experienced an almost instant connection with one person after chatting for a while before meeting. Minor attraction but it was the mental connection, being on the same page that did it for me.

Unfortunately it didn't work out but that's life. Sometimes it's easier if it's more just a physical attraction if you're only looking for nsa. Lust is very powerful which is why it's a sin

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Having a connection works in different ways. If you’re having sex in a club with someone you have only just set eyes on but never spoken with before then that is clearly a physical attraction, which some may feel is a connection. Some people want to chat and get to know a person over a period of time before they consider getting physical. Both valid in their own way.

The interpretation of having a connection is as individual as we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been thinking about connection. I think it is actually about how attracted I feel to the other person. I can be attracted in multiple levels physically, mentally and spiritually the more the attraction on each of those levels the more desire I feel. The levels compensate for each other too. However the more attraction I feel the more lust flows if that attraction is mutual, the more I have got to know them and like them the deeper the friendship. So the connection depends on lust flow through attraction and depth of friendship.

Sexual magic for me tends to really start occurring with a lot of lust and the potential for becoming good friends

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I’ve been thinking about connection. I think it is actually about how attracted I feel to the other person. I can be attracted in multiple levels physically, mentally and spiritually the more the attraction on each of those levels the more desire I feel. The levels compensate for each other too. However the more attraction I feel the more lust flows if that attraction is mutual, the more I have got to know them and like them the deeper the friendship. So the connection depends on lust flow through attraction and depth of friendship.

Sexual magic for me tends to really start occurring with a lot of lust and the potential for becoming good friends"

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got me lightning in a bottle

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

"Define connection? when you both want each other but act like you don’t. It’s all in the eyes if you catch my drift

Couldn't agree more. People are talking about attraction rather than a connection.

Unfortunately it didn't work out but that's life. Sometimes it's easier if it's more just a physical attraction if you're only looking for nsa. Lust is very powerful which is why it's a sin

Lust is a kinda good sin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define connection? when you both want each other but act like you don’t. It’s all in the eyes if you catch my drift

I was gonna say what people describe as "connection" seems to just be "horny"

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Sexual magic for me tends to really start occurring with a lot of lust and the potential for becoming good friends"

Not for me I only have real connections very rarely so I wouldn’t lump it together with other people I’ve met attraction is very common but connection isn’t

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

"Define connection? when you both want each other but act like you don’t. It’s all in the eyes if you catch my drift

I was gonna say what people describe as "connection" seems to just be "horny""

Fab definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No connection for me me means no hard dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a connection is OK as long as it doesn't lead to complicated emotional feelings. Unfortunately in some cases, it can and does happen. Personally, I'm not here for that.

Attraction yep.

Connection.. Cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the point of sex without connection. That would be some half hearted encounter. Am I alone thinking that?"

No, I am of the same opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With no connection....its just friction.

What's the point....

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Yep it's why I rarely meet.

I want animalistic, raw passion. When it happens it blows my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have a cup of tea...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't mind a shallow, surface connection but I don't believe a genuine connection can be formed between people who have only met in person briefly and exchanged one or two messages on here.

For me sex doesn't need to hold a deeper meaning to be enjoyable and I wouldn't expect the people we meet to feel that way.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Lets be honest for some it is they treat it as a posh wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea... "

Me too but I think that about everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything. "

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot.."
good im thursty put kekkle on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..good im thursty put kekkle on"

It's always on. I choose tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather cut a hole in the fence throw up a megan fox poster and fuck the hole

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Personable click and that you of course fancy each other. Kaboom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot.."

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we go for more attraction than connection . We find you got to have a little connection but we are looking for something a bit different to what we have already "

Exactly this ^^^^ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet. "

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass wind on."
bloody scruff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass wind on.bloody scruff

Eewwwww pass wind on? Terrible lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

How long does it take the people who need a connection to form one? Genuine question because to properly connect with someone on an emotional level takes me months of one to one contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass on."

Wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass wind on.bloody scruff

Such a knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont need to have a connection to enjoy a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass wind on.bloody scruff

Such a hobknob

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dunk me again

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Personable click and that you of course fancy each other. Kaboom

So simple yet so difficult too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass wind on.bloody scruff

Such a hobknob

dunk me again

Ha ha ha I bloody despair!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't do it. I can enjoy talking to someone but not get the urge to suck their cock.

If I don't get the urge, I'm not doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass wind on.bloody scruff

Such a hobknob

dunk me again

Ha ha ha I bloody despair!!!!!!"
dunno what that means so il not do an edit

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

I would say the first connection is attraction and if you get more after that then great, but if you just have one moment of amazing sex then thats good for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the point of sex without connection. That would be some half hearted encounter. Am I alone thinking that?"

Same as a wank but only one is disapointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual magic for me tends to really start occurring with a lot of lust and the potential for becoming good friends

Not for me I only have real connections very rarely so I wouldn’t lump it together with other people I’ve met attraction is very common but connection isn’t

That’s the problem with language we all have different meanings attached to the words- that wouldn’t be just a connection for me, That would imply something deeper for me.

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

A interesting thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass wind on.bloody scruff

Such a hobknob

dunk me again

Ha ha ha I bloody despair!!!!!!dunno what that means so il admit defeat and agree you're the cleverest and you truly spanked me on that one as usual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass wind on.bloody scruff

Such a hobknob

dunk me again

Ha ha ha I bloody despair!!!!!!dunno what that means so il admit defeat and agree you're the cleverest and you truly spanked me on that one as usual

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i see what you did there

what is it with you women and spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people put too much emphasis on the orgasms.

It's everything before or after the orgasms I get most enjoyment from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass wind on.bloody scruff

Such a hobknob

dunk me again

Ha ha ha I bloody despair!!!!!!dunno what that means so il admit defeat and agree you're the cleverest and you truly spanked me on that one as usual

i see what you did there

what is it with you women and spanking

Can't help it.. it's the frustrated switch that can't be silenced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long does it take the people who need a connection to form one? Genuine question because to properly connect with someone on an emotional level takes me months of one to one contact."

Depends on what level of connection I think.

Each person is different and have different connection requirements, some more complicated than others.

You state emotional, some its only physical, some a combination at different levels and the circumstances play a part in it too. There may be a kink involved which can heighten connections. Some might be different one day/week to the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long does it take the people who need a connection to form one? Genuine question because to properly connect with someone on an emotional level takes me months of one to one contact.

Depends on what level of connection I think.

Each person is different and have different connection requirements, some more complicated than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an emotional connection with B.

I don't need an emotional connection from anywhere else, but what I DO need is a connection of respect, trust and lust, with a side order of emotional intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a cup of tea...

Me too but I think that about everything.

Snap.. it's my go to decision maker.. I seem to choose tea a lot..

It's a good choice, it hasn't let me down yet.

Me too.. tea and dogs.. most humans I'll pass wind on.bloody scruff

Such a hobknob

dunk me again

Ha ha ha I bloody despair!!!!!!dunno what that means so il admit defeat and agree you're the cleverest and you truly spanked me on that one as usual

i see what you did there

what is it with you women and spanking

Can't help it.. it's the frustrated switch that can be silent but deadly. "
stop trumping ffs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"How long does it take the people who need a connection to form one? Genuine question because to properly connect with someone on an emotional level takes me months of one to one contact.

Depends on what level of connection I think.

Each person is different and have different connection requirements, some more complicated than others.

Ah ok. Maybe I'm using too narrow a definition of connection. I've noticed a certain disdain towards casual sex recently often expressed using words such as connection and intimacy. Personally I think if it feels good, do it

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"I have an emotional connection with B.

I don't need an emotional connection from anywhere else, but what I DO need is a connection of respect, trust and lust, with a side order of emotional intelligence.

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where can I get sex without connection please? All I want is a hard cock. Do you have any idea how hard that is to find on here???

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Where can I get sex without connection please? All I want is a hard cock. Do you have any idea how hard that is to find on here???"
* Cue inbox overload

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have an emotional connection with B.

I don't need an emotional connection from anywhere else, but what I DO need is a connection of respect, trust and lust, with a side order of emotional intelligence.

Well said"

Thank you, I seem to have woken with a brain today. These days are rare and should be circled on the calendar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have an emotional connection with B.

I don't need an emotional connection from anywhere else, but what I DO need is a connection of respect, trust and lust, with a side order of emotional intelligence.

Well said

Thank you, I seem to have woken with a brain today. These days are rare and should be circled on the calendar

P"
i agree with most but intelegence i struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not alone in that thinking. Connection is a must for me

I totally agree

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

A connection is all well and good, but sometimes you just want a hot blooded male between your legs pumping for gold.

You just want your itch scratched. Uncomplicated, simple sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where can I get sex without connection please? All I want is a hard cock. Do you have any idea how hard that is to find on here??? * Cue inbox overload

Won't happen. I'm immune.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where can I get sex without connection please? All I want is a hard cock. Do you have any idea how hard that is to find on here???"

You’ve got me singing ...

“A hard cock is hard to find so please be gentle with this arse of mine”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep it's why I rarely meet.

I want animalistic, raw passion. When it happens it blows my mind "

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over a year ago

"Where can I get sex without connection please? All I want is a hard cock. Do you have any idea how hard that is to find on here???

You’ve got me singing ...

“A hard cock is hard to find so please be gentle with this arse of mine”

Because of this thread I've got Rainbow Connection from the muppet movie playing in my mind.

"Someday we'll find it

The Rainbow Connection

The lovers, the dreamers and me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where can I get sex without connection please? All I want is a hard cock. Do you have any idea how hard that is to find on here???

You’ve got me singing ...

“A hard cock is hard to find so please be gentle with this arse of mine”

Me too now. Thanks!!

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Sometimes sexual gratification is better cured with someone else but it’s SO much better with a connection it’s why we don’t do last minute meets

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over a year ago

"Define connection? when you both want each other but act like you don’t. It’s all in the eyes if you catch my drift

You don’t have to have feelings to have a connection. I connect with all types of people over different things. Not just sexually. I can connect with someone over music or over a different hobby. It’s just being able to click and kinda get each other.

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over a year ago

"I have an emotional connection with B.

I don't need an emotional connection from anywhere else, but what I DO need is a connection of respect, trust and lust, with a side order of emotional intelligence.

Emotional intelligence, I wish that was easy to find.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As others have said it doesn't have to be an emotional connection - more a chemistry with someone where you connect at a certain level - now that may be simply physical attraction, or shared interests, or any number of other factors - I'm not sure it can actually be defined other than when you find it you know it's there.

Agree with Lickety that there's a difference between meeting via the site and exchanging messages and the kind of "in the moment" thing that happens in clubs - although they're both still a connection on some level, just one is usually more geared towards the physical.

Connection on here can also be very transient which can be misleading too - you think you find someone you connect with and then life, circumstances, whatever happen and that connection is lost.

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over a year ago

"Where can I get sex without connection please? All I want is a hard cock. Do you have any idea how hard that is to find on here???

You’ve got me singing ...

“A hard cock is hard to find so please be gentle with this arse of mine”

Me too now. Thanks!!"

You’re welcome

#EarWormsRUs

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over a year ago

"I have an emotional connection with B.

I don't need an emotional connection from anywhere else, but what I DO need is a connection of respect, trust and lust, with a side order of emotional intelligence.

Emotional intelligence, I wish that was easy to find. "

For us blokes it’s hard to develop

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over a year ago

"As others have said it doesn't have to be an emotional connection - more a chemistry with someone where you connect at a certain level - now that may be simply physical attraction, or shared interests, or any number of other factors - I'm not sure it can actually be defined other than when you find it you know it's there.

Connection on here can also be very transient which can be misleading too - you think you find someone you connect with and then life, circumstances, whatever happen and that connection is lost."

That happens to me all the time. Some can be picked up at a later date but many are lost forever.

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over a year ago

"What’s the point of sex without connection. That would be some half hearted encounter. Am I alone thinking that?"

i can have sex if i fancy them but dont want no attachments (feelings)

but i need attraction and connecttion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's different for me in a 3 some. I've had mmf and mff where I have only the physical desire.

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over a year ago

"It's different for me in a 3 some. I've had mmf and mff where I have only the physical desire."
thats more the experience that id say tho than awt else

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over a year ago

"It's different for me in a 3 some. I've had mmf and mff where I have only the physical desire."

Thats still a connection. You fancied them

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Connection on here can also be very transient which can be misleading too - you think you find someone you connect with and then life, circumstances, whatever happen and that connection is lost.

That happens to me all the time. Some can be picked up at a later date but many are lost forever. "

I think we have all had it happen and is the nature of the site to an extent - life, circumstances and other factors all play a part - the thing is when it happens, because of the nature of the site it seems wrong to question it or even to try to understand it sometimes, the expectation being that you accept it and move on - which goes against natural instinct

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"How long does it take the people who need a connection to form one? Genuine question because to properly connect with someone on an emotional level takes me months of one to one contact."

When you know, you know..

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over a year ago

Connection on here can also be very transient which can be misleading too - you think you find someone you connect with and then life, circumstances, whatever happen and that connection is lost.

That happens to me all the time. Some can be picked up at a later date but many are lost forever.

It’s funny you say that. I’ve found myself reconnecting with people over the last few months....I think things can go dormant and then something happens that can generate a spark again.....

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Connection on here can also be very transient which can be misleading too - you think you find someone you connect with and then life, circumstances, whatever happen and that connection is lost.

That happens to me all the time. Some can be picked up at a later date but many are lost forever.

It’s funny you say that. I’ve found myself reconnecting with people over the last few months....I think things can go dormant and then something happens that can generate a spark again....."

Oh absolutely it can bro, but as Lola said above sometimes it just disappears without apparent reason and leaves you scratching your head.

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over a year ago

Connection on here can also be very transient which can be misleading too - you think you find someone you connect with and then life, circumstances, whatever happen and that connection is lost.

That happens to me all the time. Some can be picked up at a later date but many are lost forever.

It’s funny you say that. I’ve found myself reconnecting with people over the last few months....I think things can go dormant and then something happens that can generate a spark again....."

Reunions after a break for whatever reasons can be great with people you have connected with previously. Connection is a must for me.

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over a year ago

There’s got to be some form of a connection for you to end up having sex. Whether that connection is physical, mental, spiritual, social or something else - there has to be something that gives you that blood rush down south and something that gets the juices flowing.

...even if it’s a little.

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over a year ago

"There’s got to be some form of a connection for you to end up having sex. Whether that connection is physical, mental, spiritual, social or something else - there has to be something that gives you that blood rush down south and something that gets the juices flowing.

...even if it’s a little.

It's the connection that makes the sex pleasurable, but is not to be confused with the L word.

Sex with no connection is just a complicated wank, for me.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Maybe this is as simple as WiFi and 4G. We're stuffed without the connection.

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over a year ago

Connection on here can also be very transient which can be misleading too - you think you find someone you connect with and then life, circumstances, whatever happen and that connection is lost.

That happens to me all the time. Some can be picked up at a later date but many are lost forever.

It’s funny you say that. I’ve found myself reconnecting with people over the last few months....I think things can go dormant and then something happens that can generate a spark again.....

Oh absolutely it can bro, but as Lola said above sometimes it just disappears without apparent reason and leaves you scratching your head."
Yep that too. Mostly I’ve found, in my case, they found better options for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...even if it’s a little.

I agree Pops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe this is as simple as WiFi and 4G. We're stuffed without the connection.

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or not

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over a year ago

Yep I can't do it without connection. That's why I don't bother looking for new meets. I would rather keep meeting the same person each week who I know makes me tick, is honest with me and is a great fuck.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

A connection yes, even if it's just basic attraction in a club. Outside of a club I need more than just physical attraction x

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over a year ago

...even if it’s a little.

It's the connection that makes the sex pleasurable, but is not to be confused with the L word.

Sex with no connection is just a complicated wank, for me."

Don’t think you can really use the L word in this instant. I agree, both are very different and the dynamic would change.

...I’m a little old school. And I like that.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Sex without a connection can be great fun, I've had plenty. But it isn't ever as fulfilling as sex with a connection, it sorts you out in so many ways that just a fuck doesn't. Imo.

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