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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You are in a bit of a post meet buzz and you get a verification from the other party. It isn't glowing, but says nice enough things.

Fast forward a few weeks and months and you are ambling round the forums. You see someone post about veri's and you remember having met them.

They say they veri'd you under pressure but the sex was shit.

What would you do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is hypothetical by the way.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Shrug and remind yourself not to meet them again.

Forum posts shouldn't name and shame so they could have been referring to anyone.

The joy of fab I guess

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"This is hypothetical by the way."

Asking for a friend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shrug and remind yourself not to meet them again.

Forum posts shouldn't name and shame so they could have been referring to anyone.

The joy of fab I guess"
There wasn't a name and shame but unless you are very prolific, you'd remember who you'd fucked?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Shrug and remind yourself not to meet them again.

Forum posts shouldn't name and shame so they could have been referring to anyone.

The joy of fab I guess There wasn't a name and shame but unless you are very prolific, you'd remember who you'd fucked?"

True, but would others know?

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Ignore them no point in doing anything else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is hypothetical by the way.

Asking for a friend? "

Just idle curiosity. I saw a post and wondered what people thought. And as I only have socials with coffee, my performance record is untested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would do nothing. I wouldn't have asked for a verification in the first place.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Fashion a lookalike clay doll and stick my dick up it’s arse......

And shout ‘you bastard’ every thrust.

That’ll teach em

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Shrug your shoulders and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fashion a lookalike clay doll and stick my dick up it’s arse......

And shout ‘you bastard’ every thrust.

That’ll teach em"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are in a bit of a post meet buzz and you get a verification from the other party. It isn't glowing, but says nice enough things.

Fast forward a few weeks and months and you are ambling round the forums. You see someone post about veri's and you remember having met them.

They say they veri'd you under pressure but the sex was shit.

What would you do?"

private note the profile and not meet him/ her again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are in a bit of a post meet buzz and you get a verification from the other party. It isn't glowing, but says nice enough things.

Fast forward a few weeks and months and you are ambling round the forums. You see someone post about veri's and you remember having met them.

They say they veri'd you under pressure but the sex was shit.

What would you do?"

Not much you can do. That’s their opinion but it won’t be everyone’s opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is hypothetical by the way.

Asking for a friend?

Just idle curiosity. I saw a post and wondered what people thought. And as I only have socials with coffee, my performance record is untested "

Your coffee making is that bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would just confirm what I know already.

#ShitShagsRUs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is hypothetical by the way.

Asking for a friend?

Just idle curiosity. I saw a post and wondered what people thought. And as I only have socials with coffee, my performance record is untested

Your coffee making is that bad? "

Nowt wrong with a cup of Camp. Is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd topic today, veri's.....

Probs best avoided.....

I fear a drama fest is due....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather they just took it down if they felt that way. Unfortunately we seem unable to remove veris we've given. When it becomes apparent the person wasn't who the kind they claimed to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit sex?.. us?

Never happen

I'd say "well there's my second anti-climax to the meet, coz I never got one first time round either"

Or I'd get sad and eat a tub of ice cream.

In all seriousness though, I'd imagine I'd have realised at the time that the meet wasn't too great so I'd probably have been shocked at the initial veri, I wouldn't shoulder all the blame myself for a disappointing meet and nor would I blame the other person, just gets chalked down to "not compatible" and it happens.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm assuming in those weeks or months that had passed we probably would've stopped talking and made no plans to meet again so by then I would have accepted that we just weren't compatible.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"You are in a bit of a post meet buzz and you get a verification from the other party. It isn't glowing, but says nice enough things.

Fast forward a few weeks and months and you are ambling round the forums. You see someone post about veri's and you remember having met them.

They say they veri'd you under pressure but the sex was shit.

What would you do?"

I'd wonder why I imagined they meant me cos my sex was ACE.

How would someone know it was them unless they were named?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Cry a bit. Tell everyone they were the shit one.

Nah, you know if someone leaves you a bit of a piss poor veri? Not that I've had one obviously, but if they did, I wouldn't be displaying it. I don't see how there could be such dissonance between two people on the same social/meet; surely you pick up on general vibes etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell admin as someone obviously has hacked there account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather they just took it down if they felt that way. Unfortunately we seem unable to remove veris we've given. When it becomes apparent the person wasn't who the kind they claimed to be.

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If you block them your veri disappears off their list and they can't display it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are in a bit of a post meet buzz and you get a verification from the other party. It isn't glowing, but says nice enough things.

Fast forward a few weeks and months and you are ambling round the forums. You see someone post about veri's and you remember having met them.

They say they veri'd you under pressure but the sex was shit.

What would you do?"

If think they were a shitty person and never meet them again. Especially if they did it in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather they just took it down if they felt that way. Unfortunately we seem unable to remove veris we've given. When it becomes apparent the person wasn't who the kind they claimed to be.

If you block them your veri disappears off their list and they can't display it."

That cheers me up a bit Thankyoub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d think that was strange. You can’t make someone write a veri. Do they have a hidden agenda. Someone new to impress?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remind myself why I won't meet folk from the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would give zero f7cks

I don't understand the desperation of obtaining a veri at every single sniff of a meet like some kind of perverse trip advisor.

Ok, I do understand it helps vet people etc etc ...but hopefully I think you get my jist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remind myself why I won't meet folk from the forum "

It's a small pond, especially in the dry season....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remind myself why I won't meet folk from the forum

It's a small pond, especially in the dry season.... "

Some bottom feeders in there too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know someone this happened too, they were gutted and upset.

The person they had met said the sex was demeaning and a lot of other shitty things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remind myself why I won't meet folk from the forum

It's a small pond, especially in the dry season....

Some bottom feeders in there too"

Hey everyone has a kink!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Remind myself why I won't meet folk from the forum

It's a small pond, especially in the dry season....

Some bottom feeders in there too"

ewwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remind myself why I won't meet folk from the forum

It's a small pond, especially in the dry season....

Some bottom feeders in there too"

mmmh bottoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see it happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't see it happening."

No way man, not you dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, whatevers, don't sweat it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't see it happening.

No way man, not you dude. "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

well i never ask for veris so they would be lying and id never accept a graphic verification so they wouldnt be talking about my sex antics and if we hadnt been in contact since the meet i already know they thought i was shit. So id do absolutly nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are in a bit of a post meet buzz and you get a verification from the other party. It isn't glowing, but says nice enough things.

Fast forward a few weeks and months and you are ambling round the forums. You see someone post about veri's and you remember having met them.

They say they veri'd you under pressure but the sex was shit.

What would you do?"

For a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know someone this happened too, they were gutted and upset.

The person they had met said the sex was demeaning and a lot of other shitty things "

I know someone who said similar. That he really hadn't wanted to fuck but he was horny and couldn't help himself. And he wouldn't speak to the person in public for months after. Lovely guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fashion a lookalike clay doll and stick my dick up it’s arse......

And shout ‘you bastard’ every thrust.

That’ll teach em"

Oh I've missed you

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"You are in a bit of a post meet buzz and you get a verification from the other party. It isn't glowing, but says nice enough things.

Fast forward a few weeks and months and you are ambling round the forums. You see someone post about veri's and you remember having met them.

They say they veri'd you under pressure but the sex was shit.

What would you do?"

It takes two to tango so unless I'd been spectacularly lazy/unpleasant/unkind/pushy I'd refuse to accept responsibility for the 'shitty' sex. Nor would I pressure for a veri either.

Then I'd take a little bit of anonymous and vengeful pleasure at the probable verbal mauling they'd get in the forums when hopefully someone would admonish them for being so uncouth, indiscreet and pathetic to raise their complaint in public. Boo hoo ... so it wasn't as good as you'd hoped ... how is whingeing months later going to change anything? Most adults would chalk it up to experience and move on, not tell lies about verifiying someone and/or be spiteful at someone else's expense to get sympathy or attention.

But other than blocking I wouldn't 'do' anything - like try to contact them, or make some passive aggressive forum remark which could backfire. Let 'em hang themselves all on their own!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"You are in a bit of a post meet buzz and you get a verification from the other party. It isn't glowing, but says nice enough things.

Fast forward a few weeks and months and you are ambling round the forums. You see someone post about veri's and you remember having met them.

They say they veri'd you under pressure but the sex was shit.

What would you do?"

I'd laugh.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Laugh..... then go to a corner and cry.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Can I just have vinegar on mine please?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Can I just have vinegar on mine please? "

Always one.....

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Can I just have vinegar on mine please?

Always one..... "

I've been resisting in the hope someone else would say it ... but no .. so it had to be me

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places


"Can I just have vinegar on mine please? "

and some mayo?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Piss on my chips and you can eat them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won’t lie if happened to me I’d take it to heart. Why bother verifying at all if it’s a lot of lies. Says more about their character but yes would be hurtful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I wouldn’t post on the thread as the content would guarantee me a one way ticket to Azkaban...!

Would PM it though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would actually feel bad for a little. Overthink it. But once a little time had passed, I'd shrug it off and never converse with them again, via PM or the forums.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It would say a whole lot more about the other person than me I think.

If they felt unable to be honest about it at the time or directly after, then that points to their inability to be honest or to take responsibility for their own feelings. For them to then play the victim later makes it even worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shrug and remind yourself not to meet them again.

Forum posts shouldn't name and shame so they could have been referring to anyone.

The joy of fab I guess There wasn't a name and shame but unless you are very prolific, you'd remember who you'd fucked?"

additional hypothetical what if both have only 1 veris from each other, name and shame not required

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I wouldn’t do a thing because there is simply no point.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’d be upset with myself for very poor intuition and choice in playmates.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"You are in a bit of a post meet buzz and you get a verification from the other party. It isn't glowing, but says nice enough things.

Fast forward a few weeks and months and you are ambling round the forums. You see someone post about veri's and you remember having met them.

They say they veri'd you under pressure but the sex was shit.

What would you do?"

Well sex is like a train one day they all come together there clean and fresh best train ever next time on the same train it's shit piss on your seat smelly and late to get there..

So what am say you may need to ride the train a couple of times before it the best train..

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