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Could my profile be improved?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys and girls,

I'm just after some advice really. I've been in the site for over a month but have only met one couple so far (that was lovely) and was wondering if my profile was ok?

Regards, James x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a bit boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More imagination required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually thought your newest pic was a woman.

It seems fine to me although a bit generic, I get that it's hard to get personality across though.

The bit at the end about being seedy I would take out though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi James, I think in our own way, we all can.

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most likely, but people tend to post in the support and advice forum for help and 'improvement'. Here if they want to be looked at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I've spiced it up a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No keep it as it is. The bit about the site being seedy and most people (not all) being normal is perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody has mentioned the "P" Word yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

P?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some get a bit of a bee in their bonnet about the use of the word 'Professional'. To the point many stop using it altogether. Some seem to think they are more 'Professional' than others, or that there are levels of 'Professional'.

Example: You are a nurse, I'm a pool boy. Both get paid, both professional. Only not everyone sees it that way. Some people see neither of us as professionals, some may think you are, but I'm not.

Opens up a can of worms best avoided. If you'd listed "Only meets professionals" You'd have got some flack for it for sure

It's your profile at the end of the day, so any changes you do make, make sure it reflects how you feel, not what you think the masses want.

Lots of photos of your body at its best. A smile. Face pics help men quite a lot, but not required, nothing is. Different poses.

As for the write up. Keep it honest, you don't have to put it all on a plate. As a man you'll often be expected to make the first moves. Unless you talk crap in the Forum and the other loons decide they like you.

Go to group socials or organise your own. Get the ball rolling, get some friendly, classy veris and your charm should have a t least a fighting chance along with every other person on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Excellent advice Ghengis. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excellent advice Ghengis. Thank you."

Welcome

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