FabSwingers.com forum: POSITIVITY!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get sick of reading forum threads that turn into arguments, or are started by people having a pop at others.

Here's a forum thread to make you feel warm and fuzzy hopefully

What act of kindness has someone done for you that sticks in your mind?

What makes cheers you up when you're feeling low?

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By *onnynclaireCouple
over a year ago

Reading

What cheers me up is when my 2 month old daughter smiles at me and does her cute baby talking noises.

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Joe's icecream

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

A message from someone on here I really like

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

On Friday ... I was driving to Somerset, 2 miles from my destination but 120 miles from home I heard a rattle to find my exhaust had dropped due to a clamp failure ... took it to a tyre and exhaust place ... said they'd look at it

Hour later ... car fixed, reused joining sleeve, 2 new clamps they had on the workshop, wouldn't take any payment

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I am a bit fan of a happy place. You shouldn’t have to look hard or spend anything to get there.

Any combination of the below for me:

My dogs.

A kitchen disco.

My daughters laugh (even though her humour is incomprehensible).

My friends and family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My grand daughter can always put a smile on my face.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

A car ahead of me in the queue at Starbucks paid for my coffee. I in turn paid for the order behind me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby did cpr on a guy 18 months ago and kept him going till the ambulance got there. He was first aid trained at the time ...he brushes it away as “something anyone would do”

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I dropped my wallet in one of my locals last month and someone was kind enough to bring it back to me at home - naturally just after I’d cancelled all my cards! - but a genuine act of kindness!

I used to just stew over any issues, thankfully I now have a gallery or two to distract me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My new friend licked me happy. That made me warm and fuzzy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get sick of reading forum threads that turn into arguments, or are started by people having a pop at others.

Here's a forum thread to make you feel warm and fuzzy hopefully

What act of kindness has someone done for you that sticks in your mind?

What makes cheers you up when you're feeling low? "

When I'm down I usually read or listen to an audiobook or music

Not sure about the acts of kindness, I have some pretty amazing friends that are supportive so I cant think of a single instance that sticks out Haha

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

My lady Ess. I hadn’t seen my Grand Daughters for 18 months due to my Sons Ex wife being a Cow.

I saw them

Last Saturday for the first time. She bought them Easter Eggs. Arranged an Easter Bunny Hunt and generally made them feel loved and wanted even though they are not her blood.

She’s a kind hearted soul and I’m lucky to have her.

She’s also a very horny, dirty girl. BOOM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A car ahead of me in the queue at Starbucks paid for my coffee. I in turn paid for the order behind me.

It’s great when you get involved with something like that ...it’s nice to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who offers their parking ticket when leaving somewhere and they still have time left on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite a positive chap and what keeps me chipper ?

Pooch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was nice to someone the outher day and it made me happy. I saw a car in a layby with a blown out tyre. Now they didnt have a spare. Was one of them cars that doesnt. I gave them my spare wheel out of my car as i had anougher two at home. They were so gratfull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on my way to a job inter_iew and was stressing because it was raining and I had no hood. I was on the bus at the time and talking to my friend on the phone and the lady behind me tapped my shoulder and gave me her brolly and wished me luck.

If I'm feeling down I tend to blast out music and sing at the top of my lungs. Or see friends. Or both together.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

knowing im of to ragdale hall tomorrow makes me happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol is usually the answer whenever I feel sad or stressed lol. Plenty of it this on this long weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m generally a happy person. My neighbours dog cries when he sees me with excitement, that always brings a smile to my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eldest son came home from day service today with a quiche he’s made. Smells lovely and he’s so proud of himself. Seeing him smile makes me happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dogs. I only get to seem them at weekends so the excitement and love when I get through the front door on a Friday after a long 4 hour drive is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She loves me thats enough

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I love my life and am happy where I am on it.

It’s all good

and if that changes, I will embrace any issues with positivity

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I am surrounded by me ever so dysfunctional family but we work. They have heart and soul. No matter what is going on they are there in the good and the bad times. And we have had our share of both. This is what keeps me smiling and when I lie in bed at night I thank my lucky stars for.

Everything else is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...can’t think of anything, esp on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my 3 year old randomly runs up to me for a hug, pats me on the head, then goes back to playing.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"When my 3 year old randomly runs up to me for a hug, pats me on the head, then goes back to playing.

I love that...or when they tell you they love you..I have 2 grandkids it's a good feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When my 3 year old randomly runs up to me for a hug, pats me on the head, then goes back to playing.

I love that...or when they tell you they love you..I have 2 grandkids it's a good feeling."

She does that a lot too. She's very affectionate and it never fails to make us smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get sick of reading forum threads that turn into arguments, or are started by people having a pop at others.

Here's a forum thread to make you feel warm and fuzzy hopefully

What act of kindness has someone done for you that sticks in your mind?

What makes cheers you up when you're feeling low? "

What about you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of stuff every day makes me happy. My dad's dog throwing her ball into the pond today was very cute. I was too busy to play with her so she threw it into the pond to retrieve, over and over. She was a bit green afterwards...

The song one of my most adored friends sent me this morning was perfect.

My washing is out on the line and the smell of it when I collect it in will give me a little flash of joy.

Life is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m generally a happy person. My neighbours dog cries when he sees me with excitement, that always brings a smile to my face

Pooches are awesome xx

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

myself.

my kids.

Liverpool fc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is good. Today is a day that tomorrows problems cant touch. Tomorrow might be the same

living life one day at a time these days

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

A message off a friend. A phone call off someone. My kids, most of the time haha, make me smile and cheer me up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life is good. Today is a day that tomorrows problems cant touch. Tomorrow might be the same

living life one day at a time these days

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My other half calming me down when I had a mini meltdown earlier

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

The kids from the other cottages put on a show outside this evening..and posted a hand written invitation through my door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life is good. Today is a day that tomorrows problems cant touch. Tomorrow might be the same

living life one day at a time these days

That’s a great philosophy Wolfy

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

After I twisted my ankle badly my friend came and filled up my fridge freezer with all manners of goodness.

My dear friend sends me books so when I see his illegible scrawl on a parcel I get very happy.

I have a very patient and kind friend who listens to all my pmsing about nothing at all (well one thing in particular) but never makes me feel like I am being the ridiculous fanny I know deep down I am being.

Oh and weekend afternoon drinking. In moderation. That definitely cheers me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life is good. Today is a day that tomorrows problems cant touch. Tomorrow might be the same

living life one day at a time these days

That’s a great philosophy Wolfy

Thankies dude

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

For true positivity..I was given the most positive thing I've ever seen...a dare to bare calendar from daretobarebc ladies recovered from breast Cancer doing a calendar girls for two charities...cransley hospice and crazy hats breast cancer appeal... please find and support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday I was feeling unusually meh after coming down from the emotional high of last week.,Thankfully a relatively new friend on here, spotted it and in her own inimitable, challenging way cheered me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends. There's always someone I can call, text or visit if I'm feeling low. They know me and know how to cheer me up, a good slagging for feeling sorry for meself is generally all I need lol They know they can count on me too

Nice thread OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing the mrs and cumming during sex, having a *massage off the local Chinese lady plus pay day and even better if it lands on a weekend!

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Seeing what a lovely mature young lady my daughter has become. And she still thinks it's ok to hang with her old man.. maybe because I was buying the drinks, but still..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get sick of reading forum threads that turn into arguments, or are started by people having a pop at others.

Here's a forum thread to make you feel warm and fuzzy hopefully

What act of kindness has someone done for you that sticks in your mind?

What makes cheers you up when you're feeling low? "

Other people being happy and laughing always cheers me up. X

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Family and friends. I’m very lucky that I have some incredible people in my life.

People often feel that they need to look after me, I can totally understand why

and I appreciate it.

I love random chit chat, the photos of a puppy, the personal shopper who always inspires me. The one that makes me feel special. So many things make me smile and are what make me happy

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Went litter picking locally with my kid yesterday.

We both got a buzz from clearing three bags of rubbish.

The cheesecake we made afterwards was pretty awesome too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For true positivity..I was given the most positive thing I've ever seen...a dare to bare calendar from daretobarebc ladies recovered from breast Cancer doing a calendar girls for two charities...cransley hospice and crazy hats breast cancer appeal... please find and support

A topic incredibly close to my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The kids from the other cottages put on a show outside this evening..and posted a hand written invitation through my door"

Awwwww!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just have a very positive attitude to life. Pay it Forward is something I believe in.

Make someone smile and they feel better. If they then smile, so will someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look back only to learn and smile, keep looking forward and keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww love this mollypop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A met a fellow traveller on a recent trip. We were queuing for a table. We agreed to share one. Had an interesting chat and he bought me dinner for being good company. We parted ways X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Went litter picking locally with my kid yesterday.

We both got a buzz from clearing three bags of rubbish.

The cheesecake we made afterwards was pretty awesome too.

we all want some of your cheesecake now. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get sick of reading forum threads that turn into arguments, or are started by people having a pop at others.

Here's a forum thread to make you feel warm and fuzzy hopefully

What act of kindness has someone done for you that sticks in your mind?

What makes cheers you up when you're feeling low? "

Oh my god, thank you for this. This forum is full of so much hate, I literally cant believe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not when I'm feeling low as I'm only 5ft to start with,but each day I see a golden Labrador guide dog with a lady owner, lovely warm feeling seeing the guide dog dont know why exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing the smile on a persons face when I ve taken them to a place they never thought they d reach.. Btw I mean top of mountain though they re disabled, down a cave when they thought it was a step too far... The smiles are my happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My lady Ess. I hadn’t seen my Grand Daughters for 18 months due to my Sons Ex wife being a Cow.

I saw them

Last Saturday for the first time. She bought them Easter Eggs. Arranged an Easter Bunny Hunt and generally made them feel loved and wanted even though they are not her blood.

She’s a kind hearted soul and I’m lucky to have her.

She’s also a very horny, dirty girl. BOOM

That’s a really great gesture- family is so important

Ess sure looks a hot dirty girl - expect you sincerely thanked her!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

My little boy has been sick this morning, some of it on me

luckily he’s feeling better now, but just after he’d finished brushing his teeth (get the sick taste out) he said ‘Thanks, for looking after me and my belly, Daddy’ he’s 5 I almost cried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My little boy has been sick this morning, some of it on me

luckily he’s feeling better now, but just after he’d finished brushing his teeth (get the sick taste out) he said ‘Thanks, for looking after me and my belly, Daddy’ he’s 5 I almost cried.

Is he any better now?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"My little boy has been sick this morning, some of it on me

luckily he’s feeling better now, but just after he’d finished brushing his teeth (get the sick taste out) he said ‘Thanks, for looking after me and my belly, Daddy’ he’s 5 I almost cried.

Is he any better now?"

Thanks, he’s better

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Sitting in a McDonald's a few months back..., a homeless guy was sitting at one of the tables just observing. A man in suit was waiting to be served and talking on his phone and didn't notice he had dropped his wallet. The homeless guy jumped up picked up man's wallet and handed it to him... The man nodded but barely acknowledged, he then ordered two big mac meals for take out,as he left the restaurant he handed one of the meals to the homeless guy...

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