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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Men, why are you addressing women older than you as, Young lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An attempt to flatter maybe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi young ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me laugh better than oi old bird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many sexy young Ladies xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Over to you Lickety. Should they ? Shouldn't they ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you prefer it if I call you a woman of advanced years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it a bit patronising.

Brings back too many memories of my teachers, or being scolded by my parents. I cringe if a stranger calls me that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare you Madam!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you prefer it if I call you a woman of advanced years? "

It doesn't offend me personally, I was only offering a possible explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men, why are you addressing women older than you as, Young lady?

Is that really a question lol??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recoil when someone younger calls me “dear”

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

A couple of years ago I went to the hospital for a routine check up after a very trivial op.

The nurse called my name ... then said .....

Come along young lady...... It was all I could do to NOT punch her fucking lights out.

These days I don't argue I satisfy myself with leaving them to their patronising moronic traits...

I tell myself they mean well and are trying to be nice.

All N.H.S hosps and drs are plastered with notices that say 'if you so much as look at one of us we will pounce and kill ...... but i never see a sign saying that they will address the public respectfully.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Would you prefer it if I call you a woman of advanced years? "

Just hello ? How are you ? Come with me ? etc .....

Like you would a human being and not a child maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I am young.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Because I am young."

In comparison to Methuselah granted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple of years ago I went to the hospital for a routine check up after a very trivial op.

The nurse called my name ... then said .....

Come along young lady...... It was all I could do to NOT punch her fucking lights out.

These days I don't argue I satisfy myself with leaving them to their patronising moronic traits...

I tell myself they mean well and are trying to be nice.

In all fairness, when dealing with hundreds of people a day, it must be tricky knowing what every individual deems as respectful. If you recognise someone is genuinely 'being nice', just smile and forgive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not hesitate in teasing Queen Leviosa. Slipping in an age-difference related sentance. I see no harm in that and I doubt she would either.

I'm not being patronising, I'm being playful. An 'old man' parrie back would be a much loved response.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"A couple of years ago I went to the hospital for a routine check up after a very trivial op.

The nurse called my name ... then said .....

Come along young lady...... It was all I could do to NOT punch her fucking lights out.

These days I don't argue I satisfy myself with leaving them to their patronising moronic traits...

I tell myself they mean well and are trying to be nice.

Just imagine if they just used your name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recoil when someone younger calls me “dear”

A young man I was seeing used to call me dear. It made me laugh and I said you sound like an old man addressing his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you prefer it if I call you a woman of advanced years?

Just hello ? How are you ? Come with me ? etc .....

Like you would a human being and not a child maybe."

I don't really like talking to anyone.

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over a year ago

"I'd not hesitate in teasing Queen Leviosa. Slipping in an age-difference related sentance. I see no harm in that and I doubt she would either.

I'm not being patronising, I'm being playful. An 'old man' parrie back would be a much loved response."

That's because you talk to each other on here and want to get in each other's undies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you prefer it if I call you a woman of advanced years?

Just hello ? How are you ? Come with me ? etc .....

Like you would a human being and not a child maybe.

I don't really like talking to anyone. "

We had a nice conversation.

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over a year ago

"I'd not hesitate in teasing Queen Leviosa. Slipping in an age-difference related sentance. I see no harm in that and I doubt she would either.

I'm not being patronising, I'm being playful. An 'old man' parrie back would be a much loved response."

I misread.. My bad. And I lamposted, double bad

Just a play on words.. role-playing, teasing, if a woman older than me is being immature or bratish, I may use it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Would you prefer it if I call you a woman of advanced years?

Just hello ? How are you ? Come with me ? etc .....

Like you would a human being and not a child maybe.

I don't really like talking to anyone. "

Oh no

If I knew that then i'd let you address me as you wished and i'd never comment on it

i'd just enjoy talking with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple of years ago I went to the hospital for a routine check up after a very trivial op.

The nurse called my name ... then said .....

Come along young lady...... It was all I could do to NOT punch her fucking lights out.

These days I don't argue I satisfy myself with leaving them to their patronising moronic traits...

I tell myself they mean well and are trying to be nice.

Just imagine if they just used your name.

She did at first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you prefer it if I call you a woman of advanced years?

Just hello ? How are you ? Come with me ? etc .....

Like you would a human being and not a child maybe.

I don't really like talking to anyone.

We had a nice conversation."

We did. I like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd not hesitate in teasing Queen Leviosa. Slipping in an age-difference related sentance. I see no harm in that and I doubt she would either.

I'm not being patronising, I'm being playful. An 'old man' parrie back would be a much loved response.

That's because you talk to each other on here and want to get in each other's undies."

lol.. maybe

I wouldn't call anyone I didn't know a little.. Young lady. That would be a bit wierd. Older, younger than me.. I'd have no issue using it in context to the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you prefer it if I call you a woman of advanced years?

Just hello ? How are you ? Come with me ? etc .....

Like you would a human being and not a child maybe.

I don't really like talking to anyone.

Oh no

If I knew that then i'd let you address me as you wished and i'd never comment on it

i'd just enjoy talking with you.

I'm sure that I would enjoy talking with you.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"A couple of years ago I went to the hospital for a routine check up after a very trivial op.

The nurse called my name ... then said .....

Come along young lady...... It was all I could do to NOT punch her fucking lights out.

These days I don't argue I satisfy myself with leaving them to their patronising moronic traits...

I tell myself they mean well and are trying to be nice.

Just imagine if they just used your name.

She did at first."

yeah and then she went and spoiled it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago, healthcare professionals used to call me Mrs Smith (not my real name).

Now they call me Barbara (also not my real name).

When did they decide they should call us by our first names?

I don't call my gp or consultants by their first names.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Over to you Lickety. Should they ? Shouldn't they ?"

I'd rather they didn't. It's a relative term, at best. It's wholly inaccurate in my case.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Would you prefer it if I call you a woman of advanced years? "

Hello, Lickety does the job.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Men, why are you addressing women older than you as, Young lady?

Is that really a question lol??"

I'm pretty sure it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you prefer it if I call you a woman of advanced years?

Hello, Lickety does the job."

How about just a hug?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Years ago, healthcare professionals used to call me Mrs Smith (not my real name).

Now they call me Barbara (also not my real name).

When did they decide they should call us by our first names?

I don't call my gp or consultants by their first names."

It's a modern thing-creeping in over the last decade or so. I'd say American cos I blame them for everything and Britain is America's sheep.

I get letters from my car dealer, bank , netflix ..... they all call me Dear Penelope.... I do the same as you I go and

and

It runs along the lines of if they get familiar you will more easily do their bidding. Same in work, everyone is supposed to be a cuddly bunny.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'd not hesitate in teasing Queen Leviosa. Slipping in an age-difference related sentance. I see no harm in that and I doubt she would either.

I'm not being patronising, I'm being playful. An 'old man' parrie back would be a much loved response.

I misread.. My bad. And I lamposted, double bad

Just a play on words.. role-playing, teasing, if a woman older than me is being immature or bratish, I may use it

It's usually an opening salvo.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Over to you Lickety. Should they ? Shouldn't they ?

I'd rather they didn't. It's a relative term, at best. It's wholly inaccurate in my case.

I'd rather they didn't. Nine times out of ten I can ignore it. In fact the odds are probably greater. However when cornered I do spit back.

It can't always be perceived as a put down though .......most of the time I view it as their immaturity and social inadequacy.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Would you prefer it if I call you a woman of advanced years?

Hello, Lickety does the job.

How about just a hug? "

Always, for you.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Over to you Lickety. Should they ? Shouldn't they ?

I'd rather they didn't. It's a relative term, at best. It's wholly inaccurate in my case.

I'd rather they didn't. Nine times out of ten I can ignore it. In fact the odds are probably greater. However when cornered I do spit back.

It can't always be perceived as a put down though .......most of the time I view it as their immaturity and social inadequacy.

I have tried really hard not to get irked but it irks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont some ladies prefer madam or mistress..what about... "chuck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Years ago, healthcare professionals used to call me Mrs Smith (not my real name).

Now they call me Barbara (also not my real name).

When did they decide they should call us by our first names?

I don't call my gp or consultants by their first names."

I hate being called by my last name when I go to hotels or hospitals etc. I always insist on my first name being used.

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over a year ago

"dont some ladies prefer madam or mistress..what about... "chuck""

I just see it as people trying to be nice, I don’t get hung up on being called pet names either. Some people just look to be offended.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"dont some ladies prefer madam or mistress..what about... "chuck""

See I don't like being called 'ladies' as when someone says, 'hello ladies' or 'thank you ladies' or 'this way ladies'...

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

"I recoil when someone younger calls me “dear”

Me too, I think sometimes people try too hard

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"dont some ladies prefer madam or mistress..what about... "chuck"

I just see it as people trying to be nice, I don’t get hung up on being called pet names either. Some people just look to be offended. "

I'd disagree sophie. I don't get offended by it. I don't like it. I think it's not appropriate but i'm not offended. Nor do I get hung up on it. But if a convo about it comes up .... I don't like it.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"dont some ladies prefer madam or mistress..what about... "chuck"

I just see it as people trying to be nice, I don’t get hung up on being called pet names either. Some people just look to be offended. "

I also hate that accusation. It's a lazy way to dismiss anything different to your own behaviour.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I recoil when someone younger calls me “dear”

Me too, I think sometimes people try too hard "

Yup

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over a year ago

"Years ago, healthcare professionals used to call me Mrs Smith (not my real name).

Now they call me Barbara (also not my real name).

When did they decide they should call us by our first names?

I don't call my gp or consultants by their first names.

I hate being called by my last name when I go to hotels or hospitals etc. I always insist on my first name being used. "

Alright bab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont some ladies prefer madam or mistress..what about... "chuck"

See I don't like being called 'ladies' as when someone says, 'hello ladies' or 'thank you ladies' or 'this way ladies'...

i thought ladies was polite

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

What I think is 'wrong' , 'unfair' I am not pulling up the precise word needed right now ....

Is when you state an objection the other party is unable to take it gracefully.

There then follows the demonising of the person that objected. As in ...'it's a term of endearment, i was being nice, god aren't you touchy, why let it get to you, where's your sense of humour, ooooo a feminist , bitch, nasty person , jesus i thought you'd like it...... yada yada yada....

How about , How would you prefer to be addressed?

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over a year ago

"dont some ladies prefer madam or mistress..what about... "chuck"

I just see it as people trying to be nice, I don’t get hung up on being called pet names either. Some people just look to be offended.

I also hate that accusation. It's a lazy way to dismiss anything different to your own behaviour."

I just see the good in people, and give the benefit of the doubt.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"dont some ladies prefer madam or mistress..what about... "chuck"

See I don't like being called 'ladies' as when someone says, 'hello ladies' or 'thank you ladies' or 'this way ladies'...

i thought ladies was polite"

I know it's meant as polite

But I am not a 'lady'.....

What kind of side glance would you give me if I said to you .... Yes of course, this way M'Lord. ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"dont some ladies prefer madam or mistress..what about... "chuck"

I just see it as people trying to be nice, I don’t get hung up on being called pet names either. Some people just look to be offended.

I also hate that accusation. It's a lazy way to dismiss anything different to your own behaviour.

I just see the good in people, and give the benefit of the doubt."

Me to sophee and im sure Lickety does too. It's not how I feel inside tho.

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over a year ago

"dont some ladies prefer madam or mistress..what about... "chuck"

I just see it as people trying to be nice, I don’t get hung up on being called pet names either. Some people just look to be offended.

I also hate that accusation. It's a lazy way to dismiss anything different to your own behaviour.

I just see the good in people, and give the benefit of the doubt.

Me to sophee and im sure Lickety does too. It's not how I feel inside tho."

It may not be my favourite terminology they use, but hive benefit of the doubt of their sincerity and a smile. I smile back

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've had guys call me gorgeous when I have no profile pic, they mean well but flattery (or attempted flattery) leaves me feeling awkward, some call me babe or sexy or hunni etc in first message. This is again cringey. Intimate words only really work for me when I feel a degree of intimacy with a person but my default comfort zone is always sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I think is 'wrong' , 'unfair' I am not pulling up the precise word needed right now ....

Is when you state an objection the other party is unable to take it gracefully.

How about , How would you prefer to be addressed?"

you dont generally say how would you prefer to be addressed first.

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you dont go in a shop and say "a mars bar please,how would you prefer to be addressed" !or "thankyou for your time -how would you prefer to be addressed"its not natural speech

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*give benefit*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For appointments I'm happy to be called Mrs Thingummybob (my real name) until we have been introduced, and then we can use first names, IF I'm allowed to call them by their first names.

They don't always have name tags with their first names on, so I'll call them love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A boy at our school called the French teacher Miss, as in yes Miss when she called his name.

She quickly pointed out she ceased to be a Miss 30 years ago.

Next time she read the register in the afternoon he replied ‘yes Mrs’, to much amusement of everyone. From then on he just called her Mrs.

Some folk worry way too much about things.

Get out there and live life a bit more.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What I think is 'wrong' , 'unfair' I am not pulling up the precise word needed right now ....

Is when you state an objection the other party is unable to take it gracefully.

How about , How would you prefer to be addressed?

you dont generally say how would you prefer to be addressed first.

eg;

you dont go in a shop and say "a mars bar please,how would you prefer to be addressed" !or "thankyou for your time -how would you prefer to be addressed"its not natural speech "

Stop it. That whole scenario gave me the giggles.

I'm not talking about going to the shop for a mars bar.

That convo should go like this.

Mars bar please.

Thanks

Bye.

I don't go to the person behind the counter. Mars Bar please babe. Thanks darlin' Here's the money M'Lord. See ya young man.

However...... they invariably do use pet names. I'd never survive in an East End market.....

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"What I think is 'wrong' , 'unfair' I am not pulling up the precise word needed right now ....

Is when you state an objection the other party is unable to take it gracefully.

How about , How would you prefer to be addressed?

you dont generally say how would you prefer to be addressed first.

eg;

you dont go in a shop and say "a mars bar please,how would you prefer to be addressed" !or "thankyou for your time -how would you prefer to be addressed"its not natural speech

Stop it. That whole scenario gave me the giggles.

I'm not talking about going to the shop for a mars bar.

That convo should go like this.

Mars bar please.

Thanks

Bye.

I don't go to the person behind the counter. Mars Bar please babe. Thanks darlin' Here's the money M'Lord. See ya young man.

However...... they invariably do use pet names. I'd never survive in an East End market.....

You make some valid points there sweetheart.

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

You can call me young lady anytime...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I think is 'wrong' , 'unfair' I am not pulling up the precise word needed right now ....

Is when you state an objection the other party is unable to take it gracefully.

How about , How would you prefer to be addressed?

you dont generally say how would you prefer to be addressed first.

eg;

you dont go in a shop and say "a mars bar please,how would you prefer to be addressed" !or "thankyou for your time -how would you prefer to be addressed"its not natural speech

Stop it. That whole scenario gave me the giggles.

I'm not talking about going to the shop for a mars bar.

That convo should go like this.

Mars bar please.

Thanks

Bye.

I don't go to the person behind the counter. Mars Bar please babe. Thanks darlin' Here's the money M'Lord. See ya young man.

However...... they invariably do use pet names. I'd never survive in an East End market.....

i want a mars bar now. ..(your highness)

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What I think is 'wrong' , 'unfair' I am not pulling up the precise word needed right now ....

Is when you state an objection the other party is unable to take it gracefully.

How about , How would you prefer to be addressed?

you dont generally say how would you prefer to be addressed first.

eg;

you dont go in a shop and say "a mars bar please,how would you prefer to be addressed" !or "thankyou for your time -how would you prefer to be addressed"its not natural speech

Stop it. That whole scenario gave me the giggles.

I'm not talking about going to the shop for a mars bar.

That convo should go like this.

Mars bar please.

Thanks

Bye.

I don't go to the person behind the counter. Mars Bar please babe. Thanks darlin' Here's the money M'Lord. See ya young man.

However...... they invariably do use pet names. I'd never survive in an East End market.....

You make some valid points there sweetheart.

Robbie , young man, indeed I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Years ago, healthcare professionals used to call me Mrs Smith (not my real name).

Now they call me Barbara (also not my real name).

When did they decide they should call us by our first names?

I don't call my gp or consultants by their first names.

I hate being called by my last name when I go to hotels or hospitals etc. I always insist on my first name being used.

Alright bab?

I would rather that than be addressed as Ms.....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What I think is 'wrong' , 'unfair' I am not pulling up the precise word needed right now ....

Is when you state an objection the other party is unable to take it gracefully.

How about , How would you prefer to be addressed?

you dont generally say how would you prefer to be addressed first.

eg;

you dont go in a shop and say "a mars bar please,how would you prefer to be addressed" !or "thankyou for your time -how would you prefer to be addressed"its not natural speech

Stop it. That whole scenario gave me the giggles.

I'm not talking about going to the shop for a mars bar.

That convo should go like this.

Mars bar please.

Thanks

Bye.

I don't go to the person behind the counter. Mars Bar please babe. Thanks darlin' Here's the money M'Lord. See ya young man.

However...... they invariably do use pet names. I'd never survive in an East End market.....

i want a mars bar now. ..(your highness)

Oh no! I am undone. I liked that one. I'm fast becoming a hypocrite!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Years ago, healthcare professionals used to call me Mrs Smith (not my real name).

Now they call me Barbara (also not my real name).

When did they decide they should call us by our first names?

I don't call my gp or consultants by their first names.

I hate being called by my last name when I go to hotels or hospitals etc. I always insist on my first name being used.

Alright bab?

I would rather that than be addressed as Ms....."

I can never say it. Mzzzzzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am neither young nor a lady... that would make me cringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although going by this thread I think I’m just going to be rude and ignore people from now on. It’s safer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it Thursday....already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it Thursday....already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only use "young lady" in sentences such as "you going to get a jolly good spanking young lady"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only use "young lady" in sentences such as "you going to get a jolly good spanking young lady""

at a supermarket checkout though !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soon poor blonds gonna be called sex offenders for saying hello to females i think

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've had one that just starts, You old bag. That feels more honest, but still not an endearing way to start a conversation.

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over a year ago

"I've had one that just starts, You old bag. That feels more honest, but still not an endearing way to start a conversation.

If it was from a friend I'd laugh.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've had one that just starts, You old bag. That feels more honest, but still not an endearing way to start a conversation.

If it was from a friend I'd laugh."

So would I.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

All ladies are young ladies to me

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"All ladies are young ladies to me"

Even Granny?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"All ladies are young ladies to me

Even Granny?

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I can't check her age at the moment..but probably lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like being called young lady makes me smile. But my favourite is being called a slip of a girl

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

All HCP’s should ask on first contact what you prefer to be called and record it so all the team can see it.

I refused to open my eyes following a GA years ago, the nurse was calling me by my full name, not what I’m known by, and I panicked because I wasn’t quite sure why my bloody mother was in recovery with me!

The other pet hate is when I introduce myself to someone with my preferred name and they then go on to shorten/lengthen it to suit themselves.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"All HCP’s should ask on first contact what you prefer to be called and record it so all the team can see it.

The other pet hate is when I introduce myself to someone with my preferred name and they then go on to shorten/lengthen it to suit themselves.

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Good evening young lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves most probably.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Granny is easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accidentally called a woman "mate" on the tube just now.

She came to sit down my bag was in front of the seat a bit i moved it and said sorry mate before i looked up. Well that was a deathstare and a half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of them are young to me..

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"All HCP’s should ask on first contact what you prefer to be called and record it so all the team can see it.

The other pet hate is when I introduce myself to someone with my preferred name and they then go on to shorten/lengthen it to suit themselves.

Good evening young lady

Piss off you!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"All ladies are young ladies to me

Even Granny?

Humph! Seems I came back just in time to catch you out LibertySplits !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Granny is easier"

It's just a RUMOUR !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Accidentally called a woman "mate" on the tube just now.

She came to sit down my bag was in front of the seat a bit i moved it and said sorry mate before i looked up. Well that was a deathstare and a half."

There is a gent freind I have who calls everyone mate...... I really like it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

13 years ive been with jay and every time he addresses me by my name (which isnt often)he asks if its ok to call me karen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m scrolling through this thread whilst trying to recal who used to refer to me as “young lady”....and because I’m old I can’t remember...

Used to bug the hell out of me as he was 10 years my junior.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I’m scrolling through this thread whilst trying to recal who used to refer to me as “young lady”....and because I’m old I can’t remember...

Used to bug the hell out of me as he was 10 years my junior."

Age is protecting you from the memory of annoying people.

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over a year ago

"I’m scrolling through this thread whilst trying to recal who used to refer to me as “young lady”....and because I’m old I can’t remember...

Used to bug the hell out of me as he was 10 years my junior.

Age is protecting you from the memory of annoying people.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"All HCP’s should ask on first contact what you prefer to be called and record it so all the team can see it.

The other pet hate is when I introduce myself to someone with my preferred name and they then go on to shorten/lengthen it to suit themselves.

Good evening young lady

Piss off you!"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Granny is easier"

I'd concentrate more on the crumpet end of things

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Granny is easier

I'd concentrate more on the crumpet end of things"

With butter and Marmite?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Granny is easier

I'd concentrate more on the crumpet end of things

With butter and Marmite?

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that could work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Granny is easier

I'd concentrate more on the crumpet end of things

With butter and Marmite?

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definitely butter x

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