FabSwingers.com forum: Do you ever get the feeling..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That some local status updates are being specifically targeted in your direction? Is it probable vanity on my part, or does this happen to others?

Feels like it's directed at me, but nobody on Fab meets smokers, so I have to stop myself from messaging to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I wouldn’t of thought it was personal, not unless they name you of course

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why would they be targetting you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm not paranoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an old fwb throw his toys out the pram last week with statue's that were aimed at me, he'd got up the arse over me meeting others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

trying to get my attention.. not targeting.. targeting sounds sinister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never look at local updates, it’s one big cock fest.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Only once when it actually was. Otherwise nope. Not even the ones that say "you know who you are".

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If it was James Brown related, then yes, probably

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Never look at local updates, it’s one big cock fest.

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i dont either. never have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One ladies status was aimed at me today but in a good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they name me then yes if not nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a fucked up place..... ....if you think it then it's probably true....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only once when it actually was. Otherwise nope. Not even the ones that say "you know who you are". "

Oh that’s cause they’re all about me. I know who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! I assume people will just message directly if they want to get my attention.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Only once when it actually was. Otherwise nope. Not even the ones that say "you know who you are".

Oh that’s cause they’re all about me. I know who I am

There ya go then.

I know who I am too and I'm definitely not the person "they" are talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse an op you have met could of blocked you

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

No but then I think the people in the washing machine are talking to me..

And that pigeon on the wall told me to shoplift...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Unless they put my name in the status then no.

Why do you think they're not messaging you directly?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

It doesnt happen me often, but I do see it happen a lot, for example I might see a status say "Some people look like a beached whale that caught in a fishing net in them body suits", right after someone posts a photo of themselves in a body suit.

I have never seen this specific scenario happen, I made it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did they say anything about the ego has landed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about you OP. Definitely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did they say anything about the ego has landed ?"

If you didn't still have me blocked, I'd take that in good humour. You do though.. so..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unless they put my name in the status then no.

Why do you think they're not messaging you directly?"

because some people want to be chased?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes local updates do pop up that are for you whatever the motive of the sender it does happen. It happens often enough that you notice it is a pattern. It didn't happen to me the first few months on the site but happens regularly now. It is noticeable because when you first come on site there is nothing suitable then before to long if your looking at a profile others start popping up that are to your taste. The experience is a strange one to experience and oft repeated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes local updates do pop up that are for you whatever the motive of the sender it does happen. It happens often enough that you notice it is a pattern. It didn't happen to me the first few months on the site but happens regularly now. It is noticeable because when you first come on site there is nothing suitable then before to long if your looking at a profile others start popping up that are to your taste. The experience is a strange one to experience and oft repeated. "
too long,etc.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did they say anything about the ego has landed ?

If you didn't still have me blocked, I'd take that in good humour. You do though.. so.. "

Oh I don’t keep checking that people have unblocked me it would take up most of my day.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Unless they put my name in the status then no.

Why do you think they're not messaging you directly?

because some people want to be chased?"

Maybe. Go on, message and ask them....dare you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

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'My Japanese Sister',that's good advice and might be a solution!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did they say anything about the ego has landed ?

If you didn't still have me blocked, I'd take that in good humour. You do though.. so..

Oh I don’t keep checking that people have unblocked me it would take up most of my day."

Respect. Now you can call me a big headed Cunt and I won't get grumpy about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

"
I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

I don't really care, unless they message. I like to be chased too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result"

Awwww that’s lovely

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

I don't really care, unless they message. I like to be chased too

I'll chase you but rugby tackles do hurt you know....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will admit, a lot of my statuses are directed at most men as a whole, but it is amazing the amount of abuse I get because they think it is aimed at them directly and personally!

Maybe one of two, but honey, I have probably never noticed you before, so if you feel it is directed at you, then you probably show the same traits I focus are the negatives of men's actions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them and find out OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is so fucking romantic....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself, do you want it to be about you?

If so message ‘em....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did see a ‘What’s up Doc?’ Status on a friend’s profile and even then didn’t think it was directed at me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did see a ‘What’s up Doc?’ Status on a friend’s profile and even then didn’t think it was directed at me."

You are super self admittedly self deprecating though.. I on the other hand.. am awesome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Quite a few of you quick to jump down my throat on this one.. Theres a chance it may have said

"I want your Mongol cock"

Just saying..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone on my friends list has a status about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result

Awwww that’s lovely

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well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone on my friends list has a status about you"

On your friends list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone on my friends list has a status about you

On your friends list?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone on my friends list has a status about you"

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone on my friends list has a status about you

On your friends list?

Yes

I have myself as a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op if it's a friend's status I'd ask if it's a random I'd get in touch and make a jokey remark

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result

Awwww that’s lovely

well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x"

Nothing like blowing your own horn is there....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone on my friends list has a status about you

On your friends list?

Yes

I have myself as a friend "

Fuck me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone on my friends list has a status about you

On your friends list?

Yes

I have myself as a friend

Fuck me!"

Okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Quite a few of you quick to jump down my throat on this one.. Theres a chance it may have said

"I want your Mongol cock"

Just saying.. "

Is that a good thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did see a ‘What’s up Doc?’ Status on a friend’s profile and even then didn’t think it was directed at me.

You are super self admittedly self deprecating though.. I on the other hand.. am awesome

This is true. I also think I’m awesome- but I’m used to playing to an audience of one

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result

Awwww that’s lovely

well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x

Nothing like blowing your own horn is there....

Mmmm ... blowing horn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of them... sure there cant be that many single guys in any one area...........right?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result

Awwww that’s lovely

well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x

Nothing like blowing your own horn is there....

Mmmm ... blowing horn

Hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see loads of status that are aimed at me such as "there's some total dickheads on here"

I always wonder how they know that when I haven't even messaged!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result

Awwww that’s lovely

well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x

Nothing like blowing your own horn is there....

Mmmm ... blowing horn

Hehehe

Pfft ... yeah right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone on my friends list has a status about you

On your friends list?

Yes

I have myself as a friend

Fuck me!"

It’s a very obvious update lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only we could blow our own horns we would be in a bit of a pickle ,mmm hand or mouth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see loads of status that are aimed at me such as "there's some total dickheads on here"

I always wonder how they know that when I haven't even messaged! "

Ah yes the pissing on the group updates. It’s actually really aimed at a few specific people but actually drenches anyone who reads it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did see a ‘What’s up Doc?’ Status on a friend’s profile and even then didn’t think it was directed at me.

You are super self admittedly self deprecating though.. I on the other hand.. am awesome

This is true. I also think I’m awesome- but I’m used to playing to an audience of one

You're awesome

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

One of the things I’m really happy about is the fact that we aren’t looking at status updates , and have absolutely no interest in them .

When we did , there was nothing more cringeworthy than those who named people specifically asking them to message them . Followed closely by ‘ you know who you are ‘ , and ‘ this place is shit ‘ .

There was the odd one that we thought may relate to us , when people wrote stuff like ‘ don’t msg us if you go dogging ‘ , or ‘ won’t meet doggers ‘ . But that was cool because we knew who to block .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone on my friends list has a status about you

On your friends list?

Yes

I have myself as a friend

Fuck me!

It’s a very obvious update lol

Yes, not quite as subtle or cryptic as I was describing. There will no doubt be a few Scots wondering who the fuck I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont look anymore so id not notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did see a ‘What’s up Doc?’ Status on a friend’s profile and even then didn’t think it was directed at me.

You are super self admittedly self deprecating though.. I on the other hand.. am awesome

This is true. I also think I’m awesome- but I’m used to playing to an audience of one

You're awesome

You are too. But shush we’ll be told to get a room soon

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result

Awwww that’s lovely

well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x

Nothing like blowing your own horn is there....

Mmmm ... blowing horn

Hehehe

Pfft ... yeah right

What!?!?!?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did see a ‘What’s up Doc?’ Status on a friend’s profile and even then didn’t think it was directed at me.

You are super self admittedly self deprecating though.. I on the other hand.. am awesome

This is true. I also think I’m awesome- but I’m used to playing to an audience of one

You're awesome

You are too. But shush we’ll be told to get a room soon

Hold this lamppost whilst I piss all over it would you good sir?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Have we an update OP? is it onnnnnnnn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!

I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result

Awwww that’s lovely

well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x

Nothing like blowing your own horn is there....

Mmmm ... blowing horn

Hehehe

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rather have it blown for mex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have we an update OP? is it onnnnnnnn?

Naaah.. I'm too luxuriously lazy to chase it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be a tad curious, if the status was specific, but general stuff I wouldn't give a second thought to.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sometimes I wonder, but if they have a problem they're better off coming to me directly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I may be a tad curious, if the status was specific, but general stuff I wouldn't give a second thought to.

Its just enough to tingle the curiosity cells

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