FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get into swinging..or introduced your partner

By *punkymonkey40 OP Man
over a year ago

derby

Being a single guy at the club it still an eye opener, given that I have been with couples and yet the whole thought of not getting caught by the husband and hiding somewhere in the bedroom if he came home early is still their in my mind thanks to old comedy's and skegness postcards. Yet there you are having sex with someones wife and the husband is happy about it.

How did it all start..how did you introduce your partner.

I understand trust is very deep here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have a wee crush on my hubby’s friend. We would joke that on nights out I’d go home with him

We had a night out and I was putting washing in the washing machine. Told C ‘better get some nice underwear for tonight for your pal’ and he said ‘aye ok’

I told him ‘I’m gonna fuck him ya know’ and he said ‘sure, go for it’

I rolled my eyes and said ‘aye as if you'd be alright with that’ and laughed and said ‘I would be’

Turns out he had been doing research and reading about what type of situation he would like. He isn’t a cuck, he just chooses not to play. He has no desire too. It turns him on if I meet and fuck someone

So we had a wee chat and joined fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to have a wee crush on my hubby’s friend. We would joke that on nights out I’d go home with him

We had a night out and I was putting washing in the washing machine. Told C ‘better get some nice underwear for tonight for your pal’ and he said ‘aye ok’

I told him ‘I’m gonna fuck him ya know’ and he said ‘sure, go for it’

I rolled my eyes and said ‘aye as if you'd be alright with that’ and laughed and said ‘I would be’

So we had a wee chat and joined fab"

This was June 2017. We had a couples profile then realised a singles profile would be better. I had three profiles but kept deleting them as I was overwhelmed. But stuck with this one since August 2017

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a gf she left

but she introduced us to this wonderful site and well we’ve not looked back since I love this site best of both worlds. Now I won’t meet solo and I will not do anything behind hubs back but it’s such a big thrill for me plus I can have a little flirt with others

Mrscxxx

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By *leasureherCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

Hubby always wanted to watch me getting fucked, he asked me for years until I finally said I would try it, 17 years later and still loving it. During this journey I discovered my love for hung Black guys and for the last 7 years I only play with black guys.

Who would have known how much fun it was.

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By *antzMan
over a year ago

alton

about 8 years ago i was on POF enjoying my vanilla lifestyle, when i got a message from an attractive older lady, enquiring if I've ever had sex with a women while her husband watched and is it something I'd be interested in trying, i thought it was all a wind up! 3 days later i went round and was greeted at the door by her in sexy lingerie led through to the front room where her mountain of husband was sat drinking a beer, my first gut reaction was this isn't going to end well for me if he starts getting funny! all crazy silly thoughts in my head! within 5 minutes i was sat down and made to feel at total ease by them both, she was sat next to me while hubby sat opposite, they told me about the swinging scene and encounters they've had before, and how i was the 1st that they fished out of a "vanilla" site, 5 hrs later i left knackered but with the biggest smile on my face, they gave me a glowing verification on my fabswingers profile she helped set up, and that was me hooked for a good few yrs, i didnt realise at the time just how much that one good verification done for me as a newbie single male on fab it was a massive head start for me. been on and off ever since, still searching for that special lady for more every day life but loves a bit of kink on the side, until she comes along fab will keep me occupied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby always wanted to watch me getting fucked, he asked me for years until I finally said I would try it, 17 years later and still loving it. During this journey I discovered my love for hung Black guys and for the last 7 years I only play with black guys.

Who would have known how much fun it was. "

Did you not get sick of him going on about it for so long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who would have known how much fun it was.

Did you not get sick of him going on about it for so long?"

I think she means she’s been doing it for seventeen years now, not that he had been asking for seventeen years. But that’s how I also read it the first time too

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By *leasureherCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

That's correct we have been swinging for 17 years, he asked for 3 or 4 years prior, normally during sex, at first I thought why would you want to see that, until I finally thought why not, try it and get it out of his system, but we both loved it and as they say the rest is history.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

my partner and I where already swingers when we met

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

I am in (and have been for many years) a sexless marriage. When I set myself the challenge of learning to ski late in life, some 10 years ago, I took myself off on a skiing holiday. My wife had no interest in this so I went alone. Eating regularly in the hotel on my own I was befriended by a couple, perhaps 10 years younger than myself and they kindly invited me to eat with them and afterwards to join them in the bar. After a few very relaxed and sociable evenings together one night the wife said she needed an early night and left her husband and I drinking in the bar.

Then 'out of the blue' he took some room keys out of his pocket and put them on the table and told me they had observed my obvious attraction to her and that if I went up to their room she would be 'delighted' if I was to join her for her early night...!

On that holiday I did learn to ski but developed a taste for swinging as well as slalom. A few years later I confessed this episode to my wife (and a counsellor) during a 'Relate' session following which, and to my surprise, my wife said if that's what it took to make me happy and keep us together she would sanction my swinging on three conditions; one, not to cause her or family and friends any embarrassment; two, not to take any risks with my health and three, I was not to fall in love...!

I have come to the lifestyle somewhat late but have met and enjoyed the company of some very nice folk and rediscovered the joy of sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad took me to the park as a baby i prefered the slide my mum said

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

Had been with Mrs for just over a year. Was working and staying in Manchester for a week and Mrs had taken a few days off to stay with me.

Out one evening, having a bit of banter, & I told her if she kept winding me up I'd tie her up and give her a good seeing to.

She looked at me and said I wouldn't dare, so I said the moment we get in I'm going to see if there are any dungeons in town.

It transpired Cupid's was nearby so we went along without really having had a chance to think everything through. Well she got tied, blindfolded and very excited, not to mention well used. Neither of us had had any experience of anything like it before, but both just found it hugely exciting. The next evening we were so horny, we went back for a second visit, and haven't looked back.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Met my partner, when she turned up at a friend's party. She was also a member her already. Turns out I had her in my hotlist for ages. Just not sure what to say in that opening message.

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